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Just cut my own hair-totally ruined it!

79 replies

Toohotforallthisffs · 04/08/2026 14:50

I have long hair and have trimmed it once before using the ponytail method and it was fine.
I did this again today and it looked nice, just a basic trim.
Then I looked at the front layers as they needed trimming.
I followed a tutorial but have completely wrecked my hair. It’s uneven at the front, just tufts of hair, cut far too short, they don’t look like layers, just an almost blunt cut of too short tufts at the front.
Sat here crying as it looks so ridiculous. Can’t go to the hairdresser as they can’t cut that part even shorter, plus i’m far too embarrassed too
How long will it take to grow?

OP posts:
Toohotforallthisffs · 04/08/2026 15:57

ElusiveSunshine · 04/08/2026 15:27

Not to extend your embarrassment OP but are you able to post a picture? Particularly the short side that went askew and we can better understand how it’s sitting and hopefully advise on possible remedies?

Solidarity though, I didn’t cut it myself but once got a hack job from a hairdresser who was very distracted chatting to people behind her in the salon, hair was ridiculously short and so thinned out looked like rat tails. Was heavily pregnant at the time too gee thanks for that Susan, just what I needed the world crappiest haircut before diving into child birth 🙄

It doesn’t look as full on from the front seeing both sides lined up, well, not lined up!

Just cut my own hair-totally ruined it!
OP posts:
Bonbon21 · 04/08/2026 16:00

Is it possible to sweep it into a side parting towards the short side?

ExOptimist · 04/08/2026 16:01

fishonabicycle · 04/08/2026 15:35

If they are long enough to be pulled back into a bobble they aren't actually very short at all! You are making it sound like Richard the third!

Edited

Yes exactly. I thought when OP said tufts her hair was about 2 inches long! If the "short" bits can go into a ponytail then they aren't short at all. OP I think you're rather making a mountain out of a molehill. Go to a hairdresser and they will blend it in. Why did you cut your own hair in the first place?

Washingforweeks · 04/08/2026 16:01

Half up half down will be your best friend for a while 😬

Wholelottawoman · 04/08/2026 16:09

I did the same in March & was so annoyed with myself. I think the pony tail was too far forward when I chopped it - so I took too much off the front which then kept falling out instead of staying in a bobble. Pleased to say I got a proper hair cut last week, all the uneven chopped bits have gone & it’s grown enough to stay put when tied up.

The hairdresser was well used to sorting home haircut disasters & I won’t be doing it again x

Clairey1986 · 04/08/2026 16:14

Just go to a hairdresser - they are literally the experts and will be able to get the best result and suggest styles and products to keep it all smoothed in while it grows out.

Nousernameideaaga · 04/08/2026 16:17

Really doesn’t look bad at all - just go to a hairdresser who will sort it , or clip it back until it’s longer:
Only you will notice this.
nobody else will. You would be amazed at how little time people spend noticing things about other people 😁

knottywig · 04/08/2026 16:18

As previous people have mentioned- hairband or Alice band to scrape it away from your face.

SmokyPotato · 04/08/2026 16:21

Gettingbysomehow · 04/08/2026 15:52

I had my fringe massacred once. I just had to wear a headband until it grew out.

I once attempted to cut my fringe at home and it was a total disaster. I wore hats and headbands until it grew out, it was so bad. Never again

@Toohotforallthisffs I've just seen the photo, a hairdresser can help blend it, it's still long enough to work with. Or you can tie it back in different ways. Don't worry!

ShowOfHands · 04/08/2026 16:21

Hephebe · 04/08/2026 15:36

Claire, it's French.

But she looks like a pencil.

ShowOfHands · 04/08/2026 16:22

OP, it's eminently fixable by a hairdresser. Stick a hat or scarf on it for now and get an appointment.

Ohhhthedrama · 04/08/2026 16:22

It's always 'makebetterable" if not entirely fixable. My Daughter went through a stage of cutting her own hair. She had some Shockers at one point she cut a bit at the back it stuck up like Alfalfa!. My hairdresser always managed to do damage control.

SunnyRedSnail · 04/08/2026 16:25

@Toohotforallthisffs just go to a hairdresser and say a kids toy car got stuck in your hair so you had to cut it out and tried to make it look even but failed so can they sort it out.

WigglywagglyWanda · 04/08/2026 16:29

When drying i would use a round brush to make it sweepy until it gets longer, sort of retro 70s vibe

Americanstyle · 04/08/2026 16:35

Toohotforallthisffs · 04/08/2026 15:57

It doesn’t look as full on from the front seeing both sides lined up, well, not lined up!

We have the same haircut - I did the pony tail method but then sort of did the same with the front of my hair and totally buggered it! I tried to shorten the back to make it blend in better but I’ve ended up with this strange mushroom shaped haircut. I just keep pulling it back in to a pony, and frantically check every morning hoping that it’s grown!

edited as quoted wrong post

GasPanic · 04/08/2026 16:35

Gain some respect amongst the peer group by telling people it got like that fighting a badger.

According to the other thread they are the most lethal animal on the planet and made of concrete.

BauhausOfEliott · 04/08/2026 16:40

Toohotforallthisffs · 04/08/2026 15:03

I’m not bothered about paying, these are layers at the front, i’m not sure how they could make all of it a fringe.
I’m too embarrassed to show them 😩

I know you say you're embarrassed, but a hairdresser will definitely be able to do something with your hair that will make it look better, even if it's only just to improve the shape while you grow it out. And I promise you they will have seen many other home haircuts and fixed many other mistakes.

ElusiveSunshine · 04/08/2026 16:41

Definitely fixable :) an Alice band and get to the hairdresser job will sort you out! 💛

Seelybee · 04/08/2026 16:46

@Toohotforallthisffs if you follow the first step on this tutorial you will even up the front and create soft layers round your face. I've just cut mine and it worked really well. Should blend everything in. Let us know!
share.google/2ja420ycEg7B2md73

Goinggreymammy · 04/08/2026 16:49

Use a hairband to keep them back for a week or two until they have grown out long enough to go to hairdresser. An Alice band, or a thin elastic one like the footballers used to wear.
Or roll the front (like a French braid on each side but just sort of rolled into head) and Bobby clip in place.

Toohotforallthisffs · 04/08/2026 16:51

Seelybee · 04/08/2026 16:46

@Toohotforallthisffs if you follow the first step on this tutorial you will even up the front and create soft layers round your face. I've just cut mine and it worked really well. Should blend everything in. Let us know!
share.google/2ja420ycEg7B2md73

Thank you, but I tried very similar to this, going to leave it now, too stressful!

OP posts:
Maddy70 · 04/08/2026 16:52

Use a hairband until you can visit a stylist

Toohotforallthisffs · 04/08/2026 16:52

Goinggreymammy · 04/08/2026 16:49

Use a hairband to keep them back for a week or two until they have grown out long enough to go to hairdresser. An Alice band, or a thin elastic one like the footballers used to wear.
Or roll the front (like a French braid on each side but just sort of rolled into head) and Bobby clip in place.

Do you think in a week or two they’ll have grown?

OP posts:
Nofeckingway · 04/08/2026 16:55

Go for a very short blunt fringe a la Bjork and style it out .

Goinggreymammy · 04/08/2026 16:55

Toohotforallthisffs · 04/08/2026 16:52

Do you think in a week or two they’ll have grown?

They should have grown in 3 weeks, about 1 cm.? It sounds small but would make a difference and also they would be trained into whatever way you find to style it.
Im trying to find a picture of a twist/roll at the front and failing.

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