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Childminder wants to close at 1pm for the rest of the week

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SweatySpider321 · 23/06/2026 13:32

Woke to a text from my childminder, announcing due to the weather we need to try to collect our children at 1pm for the rest of the week -530pm is the usual finish time. I’m not even a week into a new job and my husband has no leave left (mainly due to covering her annual leave). It’s not in our contract and it’s funded hours we use with her

OP posts:
PetuniaT · 24/06/2026 20:27

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 24/06/2026 19:41

Can I ask have you read OPs posts? Have you read what the temperature was today, and what it’s predicted to be tomorrow? Have you seen where she’s written which colour warning her area has? If you haven’t read OPs posts I suggest you do, or you can ask me and I’ll copy and paste the relevant bits here if you want.

Yes I have read OP's posts but must admit I got a bit fed up after the 1st six or seven pages of them. So "entitled" - new job, husband has no leave left, lots of face-to-face meetings etc etc. She must be so important! I wonder how it would be if the roles were reversed. Like I said before - it's double standards

Theworldsgonemadagain · 24/06/2026 20:29

CaesarAugusta · 23/06/2026 15:58

OP has fully complied with her responsibility by arranging for paid child care with an accredited childminder. It's not down to any failure of responsibility on her part that that childminder is unprofessional and fancies an afternoon off.

If the childminder is unable to provide her services due to a red heat alert of course it's ops responsibility to pick her child up. Thousands of parents have had to pick kids up early from schools and nursery's due to the heatwave. We just pick them up and get on with it. These things happen it's not anyone's fault it's 35degrees.

Theworldsgonemadagain · 24/06/2026 20:31

Livpool · 24/06/2026 10:33

This is why I used a nursery when DS was young. With childminders you are at the whim of one person.

Nursery's were closing early round here just like schools.

Daisylea · 24/06/2026 20:35

PetuniaT · 24/06/2026 20:27

Yes I have read OP's posts but must admit I got a bit fed up after the 1st six or seven pages of them. So "entitled" - new job, husband has no leave left, lots of face-to-face meetings etc etc. She must be so important! I wonder how it would be if the roles were reversed. Like I said before - it's double standards

Have you ever worked?

eastegg · 24/06/2026 21:00

operationplaytime · 23/06/2026 15:01

The problem here is the ‘danger to life’ warnings being pushed out which causes unnecessary panic.

Somebody working in a manual job in direct sunlight all day then yes fair enough, that’s risky.

But a childminder can literally stay indoors, put fans on, stick tv/films on, draw the curtains. There is no justification for closing so early! She’s jumping on the school bandwagon but she isn’t stuck in a classroom with 30 kids. She’s in a completely different situation and is being utterly ridiculous.

She just can’t be arsed!

Yes I agree. Bandwagon- jumping extraordinaire. ‘Danger to life’ doesn’t mean danger to life full stop. That would be a meaningless warning because how would you be expected to proceed with anything. It obviously means a danger to life of doing certain activities.

Blondeshavemorefun · 24/06/2026 21:29

Your cm is mad and I would look for another one but know easily said then done

but also for her lies previously

south east here. Temps of 34*. Today was really hot. Even for me and I love the sun. Still managed to sunbath for a bit

mini blondes school is open. Can wear pe kit.

what happened today @SweatySpider321 did you pick up at 530 as normal

moodymoo · 24/06/2026 22:13

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 24/06/2026 13:40

@TreadSoftlyOnMyDreams Be warned, she's quite likely to say your child has vomited from the heat and you have to pick up anyway

I was also thinking this. And she has done it before.

I would be more concerned that she will have seen this thread and gives OP notice……!

It’s quite clear that the working relationship between OP and her childminder has broken down and I’m at a loss why OP is keeping her child at this setting given how she speaks about her. I appreciate she’s previously lied about the child being ill but OP chose to continue to keep her children there, she can’t keep throwing that back at her.

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 24/06/2026 22:32

@PetuniaT To me it sounds like she's doing the right thing as she doesn't want to be responsible for the health of other peoples' kids during the heatwave. Given how many people on other threads yesterday were bemoaning about having to go to work during a Red Heat Heath Warning it seems like double standards OP is not in a Red Weather Warning area so this is nothing to do with the childminder’s decision to not work. Today according to the BBC their area was 30 and tomorrow is 26, but I know that you’re aware of that already because you read all of OPs posts.

and

Yes I have read OP's posts but must admit I got a bit fed up after the 1st six or seven pages of them. So "entitled" - new job, husband has no leave left, lots of face-to-face meetings etc etc. She must be so important! I wonder how it would be if the roles were reversed. Like I said before - it's double standards You have chosen to have ‘six or seven pages’ by not utilising the settings and getting the thread put into fewer pages. Is OP entitled to expect the childminder to follow the legal contract that the childminder signed? Yes, OP is entitled to that. And ‘she must be so important!’ again, you know this because you have read all OPs posts, she and her husband work with ‘vulnerable and at risk individuals, that if we don’t work with them this week old have serious repercussions’ and I believe she also said ‘think police/mental health/probation type work’.

