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To ask what age you started cosmetic procedures?

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Ihavebingowings1 · 01/08/2026 08:08

If you have botox, fillers, have had surgical procedures, threads etc.
I'm 35 and have been having crows' feet Botox once or twice a year for a few years, and I've had nasolabial fold filler twice. This seems to be ok for now, I'm trying to hold off on anything else for as long as possible due to cost and not wanting too much maintenance and upkeep with it all.
Eventually I'm sure I'll start to need more though, I know I'm still young and I'm using spf 50 and retinol currently.

So just wondered what sort of age you noticed the biggest changes and started anti ageing treatments? Please no judgement, I know it isn't for everyone.

OP posts:
Lemonapplepear · 01/08/2026 19:18

pepayfelix · 01/08/2026 08:48

I’m ignoring all the judgemental bollocks. Presumably the people doling out faux concern or outright criticism have never had a haircut, manicure or wax either.

Started baby Botox in my late thirties and carried on ever since. I am considering polynucleotides at some point but for now am happy with my Botox. I still have near full movement in my forehead but my 11s are gone so I still look my old self, hurray.

Neither haircuts nor manicures nor waxes have anything to do with looking younger.

CoffeeCantata · 01/08/2026 19:21

Sashya · 01/08/2026 19:01

@Ihavebingowings1

I am in my 50s. Started with a little filler/botox around your age. Took a break while having babies in late 30s - weight went up and down and was generally just too busy.
Continued with it in my 40s. With good skin care, SFP, maintenance botox - and keeping your weight under control - especially as peri starts in your later 40s - you should not need anything drastic for a long long time. I also find that women who go on HRT for menopause manage to maintain their skin quality for longer.
I mostly still just do Botox/occasional filler and am happy with results - friends do comment on my skin looking good. Sometimes I do PRP, tried dermapen, etc - but this is more facials for skin quality, not some dramatic face-lift sort of procedures. I try new things just because I am curious and in winter they bring a little life to the skin.

So - to summarise - you are doing well having started in mid 30s. Keep doing what you want to do - and don't listen to people who have an opinion on how YOU should age. It's your face, your choice.

Last para: well, up to a point. But if you post on MN asking for opinions you’ll get them.

Of course OP is free to do what she likes but you can’t deny that this is a controversial topic which divides opinion.

MidnightMeltdown · 01/08/2026 20:00

I’m 40 and it never would have occurred to me to have any of these procedures at my age. Who has crows feet in their 30s?! Seems crazy to me.

JLou08 · 01/08/2026 20:56

Roc corexxion eye at night, that's been the most impacting I'd say, that and the corsex skin planing glaze mask. Loreal revitafiller eye serum in the morning, Loreal collagen face serum and Loreal hyaraloun expert day cream. Night time is the roc, Loreal pure retinol serum and elemis pro collagen cream.

CatrionaBalfour · 01/08/2026 21:12

MidnightMeltdown · 01/08/2026 20:00

I’m 40 and it never would have occurred to me to have any of these procedures at my age. Who has crows feet in their 30s?! Seems crazy to me.

Plus, crow's feet are just smile lines, aren't they? They're not unattractive.

Melograno · 01/08/2026 23:46

CatrionaBalfour · 01/08/2026 21:12

Plus, crow's feet are just smile lines, aren't they? They're not unattractive.

This is it , a smiling face with crinkled eyes is attractive as its genuine warmth and happiness
I find the " erased" faces as I call them unattractive plus botox gives this odd shiny but rough look to the skin which is very distinctive.

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 02/08/2026 00:00

Im 43 next week. Never have. Never will.

pinck · 02/08/2026 01:11

Honestly, probably never. I’m 37 and genuinely have no more wrinkles now than I did two decades ago. I’m allergic to the sun and have been sunburned exactly once in my entire adult life, so I’ve spent most of that time avoiding UV exposure as much as I can and this point, there simply isn’t anything I feel needs freezing, filling, lifting, or “preventative maintenance.”

ClarkeandNewman · 02/08/2026 01:27

What age did your husband start his anti ageing cosmetic procedures op?

GarlicAnywhere · 02/08/2026 01:49

Never. I'm 71. I look at least 71! I reckon I actually seem to look even older, now so many women have tweaks. People are forgetting what a naturally collapsing face looks like.

I looked surprisingly much younger than my age until I got to around 60 - very surprising, considering my immoderate lifestyle choices. Knew it would all cave at some point; it took longer than I expected. No point in getting altered now 😆

cityliving99 · 02/08/2026 05:49

CoffeeCantata · 01/08/2026 15:41

Just posting for the amusement of the beauty treatment folk!

I've never had a manicure (in response to a pp upthread, who obviously consider this as the norm), pedicure or any treatments. I have a phobia of hairdressers - I would genuinely prefer a dental appointment. Yes, I get my hair cut fairly regularly but when I've got an appointment it looms in my diary like an exam or something.

This bit sounds awful, and I apologise in advance, but I have to say it for the context: I'm pretty good looking at 67 - I know I look a lot younger as my mother always did, so OK, I'm lucky. But I've never been one for anything that looks fake or try-hard. I always muss up my hair when I've had it 'done' and only ever wear a smudge of lippy and a small amount of eye shadow when I'm really pushing the boat out. It has never occurred to me to think that crow's feet are a problem - they're just part of the character of my face and I quite like them.

