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A celeb who is talented, but you just know you wouldnt like irl.

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kwikfitt · 05/08/2026 19:04

Rihanna

And asap rocky

They seem like school bullies, especially her

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Sartre · 06/08/2026 10:32

MostlyGhostly · 05/08/2026 21:47

Louis Theroux - and several other privileged poshos who’s work I quite like, but on a personal level, find their over confident manner and wet accents jarring.

I love Louis but rewatched his weird weekend with poor Ann Widdecombe and he was ridiculously discourteous to her at points.

Maddy70 · 06/08/2026 10:33

Interestingly I know Robbie personally and he really is lovely but I don't like his public persona

ElizaSchuyler · 06/08/2026 11:03

I've got to spend all season wearing an RW shirt now so it's a good job I do like Robbie.

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 06/08/2026 11:10

Taylor Swift.

Sure, people "luffs" her, but I think it's the result of genius-level PR to tap into a global female market. And I just don't think I'd be mates with someone who wanted to achieve that. Even her famed generosity seems like a calculated move, as was the naff "supermodel girl gang", and the PR the followed relationships.

(I recall that Tom H was "too keen on publicity" but then "Joe Alwyn was a welcome private retreat" then "oh, Joe was stifling her" which then became "Travis loves to shine with her" - so calculated. I believe Calvin Harris when he said it was her ambition to "bury" Katy Perry! It's all just a PR merry go round to hook in credulous types.)

NotAnotherScarf · 06/08/2026 11:59

Michael McIntyre...Just sooo smug and unfunny

kwikfitt · 06/08/2026 12:21

hopspot · 06/08/2026 09:17

Literally came on to say the same.

Right! Just looking at the two of them in interviews, they are very much the 'secondary school cool crowd'

All those hot men she could've been with, but she, imo, has reverted to type and married someone just like her - a school bully

Sorry for being harsh, I dont know her and I am projecting

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IdentifyingAsAWoollyMammoth · 06/08/2026 12:28

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 06/08/2026 11:10

Taylor Swift.

Sure, people "luffs" her, but I think it's the result of genius-level PR to tap into a global female market. And I just don't think I'd be mates with someone who wanted to achieve that. Even her famed generosity seems like a calculated move, as was the naff "supermodel girl gang", and the PR the followed relationships.

(I recall that Tom H was "too keen on publicity" but then "Joe Alwyn was a welcome private retreat" then "oh, Joe was stifling her" which then became "Travis loves to shine with her" - so calculated. I believe Calvin Harris when he said it was her ambition to "bury" Katy Perry! It's all just a PR merry go round to hook in credulous types.)

I don't personally know about Taylor Swift and her previous "relationships" but there are certainly big name celebs who have paid other but lower level celebs to be "in a relationship" with them which is basically just being seen with them occasionally.

They do this for one of two reasons:

a) for the big name to boost their profile
b) for the big name to hide something or someone (such as their actual sexuality)

The lower level celebs agree not just for the money but to raise their own profile.

Lampzade · 06/08/2026 12:30

David Beckam
He comes across as someone who has
let fame get to his head. Also, he will do anything for money and fame

Lampzade · 06/08/2026 12:35

Washingforweeks · 05/08/2026 23:29

Ellen degeneros what ever she’s called. Literally can’t stand her

Yes , I forget to mention her. Really don’t like her
She gives me the creeps . Her smile doesn’t quite reach her eyes

CoffeeCantata · 06/08/2026 12:51

Sartre · 06/08/2026 10:32

I love Louis but rewatched his weird weekend with poor Ann Widdecombe and he was ridiculously discourteous to her at points.

I can’t get past the fact that he’s a nepo-baby and that he does smugly patronise his interviewees. The treatment of Ann Widdecombe would never do now - the intrusiveness - almost bullying her - the sexual mockery and basic lack of respect because she was that absolutely ridiculous thing: an unmarried woman of a certain age. I think we all see through the superficial charm nowadays.

CoffeeCantata · 06/08/2026 13:00

BeachLifeoOhLaLa · 06/08/2026 09:54

Beyoncé - I work in music and she is truly awful. Jay-Z is actually the more rational one, but still pretty awful too.

My husband was a senior curator at a London museum. He was asked to give up his evening to do a private tour for Beyoncé- which she had apparently specifically requested. She didn’t greet him, didn’t make eye contact, spent the time chewing gum and scrolling on her phone while he talked and was surrounded by her beefy entourage throughout. No-one thanked him - or even engaged with him. He said it felt as though HE had imposed himself on her!

I guess she wanted to say to people “I had a special tour of the ……..Museum “ to make herself sound cultured and intelligent. I can’t for the life of me work out what else she was thinking.

Celebrities. They just stop being actual people and become detached from reality.

Spiffingdarling88 · 06/08/2026 13:01

kwikfitt · 05/08/2026 19:04

Rihanna

And asap rocky

They seem like school bullies, especially her

I think she seems nice, maybe you have some weird trauma

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 06/08/2026 13:33

IdentifyingAsAWoollyMammoth · 06/08/2026 12:28

I don't personally know about Taylor Swift and her previous "relationships" but there are certainly big name celebs who have paid other but lower level celebs to be "in a relationship" with them which is basically just being seen with them occasionally.

They do this for one of two reasons:

a) for the big name to boost their profile
b) for the big name to hide something or someone (such as their actual sexuality)

The lower level celebs agree not just for the money but to raise their own profile.

