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AIBU to think school closures ignore parents' work commitments?

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OhNoItsThePinkyPonk · 23/06/2026 13:48

AIBU to think that the school doesn’t take much account of parents’ need to work? Primary school have just announced they won’t be opening for the rest of the week, but it’s OK because they’ll be sending us online work for us to do with the children, and whilst they are sorry they have had to cancel sports day we shouldn’t be too upset because they’ve have rescheduled it for a couple of weeks time. Like, I totally get they have to put the safety of the children first and if it’s too hot it’s too hot, but what do they think I’m
doing when the kids are at school, preparing beautiful dinners, ensuring the craft box is topped up, pining wistfully for the moment they come home? FFS, my job obviously comes second to my children and of course I’ll cancel planned surgeries and clinics where I need to. It’s not the emergency that bothers me, it’s the blasé way in which it’s communicated as though it’s a
minor inconvenience, not a major major f’ing headache with serious second and third order effects.

phew, that’s better. Now to go and get the little darlings…

OP posts:
verdetortuga · 23/06/2026 18:09

Do you think school staff aren’t parents? We are faced with the same issues as the rest of the working population! In some cases worse, because teachers and term time workers cannot just book a day off. So trust me, we understand what juggling childcare is like just as much as anybody else.

BurntBroccoli · 23/06/2026 18:11

gotmyselfintoapickle · 23/06/2026 14:04

The problem is, it would be very expensive are rarely needed. For example, there have been fewer than 10 days in the last 5 years where temps have exceeded 35 degrees. Obviously it's possible to plan for such temperatures but I don't think it's particularly surprising it hasn't felt like a priority given the infrequency of the problem.

Every new school needs to have solar on the roof installed and an AC system set up linked to that.

Also stop using so much glass in the architecture!

Matronic6 · 23/06/2026 18:12

I don't know why every time something like this happens people tend to question why the school doesn't consider the parents work and adapt by they question is never why don't employers consider childcare commitments?

Schools duty of care of care is to the children and staff not parents employees. Of course they know it's inconvenient for some parents. Remember that teachers are parents to and are well aware of the inconveniences of schools/nurseries closing. My school is staying open whilst my daughters nursery is closing at lunchtime and my DH is abroad for work until Saturday. I have zero family nearby, literally no one we can call on to help. That's a huge inconvenience for me. Luckily for me my school understands and is willing to make adjustments to accommodate parents in this position.

I think the work culture needs to change first.

EasternStandard · 23/06/2026 18:13

Bushmillsbabe · 23/06/2026 17:01

The problem with this, is suddenly half the children have keyworkers for parents. I remember during covid, when my girls were entitled to attend due to me being an nhs clinician - they could only have 8 in, but they had 15 asking so could only offer each child 2-3 days. No proof was asked for and parents openly boasted of lying, and some didn't even work!

It doesn’t need to be for key workers. Just those who opt to come in.

Sploon · 23/06/2026 18:14

User79853257976 · 23/06/2026 16:52

Why don’t you suggest they offer a key worker group? Most schools have at least one room with air con.

I get what you’re saying about work but yesterday there were people on here moaning about schools NOT closing.

I've never worked in a school with any AC. I'm in the Midlands and we've needed it every year for the past few years. There are at least 2 weeks every year where it's over 25 degrees in the classroom and it's obvious children's learning is affected. I think we've just all reached a stage of accepting schools are wholly inadequate instead of questioning why it's acceptable to put children in such buildings every day.

We had several complaints today about being open....

Owninterpreter · 23/06/2026 18:14

Muchtoomuchtodo · 23/06/2026 18:07

I think there needs to be some sort of Hub set up, like there was during Covid school closures.

Pick the coolest part of the school, there will be far fewer children than usual and just let them relax, watch films do craft etc.

I appreciate that schools aren’t childcare but for some people, taking time off at short notice just isn’t possible.

The trust i work for have sort have done that. Its basically you can go home at lunch, but if you cant we are open and can watch the children (including secondaries) then the hope is enough want to go home so its cooler for those left and they can go to places like library and hall. Im not a teacher so not sure if work is being set or it will be do your homework.

ConverselyAttired · 23/06/2026 18:15

MindYourMannersDarling · 23/06/2026 14:08

Tbf, my dcs' school did a whole "we would never do this lightly, extreme weather warning, safety of children and staff" type email

So did mine! They were very apologetic but I saw the state of my DS when he came out at 3 and the red alert hasn't even commenced. We also have the issue that a lot of the teachers have children at other schools so there was a bit of a domino effect.

Aweekoffwork · 23/06/2026 18:18

This didn’t happen in 1976 !
However, the schools were mainly old Victorian buildings that seemed to stay fairly cool

noworklifebalance · 23/06/2026 18:18

Haven’t read the full thread but… why do schools assume that homes are cooler than schools? And that children are aged at home in the heat than in schools?
Should there be an option of coming into school during the heatwave depending on what is more tolerable for the child, if safe guarding is the concern?

TimetoPour · 23/06/2026 18:19

School is not free childcare. If your child’s health is at risk, it is absolutely your job as a parent to keep them safe at home.

However, I do think it is a joke that in 2026 schools are so antiquated that children are having to go home. Of all the things we should be plugging money in to, it should be our future.

Icecreamandcoffee · 23/06/2026 18:25

Our school have offered optional early pick up after lunch every day this week. School is open and wrap around ect will function as normal. It was 35 degrees here at 2.30 this afternoon and has only just dropped to 33 degrees. They emailed yesterday afternoon at 2pm

There was a lot of scrambling around in our group chat last night for childcare swaps and playdate afternoons. Lots of parents are in the office today, Wednesday and Thursday and have mandatory office days. Others were WFH. My friend had booked a desk in the office to work as it had Aircon, another of my friends has mandatory days in the office. A few work for the NHS and prison services and cannot just drop or swap shifts with a days notice.

