AIBU to think if we need to politely ask men not to rape women (or men), then we don't want such people in the UK?

[bobbyydazzler]

Don't rape, sexually assault or make kissing noises' at people, asylum seekers warned in guidance about living in UK
UK arrivals have been told to treat women equally, not sexually assault partners or have sex with children in a new Home Office pamphlet. As well as the guidebook, a series of posters have also been designed by the government.

https://news.sky.com/story/asylum-seekers-warned-not-to-make-kissing-sounds-at-people-in-new-guidance-about-living-in-uk-13574744

Now you're comparing other races to dogs?

Is this really happening?

I've holidayed to the USA. So have my DC. It's fine. I'll be back in a few months.

If anyone has ever spent time in Egypt or other Middle Eastern countries knows the men are very different in how they treat women. We have our own problems and don’t need more importing.

Exactly. Horrific.

So, going by the stats, we should be banning Indians, Romanians and Poles? Though none of them are asylum seekers? Or Islamic countries.

If the west is so bad, in the multiple ways you’ve listed, why stay?

And the local men there are just a ray of sunshine

Hang on

Women in Afghanistan in the 30s and 40s had to wear a full face covering and be covered from head to toe

The schools from the 1920s were closed

They had no rights, basically

What are you talking about? I'm genuinely confused. What was good about Afghanistan before the 1950s

Well no, but there's an enormous difference between making decisions on behalf of yourself and your own family/household vs making decisions on behalf of an entire nation/population.

I don't want random children or kittens in my house either, that's got nothing to do with perceived harm or the fact that I believe "safe" countries should offer refuge to those who need it.

The ins and outs of how we do that, and how we do it safely, can (and should) of course be debated. But I think to ban every asylum seeking male would be to abandon our humanity somewhat. Albeit I do understand people's hurt and anger.

I didn't know she'd done that. So they clearly know there is an issue with migrants and children. She will definitely have the figures of crimes committed.

91% YANBU so far. Those that disagree are the loudest of course, as always..

Right so let's deal with our problems of misogyny and rape and not be distracted to hate minorities

You are saying to can’t ban a whole entity. I gave an alternative as to why you can, based on characteristics and stats and the danger posed due to the former.

Plus you then can't be deported if the country of origin has the death penalty for rape.

Exactly

where domestic violence is legalised

Like the UK?
When I lived in England, my British Ex attacked me, I called the police in England. They arrested him for DV on the spot based on my injuries. Took him away in handcuffs. Hours later they let him go and even gave him a lift to my doorstep. I had to let him in or he would have broken in. My theory is that as he was a royal marine he managed to charm and blag his way out of being charged. With the usual women, they can wind you up.

No. Just take any women and children who make it to the UK. Humanity preserved. The men should remain, and work to fix their countries for as long as it takes. If they don't, then who will? It'll only get worse and worse.

Afghani men pose a larger risk so makes sense not to allow them in. As I said. The US government has a blanket ban on a wide range of passports holders entering

The rules on sex outside of marriage have been loosened. If you’re both over 18 you’ll be fine as long as there’s not an issue with adultery.
https://www.gov.uk/foreign-travel-advice/united-arab-emirates/safety-and-security

I’ve seen a reasonable amount of negative stories about Dubai. So some people are aware. That’s why I don’t want to go. I appreciate many aren’t aware and they’re usually the people who go to the police there after a married man has assaulted them or their same sex partner, and then they find out what the country is really like.

They beat you to it!

The west has been intervening in Afghanistan for a lot longer than that.

Dr Watson who is in the Sherlock Holmes stories was wounded in an Afghan war and that was in Victorian times.

The first British Invasion of Afghanistan was in 1839
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_Anglo-Afghan_War

Per German stats, they're around 16x more likely to rape than a Germsn man.

I'm sorry you had a bad experience. Things are bad in the UK yes, but things are catastrophically worse in other countries. In Sudan for example there are armed paramilitary groups who go around raping young girls at gunpoint.

South Africa is horrendous for rape. Super high and men openly admit to it in surveys.

I've heard this view a lot and I think people who hold it might feel differently if it were their son.

Besides, the journey many take to get to the UK can be strenuous and many women and children are uneducated and illiterate. Many would not make it without a male.

Most will ignore this because "oh look a German man committed a crime"