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Aibu thinking Scots shouldn't be wanting Argentina to win against England?

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Engerlund · 13/07/2026 18:49

It's getting beyond banter now imo.

I know plenty of Scots agree with me.

I'm half Scottish (dad) so always support both. In the past I'd probably want Scotland to win if it was them against England to be honest. Although now because of the Argentina support I'm going off supporting Scotland.

I desperately want England to win this one more than against any other team.

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Inverness1900 · 15/07/2026 11:20

SaltPepperMustardVinegar · 15/07/2026 10:31

I find it all rather childish, but I wouldn't get annoyed by it.

I support England first, and then any of the other home countries next, ROI, then generally Spain. I've lived in Spain, but not Scotland, Wales, Northern Ireland or ROI, so I suppose it would make more sense to support Spain over them, but I still feel a closer association with the rest of the UK and ROI.

Someone said to me recently that nothing annoys the Scots more than the English taking the moral high ground and supporting Scotland. I don't do it to take moral high ground, but you could and quietly relish the fact that you're probably annoying the Scots back!

"Someone said to me recently that nothing annoys the Scots more than the English taking the moral high ground and supporting Scotland."

Speaking for myself, as a Scot, I don't care if you, or anyone else supports us. Have fun. If you feel you have a reason to support Scotland, then whatever.

It's the follow-up expectations that come along with it. They tell me they do/or used to support Scotland, like it should matter, (it doesn't). Or that it should be reciprocated.

That's what annoys me, and I presume others. It's not that you think this person is taking some moral high ground, it's that its often said with conditions, or expectations. That it should matter to us.

It's kind of like offering to come around and clean my house. And then expecting me to do the same. I can clean my own home, thanks. I don't need any help.

Persephonia1966 · 15/07/2026 11:24

jacks11 · 14/07/2026 21:52

YABU

I don’t think anyone gets to decide who someone else should support. And in all honesty, why do you care? Support who you like, let others do the same.

England has plenty of its own supporters (more people in greater London than the whole of Scotland after all). It’s not like it makes any difference to the outcome either.

FWIW I’m Scottish- not much into football. I might be more inclined to support England if your media (and I include those who are allegedly British, not English) had a little less arrogance and a lot more humility. And if I thought that if you were to win, it would be anything other than excruciating for the foreseeable future.

Before anyone says it- it’s not jealousy. We know Scotland aren’t likely to win a World Cup. We accepted it a long time ago and most of us are ok with it (even if we might secretly keep a tiny flicker of hope alive 😜).

I don't think anyone should have to support a team they don't want to. Those vox pops where people go up to Scottish/Irish people and ask them "will you be supporting England" are weird.

But, the idea that the UK media is arrogant in regards the English team winning is a bit strange. They do bang on about it, but I think the UK press are way more negative about the team and individual players than other countries. On the run up to each game it's doom and gloom, if England loses the players are traditionally castigated for throwing it away and if they win the papers call it a "lucky escape". Unless and until they win the whole thing and then the Sun etc will have been "with them all the way".

Some of its not wanting to get hopes up because it always hurts. But I also think the endless negativity/attempts to shit stir (see the drama kicked up about Tuchel and Bellinghams comments) aren't helpful especially when targeted towards a bunch of men in their teens and early twenties.

I am biased because I would be supporting England only. But I do find the current English team more likeable, as individuals, than the Argentinian team. So I think even if I wasn't English I would want them to win.

Goldenbear · 15/07/2026 11:24

Inverness1900 · 15/07/2026 11:11

Except it wasn't just developed in England. Scotland made football a passing game. We've just as much right to claim it. Though you won't hear us chanting about bringing anything home. It's kind of arrogant.

Wasn't it? It has been disputed but that doesn't make it anything other disputable.

That song was written by the Lightening Seeds who are from Liverpool, fronted by Ian Broudie, hardly known for his mainstream appeal!

Inverness1900 · 15/07/2026 11:24

GoneWithTHeWindJammers · 15/07/2026 10:46

I already said I was wrong, I googled euro qualifying groups and got the last groups. It would still be funny if Scotland didn't qualify.

It would be even funnier if England didn't, but Wales and Scotland did.

Inverness1900 · 15/07/2026 11:26

GoneWithTHeWindJammers · 15/07/2026 10:54

So Scotlands best chance of making the euros is to hope England do well. Oh dear, anyone but England no good anymore. That will be funny.

You underestimate our destain for the England team.

