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AIBU to think school closures ignore parents' work commitments?

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OhNoItsThePinkyPonk · 23/06/2026 13:48

AIBU to think that the school doesn’t take much account of parents’ need to work? Primary school have just announced they won’t be opening for the rest of the week, but it’s OK because they’ll be sending us online work for us to do with the children, and whilst they are sorry they have had to cancel sports day we shouldn’t be too upset because they’ve have rescheduled it for a couple of weeks time. Like, I totally get they have to put the safety of the children first and if it’s too hot it’s too hot, but what do they think I’m
doing when the kids are at school, preparing beautiful dinners, ensuring the craft box is topped up, pining wistfully for the moment they come home? FFS, my job obviously comes second to my children and of course I’ll cancel planned surgeries and clinics where I need to. It’s not the emergency that bothers me, it’s the blasé way in which it’s communicated as though it’s a
minor inconvenience, not a major major f’ing headache with serious second and third order effects.

phew, that’s better. Now to go and get the little darlings…

OP posts:
cardibach · Today 15:19

JenniferBooth · Today 15:14

Watching Vanessa on channel 5 +1 A schoolgirl was sent home for refusing to wear tights in a heatwave and ended up missing a mock exam. Like i said the UK is fucked.

While it’s utterly stupid that schools have such inflexible clothing rules, missing a mock exam has no consequences at all. She can take it when she’s next in. It’s a school thing.

JenniferBooth · Today 15:22

cardibach · Today 15:19

While it’s utterly stupid that schools have such inflexible clothing rules, missing a mock exam has no consequences at all. She can take it when she’s next in. It’s a school thing.

Its a common sense thing

noblegiraffe · Today 15:25

JenniferBooth · Today 15:14

Watching Vanessa on channel 5 +1 A schoolgirl was sent home for refusing to wear tights in a heatwave and ended up missing a mock exam. Like i said the UK is fucked.

While that school is clearly run by bellends, they're not representative of England where most are in PE kit or even closed.

cardibach · Today 15:38

JenniferBooth · Today 15:22

Its a common sense thing

Well yes. I said the clothing rule was stupid. What I’m saying is that missing a mock is neither here nor there. Just to put everyone’s mind at rest.

JenniferBooth · Today 15:44

Its the Co op Academy Manchester

Thechaseison71 · Today 15:46

cardibach · Today 15:18

Well that’s why the school needs to know whose parents say they are ok to miss school. This isn’t about going home at the end of the school day. During the school day the school is responsible for them. They need to know which parents have effectively ‘taken their child out’ (even if the child has walked out alone as they would at the end of the day) so they know which ones the parents have picked up responsibility for. Those who are missing without that permission need their parents to be told, otherwise the school is allowing them to do those risky things without parental involvement. It’s not hard to see why that’s important.

Risky things? If you are talking from the quoted post then those things were done at school

EasternStandard · Today 15:51

JenniferBooth · Today 15:14

Watching Vanessa on channel 5 +1 A schoolgirl was sent home for refusing to wear tights in a heatwave and ended up missing a mock exam. Like i said the UK is fucked.

Why are they so inflexible? That’s nuts

cardibach · Today 15:52

Thechaseison71 · Today 15:46

Risky things? If you are talking from the quoted post then those things were done at school

I meant the river, obviously. And other risky behaviour that can, and does, lead to serious injury and death.

rainbowstardrops · Today 15:52

The infant school near to me (that I worked at for nearly 15 years) closed yesterday and today.
School staff have been in today but not the children. Next door shoved their kids out into their paddling pool late morning today.
It’s bloody madness. We’re not inner London (we’re in a coastal town) and I have 100% worked in these conditions before with the children in school.
Yes, it was absolutely shit but we’re not inland where it’s even worse than here.

MrsMurphyIWish · Today 16:53

noblegiraffe · Today 15:25

While that school is clearly run by bellends, they're not representative of England where most are in PE kit or even closed.

True. There are 6 secondary schools in a 4 mile radius to where I live (including the one I teach at). A parent on my local community page was ranting that her daughter was sent to isolation for wearing PE kit as the 'relaxed' uniform was just no blazer and tie. The rest of our schools has PE rule. There are crap schools out - I wish parents could not tar us all with the same brush.

cranberryhaddock · Today 17:12

laurini · 23/06/2026 14:31

It is childcare. Literally almost everyone uses it as childcare.

School is to educate. Childcare arrangements are for the parents to sort out. Very entitled imo to view school as childcare and demand that it remain open for such purposes, as some posters have been doing.

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