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AIBU to think heatwave barbecue reactions are starting to feel a bit Covid?

309 replies

PatioDwellers · Today 08:53

To think the bbq/fires in the heatwave responses have the air of Covid about them …

’my neighbour is having a bbq what should I do’, Ring 101, call the fire brigade, take photos, people will die!

tinfoil bbqs in the countryside, tossers and rightly banned.

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DeftGoldHedgehog · Today 09:09

I'd say the risk of setting your lawn on fire or grass in a public park or countryside with a bbq (esp single use) is probably a good deal higher at the moment than going for a walk for slightly too long outside in the pandemic, stopping for a coffee and sitting on a bench, or whatever those ridiculous restrictions were that some people fell foul of and were fined for, or berated others for doing. And exercise is essential, having a bbq isn't.

friedaklein · Today 09:09

The parks in London are like tinder. The wildlife is dying.

Last Wednesday, we were out watching the eclipse in a huge crowd and I saw some people lighting cigarettes. Such callous and careless idiots.

MildlyMoist · Today 09:09

We live on a 70s estate with cul de sacs, so our garden is adjacent to four others on all sides, separated by timber fences. We all have stablished trees and shrubs at the margins, all of which are dried and desiccated. The grass is like tinder. If anyone lit a barbecue (several neighbours have built ones, under the trees) all our fences could be alight in about five minutes, and the Stourbridge fire shows how fast that spreads to and destroys houses.

This is a really serious situation and everyone should be very afraid of the speed, destructiveness and intensity of fire. If they aren’t they have no experience, no sense or no imagination.

nomorekitchenislandsplease · Today 09:09

It's another national emergency so not surprising if there are similarities. Except that we can do more, more easily , to stop it spreading. Just take sandwiches instead of a porttable bbq when you have a picnic.

Bacarditropicalfizz · Today 09:11

YABU, NO.

This country is full of selfish dumbarses that do need strict guidelines and who lack common sense.

Ratherhaveacupofteaandabiscuit · Today 09:11

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 09:08

If you call the emergency services for a bbq you’re an arsehole. They’re stretched to breaking trying to control actual fires

Thank you for your polite opinion but our local services (police) want to be informed.
Leaving it till there is an actual out of control fire is too late.

IncyWincyEyeroll · Today 09:13

Yep. Posted something similar yesterday. It’s the tone of anyone who doesn't complete hate the heatwaves, or who wasn’t keen on the emergency alerts, apparently being an amoral moron who doesn’t care if people die. Just like Covid, you can take it seriously without losing your mind

LoafofSellotape · Today 09:13

ErlingHaalandsManBun · Today 09:01

We were going to have a BBQ in the garden this weekend but are now not because of the alert. Not a big deal, we will wait until it is safe to do so.

For me, I am glad the government have issued this alert. The bloody country is covered in wildfires and the emergency services are stretched. People have lost their homes, their land, not to mention what has happened to the wildlife.

No-one needs to have a BBQ of ANY type while this is happening.

Anyone who does, is just a bit of a bellend IMO.

You can have a BBQ, just don't use a disposable one.

Jaimelefromage · Today 09:13

We were going to have a bbq today but cancelled… because it’s raining.

mindutopia · Today 09:13

BBQs aren’t banned. Who is anyone going to actually call? 😂 Unless there is a fire, then it’s the fire brigade.

That said, we run a BBQ company. That’s what we do. We make and sell BBQs. No way we’d be having a BBQ in these conditions and I wouldn’t recommend anyone else does either. The thing is that the average moron who is 4 beers in doesn’t actually have a lot of experience with cooking on open fire or fire safety. Can some people do it safely? Probably. Should the average person try? No. You can cook the same food indoors where you won’t light your grass on fire and burn down your neighbours house.

