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To be utterly pissed off and fed up with this weather….

373 replies

TheFairCat · 06/07/2026 18:46

I know there’s already been loads of threads about it, so apologies for being so original but OH MY GOD!

I’m not usually a particularly whiny person and I don’t ever remember being particularly troubled by hot ( or cold!) weather before but honestly, I feel like I’m going lose my mind!

Maybe it’s combined with hot flushes or something because no one else I know seems to be struggling that much.

I was fine at first; just thought it would only be a couple of days we’d have to suck it up. We
got the fans out, ate a criminal amount of ice lollies and did as little as possible. But now it feels like it’s been a couple of weeks of non stop over 28 degree heat every day where I live. It’s also unbearably humid. Trying to clean the house is grim. I feel like I’m swimming through treacle and my brain is mush. I can’t concentrate on work, I can’t sleep at night. I am constantly uncomfortable and the house has now heated up to such an extent that no room is even close to cool.

I realise this probably sounds ridiculous but I can’t really go out in this heat. I mean I can go to work (though my office has no air con and is also grim) and I can manage the school run and the supermarket etc, but I can’t go for a walk, or run about at the park with the kids. I definitely wouldn’t want go out in town or mooch about the shops, or eat out etc. I don’t want go in the garden because it’s so hot. The swimming pool is lovely but the changing rooms are beyond the pale. There’s no way I could cope with a day out at the zoo or a theme park with the kids.

I’ve never been so hot or so uncomfortable in my life! I have lots of loose, comfortable clothes, summer shoes etc but I still feel like I want to rip my skin off!

Is it just me? Weather forecast seems to be saying 10 more days of heat wave and I could cry!

OP posts:
Lottapianos · 07/07/2026 17:35

moggiek · 07/07/2026 17:30

West of Scotland. It has rained every day since schools broke up on June 25th. Every. Single. Day. Bloody miserable weather.

I really do feel for you all. I'm in London, and while I'm absolutely not a fan of 32 degrees, I'm absolutely not a fan of soggy grey weather either, especially in July! Very depressing

RampantIvy · 07/07/2026 17:50

But it looks like the heat is coming up your way, doesn't it?

Yes, but in my part we aren't forecast to go above 30 degrees.

To be utterly pissed off and fed up with this weather….
EmeraldRoulette · 07/07/2026 17:53

@RampantIvy I see

I think perhaps I'm so desperate for the forecast to have something normal in it, like 22, (which still wouldn't help my flat cool down that much ) that I looked at that and thought it's not worth the travel. And much as I love Yorkshire it really isn't worth the travel in this situation - I was literally just thinking, where can I get to this weekend that's not going be hot!

TheFairCat · 07/07/2026 19:27

I’m glad to see I’m not alone! (Though that’s perhaps rather selfish of me…)

Today was another roaster and I got f all sleep last night…. I was fortunate to be somewhere with air conditioning during the day today, but am back to my sweaty house now.

I feel like I can smell feet all the time. We’re all having cool showers twice a day, but the whole house just feels kind of damp…. Just for fun, my youngest also wet the bed last night, for the first time in YEARS. I can only assume it was the 5 litres of water he drunk before bedtime. I feared it spelt trouble but am also paranoid about dehydration…

I can’t even enjoy a cold beer as any amount of alcohol seems to raise my temperature yet further!

My self pity knows no end….

OP posts:
EmeraldRoulette · 07/07/2026 19:46

@TheFairCat i can’t drink alcohol in this weather

there was a thread last week where someone was buying a dual hose air con unit. My ancient single hose can’t cope on the heat so I’m curious to know what results they got but can’t find it, did anyone else see it or did I imagine it?

