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To be fed up of hearing 'just get on with it'?

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glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 16:48

This kind of 'just get on with it' RE the heat is all over Facebook. People talking about the heat in 1976 and saying 'we just got on with it' or 'we muddled through' (as if people didn't die as a result of that heatwave)

My issue is - shouldn't we as a society be aiming higher than just getting on with things and muddling through? We should be campaigning for better infrastructure, better working practices.

I just think we have all this technology, we're supposed to be a rich country, let's fight to make things better rather than just managing. What happened to the spirit of the first union workers who demanded better conditions and rights? I want to see that spirit back.

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DoesAnyoneRememberBoneyM · 24/06/2026 22:01

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 21:42

Ok now I'm sure you're wilfully missing the point.

The heat is one example. There are many areas of life where people have this attitude of just get on with it, muddle through.

I'm assuming from your continued suggestion of 'just buy an air conditioner' and your horror at the idea that the government actually gets involved with impacting people's lives, that you are a libertarian in favour of low-regulation capitalism?

I understand what you are saying completely. Do you have a clue what is going on with the UK at the moment? I hope you are very young and thus your naivety is excusable to a degree.

MiniatureHouse · 24/06/2026 22:05

zobeit · 24/06/2026 18:18

Google: ‘The 1976 heatwave reached its highest temperature of 35.9°C (96.6°F) on July 3 in Cheltenham, Gloucestershire. The summer remains a historic benchmark due to its intensity and a record-breaking 15 consecutive days with temperatures exceeding 32.2°C (90°F).’

As an Aussie, those temps are just a warmer summer day.

What you all lack is the set up and experience to deal with it. You need to get a cooling system or find other ways to make the heat part of every day life. It's not going to get any better, so you'll have to adapt. I don't mean that belligerently, it's just a fact of life. Learn from the countries are that used to it.

MasterBeth · 24/06/2026 22:07

Sheismycherrypie · 24/06/2026 21:29

It was neither the Mail nor the Telegraph.

Oh dear, as well as not understanding the content you linked to, you don't understand how AI news aggregators work either...

The MSN.com AI doesn't write original stories. It scrapes content from existing news sources and rephrases it. It also tells you what original content it's scraping from. That's what those references/links to the Mail and Telegraph are. Click them and you can see the sources it has obtained its content from.

It's genuinely quite concerning that you don't understand the need to verify and qualify the sources you read online. If you don't understand who is feeding you information you rely on, how can you trust any of it? And why should we trust your opinion?

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 22:12

DoesAnyoneRememberBoneyM · 24/06/2026 22:01

I understand what you are saying completely. Do you have a clue what is going on with the UK at the moment? I hope you are very young and thus your naivety is excusable to a degree.

In your posts, you have misconstrued what I've said, minimised my points, made assumptions about me, and personally insulted me.

Is this because you are a nasty person, or is it to try and make my argument look worse and therefore yours better? If it's necessary to do those things to make your argument look stronger, then it can't be a very good argument can it?

Would it even be possible for you to have a good faith discussion? And let your points stand on their own merit without belittling and insulting me? I think your behaviour speaks for itself.

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DoesAnyoneRememberBoneyM · 24/06/2026 22:14

MasterBeth · 24/06/2026 21:37

It's getting hotter. And will continue to get hotter. AC will keep your bedroom cool. What about everywhere else? Like... the outside?

Yes indeed climate change is something the world will have to address. However I fear it might be behind a few of the UK's other pressing problems.
Seriously though - everyone is aware of the changing climate control. At least if she buys a portable air conditioner she will be able to sleep and perhaps work from home. Then she can ponder how to solve climate change.

DoesAnyoneRememberBoneyM · 24/06/2026 22:16

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 22:12

In your posts, you have misconstrued what I've said, minimised my points, made assumptions about me, and personally insulted me.

Is this because you are a nasty person, or is it to try and make my argument look worse and therefore yours better? If it's necessary to do those things to make your argument look stronger, then it can't be a very good argument can it?

Would it even be possible for you to have a good faith discussion? And let your points stand on their own merit without belittling and insulting me? I think your behaviour speaks for itself.

Oh well if you need to take tomorrow off work because we've upset you at least you will be cool with your new airconditioner.

Honestly.

I have pointed out the financial reasons why the UK cannot do what you propose and you went 'shrug, lack of ambition'

Shinyandnew1 · 24/06/2026 22:17

The problem with the UK is that we don’t get the extreme weather for very long so spending hundreds or thousands on things that you may only actually need for a week a year, is infeasible for many. Air conditioning, snow tyres etc

TempestTost · 24/06/2026 22:19

It's great to build so that homes and businesses are easy to heat and cool.

But if we are worried about climate change installing AC everywhere seems like a dumb approach.

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 22:21

DoesAnyoneRememberBoneyM · 24/06/2026 22:16

Oh well if you need to take tomorrow off work because we've upset you at least you will be cool with your new airconditioner.

Honestly.