I love, love clothes too, but I don't care much about fashion. If somethings' 20+ years old and I love it, I'll wear it and I don't care what anyone thinks.

It depends on your personal preference and your lifestyle. I've always worked in arty, intellectual jobs where people aren't very conventional and where individuality is valued highly. If I'd worn full make-up, a proper hairdo and office-y clothes, that wouldn't have fitted in at all. But I know in some professions smarter presentation is expected.

I just love people to look like themselves, wrinkles, fading hair and all. I do give people a swerve if they are over-groomed with full make-up and 'worked on' faces. I'm sorry, but I just do.

It's so corny to say this, but beauty isn't about staying 29 and style is not about fashion.

If you worked in the Creative Industry, you will have worked with people with body art.
All those needles painfully going into the skin to create art. Changing your appearance.
And absolutely nothing wrong with that….

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 02/08/2026 09:28

corblimeymlud · 01/08/2026 12:00

You may as well extend that theory to HRT, dental work, medications, x rays , scans , eating chicken and anything else medical taken by women. Why don't you just accept life and hurt and suffer vaginal incontinence and prolapse ? We know there can be issues with some things - such is life. You can get cancer and die within weeks. Life is not guaranteed. You can never travel on a plane and see the world. You can't avoid every risk. As my male doctor said it's about quality of life not quantity. Yes you can argue that some of those are essential but are they ?

Yes, it’s all about deciding what risks you’re prepared to take. I’m prepared to take the risks of an x-ray, medication or surgery if it’s needed. But I’m not prepared to take risks on my health to stop me looking older. It’s a choice. Everything we do is.

corblimeymlud · 02/08/2026 10:20

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 02/08/2026 09:28

Yes, it’s all about deciding what risks you’re prepared to take. I’m prepared to take the risks of an x-ray, medication or surgery if it’s needed. But I’m not prepared to take risks on my health to stop me looking older. It’s a choice. Everything we do is.

Yes that's my point exactly. There are certain parts of the world I wouldn't go to. Everyone has their own risk appetite.

friedaklein · 02/08/2026 10:23

ClarkeandNewman · 02/08/2026 01:27

What age did your husband start his anti ageing cosmetic procedures op?

Indeed! DH and I look as bad as each other, and that's fine.

It's not about risk for me. It's the principle of the thing.

ShanghaiDiva · 02/08/2026 13:32

friedaklein · 02/08/2026 10:23

Indeed! DH and I look as bad as each other, and that's fine.

It's not about risk for me. It's the principle of the thing.

same for me and dh. Although I am winning on the thick hair front and he is winning on hair colour!

CoffeeCantata · 02/08/2026 14:36

You have to watch this:

Mitchell and Webb in the Laboratoire Garnier.

CoffeeCantata · 02/08/2026 14:39

cityliving99 · 02/08/2026 05:49

If you worked in the Creative Industry, you will have worked with people with body art.
All those needles painfully going into the skin to create art. Changing your appearance.
And absolutely nothing wrong with that….

No - more academic/galleries/museums really.

In that world in those days - 20 to 30 years ago - it wasn't really common. Mainly unconventional clothes and hair.

There's a particular curator at a London gallery who appears on telly sometimes - she has an incredibly severe bob and wears a grey sack dress with amazing earrings and necklace - that kind of thing.

Not to everyone's taste - but not in line with the male gaze or fashion expectations.

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2026 14:42

friedaklein · 02/08/2026 10:23

Indeed! DH and I look as bad as each other, and that's fine.

It's not about risk for me. It's the principle of the thing.

I’m winning all round, my bloke’s younger than me and everyone who doesn’t know thinks he’s older.

Gloriia · 02/08/2026 15:22

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2026 14:42

I’m winning all round, my bloke’s younger than me and everyone who doesn’t know thinks he’s older.

Why is your bloke so rough looking, maybe he needs to moisturise a bit?

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2026 15:26

Gloriia · 02/08/2026 15:22

Why is your bloke so rough looking, maybe he needs to moisturise a bit?

Given that you have no idea what I look like that gratuitous insult is completely meaningless. I hope it made you feel better.

Gloriia · 02/08/2026 15:28

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2026 15:26

Given that you have no idea what I look like that gratuitous insult is completely meaningless. I hope it made you feel better.

You said he looks old I was just wondering if some basic skin care might help? Loreal do a man's range I believe.

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2026 15:33

Gloriia · 02/08/2026 15:28

You said he looks old I was just wondering if some basic skin care might help? Loreal do a man's range I believe.

No you didn’t. No amount of attempting to wriggle out of it will change it. It was a nasty, completely unwarranted insult. As I said, I hope it’s improved your Sunday afternoon.

Oddorevenpepperoni · 02/08/2026 15:54

Late 50s

Not had any treatments

I dont wear make up or dye hair or use any creams

I have been away this weekend, I would rather spend my time & money doing something that I enjoyed

Doing

corblimeymlud · 02/08/2026 16:42

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2026 15:33

No you didn’t. No amount of attempting to wriggle out of it will change it. It was a nasty, completely unwarranted insult. As I said, I hope it’s improved your Sunday afternoon.

I thought looking old was good though? Celebrate the wrinkles etc ? Why was it an insult? Isn't this what this thread is about ? Not using toxins but being grateful for being alive and old and maybe wrinkly?

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