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To wish I was Chilli

264 replies

Pjsaremyfaveoutfit · 27/07/2026 18:30

I’m pretty envious, what a lovely life 😩

OP posts:
Strangerdanger1 · 27/07/2026 22:40

I’m literally married to Bandit. It’s chaos.

couch25kagain · 27/07/2026 22:41

cocoromo · 27/07/2026 20:31

That was so condescending I cringed when I read it. Awful. She’s not wrong either…😳😳

Thank you for accurately identifying the intended tone of my post 😊

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 27/07/2026 22:42

Put some red kidney beans in your pockets and sling a red pepper around your neck and wallah! you'll be almost a chilli. 🌶

swimsong · 27/07/2026 22:44

Pjsaremyfaveoutfit · 27/07/2026 18:36

Isn’t it fairly obvious! Chilli Heeler.

No it is not.
My kid is way too old for modern children's cartoons. He was all about the Telletubies.

Gerbills · 27/07/2026 22:47

PrettyLittleRose · 27/07/2026 19:29

100% this. There was no clue whatsoever as to what the OP was on about from the thread title or the first post.

Apparently it's a character from something called Bluey. Never heard of it.. Or the character. And judging by this thread, many other people aren't familiar with Bluey either. And didn't know who the character Chilli was.

You what? 😂

This thread is amazing, OP. Mass breakdown from grown adult women because they weren’t spoon fed details of a cartoon dog. What a hoot.

Ohdearnotthisagain · 27/07/2026 22:47

when my kids were young enough to watch Bluey, I adored that show. We would all do the dance at the beginning.

They did make me feel bad about my parenting though!

I’d happily be Chilli.

itsme189 · 27/07/2026 22:51

Why do people respond if they don’t know what you are talking about and are so offended they weren’t in the know lol

SillyPiccalilli · 27/07/2026 22:51

Baffled by how many people came on this post, read it, and desperately felt the need to declare that they have no idea what OP is talking about and have never watched Bluey? You don't have to interact with the thread, just move on, this clearly doesn't concern you.

But yes, I love Chilli, and Bandit. The whole family dynamic on that show is lovely to watch. They serve as a good reminder when you're stressed and rushing around with toddlers, to slow down and try to enjoy it, despite the chaos.

Pjsaremyfaveoutfit · 27/07/2026 22:54

The Camping one and The sign make me ugly cry. Also when Bluey learnt to walk, Grandad and when Bingo sleeps on her own 😭
Even the one about rain can make me emotional.
It’s such great writing and does make me stop and think and try to be a better parent and to remember Dd is a little girl and to let things go that don’t really matter in the grand scheme of things.
It’s so well observed, I love the bins one too where Bandit realises these are the big things-the simple everyday things 😩
Oh god, over emotional MEGA FAN 🤣

OP posts:
Pjsaremyfaveoutfit · 27/07/2026 22:56

SillyPiccalilli · 27/07/2026 22:51

Baffled by how many people came on this post, read it, and desperately felt the need to declare that they have no idea what OP is talking about and have never watched Bluey? You don't have to interact with the thread, just move on, this clearly doesn't concern you.

But yes, I love Chilli, and Bandit. The whole family dynamic on that show is lovely to watch. They serve as a good reminder when you're stressed and rushing around with toddlers, to slow down and try to enjoy it, despite the chaos.

Pent up anger? 😔

It really is a reminder

OP posts:
Sometimeswinning · 27/07/2026 23:00

Gerbills · 27/07/2026 22:47

You what? 😂

This thread is amazing, OP. Mass breakdown from grown adult women because they weren’t spoon fed details of a cartoon dog. What a hoot.

Agree. I feel they made this thread!

I jumped straight to page 8 to see if adults were commenting still outraged and baffled. I was not disappointed.

Pjsaremyfaveoutfit · 27/07/2026 23:03

Sometimeswinning · 27/07/2026 23:00

Agree. I feel they made this thread!

I jumped straight to page 8 to see if adults were commenting still outraged and baffled. I was not disappointed.

It’s just so weird 😂

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SleepingStandingUp · 27/07/2026 23:05

LondonLass2026 · 27/07/2026 22:22

Omg the campsite one, is that the one where Bluey and a new friend planted a tree? Then the friend disappeared. Then it went forward some years and we saw Bluey as a teenager, reading under the tree, and the tree had become huge. And then the friend turned up. I did have a little cry at that.

yeah, and then you combine that one with the one where Bluey and her kid visit Bandit and Chilli and there's a whole theory on who's the Daddy.

HeyThereDelila · 27/07/2026 23:12

YABU. The best character is Muffin.

That episode with the Granny and the scooter is some of the funniest TV ever made.