ABE.
Come on Argentina!

Goldenbear · 15/07/2026 11:27

UniquePinkSwan · 15/07/2026 11:12

I go to watch football every week and watch as much as I can on TV. I think I’m more than qualified

Well that could be watching your kids for all I know as your remark about being 'deluded' demonstrates a pitiful amount of knowledge of the world class players in the England Squad.

Inverness1900 · 15/07/2026 11:28

GoneWithTHeWindJammers · 15/07/2026 10:34

I would support North Korea over Scotland tbh.

No one in Scotland would care. That's the difference. No one expects people outside Scotland to support our team. It's arrogant and entitled.

Goldenbear · 15/07/2026 11:29

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BillieWiper · 15/07/2026 11:29

Why shouldn't they support whoever they like? It's not like a Tottenham supporter would suddenly start supporting Arsenal if Spurs were kicked out of a tournament, just because they are geographical neighbours? If anything it's obvious there's always rivalry between two similar things that are close together.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 15/07/2026 11:30

Goldenbear · 15/07/2026 11:24

Wasn't it? It has been disputed but that doesn't make it anything other disputable.

That song was written by the Lightening Seeds who are from Liverpool, fronted by Ian Broudie, hardly known for his mainstream appeal!

The claim to have "invented" football stems from the fact the English League was the first established league playing to an agreed set of rules laid down by their own FA. "Association Football".

The origins of the sport itself are murky, and if you really want to argue the toss, you can even go back and look at Amerindian/Mesoamerican kicking and court games (played with a rubber ball) and suggest that's the true origin. Then there are a myriad of ball-playing games documented in the medieval period, Danish Kickskull etc.

What's not in dispute, is that the early form of football played in the English League was very much a kick & rush, 20 players around the ball style, with nothing in the way of tactics or even set positions. It was the arrival of Scottish players who brought with them the "passing" style, whereby the ball was passed across distance as a way of moving it about the pitch, with players occupying space rather than gravitating toward the ball. This is why many people contend that "modern" football, as it is currently played on the pitch, originated in Scotland even if "Association Football" did not.

Goldenbear · 15/07/2026 11:33

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 15/07/2026 11:30

The claim to have "invented" football stems from the fact the English League was the first established league playing to an agreed set of rules laid down by their own FA. "Association Football".

The origins of the sport itself are murky, and if you really want to argue the toss, you can even go back and look at Amerindian/Mesoamerican kicking and court games (played with a rubber ball) and suggest that's the true origin. Then there are a myriad of ball-playing games documented in the medieval period, Danish Kickskull etc.

What's not in dispute, is that the early form of football played in the English League was very much a kick & rush, 20 players around the ball style, with nothing in the way of tactics or even set positions. It was the arrival of Scottish players who brought with them the "passing" style, whereby the ball was passed across distance as a way of moving it about the pitch, with players occupying space rather than gravitating toward the ball. This is why many people contend that "modern" football, as it is currently played on the pitch, originated in Scotland even if "Association Football" did not.

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Well done, you can use Google!

lovecotswoldsliving · 15/07/2026 11:34

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Inverness is spending all day and night spouting her hatred. Must have a very boring life.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 15/07/2026 11:34

Goldenbear · 15/07/2026 11:33

Well done, you can use Google!

I can also read books and retain knowledge.

Dideon · 15/07/2026 11:38

Inverness1900 · 15/07/2026 11:20

"Someone said to me recently that nothing annoys the Scots more than the English taking the moral high ground and supporting Scotland."

Speaking for myself, as a Scot, I don't care if you, or anyone else supports us. Have fun. If you feel you have a reason to support Scotland, then whatever.

It's the follow-up expectations that come along with it. They tell me they do/or used to support Scotland, like it should matter, (it doesn't). Or that it should be reciprocated.

That's what annoys me, and I presume others. It's not that you think this person is taking some moral high ground, it's that its often said with conditions, or expectations. That it should matter to us.

It's kind of like offering to come around and clean my house. And then expecting me to do the same. I can clean my own home, thanks. I don't need any help.

I think only a very few English fans care who Scottish people support. I for example could not give a toss . It’s the ABE shite that people find petty and sad.

Inverness1900 · 15/07/2026 11:38

Persephonia1966 · 15/07/2026 11:24

I don't think anyone should have to support a team they don't want to. Those vox pops where people go up to Scottish/Irish people and ask them "will you be supporting England" are weird.