InterestedDad37 · Today 09:14

(To answer OP) - Only in the sense that it has emboldened the idiots to get in a huff about 'being told what to do'.
I'm waiting for someone to link it to vaccines - this will happen 😂😂

luckylavender · Today 09:17

Whatever any government says or does somone finds ways to object. This country is becoming ungovernable

PsychoHotSauce · Today 09:19

Juneclaire · Today 09:02

Will smokers who toss fag ends get the message?

No. And it worries me more than patio bbqs. We had a fire start from a fag end in my city centre - not woodland or even a park, just a grass verge by the side of a busy road!

My DM's house is about 100 ft from miles of picturesque walking fields and woodland. It's kind of crazy to think that just one discarded fag butt from a single careless dog walker could send the whole lot up in these conditions.

Natsku · Today 09:19

I think its ridiculous that its taken this long to tell people not to have any kind of open fire/sparks in forest fire conditions. This is completely sensible and logical, nothing like some of the nonsensical covid restrictions the uk had. In my country we get these warnings every summer, people don't whinge about it, they follow them because they know how important they are. Yes its disappointing not to be able to have a bbq in my garden when its been to dry but that's a lot better than accidentally starting a wildfire that could cause a lot of damage and potentially deaths. If Brits need to be grassed on to begin with to understand the seriousness of this, then so be it. Eventually they'll get the message.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · Today 09:20

I don’t feel like losing everything in a wildfire and I live in a village with fields all around, so if its got authoritarian Covid vibes about it, I’ll suck it up.

Jk987 · Today 09:21

Trying saying that if your house has just been burnt down.

ApplebyArrows · Today 09:21

Is the countryside significantly more flammable than urban plants? I imagine not. The houses that all burned down in Stourbridge weren't in the countryside.

Stickywillow · Today 09:22

It's more akin to whole class punishments due to the behaviour of one or two naughty kids.
I mean anyone with half a brain cell knows it's silly to light fires in dry weather but no apparently no-one has any common sense anymore and we now need the government to spell out the bloody obvious. Wash your hands, don't light fires, I mean when did humans become so bloody stupid.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · Today 09:23

ApplebyArrows · Today 09:21

Is the countryside significantly more flammable than urban plants? I imagine not. The houses that all burned down in Stourbridge weren't in the countryside.

It was a pretty contained fire, but yes, very destructive. Our main worry right now as a country though is massive water stress in many areas combined with the potential for wildfires - hence the message.

Enoughofpeopleenough · Today 09:23

Over 200,000 people died of covid in the UK. It was without a doubt a national emergency whether you want to minimise it or not.

As for the fires, I'm not 100% sure it needed a national alert but the general public aren't exactly known for their common sense so maybe it did. There's clearly been some unsafe situations due to the very dry conditions and if the alert stops even one fire it's probably worth it. It's my understanding that it was the fire service who asked for the alert.

FunnyOrca · Today 09:23

YABU and to be honest you border on sounding like one of those Americans harping on about their “freedom” to have a bbq. Just accept that sometimes you have to not do something for the greater good. It’s not hard.

SocksTalk · Today 09:27

I bet Boris is having a BBQ!

Poppingby · Today 09:28

I thought you meant it is like COVID in that people are policing each other's BBQs like they policed each other's hourly exercise in busy places (covidiots).

I wish I could think of a good social-control insult for bbqers. BBQueefers? Drought Dickheads? Hopefully a DM headline writer will come along in a minute to think one up.

Laura95167 · Today 09:28

saveforthat · Today 08:58

Only disposable bbqs are banned.

My alert said we "should not undertake any activity that could start a fire, including disposable BBQs, fire pits, garden incinerator or fireworks. Even a small flame can rapidly develop into a wildfire"

That isnt disposable BBQs are banned. Its any small flame including disposable BBQs.

Not sure the issue here. We all got the same info. We all have seen Europe burning, homes and vehicles lost.. no one needs a BBQ.

NetZeroZealot · Today 09:29

The government guidance says normal
household barbecues are allowed but should not be left unattended. Perfectly sensible advice.