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AIBU to think heatwave barbecue reactions are starting to feel a bit Covid?

309 replies

PatioDwellers · Today 08:53

To think the bbq/fires in the heatwave responses have the air of Covid about them …

’my neighbour is having a bbq what should I do’, Ring 101, call the fire brigade, take photos, people will die!

tinfoil bbqs in the countryside, tossers and rightly banned.

OP posts:
Skinnysaluki · Today 10:38

BlackRowan · Today 10:37

She’s comparing hysterical reactions. And they are quite similar.

no one has banned reusable garden BBQs

Again, it’s not a hysterical reaction to think that people shouldn’t do things that run a risk of burning things down.

BringBackCatsEyes · Today 10:39

chocoluv · Today 10:33

No it’s all over social media.

People have been filming themselves buying up BBQs and having them in parks etc just to show how ‘cool’ they are.

How do you know they are the same people who didn't wear masks etc during Covid?
Can you link to a SM film of someone doing this? I'm curious.

Thisismyfinesthour · Today 10:39

Usual 'I don't care /what does it matter' twats are on here as usual.🙄

Iliketocallthemsmilelines · Today 10:41

Again, it feels like the uk completely overreacts, live in a Southern European country that has higher temperatures and for much longer. Bbqs have never been banned and we’re allowed to water our gardens, sprinklers on. I just don’t understand it?

HexInductionHour · Today 10:42

Ratherhaveacupofteaandabiscuit · Today 09:08

No.

I live in the New Forest where a recent fire (not bbq related) and in fact ongoing fire has destroyed 1.6 square miles so far.

There have also been numerous smaller fires, some from idiots with disposable bbq and some from arson loving teenagers or other lowlife.

Friends have had to evacuate their terrified horses, some have had to evacuate their homes.

Lucky you if you think safety precautions are an overreaction.

If I see anyone having a bbq or any other type of fire I would call emergency services straight away.

Was that the one where the illegal converted camper on its way to Boomtown caught fire and has destroyed the A31 near Ringwood and caused mayhem in peak holiday time, it is going to take weeks to repair the road.

Faceonthewrongfoot · Today 10:42

soddingspiderseason · Today 10:35

In what way has the OP been misunderstood? They are comparing the alert and warnings about not being reckless and starting fires, which have destroyed swathes of the countryside and people’s homes, to Covid restrictions. Starting fires when the country is tinderbox dry is incredibly reckless.

No, they are comparing people's reactions to the alerts and warnings which is indeed very reminiscent of people during Covid.

BringBackCatsEyes · Today 10:43

Skinnysaluki · Today 10:37

Absolutely moronic post
People just don’t want things to burn down.
Not wanting things to burn down is quite normal.

I disagree.
It's the judgement.

Reusable garden BBQs have not been banned.

A supervised gas BBQ is fine. You can bet our residents' FB page would go crazy if someone smelled a BBQ. Akin to how people would say "I saw Janice go out for a walk at 11am AND 11pm - she's a murderer" during covid.

ErlingHaalandsManBun · Today 10:43

LoafofSellotape · Today 09:13

You can have a BBQ, just don't use a disposable one.

I don't personally feel its appropriate to be having ANY kind of BBQ with the alert that has been issued. Therefore I won't be.

I don't see the harm in waiting until its completely safe.

whoopala · Today 10:44

I can see why you say it.

People are so in danger of dying in a fire....they should be shot at dawn for possession of a bbq and a lighter with intent, before they even get chance to consider attempting to cook a sausage.

I'm phoning the police and fire brigade if someone mentions having a bbq out on their grassless gravel and stone garden. Wait for it to be raining to have a bbq. Raining! Preferably mid winter, just to be safe.

Smokers are even bigger cunts than usual.

A spark might fly off your cigarette in Birmingham and immediately set fire to my horses in Surrey.

Idiots this and idiots that. Everybody is an idiot but mEEE.

There's wild fires all over the entire country. No there is not.

The plant matter is dry. We get it. Be careful with open flames. We'll, Duh.

Don't want to miss an opportunity for a rousing chorus of tap,tap,tap

🎶I'm better than you-ou🎶

though, do we?

Mummyoflittledragon · Today 10:45

We have gas, but aren’t having BBQs. Charcoal BBQs next to hedges / vegetation can be incendiary. Younger people don’t have the experience and could easily set something in flames, especially with a few drinks involved. And it’s best all round just not to have one right now.

sanityisamyth · Today 10:46

It’s a national emergency?

