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Neighbours "Stolen" Bike

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FergalHunter · 27/07/2026 14:27

A very curious incident occurred in my block of flats recently that I am eager to hear the forum's perspective on.

Our development runs along the corner of two roads. There are three buildings with about 55 flats in total. There's a shared garden at the back with a covered bike store where I keep my bike. There aren't any allocated spaces, but people tend to leave their bikes in the same spot and leave their locks on the stand when out for a ride. I've parked my bike in the same spot for the last two years, and there are always spare racks.

When I leave my bike there, I use a D-lock, a cable, and a bike cover. There are about 4-5 other people also using covers. I usually put another small lock on to secure the cover. This might sound like overkill, but we've had multiple instances of bikes getting nicked while I've lived here.

Anyway, onto what happened. A couple of weeks ago, I took my bike out to head to the gym, leaving my D-lock and cable attached to the rack in my usual space. When I came back about 90 minutes later, another bike was attached to the same rack. I'd seen the bike before, but don't know who owns it. Not a massive issue, but a little annoying considering there were racks nearby with spaces where people don't cover their bikes.

I was due to head on holiday for 10 days early the next morning and didn't want to leave my bike uncovered that long, so I threw the cover over both bikes. It wasn't locked down and could easily be lifted up. I didn't think it would be an issue, if anything, her bike was getting the benefit of the cover too!
While I was away, someone posted in the residents' chat that her bike had been stolen. Like I said, this isn't an uncommon occurrence, so I didn't think too much of it.

When I returned from holiday 10 days later, her bike was still sitting under the cover right next to mine. I took my bike out for another 90ish minute gym trip and when I got back, I decided I'd move my bike to an empty rack next to it so I could go back to my normal setup. I moved my bike and my cover over to the new rack, leaving her bike completely exposed on her rack.

About an hour later, the same woman posted on the residents' chat claiming her bike had been "returned", but that she'd already bought a replacement!
I'm flabbergasted that a supposedly grown adult seems to lack basic object permanence. Arriving back at her rack, seeing a cover draped over it, and immediately concluding her bike was stolen, without taking two seconds to lift the sheet, is genuinely mind-boggling to me.

Now she's on the chat insisting someone must have stolen it, taken it for a joyride, and returned it, and she is demanding CCTV access.

Is it worth trying to engage with someone like this?

OP posts:
category12 · 29/07/2026 13:58

Aiming4Optimistic · 29/07/2026 13:31

Why is it a dick move? If it rains the bike is protected. OP didn't lock it so that the owner couldn't access her own property? It's just a cover.

People can be funny about 'parking' spaces. Humans are creatures of habit and we tend to return to the same spaces. At work, even though we have a massive car park and the spaces are pretty much all the same, everyone still parks in 'their' spot. It's odd but we just do. I guess it's the same with bike spots. I didn't read it as OP hogging two spaces, only that she uses the same one. Could be wrong about that though

It's a dick move to cover up someone else's bike. She wasn't doing it to do the other person a favour. She did it because she was a bit annoyed that someone was sharing the stand.

I don't believe for a minute OP couldn't possibly do anything else but cover the bike. She could have moved her cover and bike to a different stand. She could have hitched up her cover to avoid covering the other bike.

Callmecynical · 29/07/2026 14:11

I would advise that you find a way to contact this person and sincerely apologise for covering her bike, your failure to communicate and the subsequent distress caused to her. That is where I see that you owe her.
Her decision to buy another bike is on her.

Aiming4Optimistic · 29/07/2026 14:12

Well yeah, she could have but she didn't. It's still not a big deal though. Just move the cover. Then it's just one dick move instead of two 😉

TheChewdors · 29/07/2026 14:57

I can just imagine OP huffing and puffing throwing the cover over the bikes, fuming that someone has put their bike near where she ‘tends to’ put hers

Aiming4Optimistic · 29/07/2026 15:05

'Distress caused to her' Grin
You know the bike wasn't actually stolen. She only had to lift up a cover.

Dentisttoday · 29/07/2026 15:06

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category12 · 29/07/2026 15:35

Aiming4Optimistic · 29/07/2026 14:12

Well yeah, she could have but she didn't. It's still not a big deal though. Just move the cover. Then it's just one dick move instead of two 😉

Not sure what the second dick move is in your opinion?

If the missing bike person genuinely didn't realise the bike was still there, that's not being a dick, that's just not thinking it through.

If missing bike person did realise and is having a laugh at OPs expense, it's the kind of dickishness I can get behind. 😂

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