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AIBU to think heatwave barbecue reactions are starting to feel a bit Covid?

337 replies

PatioDwellers · Today 08:53

To think the bbq/fires in the heatwave responses have the air of Covid about them …

’my neighbour is having a bbq what should I do’, Ring 101, call the fire brigade, take photos, people will die!

tinfoil bbqs in the countryside, tossers and rightly banned.

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Summersorcherisjustsummer · Today 11:00

Why would I or anyone want to literally put lives at risk , homes at risk, make people vulnerable etc all for some flame cooked food ?? Why ?

BringBackCatsEyes · Today 11:04

Summersorcherisjustsummer · Today 11:00

Why would I or anyone want to literally put lives at risk , homes at risk, make people vulnerable etc all for some flame cooked food ?? Why ?

I do understand your point - no need to have a BBQ, but we put lives at risk every time we e.g. get behind the wheel of a car, or fill up with fuel, or cook in our own homes.

Ladyfromthehill · Today 11:05

Ablondiebutagoody · Today 09:01

I hear you. People love an excuse to act morally superior and tell others how to behave.

I take it you dont know a single firefighter?

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 11:05

JustAnotherWhinger · Today 10:47

The police here have asked anyone who sees anyone with BBQs, firepits or anything that could cause an issue to call the non-emergency police number

We’re rural-ish and the trees and hedges have been so neglected by the council in the last couple of years that one garden going up will spread so easily (folks have actually been out since the Stourbridge fire trying to trim some of it back)

Can you link to the information that police are asking you to call them if you see someone having a reusable bbq in their garden? It’s contrary to national advice linked above

RisingSunn · Today 11:07

OP - totally get you.

Rewis · Today 11:07

Ncforthis2267 · Today 10:58

Agree 100% There's a thread about camping stoves right now that is packed full of covidesque bullshit made up laws and regulations, and people getting all angry and shouty 'it's the LAW!!' about some fake law they've just invented in their own head.

I really hate this side of mumsnet. It just doesn't reflect society in real life. All this preachy self-flagulating holier than thou crap.

I was impressed impressed by the confidence of the commenter announcing that using a camping cooker is now illegal.

Anyahyacinth · Today 11:07

Covid? As in care about others? Respect the people risking their lives? In this case firefighters?

Ignoring experts because YOU know better?

Yes it does feel similar.

Unnecessary deaths ..check.

Yeah it's a great big spotlight on the selfish ....firefighters fighting wild fires can't come quickly to your electrical fire...your house burns down unnecessarily, crushed in a car accident and need to be cut out ...it takes just that little bit longer and your loved ones dies.

No matter...the right to BBQ prevails...because it's SO important

BlueMum16 · Today 11:09

covilha · Today 10:15

can believe someone even asked this.
HOMES ARE BURNING.

DO NOT have that BBQ Op
And while I am no switch I would report you for lighting a BBQ if you were my neighbour. The safety of yourself and your family and preservation of everything you worked for may mean nothing to you but I won’t let you compromise mine.
And if that doesn’t deter you, how do you think social services will respond when they receive the referral from emergency services the next day?

Report them for what? Assuming it's not a disposable BBQ and it's supervised, as per the guidance who do you think would be interested really?

Snippit · Today 11:09

I bloody hate bbq food, I find it disgusting. Also living on the edge of the beautiful Peak District is currently worrying. Why does anyone need a disposable BBQ, take some sandwiches with you or an old fashioned picnic. I live close to a small woods where I walk my dogs.

I now have what3words downloaded so I no longer have to wait for the fire brigade. It’s always during school holidays, we caught some teenagers one year, they didn’t even realise that it’s arson, plus the woods back onto an estate of houses. We made them put it out, my husband is 6’1” and we’ll built due to sport and the cocky little shits weren’t intimidated one bit by his size and demeanour, that was until I threatened to call the police. We also had to explain that the woods was once an opencast site for coal extraction and that the fires would burn forever as there’s shale underneath, they then asked what coal/shale was 🤦‍♀️

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 11:12

Anyahyacinth · Today 11:07

Covid? As in care about others? Respect the people risking their lives? In this case firefighters?

Ignoring experts because YOU know better?

Yes it does feel similar.

Unnecessary deaths ..check.

Yeah it's a great big spotlight on the selfish ....firefighters fighting wild fires can't come quickly to your electrical fire...your house burns down unnecessarily, crushed in a car accident and need to be cut out ...it takes just that little bit longer and your loved ones dies.

No matter...the right to BBQ prevails...because it's SO important

The experts are the ones who asked the public not to use disposal bbqs and the experts are the ones who made the conscious decision not to include reusable bbqs in their advice.

TemperanceWest · Today 11:12

BringBackCatsEyes · Today 11:04

I do understand your point - no need to have a BBQ, but we put lives at risk every time we e.g. get behind the wheel of a car, or fill up with fuel, or cook in our own homes.