I've not particularly followed Taylor Swift, but I have a really retentive memory, and a knowledge of PR, and found the narrative around all the relationships to be very self-serving, all tied together with a relatable song for female fans to root for.

Are she and her husband in love? Possibly, probably, maybe. Has their relationship, real or not, been curated perfectly for PR? Definitely. And I find that tacky.

They tried out the "here's Taylor with her model gal pals cavorting" thing, and found it didn't play well for relatability. So they pivoted from that.

I find it annoying enough when my friends ponce about on LinkedIn or Insta, I definitely CBA with someone doing PR at Taylor's level.

hopspot · 06/08/2026 14:06

kwikfitt · 06/08/2026 12:21

Right! Just looking at the two of them in interviews, they are very much the 'secondary school cool crowd'

All those hot men she could've been with, but she, imo, has reverted to type and married someone just like her - a school bully

Sorry for being harsh, I dont know her and I am projecting

I get an awful vibe from her. Have you seen the Graham Norton episode where she criticises Helena Bonham Carter’s dress sense? People laughed but it just seemed like primary school bullying.

kwikfitt · 06/08/2026 14:07

I forgot who made me start this thread.

This will be unpopular: Joe Marler. Something evil about him.

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kwikfitt · 06/08/2026 14:08

hopspot · 06/08/2026 14:06

I get an awful vibe from her. Have you seen the Graham Norton episode where she criticises Helena Bonham Carter’s dress sense? People laughed but it just seemed like primary school bullying.

Will check it out! Helena seems truly artistic, therefore probably a bit 'weird'

I love her - shame on rihanna

You'd hate to work with her in the office, wouldn't you

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JMSA · 06/08/2026 14:55

CoffeeCantata · 06/08/2026 13:00

My husband was a senior curator at a London museum. He was asked to give up his evening to do a private tour for Beyoncé- which she had apparently specifically requested. She didn’t greet him, didn’t make eye contact, spent the time chewing gum and scrolling on her phone while he talked and was surrounded by her beefy entourage throughout. No-one thanked him - or even engaged with him. He said it felt as though HE had imposed himself on her!

I guess she wanted to say to people “I had a special tour of the ……..Museum “ to make herself sound cultured and intelligent. I can’t for the life of me work out what else she was thinking.

Celebrities. They just stop being actual people and become detached from reality.

That’s bloody awful.

Lampzade · 06/08/2026 15:21

Spiffingdarling88 · 06/08/2026 13:01

I think she seems nice, maybe you have some weird trauma

I am surprised that Op said Rhianna tbh. She comes across as pretty down to earth despite her immense wealth .She keeps in touch with old friends from Barbados etc

Dont even think that she has had any major cosmetic surgery
In fact she hasn’t even bowed to pressure to get her teeth done
People who have met her say that she is lovely

SundayGirl1 · 06/08/2026 15:25

Victoria Coren-Mitchell

kwikfitt · 06/08/2026 15:31

Lampzade · 06/08/2026 15:21

I am surprised that Op said Rhianna tbh. She comes across as pretty down to earth despite her immense wealth .She keeps in touch with old friends from Barbados etc

Dont even think that she has had any major cosmetic surgery
In fact she hasn’t even bowed to pressure to get her teeth done
People who have met her say that she is lovely

I know that her being in touch with old friends makes her seem grounded to some.

For me, it makes her seem like a school bully! Surely you'd outgrow such people if you became a major celeb. Unless the people were 'at the top' of the social hierarchy back then. The 'cool' group from my childhood school are still in touch, for them, the benefits of being school bullies never stopped.

I am massively projecting, i completely accept. Just dont like them.

Really like other women in that industry, just cant shake that feeling, and when i watched asap rocky, i just felt clear in what it evokes in me

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SinisterBumFacedCat · 06/08/2026 15:32

Dua Lipa

mainly for banning the residents of the square where she got married from opening their blinds for the weekend. Get over yourself love.

kwikfitt · 06/08/2026 15:33

SinisterBumFacedCat · 06/08/2026 15:32

Dua Lipa

mainly for banning the residents of the square where she got married from opening their blinds for the weekend. Get over yourself love.

She did not?! 😮

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elm26 · 06/08/2026 15:42

Doingtheboxerbeat · 05/08/2026 19:39

Katy Perry, J-Lo , Madonna and Eminem all seem insufferable i also find their talent questionable, but they are wildly popular.

Nooo not Eminem! I love him despite not being a fan of his music bar a few songs.

He raised his daughter AND his niece away from the spotlight, Hailie credits him as an amazing Father and Grandfather, he regularly makes large donations to Make-A-Wish and meets the children, runs the Marshall Mathers Foundation helping underprivileged children in Detroit, good friends with Elton and donates to his AIDS research charity, a lot of fans/people who’ve met him say he is very down to earth and likeable.

Yes, he had addiction problems which he got help for, a large amount of people brought up in addiction households do and his lyrics in his early days regarding violence towards Kim were not acceptable or nice in my opinion (he says these were purely art and he’s maintained a good relationship with Kim, supporting her even though they divorced) but I do truly believe he’s one of Hollywood’s good ones.

cupfinalchaos · 06/08/2026 15:43

Tamzin Outhwaite

kwikfitt · 06/08/2026 15:46

cupfinalchaos · 06/08/2026 15:43

Tamzin Outhwaite

Oh good one, why?

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