I have pointed out the financial reasons why the UK cannot do what you propose and you went 'shrug, lack of ambition'

I've said upthread that I have a portable AC and solar panels. I'm not sure why you're obsessed with this, as it is completely irrelevant to the point of my thread. A point which continues to go over your head, time and again, which you've again demonstrated here.

As you have once again shown that you would rather be nasty than engage in good faith, I will no longer be engaging with you. It is a shame that some people feel the need to behave this way, and is an example of one of the problems with society today.

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JenniferBooth · 24/06/2026 22:22

DoesAnyoneRememberBoneyM · 24/06/2026 21:29

I'm pretty sure portable air conditioners work just as well in flats as houses. Hose out of window. Shut curtains and off you go.
Poor delivery man might have to lug it up a few flights of stairs if you don't have a lift but otherwise it's exactly the same.

And theres the assumption that i would order that from Amazon during a heatwave there is some stuff DH wants but hes leaving it till next week We dont all live life by your standards. And while im on the subject its not SH tenants who have contributed to the problem by driving massive SUVs and endless holidays to places like Dubai. So why the fuck should we sweat our guts out because of other peoples choices. I dont go abroad Last time was a school trip forty years ago. I dont drive and im child free by choice So i feel no guilt.

MasterBeth · 24/06/2026 22:22

TempestTost · 24/06/2026 22:19

It's great to build so that homes and businesses are easy to heat and cool.

But if we are worried about climate change installing AC everywhere seems like a dumb approach.

Why?

Sheismycherrypie · 24/06/2026 22:23

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 22:21

I've said upthread that I have a portable AC and solar panels. I'm not sure why you're obsessed with this, as it is completely irrelevant to the point of my thread. A point which continues to go over your head, time and again, which you've again demonstrated here.

As you have once again shown that you would rather be nasty than engage in good faith, I will no longer be engaging with you. It is a shame that some people feel the need to behave this way, and is an example of one of the problems with society today.

They’re not being nasty. They’re asking you to account for your idea that we should get everything we want if we (aka other cleverer or more hardworking people) are ‘ambitious’ enough. What’s your contribution to the world, out of interest?

JenniferBooth · 24/06/2026 22:23

NoisyViewer · 24/06/2026 21:33

Of course you should just get on with it. We live in the easiest and most convenient of times. How easy do you want your life to be. A little resilience goes a long way. A little discomfort is actually very healthy.

My stomach doesnt think so The heat exacerbates my bowel issues

DoesAnyoneRememberBoneyM · 24/06/2026 22:26

JenniferBooth · 24/06/2026 22:22

And theres the assumption that i would order that from Amazon during a heatwave there is some stuff DH wants but hes leaving it till next week We dont all live life by your standards. And while im on the subject its not SH tenants who have contributed to the problem by driving massive SUVs and endless holidays to places like Dubai. So why the fuck should we sweat our guts out because of other peoples choices. I dont go abroad Last time was a school trip forty years ago. I dont drive and im child free by choice So i feel no guilt.

I've never been to Dubai. Last hol was 2014 to Cornwall. I drive a tiny 'city' car and do less than 4000 miles per year. Not sure what that has got to do with anything. I'm childfree as well.

Confused as to your comment re Social housing. Do private houses not get hot then?

Also nobody said you had to live to my standards. If you don't want to buy an air conditioner then don't

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 22:26

Sheismycherrypie · 24/06/2026 22:23

They’re not being nasty. They’re asking you to account for your idea that we should get everything we want if we (aka other cleverer or more hardworking people) are ‘ambitious’ enough. What’s your contribution to the world, out of interest?

*However I've drafted a letter for you.

Dear IMF
When you come in to bail out the UK please do something about the hot summers before you address everything else.
The benefits office was very uncomfortable when I went to sign on for my free money.

Yours entitled non adult*

This is nasty.

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Sheismycherrypie · 24/06/2026 22:26

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 21:39

No it isn't.

Think about when the NHS was created. How many people must have said that creating national free healthcare was fantasy thinking.

Change takes ambition. Where's that gone? It's so sad. 'Making life better would be hard so let's not do it'

After WW2 we had many different taxes which redistributed wealth. This is how we paid for the NHS, social housing, and other initiatives that truly changed people's lives. Many of those taxes no longer exist, hence the huge increase in wealth disparity.

Yes and that all happened at a time when people died at 75, drew a pension for a maximum of 10 years, didn’t seek to expensively explore their ‘neurodiversity’ via the NHS and instead just expected it to fund braces, operations and some care in the community for much smaller and harder working population.

Now we insist upon getting far more, and holding public services to higher and higher account, but also want generous benefits, the ability to draw a pension for sometimes 30 years and free everything ‘because it’s ambitious’.

Surely you can see the difference?