There were a lot of roped in grandparents, great grandparents and aunts and uncles at pick up today. Lots of parents picking up multiple friends children. According to my friend whose child had to stop due to no childcare there were 8 children this afternoon who stopped. She's currently frantically trying to get her family to cover Wednesday, Thursday and Friday as her child is very upset he was left at school and has come out of school very hot and uncomfortable.

I think the issue isn't the closing of schools for hot weather, it is the sheer lack of support network most parents have when they need to find childcare at very short notice. Lots of people live miles away from relatives. Barely anyone can afford a SAHP to cover something like this. Workplaces are only so flexible. There is very little to almost 0 term time childcare scheme parents can use at a moments notice. Whilst schools are not childcare, almost everyone and everything works on the assumption that a child will be in school Monday - Friday 8.30/ 9-3/ 3.30 during term time. With many schools offering wrap around to cover the 8am-5.30 core hours.

WimbyAce · 23/06/2026 18:32

I do understand if they close. However they can f off if they think I'm doing online learning with them, I will be working!

Marieb19 · 23/06/2026 18:34

But family homes don't have air-conditioning and they will be just as hot, if not hotter than the school (think 7th storey, 2 bed flat in Central London).

BatsInHibernation · 23/06/2026 18:34

GingerdeadMan · 23/06/2026 17:49

I found primary school communications were always appalling, and usually had that tone. It Grated. And it was always body last minute when the school must have known about key dates for months (although adverse weather doesn't come into that category).

Secondary was much better, they seem to appreciate that parents need to plan ahead.

Usually, all the key dates are on the school calendar on the website, which no-one ever checks, and then the short notice email is the reminder.

cardibach · 23/06/2026 18:35

LoveLite · 23/06/2026 18:07

I used to have a lot of respect for the profession. Until the pandemic. That destroyed my respect for a vocal minority in the profession.

You know nothing that happened in the pandemic was as a result of anything a teacher said, right? Plus we were trying to save your child’s life. Believe me, teaching in person is a fuck ton easier than online…

Sunshinemoonlightboogie · 23/06/2026 18:36

in a family home you have more options to cool your children down, cold baths/showers, paddling pools in the shade, lying down in the coolest room etc etc it’s not just about aircon! It’s about preventing heat stroke.

Sometimessmiling · 23/06/2026 18:38

Sartre · 23/06/2026 13:49

Totally agree and this country’s inability to deal with hot or cold weather is fucking ludicrous and needs fixing.

Teachers are educators not babysitters. Many parents seem to assume that

ThatJadeLion · 23/06/2026 18:39

Duvetdayforme · 23/06/2026 14:06

School isn’t childcare. If they feel they can’t safely stay open then that’s an end to it.

You will have to take leave.

👍🙄 I was waiting for this 🤣🤣

cardibach · 23/06/2026 18:41

Aweekoffwork · 23/06/2026 18:18

This didn’t happen in 1976 !
However, the schools were mainly old Victorian buildings that seemed to stay fairly cool

And it was neither as hot nor as humid. Totally different situation. The highest temperature in 1976 was 35.9 and that was a one off in one place (Cheltenham).

noblegiraffe · 23/06/2026 18:41

Marieb19 · 23/06/2026 18:34

But family homes don't have air-conditioning and they will be just as hot, if not hotter than the school (think 7th storey, 2 bed flat in Central London).

My home is definitely not hotter than my classroom, and my home doesn't contain 30 sweaty kids who are meant to be learning Pythagoras.

At home, my kids can flop on the sofa, stick their feet in a basin of water, eat an ice lolly and basically do fuck-all. No one is forcing them to pretend that any worthwhile learning is taking place.

cardibach · 23/06/2026 18:42

noworklifebalance · 23/06/2026 18:18

Haven’t read the full thread but… why do schools assume that homes are cooler than schools? And that children are aged at home in the heat than in schools?
Should there be an option of coming into school during the heatwave depending on what is more tolerable for the child, if safe guarding is the concern?

Edited

Homes don't have 32 teenagers packed into small rooms with no blinds and non opening windows usually.

ThatJadeLion · 23/06/2026 18:42

Sometimessmiling · 23/06/2026 18:38

Teachers are educators not babysitters. Many parents seem to assume that

If there is no childcare..... Sorry wrong word.. education.. how does the average family pay their bills, as lets be honest two parents have to work in most areas of employment now just to pay bills. School is education but it also acts as childcare allowing parents to work and contribute to society!

Butt3rButt3r · 23/06/2026 18:49

ThatJadeLion · 23/06/2026 18:42

If there is no childcare..... Sorry wrong word.. education.. how does the average family pay their bills, as lets be honest two parents have to work in most areas of employment now just to pay bills. School is education but it also acts as childcare allowing parents to work and contribute to society!

Ok so then you can pay for air con in said childcare as kids and staff getting ill due to overheating is totally unacceptable and not going to be tolerated however much you want it to be.

ThatJadeLion · 23/06/2026 18:51

Butt3rButt3r · 23/06/2026 18:49

Ok so then you can pay for air con in said childcare as kids and staff getting ill due to overheating is totally unacceptable and not going to be tolerated however much you want it to be.

I don't think there's many homes that have air con 😂. It's hot at school... oh wait.. it's hot at home too. How are people coping in hospitals and care homes? Not much choice there. If some parents don't work, they lose their pay, they may also lose their job.

AuntCatherine · 23/06/2026 18:53

DeadSpace3 · 23/06/2026 14:41

Schools exist to educate children, not provide unpaid daycare.

Edited

Who do you think fund the schools if not working parents?