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Childminder wants to close at 1pm for the rest of the week

420 replies

SweatySpider321 · 23/06/2026 13:32

Woke to a text from my childminder, announcing due to the weather we need to try to collect our children at 1pm for the rest of the week -530pm is the usual finish time. I’m not even a week into a new job and my husband has no leave left (mainly due to covering her annual leave). It’s not in our contract and it’s funded hours we use with her

OP posts:
99bottlesofkombucha · 24/06/2026 08:51

Whatthefork1 · 24/06/2026 08:45

Whilst I see it very annoying, I can also understand the predicament childminders, schools, nurseries are in. They HAVE to follow health and safety and do the risk assessments. A red weather warning means “danger to life” and so as a professional setting they have to follow guidelines.

My children’s nursery is open til 12.30pm only all week. It is just one of those things we have to suck up and deal with unfortunately.

For those asking what the difference is between being at the childminders vs being at home. The difference is that she is a professional and has to follow guidelines, we as parents do not.

but it’s not red, it’s going to be 32. That’s not danger to life.

BCSurvivor · 24/06/2026 08:52

''All she has to do is sit in her house, fans on, AC on, draw the curtains, ice lollies, cold drinks, cartoons on. It’s not rocket science.''

@SurelyNotShirley is that seriously your opinion of a childminder's job???
Hugely disrespectful and - quite frankly - patronising.

Cosyblankets · 24/06/2026 08:53

Whatthefork1 · 24/06/2026 08:45

Whilst I see it very annoying, I can also understand the predicament childminders, schools, nurseries are in. They HAVE to follow health and safety and do the risk assessments. A red weather warning means “danger to life” and so as a professional setting they have to follow guidelines.

My children’s nursery is open til 12.30pm only all week. It is just one of those things we have to suck up and deal with unfortunately.

For those asking what the difference is between being at the childminders vs being at home. The difference is that she is a professional and has to follow guidelines, we as parents do not.

There is no red warning where she is

LassitersLegend · 24/06/2026 08:54

Only 26 and she's closing?! The school I work at was 34 yesterday and we didn't close, you definitely need a new childminder.

SpeckledFrog321 · 24/06/2026 09:01

Also please remember if you want to be THAT parent then the childminder can very easily find a family that doesn't behave that way. They don't have to care for your child

Kitte321 · 24/06/2026 09:01

mrsbowes · 23/06/2026 14:12

Parents mostly don't pay anything any more. My LA are still paying funding to settings deciding to close early during the heatwave.

Keeping multiple small children safe in a hot house when there is a red risk to life warning is a big responsibility and if she doesn't feel it's safe then she's right to close.

Are you for real? Your statement is grossly inaccurate, and hugely annoyingly.
”parents don’t pay for anything” 🤦‍♀️
Well, my £1200 nursery bill, for 4 days childcare must have been a nightmare.
It certainly feels like it.

ViolettaScrambler · 24/06/2026 09:03

My childminders done the same. Told us she wants our son collected at 2.30 today and tomorrow as she wants to collect her teenage daughters ‘who don’t do well in the heat.’ It’s not like her girls have to usually walk home, they go on a school bus anyway which is running as normal so I’m really stumped as to why they need to be collected at the detriment of my partner and I working! We can’t get out of work early either other than in illness circumstances.

Kitte321 · 24/06/2026 09:04

BCSurvivor · 24/06/2026 08:44

I think you're showing very little respect to your childminder,tbh.
Of course it's short notice - as it is with school closures, nursery closures etc.

But - you do you.

Why? No Schools are closing where I live (same for the OP). There is no red warning.
There is no justification to shut. None.
This is ridiculous and why the productivity gap in the UK is so wide.

Leapfrog84 · 24/06/2026 09:14

A lot of childminders advertise as being a preferred option to a nursery as they provided a home-from-home environment. Therefore there shouldn’t be any difference to safety in these conditions regardless of whether the children are at the childminder’s house or your house.
I would be concerned about her inability to be able to adapt.
I would also be looking for a different childminder as I would be worried about how frequently she will expect you to drop everything and pick up early.

Boomer55 · 24/06/2026 09:17

RedToothBrush · 23/06/2026 15:51

Actually what humans are better at than that is making a drama over something we should just deal with on a day to day basis and then separate that from bigger more complex issues that need an adequate governmental level response.

This. A few precautions is all that’s needed. I’m in a red area - everything is operating normally.

Daisylea · 24/06/2026 09:17

Ilovemychocolate · 24/06/2026 08:28

That’s a dreadful insinuation, and an insult to childminders everywhere!

It was a valid question. Given that this particular childminder is a proven liar, it is fair enough to ask.

Asuperblyfeauturedroomandexcellentboiledpotatoes · 24/06/2026 09:24

daffodilandtulip · 24/06/2026 08:48

No but if the child gets ill, or sleeps in a room above regulation temperatures, there are more repercussions for the childminder than the parent.

Nobody is calling teachers, road workers and bin men a cheeky cow.