HarryKanesonfire · 07/07/2026 19:51

Loathe it. My cat loathes it. Wish it’d piss off now

SapatSea · 07/07/2026 20:00

I want to move back up North! My dad was moaning on the phone about the "tremendous heat" - 24 degrees! 31 here in the South

GreenEyesMillennial · 07/07/2026 20:02

TheFairCat · 06/07/2026 18:50

To add, I need to look fairly respectable for work but can’t wear makeup (sweats straight off), can’t bear to wear a bra and definitely can’t blow dry or straighten my hair…. All my colleagues seem to look their usual polished selves 🤦‍♀️

I dry and straight my hair whilst having a fan blasting on my face 😂

Autumngirl5 · 07/07/2026 20:08

I think I am acclimatising but does anyone have hints for how to stop my makeup sliding off? Also any tips on hair going flat and sweaty! I’m trying to look glamorous in the heat 😂

Mimilamore · 07/07/2026 20:15

I’ve just got in from a 35 min walk to choir and back, which wasn’t meeting. The sun was in my eyes most of the way back and sweat was trickling down my back, 3 changes of clothes today as sodden within 10 mins. I even missed my dip
in the sea this evening to go to choir, that keeps me sane as so refreshing.

Specialneedsnightmare · 07/07/2026 20:18

I must be the only weirdo who loves it. I live for these hot summer days. There's so few of them compared to the rest of the year. When you're rejoicing in cold damp miserable weather i will be picturing myself outside on my lounger with sun bearing down on me.

RhosynCymru · 07/07/2026 20:27

Brantastic · 07/07/2026 17:20

Lincolnshire here, I hear you. I hate this weather so much, the house is roasting and doing anything is exhausting. For me the light nights and mornings make it worse, it feels so oppressive. Makes me sad that this is our future going forward!

I’m south Lincolnshire too!

Lisajane47 · 07/07/2026 21:29

TightlyLacedCorset · 06/07/2026 19:15

I'm with you OP definitely, definitely NBU.

I'm dying a little bit everyday.

I have underlying inflammation from two autoimmune diseases and week before last, I broke down and sobbed like a baby.

Today I soaked through my clothes with sweat. I had a wet flannel on my neck the whole day.

When I go out, I start suffering quickly, save early in the mornings, but sleep is so bad it's impossible to manage that.

I haven't opened my curtains in my bedroom for weeks.

I tell you truthfully, if this is global warming and it's going to be like this from now on, then I am seriously going to have to think about migrating up north. I cannot hack the heat here down south, which is sad because this is where my family is. I feel incredibly envious of people complaining about their wet, cool summers in places like Scotland, and Yorkshire. I never ever wanted to swap places with them so badly!

And I bet I'm not the only one now seriously contemplating moving to a cooler region here in the UK, or even immigrating to cooler countries like those in Scandinavia. I wonder if those countries will start seeing an influx.

First-world climate induced immigration. Weird to think about!

I live in Yorkshire!! It's been 27 today, two weeks ago it was 38 most days and 22 on a night, so its not that much cooler!!
I work in a warehouse , its 27- 30 ° most of the year, i rock up 49,000 steps a day, with heavy lifting included, so I'm not bothered by the heat!!!! It will be cold and rainy before long.

RampantIvy · 07/07/2026 21:39

I live in Yorkshire!! It's been 27 today, two weeks ago it was 38 most days and 22 on a night, so its not that much cooler!!

Where is this microclimate where you are @Lisajane47 ? We had 32 degrees max during the last heatwave and very windy 21 degrees today (South Yorkshire).

Limeandfigs · 07/07/2026 21:45

We really need some rain. Everything is dying.

And no, that doesn't mean I revel in cold miserable weather.

I'd just like a normal, average British summer with a good mix of warm sunny days, a few hot days, and a good amount of rainy spells to stop all of our food withering in the fields.

The last few years, with the exception of 2024, have seen some atrocious droughts and heatwaves. If this is our new normal, it's a scary time if you like food.

ConverselyAttired · 07/07/2026 22:04

My mum and dad live in Yorkshire and I was up week before last from the SW. Can confirm it was boiling. You've got to keep going up! My friend in Newcastle was having lovely overnights at 17 degrees.

hobbledyhoy · 07/07/2026 22:11

East central Scotland, been pishing with rain the last 5 days, I’ll swap you.

