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AIBU to think heatwave barbecue reactions are starting to feel a bit Covid?

337 replies

PatioDwellers · Today 08:53

To think the bbq/fires in the heatwave responses have the air of Covid about them …

’my neighbour is having a bbq what should I do’, Ring 101, call the fire brigade, take photos, people will die!

tinfoil bbqs in the countryside, tossers and rightly banned.

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Mixerfixer · Today 08:56

How does it feel like covid? Nobody needs to have a BBQ, just wait until we've had some rain

friedaklein · Today 08:57

Bbqs are not essential.
Read the room.

saveforthat · Today 08:58

Only disposable bbqs are banned.

Springtimeinsunshine · Today 08:58

It depends though, doesn't it? A gas fired barbecue on a patio is a lot safer than one lit with loose coals. It also depends if the latter is being tended by thirty, very drunk, end of term students vs two parents entertaining granny and grandad.

Idk, right now I think anyone using a naked flame outside is an absolute twat and should be shot at dawn.

Americanstyle · Today 08:59

friedaklein · Today 08:57

Bbqs are not essential.
Read the room.

Agree - ridiculous post OP!

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 08:59

Yes agreed. People appear to think a text message alerting people to danger has changed the law, as well as interpreting their own more draconian restrictions ie no standing bbqs and expecting everyone to follow them.

anyone who phones the fire service about a non caught fire right now is an epic cunt imo

WingBingo · Today 09:00

I get what you mean. It’s the “should I have a BBQ?”

then the debate that follows.

Some what like “should I exercise outside after dinner if I went out this morning?” During Covid

beAsensible1 · Today 09:00

there have been a bunch of fires in past week, the ground is a like a tinderbox. The fire brigade have asked us not to.

you live in a society, your actions effect others.

I saw people bbqing on the ground in a park last week. It’s a risk. Yes there are safe ways to do it but the best way is to ask people not to.

LoyalAquaAnt · Today 09:00

Springtimeinsunshine · Today 08:58

It depends though, doesn't it? A gas fired barbecue on a patio is a lot safer than one lit with loose coals. It also depends if the latter is being tended by thirty, very drunk, end of term students vs two parents entertaining granny and grandad.

Idk, right now I think anyone using a naked flame outside is an absolute twat and should be shot at dawn.

Idk, right now I think anyone using a naked flame outside is an absolute twat and should be shot at dawn. And you can predict the families who will go ahead and BBQ.

socks1107 · Today 09:00

Feels nothing like Covid. We’ve not been asked to stay indoors, just not buy disposable bbqs nor start fires.

NC9000 · Today 09:01

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 08:59

Yes agreed. People appear to think a text message alerting people to danger has changed the law, as well as interpreting their own more draconian restrictions ie no standing bbqs and expecting everyone to follow them.

anyone who phones the fire service about a non caught fire right now is an epic cunt imo

UK loves a good narc sesh. How can one be pious and self righteous today and which number shall I phone to demonstrate what a superior person I am by following the rules I invented?

ErlingHaalandsManBun · Today 09:01

We were going to have a BBQ in the garden this weekend but are now not because of the alert. Not a big deal, we will wait until it is safe to do so.

For me, I am glad the government have issued this alert. The bloody country is covered in wildfires and the emergency services are stretched. People have lost their homes, their land, not to mention what has happened to the wildlife.

No-one needs to have a BBQ of ANY type while this is happening.

Anyone who does, is just a bit of a bellend IMO.

Ablondiebutagoody · Today 09:01

I hear you. People love an excuse to act morally superior and tell others how to behave.

Juneclaire · Today 09:02

Will smokers who toss fag ends get the message?

JetFlight · Today 09:02

PatioDwellers · Today 08:53

To think the bbq/fires in the heatwave responses have the air of Covid about them …

’my neighbour is having a bbq what should I do’, Ring 101, call the fire brigade, take photos, people will die!

tinfoil bbqs in the countryside, tossers and rightly banned.

Yep. Proved already.

Lemonfrost · Today 09:03

It’s nothing whatsoever like Covid. You are being unreasonable and you know it.

UrbanFan · Today 09:03

What nonsense. Have you seen how dry the country is and the damage being done by fires. Most started or caused by idiots.

SunwaysSystems · Today 09:03

We're being asked to individually take very very minor measures, so that the risk of fire is significantly reduced for the entire country.

I can see parallels with Covid, but the measures were infinitely more restrictive, as you well know, and the risks far more unknown.

Whereas we know that heat, drought and open flames cause fires, both deliberate and inadvertent, so why not reduce the risk to as close to zero as we can? Particularly when huge sections of various countries have been destroyed.

meganorks · Today 09:04

No, doesn't feel remotely like that. Disposable bbqs have been banned because by their nature, people generally take them to a park or somewhere and stand them directly on the grass. And often don't put them out properly. I imagine the move is to give police more authority to make people put them out.

Muffsies · Today 09:05

A man in the next town over from me set a fire in his garden. He not only burnt his own house down, but his neighbour's houses too.

The problem is that many people are stupid, irresponsible and selfish. I'm sure i could have a BBQ in my garden and not burn down the estate, but if that guy lived next to me would i want him lighting up a BBQ? Or the drunk guy down the road have a fire pit with his crusty mates? Hell, no.

It's a shame we have to legislate for stupid, but when we don't literal tradgedies happen. It might feel like an overreaction to you, but seriously, who so desperately needs to have a BBQ? This is NOT anything like covid and keeping millions of kids off school and elderly people confined from family. YABU.

SunwaysSystems · Today 09:07

And now people are pretending that telling people not to risk a fire is such an amazing, fulfilling experience that people are doing it for fun and not to... reduce risk of fire.

I find it weird that people think this is a fun thing to do, but you do you!

Ratherhaveacupofteaandabiscuit · Today 09:08

No.

I live in the New Forest where a recent fire (not bbq related) and in fact ongoing fire has destroyed 1.6 square miles so far.

There have also been numerous smaller fires, some from idiots with disposable bbq and some from arson loving teenagers or other lowlife.

Friends have had to evacuate their terrified horses, some have had to evacuate their homes.

Lucky you if you think safety precautions are an overreaction.

If I see anyone having a bbq or any other type of fire I would call emergency services straight away.

WindsorGreatPark · Today 09:08

Agree.

Its the hoiking of judgey pants, holier than though attitude. People are seeing themselves as bastions of moral perfection and looking for opportunities to report others for their failure to comply.

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 09:08

Ratherhaveacupofteaandabiscuit · Today 09:08

No.

I live in the New Forest where a recent fire (not bbq related) and in fact ongoing fire has destroyed 1.6 square miles so far.

There have also been numerous smaller fires, some from idiots with disposable bbq and some from arson loving teenagers or other lowlife.

Friends have had to evacuate their terrified horses, some have had to evacuate their homes.

Lucky you if you think safety precautions are an overreaction.

If I see anyone having a bbq or any other type of fire I would call emergency services straight away.

If you call the emergency services for a bbq you’re an arsehole. They’re stretched to breaking trying to control actual fires

BeWarmKoala · Today 09:09

There was a wildfire about half a mile from us less than two weeks ago. Some people had to be evacuated . Thankfully no homes were lost. So not long after last night's alert some idiot lit a bonfire.I have no words