I am

sprinklesomeglitter · 24/06/2026 09:25

I’m a childminder and yesterday our LA sent us an email encouraging all childminder settings to close and on the email it says that no-one will loose any funding if they choose to close and they won’t ask for it to be repaid back.
after this email was sent most of the Childminders in my local area announced they were closing on our childminding forum so I guess that when they “got permission” it was an easy decision for them!

I chose to stay open as my house will be the same temp as their houses, I have my own little one here too so I’m keeping her cool just as much as the other little ones and most of Chilminding parents are super busy at work at the moment.
however I’m in good health and so is my baby - if there was a health issue with us I would probably close so maybe your childminder has a health issue?

also there’s a lot of info being sent to us about safe sleep (do to recent deaths of babies) so maybe some childminders are worried their houses will be too hot for safe sleep?

its tricky! I have parents whose older children are off school today but they sent their babies to me (and rightly so as I’m open) but they can work with their older children at home, it’s harder to work with babies around which is why I chose to stay open.

its annoying though for you! Especially with no notice at all!!

Kerry242 · 24/06/2026 09:29

OP has stated repeatedly, multiple times through the thread - their area is NOT under the red warning.

Kerry242 · 24/06/2026 09:32

Boomer55 · 24/06/2026 09:17

This. A few precautions is all that’s needed. I’m in a red area - everything is operating normally.

I'm in the red area and everything is most certainly not operating as normal.

Hibernatingsloth · 24/06/2026 09:32

Daisylea · 24/06/2026 09:17

It was a valid question. Given that this particular childminder is a proven liar, it is fair enough to ask.

"Proven liar"
You've got one side of a story, which OP drip fed in on a later post.

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 24/06/2026 09:53

jibjibb · 23/06/2026 13:41

I think thats fair enough for the childminders/ Both my kids schools are shut wed & thur and she may not have air con in her house.

Most people don't have aircon in their houses!! She needs to get some fans, it's ridiculous.

selondon28 · 24/06/2026 10:08

I’m not agreeing with it at all, but even if none of the schools in your area have closed, I’d be very surprised if they aren’t offering early pick up, and your childminder is following suit. Our school wasn’t planning to and then they got some quite heavy heavily worded memos come through for the department for education that spooked them, and your childminder will perhaps have been privy to that kind of thing through early years support, so they do feel under pressure to offer that option. So it isn’t necessarily that she just wants to sit in the garden, but that she’s worrying about doing the right thing by the children and parents, because our school has had just as many parents complaining about early pick up as they’ve had parents calling and shouting at them for not closing. And this is clearly an extraordinary few days, so I wouldn’t assume she is workshy and it will be a pattern for the whole summer.

BridgetJonesV2 · 24/06/2026 10:09

One of our staff had to leave early at 3pm yesterday as their childminder phoned him to say his little girl was utterly inconsolable with the heat and could he collect her.

Elbreth · 24/06/2026 10:16

mrsbowes · 23/06/2026 15:39

Surely you shouldn't be taking children to your house unless you are a registered childminder?

My goodness, can people really not read any more? Obviously she means the house of one of the families she works for. Unless you think she specifically went out and bought another house to work as a nanny in? Read it again.

Elbreth · 24/06/2026 10:17

Hibernatingsloth · 24/06/2026 09:32

"Proven liar"
You've got one side of a story, which OP drip fed in on a later post.

That's silly. Not everything that is not mentioned in an initial post is automatically a drip feed.

Daisylea · 24/06/2026 10:21

Hibernatingsloth · 24/06/2026 09:32

"Proven liar"
You've got one side of a story, which OP drip fed in on a later post.

On MN we only ever get one side of a story. If you are going to disbelieve everything a poster says, there is not much point of being on the board really.

mrsbowes · 24/06/2026 10:22

Elbreth · 24/06/2026 10:16

My goodness, can people really not read any more? Obviously she means the house of one of the families she works for. Unless you think she specifically went out and bought another house to work as a nanny in? Read it again.

today we have come to my house for paddling pool/sprinkler fun and indoor play
She can't work from her house unless registered as a childminder.

ByPinkOP · 24/06/2026 10:25

jibjibb · 23/06/2026 13:41

I think thats fair enough for the childminders/ Both my kids schools are shut wed & thur and she may not have air con in her house.

There is a huge difference between a school and a nursery and, even more so, a childminder setting. 30 kids sitting baking in a classroom is not the same as younger children settings where there are substantially fewer children and more flexibility around activities etc.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 24/06/2026 10:28

BCSurvivor · 23/06/2026 20:47

''Your husband should take dependent's leave since you're a week into a new job.''

''That probably won’t be paid either. Plus once it’s used up it’s gone, it should be used for something illness / accidents not my childminder feels a bit sweaty.''

OP, you really don't seem to have any respect for childminders and the valuable service they provide.
Or the extreme weather guidelines they have to follow.

Please don't be THAT PARENT, who disregards the 1pm requested pickup and rocks up at 5pm regardless, because you feel your job is far more important than that of your childminder.

She shouldn't advertise as a full-time childcare service if she isn't full-time. Dropping days whenever she feels like it isn't how childcare works.

You either do it for your advertised hours OR you amend them and watch your regulars move to a nursery/someone reliable.

A top temperature of 26 is just a warm day. What next? Cancelled due to rain?

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