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 24/06/2026 22:35

Theworldsgonemadagain · 24/06/2026 20:29

If the childminder is unable to provide her services due to a red heat alert of course it's ops responsibility to pick her child up. Thousands of parents have had to pick kids up early from schools and nursery's due to the heatwave. We just pick them up and get on with it. These things happen it's not anyone's fault it's 35degrees.

I honestly don’t know if you’re all trolling me or not.

OP has stated neither she nor the childminder is in a Red Weather Alert area.

And they are forecast 26 tomorrow.

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 24/06/2026 22:39

moodymoo · 24/06/2026 22:13

I would be more concerned that she will have seen this thread and gives OP notice……!

It’s quite clear that the working relationship between OP and her childminder has broken down and I’m at a loss why OP is keeping her child at this setting given how she speaks about her. I appreciate she’s previously lied about the child being ill but OP chose to continue to keep her children there, she can’t keep throwing that back at her.

OP has been looking for other childcare some of it has 18 month waiting lists. Some are so full they don’t maintain a list.

It’s all there in OPs posts.

@SweatySpider321 I dont know why you bothered putting all the information in your posts because no fecker is reading it. Well, some are. But lots aren’t.

Allonthesametrain · 24/06/2026 22:49

I think she's jumped on the bandwagon of too hot to look after children. What's the difference from having say 6 of your own kids to looking after others?

Wants to get paid but not do the work due to SM hype. It's not tropical indoors, it's cooler 😎

Allonthesametrain · 24/06/2026 22:51

NuffSaidSam · 24/06/2026 19:13

Of course she doesn't want to be running after small children in this heat, but that's her job! I'm sure nurses and policeman and bus drivers and carers and cleaners and everyone else also don't want to be at work, but they have to....because that's their job!

Exactly! We just get on with it in a professional nature and not bow down to media hype.

moodymoo · 24/06/2026 23:40

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 24/06/2026 22:39

OP has been looking for other childcare some of it has 18 month waiting lists. Some are so full they don’t maintain a list.

It’s all there in OPs posts.

@SweatySpider321 I dont know why you bothered putting all the information in your posts because no fecker is reading it. Well, some are. But lots aren’t.

And as I said she needs to be careful her childminder doesn’t see this thread and give her notice given she’s struggled to find any alternative childcare!

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 24/06/2026 23:44

moodymoo · 24/06/2026 23:40

And as I said she needs to be careful her childminder doesn’t see this thread and give her notice given she’s struggled to find any alternative childcare!

True.

Okiedokie123 · 25/06/2026 02:48

jibjibb · 23/06/2026 13:50

again, Lots of people have bought portable air con units over the last years

Sadly yes. Air con units are part of the problem not the solution. Literally making our planet hotter.

And it’s “only” forecast to be 29 c where the op lives. It was 34 here today and tomorrow. So hot I’ve struggled to work and have felt unwell. But like most people I’ve continued with my job as normal. So should a childminder if at all possible. Lots of drinks, indoor activities, stories etc. They’ll be just as fine as they would be at home.

daffodilandtulip · 25/06/2026 11:20

pouletvous · 24/06/2026 19:57

Start looking for a nursery. You will get a more reliable service

There’s more nurseries closed in our area than childminders.

FckThisShit · 25/06/2026 11:36

daffodilandtulip · 25/06/2026 11:20

There’s more nurseries closed in our area than childminders.

You can't possibly know that.

2to5 · 25/06/2026 20:35

I usually defend chilminders as it is a difficult job and I can understand her not providing a full range of activities due to the heat and children being overtired but not closing! , only reason i can think is that it would be a difficult/ hot school run and would rather not take them out in the sun.
I would reply and say 1pm is not possible but will try get as early as work allows.

EvieBB · 25/06/2026 23:13

jibjibb · 23/06/2026 13:47

Who could blame her?

Both my kids schools have closed.

I'd avoid going outside in this heat if at all possible....can't be doing with it....unless I can dip in a pool/on holiday :)

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 26/06/2026 08:15

EvieBB · 25/06/2026 23:13

I'd avoid going outside in this heat if at all possible....can't be doing with it....unless I can dip in a pool/on holiday :)

Not everywhere in the UK is having a heatwave.

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