But, the idea that the UK media is arrogant in regards the English team winning is a bit strange. They do bang on about it, but I think the UK press are way more negative about the team and individual players than other countries. On the run up to each game it's doom and gloom, if England loses the players are traditionally castigated for throwing it away and if they win the papers call it a "lucky escape". Unless and until they win the whole thing and then the Sun etc will have been "with them all the way".

Some of its not wanting to get hopes up because it always hurts. But I also think the endless negativity/attempts to shit stir (see the drama kicked up about Tuchel and Bellinghams comments) aren't helpful especially when targeted towards a bunch of men in their teens and early twenties.

I am biased because I would be supporting England only. But I do find the current English team more likeable, as individuals, than the Argentinian team. So I think even if I wasn't English I would want them to win.

The British media is very Jekyll and Hide. One minute, the England team's the best thing since sliced bread. The next, they're a disgrace. But it's also the sort of biased position they take. The BBC is supposed to be British, but they'll say things like "the whole nation is on its feet," at some penalty shot, or something. What nation? Britain, or England? Who are they speaking for?

And I forget the tournament, but about 18 years ago, probably the Euros, Scotland played in the opening game, and England a few days later. And one of the commentators said something like "the tournament may have started last weekend, but here's where it really begins." I'm paraphrasing, but not exaggerating. It's pretty irritating.

And then we get article after article in the Sun, Torygraph, Mail, etc, going on about "The jocks" not supporting another country's team. And a lot of normies, whining about it. It's made me go from being indifferent, to cheering on the opposing team England plays, just to get a laugh at these people's expense. The fact that Scotland owes them anything, it's so arrogant.

Goldenbear · 15/07/2026 11:38

lovecotswoldsliving · 15/07/2026 11:34

Inverness is spending all day and night spouting her hatred. Must have a very boring life.

Yes, why the 'hate'.

Inverness1900 · 15/07/2026 11:41

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"talk about bitter lemons" Didn't you just say you'd support North Korea over Scotland? Wind yer neck in, son.

Persephonia1966 · 15/07/2026 11:42

Goldenbear · 15/07/2026 11:38

Yes, why the 'hate'.

There are two posters, one really pro England and anti immigrant/anti Scotland and another really pro Scotland and anti-England that are all over every thread like this. They feel like characatures to me TBH. Like if you wanted to create a character to rage bait people that's what it would look like...

Inverness1900 · 15/07/2026 11:43

lovecotswoldsliving · 15/07/2026 11:34

Inverness is spending all day and night spouting her hatred. Must have a very boring life.

"all day and all night" Check the timestamps of my posts. You'll see no such thing. And I'll be waiting for your apologies, though this presumes you have any honesty or integrity.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 15/07/2026 11:44

Persephonia1966 · 15/07/2026 11:42

There are two posters, one really pro England and anti immigrant/anti Scotland and another really pro Scotland and anti-England that are all over every thread like this. They feel like characatures to me TBH. Like if you wanted to create a character to rage bait people that's what it would look like...

rage-baiting? On Mumsnet????

Surely not....

Inverness1900 · 15/07/2026 11:47

Dideon · 15/07/2026 11:38

I think only a very few English fans care who Scottish people support. I for example could not give a toss . It’s the ABE shite that people find petty and sad.

Threads like this have shown me otherwise.
The English shouldn't give a crap who supports England, outside of England.
But the more we see & hear the complaining that we don't, the more it gets pushed back. I've gone from being indifferent, being of no interest in England's matches, to cheering England's opponents, simply because of the arrogance and entitlement I've heard because we don't support England.

IceLollly · 15/07/2026 11:47

My Scottish husband finds it incredibly embarrassing behaviour. Especially when it was clear Scotland wouldn’t go that far in the competition, sour grapes.

Tryagain26 · 15/07/2026 11:47

They can want whoever they want.
There are some English people who want Argentina to win because they think they are the better team.
It's only a game it's not a war and it's not unpatriotic not to support the England football team!

Inverness1900 · 15/07/2026 11:51

Goldenbear · 15/07/2026 11:38

Yes, why the 'hate'.

Wind your neck in Mr "I'd support North Korea over Scotland."
Seriously, pick a lane and stick to it.

Goldenbear · 15/07/2026 11:55

Inverness1900 · 15/07/2026 11:51

Wind your neck in Mr "I'd support North Korea over Scotland."
Seriously, pick a lane and stick to it.

When did I post that?

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