True, but we mostly need to do those things as part of normal day to day life. Nobody needs to have a BBQ, light a bonfire or a fire pit etc. Just wait a bit until we hopefully have had some rain.

chocoluv · Today 11:12

BringBackCatsEyes · Today 11:04

I do understand your point - no need to have a BBQ, but we put lives at risk every time we e.g. get behind the wheel of a car, or fill up with fuel, or cook in our own homes.

But most of those things can’t be helped - we need to get to work and cook in our own homes etc.

But no one needs to see fireworks off or have a disposable bbq.

BlueMum16 · Today 11:14

Romeiswheretheheartis · Today 10:00

I've never barbecued in my life and have survived perfectly well. There are people acting like their human rights are being breached by not being 'allowed' to barbecue. Jeez, their world won't end if they give it a miss for a week or so - but their world could possibly end if they go ahead and cause a fire that gets out of control.

They are allowed to BBQ? Have you actually read the alert.

This is what the OP means about people misunderstanding the message purposely to fit their own way of life.

suburburban · Today 11:14

chocoluv · Today 11:12

But most of those things can’t be helped - we need to get to work and cook in our own homes etc.

But no one needs to see fireworks off or have a disposable bbq.

Yes it smacks of selfishness imo

Gengha · Today 11:14

Rewis · Today 11:07

I was impressed impressed by the confidence of the commenter announcing that using a camping cooker is now illegal.

I wondered if the cold baked bean sandwich might become the “but you can buy cheese” when people were criticised for wanting to go to the shops for buying milk

Jerrybalanitis · Today 11:17

Its certainly brought out the conspiracy twats hasn't it?

BlueMum16 · Today 11:17

chocoluv · Today 11:12

But most of those things can’t be helped - we need to get to work and cook in our own homes etc.

But no one needs to see fireworks off or have a disposable bbq.

@TemperanceWest and @chocoluv have replied almost word for word the same but only one acknowledged it's DISPOSABLE BBQ that are banned now.

This demonstrates the OP point perfectly. One can read and understand and one reads and understands their version

Anyahyacinth · Today 11:17

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 11:12

The experts are the ones who asked the public not to use disposal bbqs and the experts are the ones who made the conscious decision not to include reusable bbqs in their advice.

A. .....for political reasons ...as demonstrated by these appalling threads. Many people are incapable of thinking of others.

Whilst speaking several COBRA briefed politicians and lead Firefighters have asked people to do the decent thing and not light any flames outside.

Of course being decent poses an extra burden some people can't achieve

BringBackCatsEyes · Today 11:17

TemperanceWest · Today 11:12

True, but we mostly need to do those things as part of normal day to day life. Nobody needs to have a BBQ, light a bonfire or a fire pit etc. Just wait a bit until we hopefully have had some rain.

Fair point.

TeenLifeMum · Today 11:17

One of my biggest fears is house fires but I do think there’s a difference between a disposable bbq on a heath and a gas bbq on a patio. I wouldn’t have a bbq right now but in my experience, people have bbqs and the man cooks - might be the only time they cook if friends’ dhs are anything to go by. my dh has no desire to bbq so we just use the grill (while the bbq sits rusting in the garden) but he does cook.

SerendipityJane · Today 11:19

friedaklein · Today 08:57

Bbqs are not essential.
Read the room.

I love MN. It's won me some small stakes over the years 😃

Ophy83 · Today 11:21

To anyone saying cook indoors... kitchen appliances and cooking mishaps are the biggest cause of domestic fires in the UK, followed by other electrical appliances.

Smoking/cigarettes are the leading cause of fatal fires.

The warning specifically referred to disposable bbqs because they have been a significant cause of wild fires as people abandon them.

TemperanceWest · Today 11:23

BlueMum16 · Today 11:17

@TemperanceWest and @chocoluv have replied almost word for word the same but only one acknowledged it's DISPOSABLE BBQ that are banned now.

This demonstrates the OP point perfectly. One can read and understand and one reads and understands their version

Yes, I should have specified no-one needs a disposable bbq. My error. I thought it would be obvious what I was talking about as that was what was specified on the alert.

Having said that personally I wouldn't use a charcoal bbq of any kind right now. But everyone needs to make their own judgement. There are wildfires raging where I am and I can smell the smoke in my house right now. That has made me wary of doing anything that might cause problems, however small the chance.

WindsorGreatPark · Today 11:23

Ladyfromthehill · Today 11:05

I take it you dont know a single firefighter?

The only one I know is married.
They regularly have barbecues.

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 11:24

Anyahyacinth · Today 11:17

A. .....for political reasons ...as demonstrated by these appalling threads. Many people are incapable of thinking of others.

Whilst speaking several COBRA briefed politicians and lead Firefighters have asked people to do the decent thing and not light any flames outside.

Of course being decent poses an extra burden some people can't achieve

It is not for political reasons. The wording came from the fire service. Why would there be political reasons to specify disposable bbqs? Come on, you’re stretching.