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 10:47

Ratherhaveacupofteaandabiscuit · Today 09:11

Thank you for your polite opinion but our local services (police) want to be informed.
Leaving it till there is an actual out of control fire is too late.

Edited

They don’t and they didn’t tell you that

JustAnotherWhinger · Today 10:47

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 09:08

If you call the emergency services for a bbq you’re an arsehole. They’re stretched to breaking trying to control actual fires

The police here have asked anyone who sees anyone with BBQs, firepits or anything that could cause an issue to call the non-emergency police number

We’re rural-ish and the trees and hedges have been so neglected by the council in the last couple of years that one garden going up will spread so easily (folks have actually been out since the Stourbridge fire trying to trim some of it back)

Faceonthewrongfoot · Today 10:48

covilha · Today 10:28

@Jaimelefromage - call 999 - it only takes one spark from the bbq to start a fire when the grass is TINDER dry.
Not risking my family and home because neighbour reckless enough to risk hers

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/fire-uk-emergency-alert-999-call-b3033507.html

Specifically told NOT to do this!

Stop calling 999 to report neighbours having barbecues, fire services say

The UK’s mobile phone alert system warned the public not to light anything which could spark a wildfire, including barbecues

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/fire-uk-emergency-alert-999-call-b3033507.html

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 10:48

sanityisamyth · Today 10:46

It’s a national emergency?

its not been declared a national emergency

TigTails · Today 10:49

Many Brits just love a panicked flap around, and the opportunity to snitch on their neighbours they don’t like.

JustAnotherWhinger · Today 10:51

one tosser nearby is currently having his arse handed to him on a plate on Facebook as he posted a rant last night about being told off by a “plastic Bobby” for having a fire pit and a few fireworks.

He felt the fact they “always” have that for his daughter’s birthday meant it should be fine.

i think he was expecting a tonne of “yeah they can’t tell us what to do” responses, but has not happened at all. It’s been quite amusing as he’s not a pleasant man anyways.

AInightingale · Today 10:52

no one should be lighting a fire at this time, ffs. I wonder if there were idiots like this during the Blitz - 'the blackout doesn't apply to me, no-one is telling me to hang up these curtains'. Somehow, I doubt it.

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 10:53

Raraskirtsagogo · Today 09:47

That didn't really answer my question about the use of the alert. What was the point of using a national emergency alert to tell people what they shouldn't do? It just encourages people to go 'Ooo look at George having a barbecue'.

It’s just information. I don’t know why people are interpreting it as communicating banning things - it’s literally advice to reduce the risk of fires and informing people of their likelihood

MollyButton · Today 10:55

When the wind changes I can smell the smoke. If you can also stop throwing cigarette butts from cars it would be helpful.
As my daughter says it’s like a desert out there.

Anyway with Covid the shutdown started because people started to isolate before the government stepped in.

MadMAGA · Today 10:56

I agree OP. Everyone's suddenly on alert for signs of rule-breaking, making up their own even stricter version of "the rules" and debating "logging" perceived infractions with the police.

The alert wouldn't be needed if people had a modicum of common sense. It was explaining the obvious to idiots, not inviting people to be informants in a police state.

Metalmotha · Today 10:57

I think they should ban smoking outside too until the ground is less dry

mamajong · Today 10:57

Yeah I agree, in the sense that guidelines are issued and people interpret them differently but try to pass opinions off as facts. Immediately the name calling has started on both sides to the tune of 'you are a moron if you dont agree with me'. People lose their minds in these situations. Everyone needs to take a breath imo - mass hysteria is also dangerous

Ncforthis2267 · Today 10:58

PatioDwellers · Today 08:53

To think the bbq/fires in the heatwave responses have the air of Covid about them …

’my neighbour is having a bbq what should I do’, Ring 101, call the fire brigade, take photos, people will die!

tinfoil bbqs in the countryside, tossers and rightly banned.

Agree 100% There's a thread about camping stoves right now that is packed full of covidesque bullshit made up laws and regulations, and people getting all angry and shouty 'it's the LAW!!' about some fake law they've just invented in their own head.

I really hate this side of mumsnet. It just doesn't reflect society in real life. All this preachy self-flagulating holier than thou crap.

baroqueandblue · Today 10:59

Ablondiebutagoody · Today 09:01

I hear you. People love an excuse to act morally superior and tell others how to behave.

Given the risks at the moment I'd take that over people acting intellectually superior and "It's all about me and I demand fun." So called grown-ups.

Play stupid games, etc.

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