JenniferBooth · 24/06/2026 22:26

NoisyViewer · 24/06/2026 21:44

Tbf we have no more than 10 days a year like this. The same in winter with the snow. It’s really is a waste of money to put infrastructure in place for every eventuality. If the government was to turn round now and suggest we had air con installed in all buildings etc I’d be really pissed off. We have a struggling nhs and just last week the defence secretary quit because we want spend money to protect the country in a time the world is in a very hostile state

We have already had a week at the end of May and this heat has been building since the 16th of June and is not due to end till Sunday.

SquirrelGG · 24/06/2026 22:27

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 19:37

What a strange post - to ignore my points about campaigning and unionising and imagine that the only alternative to 'just getting on with it' is to lay in bed and cry

What do you think other countries which have a bit of hot whether now and again do? They just "get on with it" - something you seem incapable of understanding. The whole world doesn't stop for a few days of hot weather.

JenniferBooth · 24/06/2026 22:29

NorthXNorthWest · 24/06/2026 21:29

@MasterBeth
I don't think you can compare them.

It can be true that the drought and heatwave of 1976 were more severe as a single period of time, while also being true that changing weather patterns are creating bigger long-term problems

Four or five really hot days are not the same as several weeks of sustained heat combined with a severe drought. In 1976, water use was restricted in parts of the country and some areas had major supply issues. Either one of those on their would have been challenging, but together... Lets ask the people of Kent about water shortages!

If we are comparing specific heatwaves, then 1976 remains the benchmark against which everything else is measured. If we are discussing broader weather patterns and long-term climate risks, then that is a whole different conversation altogether.

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Absolutely fucking right You cant compare them We didnt have ridiculous health and safety rules in 76 that turned flats into sweat boxes like window restrictors and fire doors No gaps allowed No ventilation.

MasterBeth · 24/06/2026 22:29

Sheismycherrypie · 24/06/2026 22:26

Yes and that all happened at a time when people died at 75, drew a pension for a maximum of 10 years, didn’t seek to expensively explore their ‘neurodiversity’ via the NHS and instead just expected it to fund braces, operations and some care in the community for much smaller and harder working population.

Now we insist upon getting far more, and holding public services to higher and higher account, but also want generous benefits, the ability to draw a pension for sometimes 30 years and free everything ‘because it’s ambitious’.

Surely you can see the difference?

What makes you say we used to have a harder working population? Do you have evidence for that or is it something else the Daily Telegraph fed you?

DoesAnyoneRememberBoneyM · 24/06/2026 22:30

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 22:21

I've said upthread that I have a portable AC and solar panels. I'm not sure why you're obsessed with this, as it is completely irrelevant to the point of my thread. A point which continues to go over your head, time and again, which you've again demonstrated here.

As you have once again shown that you would rather be nasty than engage in good faith, I will no longer be engaging with you. It is a shame that some people feel the need to behave this way, and is an example of one of the problems with society today.

You are right. I just assumed based on what you were posting that you were sweltering during the heatwave. Now it seems you aren't. What the heck are you posting about then?

Come back tomorrow and we can have a good faith discussion on the bond markets and the UK's ever increasing debt and how it gets out of the doom loop.

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 22:30

Sheismycherrypie · 24/06/2026 22:26

Yes and that all happened at a time when people died at 75, drew a pension for a maximum of 10 years, didn’t seek to expensively explore their ‘neurodiversity’ via the NHS and instead just expected it to fund braces, operations and some care in the community for much smaller and harder working population.

Now we insist upon getting far more, and holding public services to higher and higher account, but also want generous benefits, the ability to draw a pension for sometimes 30 years and free everything ‘because it’s ambitious’.

Surely you can see the difference?

At no point did I compare those two things. I gave an example of something which at the time was ambitious and difficult and yet was achieved. I made no comparison to the present day NHS, benefits system, or pension. As I said to PP, if you have to put words in my mouth then you clearly don't have a very good point yourself.

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SquirrelGG · 24/06/2026 22:31

MiniatureHouse · 24/06/2026 22:05

As an Aussie, those temps are just a warmer summer day.

What you all lack is the set up and experience to deal with it. You need to get a cooling system or find other ways to make the heat part of every day life. It's not going to get any better, so you'll have to adapt. I don't mean that belligerently, it's just a fact of life. Learn from the countries are that used to it.

I've been trying to say the same thing on several threads. However Brits seem to prefer sitting back and moaning rather than be pro-active and learn to adapt.

MiniatureHouse · 24/06/2026 22:31

SquirrelGG · 24/06/2026 22:27

What do you think other countries which have a bit of hot whether now and again do? They just "get on with it" - something you seem incapable of understanding. The whole world doesn't stop for a few days of hot weather.

We 'get on with it' because we have cooling systems installed, offices have cooling systems, we're ready for it. If your cooling isn't up to it, you can go to a mall for a reprieve (they're air conditioned) or go to a movie (always cool). But don't leave pets at home in the heat. Please watch the pets and cool them as you need to.

DoesAnyoneRememberBoneyM · 24/06/2026 22:32

JenniferBooth · 24/06/2026 22:23

My stomach doesnt think so The heat exacerbates my bowel issues

dear god, does the Prime minister know?

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