EmeraldRoulette · 07/07/2026 22:30

There are so many micro climates, it's baffling.

Managed to get someone to come to the pub with me for a couple of hours so that had air-conditioning

Walked back into an absolute sauna

I could actually go away on Friday. But it looks like the main days to cope are today and tomorrow.

I don't really go on holiday so I don't budget for this kind of stuff.

An accurate weather forecast would be so helpful! I really wish I had arranged to be away this week. I could've done it but it felt like too soon after just coming back.

I'm not good at going places can you tell? 😂 I used to do it for work but it's a bit different when somebody organises it for you. And I hate going away on my own.

PeriPeriMayo · 07/07/2026 22:47

MapleLeaf190 · 06/07/2026 21:45

I’m so confused - why doesn’t anyone have AC?
I’m Canadian and didn’t have full house AC until last year (had to update the whole furnace system to add it - $$) but it’s super common here and if you don’t have it you usually just use a window unit for the bedrooms. And we only have like 2 months of hot weather.
If the heat is so bad why aren’t people buying and installing window units? Legit asking, I’ve never been to the UK.

Historically, we've simply never needed aircon really, houses have all been built to keep the heat in. It didn't make sense to fit aircon in houses to be used for a week every year. Its a bit like how in Australia they all have aircon but not central heating (radiators) like we have even though they do get spells of quite cold weather in winter - area dependent.

Its changing though, loads of people are getting portable units , but they're heavy and a bit of a faff with a hose that doesn't work well with standard windows. We have 2 , they're good, they cool down our bedrooms from about 30 to 22 ish so definitely work, but right atm I believe they're all sold out everywhere. The window units that you have
don"t seem to be avilable over here. We are looking at getting proper aircon fitted in at least our bedrooms in the next few months and I think more and more people will do the same.

Rituelec · 07/07/2026 23:13

SadiraOfTyr · 07/07/2026 10:46

It's crazy that we now think of 32 as pleasantly warm. Everyone has been remarking about how it's now 'proper summer weather' compared to a couple weeks ago. I think even 10 years ago 31-32 would have been considered exceptionally hot. Now we just think of it as the norm.

I remember thinking 29/30 was HOT. 31 would have been exceptional. It is mad.

RedTulip86 · 07/07/2026 23:21

15°C here for the last three days and pissing down. Typical summer in Scotland 🙄🤬

Limeandfigs · 07/07/2026 23:22

Rituelec · 07/07/2026 23:13

I remember thinking 29/30 was HOT. 31 would have been exceptional. It is mad.

The average daily high temperature for July is around 22°, a bit more if you're in the south and a bit less if you're in the north.

29° is significantly above the historical average.

When I say nice sunny summer days, I'm thinking of temps no higher than 25°.

Magpie50 · 07/07/2026 23:47

I'm def over it, ready for autumn now!
I'm in kent and it's just too hot and stifling to do anything. Usually I love to go for lots of walks but I just don't have the energy and I'm pretty much trapped in the house for the hottest parts of the day.

I haven't bothered with make up for weeks and am currently wearing crop top comfy bras that lift my boobs as much as my mood.
Oh, and I can't stop eating coz I'm not one of those who goes off food in the heat sadly!
Just fed up with being coated in a layer of sweat the second I exert any energy at all.😡

EmeraldShamrock000 · 07/07/2026 23:50

It is better than rain. It’s the one time of the year that I’m warm without wearing a jumper. I understand I’m unusual. DH is dying in a puddle of sweat 10 minutes after the shower.
It gets people out more enjoying evening walks.

ilovesooty · 07/07/2026 23:59

RampantIvy · 06/07/2026 19:51

The heatwave isn't everywhere.

I must admit that when it was 32 degrees here even I was flagging, but we have had high teens ow twenties for several days and 21 degrees forecast for tomorrow, then a few days of high twenties before going back down again.

It has been extremely windy for several days as well.

Edited

Same here. It hasn't got above 19 all day and I've got a jumper on. Can't wait to go on holiday.

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