SleepingStandingUp · 27/07/2026 23:12

Gerbills · 27/07/2026 22:39

Fucking Hell, why are so many grown women absolutely furious that someone has posted about a cartoon character they don’t know 😂😂. If you don’t know who they are, just scroll past. Absolutely insane behaviour.

I am 40 and don’t have kids and do know what Bluey is. If I didn’t, I’d have simply left the thread. Get a grip.

I asked DH if he wished I was more Chilli.
he said no, she's a bit annoying.
I said, what??
he said she leaves all the parenting to Bandit
I recited the whole of the swimming pool episode where Bandit forgets to take ANYTHING
he said Bandit is the fun parent.

aibu to ltb?

SadAndBeautifulWorld · 27/07/2026 23:13

Off topic maybe, but I'm jealous of Mummy Pig when they do special things for her birthday, and Daddy Pig looks after the children so she can have me time.

Pjsaremyfaveoutfit · 27/07/2026 23:19

SadAndBeautifulWorld · 27/07/2026 23:13

Off topic maybe, but I'm jealous of Mummy Pig when they do special things for her birthday, and Daddy Pig looks after the children so she can have me time.

Yes I always want Dh to be watching these kinds of things, so he can take notes!

OP posts:
Horses7 · 27/07/2026 23:26

IHaveTraumaFromAlfredHitchcocksTheBirds · 27/07/2026 18:56

Its only obvious if you watch Bluey, which millions of people don't.

Hurrah a sensible post at last!!

Dodorogers · 27/07/2026 23:28

Kingdomofsleep · 27/07/2026 18:33

Do you mean Bluey's mum? I would hate to be married to Bandit. So annoying and always centering himself in the kids' play.

This times a million. He is awful. I hate how everyone thinks he is so good, he takes over their play and is a twatty husband

IFancyABaconSarnie · 27/07/2026 23:30

I wish I was chillY
I’m feeling hot, hot, hot thanks to the fecking menopause! 🫠

Chilli Heeler - who’s she?

KnitFastDieWarm · 28/07/2026 00:19

This thread is amazing, it’s like a parallel universe. I think I’m going to start opening random threads and posting affronted comments about how I don’t know what anyone is talking about. In fact, I may just start walking up to groups of people mid-conversation in real life and get petulant when they don’t immediately stop the discussion and cater to my interests and experiences.

(But yes @Pjsaremyfaveoutfit , Bluey is top notch TV for everyone, not just kids).

Gerbills · 28/07/2026 00:37

KnitFastDieWarm · 28/07/2026 00:19

This thread is amazing, it’s like a parallel universe. I think I’m going to start opening random threads and posting affronted comments about how I don’t know what anyone is talking about. In fact, I may just start walking up to groups of people mid-conversation in real life and get petulant when they don’t immediately stop the discussion and cater to my interests and experiences.

(But yes @Pjsaremyfaveoutfit , Bluey is top notch TV for everyone, not just kids).

It would be good if you explain to the groups you walk up to that just because they know what they’re talking about, it doesn’t mean that the rest of the world is at their exact same life stage.

If they are talking about the king or God or the colour of the grass, it would be especially good if you could tell them you’ve never heard of them.

PeachMelbaYoghurt · 28/07/2026 01:05

Gerbills · 27/07/2026 22:39

Fucking Hell, why are so many grown women absolutely furious that someone has posted about a cartoon character they don’t know 😂😂. If you don’t know who they are, just scroll past. Absolutely insane behaviour.

I am 40 and don’t have kids and do know what Bluey is. If I didn’t, I’d have simply left the thread. Get a grip.

No dear, you've missed the point, people are/were annoyed at the lack of context with the opening post i.e. not having a fucking clue what OP was talking about.

No one is "furious" about a thread about a cartoon character... 🙄

SleepingStandingUp · 28/07/2026 01:57

PeachMelbaYoghurt · 28/07/2026 01:05

No dear, you've missed the point, people are/were annoyed at the lack of context with the opening post i.e. not having a fucking clue what OP was talking about.

No one is "furious" about a thread about a cartoon character... 🙄

Edited

we don't say fuck, we say biscuits.

Gerbills · 28/07/2026 02:16

PeachMelbaYoghurt · 28/07/2026 01:05

No dear, you've missed the point, people are/were annoyed at the lack of context with the opening post i.e. not having a fucking clue what OP was talking about.

No one is "furious" about a thread about a cartoon character... 🙄

Edited

Why are you annoyed you didn’t know about a cartoon dog? You didn’t know who Chilli was, so the thread isn’t for you, so come off it? Why would it annoy you? It is absolutely batshit but it has been a great read.

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