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AIBU to think the Weasleys were not actually poor?

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Jane379 · 21/06/2026 16:40

With the HBO show coming up I've been rereading the books and on several forums discussing them I've noted people describing the Weasleys as poor, saying they're a good portrayal of a poor family etc
I'd seen this before and assumed I must have missed those details but rereading (although not fully finished the series yet), they don't strike me as particularly poor. They have 7 kids which means money is tighter, Ron has hand me downs etc but overall they seem comfortable. Arthur has a steady job, Molly is a SAHM - presumably if they were really in financial trouble she would get a paid job too. A lot of families might find 7 kids financially tricky, rely on hand me downs etc, not holiday abroad much but is that necessarily poor?

I will say my own experience growing up with a single mother in fairly low-paid work was that we did scrimp on various things including holidays (which we never did when I was a child), but we could always afford good enough food, necessary clothes, had a warm house & books etc that I wanted (living in a place with good libraries and various cheaper services helped). A bit like Ron, I went to a school where a lot of people were much more well-off, but I'd never have considered myself poor. That would have felt insulting given far too many people (even more now) lack money for essentials or have enough for basics but not much else.

AIBU?

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JennyForeigner · 22/06/2026 07:25

Rosiemate · 21/06/2026 17:06

YABU to care this much about the financial status of a fictional family. It’s ridiculous.

That's how we want you Muggles to think.

Jane379 · 22/06/2026 13:32

ChocolateApples · 21/06/2026 21:44

I think there are a couple of things going on.

I)HP obviously owes a lot to the Enid Blyton era boarding school, and while sort of set in around 1997, in some ways is set a bit earlier. Part of that is the lack of working mothers, another part of that is the patching up of old clothes in a way that is possibly a bit reminiscent of perhaps the 50s.

II) There are plenty of families who don't set much store by buying the latest clothes etc. We weren't poor growing up in the 90s, money has to be spent carefully and fashion wasn't particularly something my parents considered it worth spending money on. Certainly in primary school I had relatively few clothes and a lot were second hand. My mum worked but certain aspects of The Burrow don't feel massively unfamiliar to me.

Agree with all of this!

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Jane379 · 22/06/2026 13:34

JennyForeigner · 22/06/2026 07:25

That's how we want you Muggles to think.

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Jane379 · 22/06/2026 13:35

PyongyangKipperbang · 21/06/2026 22:49

I think I could live with that level of poor!

Definitely!

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Jane379 · 22/06/2026 13:38

Sartre · 22/06/2026 06:52

This is a funny chat! Once the kids were all at Hogwarts she should have got a cleaning job there or a job in retail on Diagon Alley.

I always thought they were old money but now I’m thinking about it, Ron in particular has the East London accent and they’re portrayed as being quite low class so not sure. The house and whimsical nature of the family is giving old money for sure.

Hang on...when you mention the accent do you mean Rupert Grint in the films or is the accent mentioned in the books?

I expect JKR would probably have corrected the film accent if it was wrong...but then there were other inconsistencies.

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Sartre · 22/06/2026 14:08

Jane379 · 22/06/2026 13:38

Hang on...when you mention the accent do you mean Rupert Grint in the films or is the accent mentioned in the books?

I expect JKR would probably have corrected the film accent if it was wrong...but then there were other inconsistencies.

Yes I mean Rupert. It’s many years since I’ve either read the books or watched the films so can’t comment on how JK depicted his accent. Does she describe them merely as poor or lower class? I think in the films they’re very much mocked for being lower class which is odd given the dad’s job, would we define this as working class?

MagpiePi · 22/06/2026 14:17

Jane379 · 21/06/2026 17:03

Also, I think it's worth noting that probably at least in the late 90s when the first books were written, travelling abroad on holiday was probably a bit less common than now, though budget airlines were also expanding in the late 90s.

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Are you thinking of the 1890s, because foreign travel in the 1990s was nothing unusual. Package holidays to Spain started being popular in the 60s and 70s and were probably cheaper than they are today when you’ve added on all the extras to a budget airline flight.
Even if you didn’t go on a package it was easy to travel. My parents had a disastrous, wet and cold holiday in Norfolk when i was about 2 back in 1969 and we went on foreign holidays every year after that.

HelenaWaiting · 22/06/2026 14:19

No, they aren't poor, largely because they are fictional characters.

Jane379 · 22/06/2026 15:47

Rosiemate · 22/06/2026 06:07

No. I love the books. To me it seems that it is you who are operating at surface level, needing to be told every tiny irrelevant detail rather than focusing on the words, behaviour and overall personality of each character. Shakespeare managed to create wonderful, complex characters without us knowing precisely how much money Othello or Hamlet or Lady Macbeth had.

We’ll just have to disagree.

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I sort of agree but otoh novels (series especially) now generally create more backstory as they have more space to do so, aren't only dialogue etc. Also rightly or wrongly, JKR has built quite a detailed world, done extra books like the Fantastic Beasts one, (though not in the way Tolkien etc did) so it makes sense people wonder about minutiae.

I do agree that details like this aren't crucial or anything but they still can be fun to discuss...

To me, it's more that several people on forums I'd seen seemed to see the Weasleys as 'poor' in Muggle terms, which I'm not convinced by- also, it's interesting to think whether 'wizarding poor' is measured differently compared to 'Muggle poor'.

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Jane379 · 22/06/2026 15:54

Sartre · 22/06/2026 14:08

Yes I mean Rupert. It’s many years since I’ve either read the books or watched the films so can’t comment on how JK depicted his accent. Does she describe them merely as poor or lower class? I think in the films they’re very much mocked for being lower class which is odd given the dad’s job, would we define this as working class?

I think it's more having less money than lower class. The Malfoys are presumably snobby because they are a bit shorter on money: but also isn't it because they're seen as a Muggle-lovers, although they're pureblood?

I don't think Ron's accent is described in the books.

I think I once read an interview with the actress who played Ginny where she said she grew up in a 'working class family like the Weasleys'. Unless I'm misremembering, this did seem a bit of an odd claim as Mr Weasley's civil service job as you say isn't working class.

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Thesummer · 22/06/2026 15:54

Laiste · 21/06/2026 17:02

I can't really get past the fact that they're magic users so could just magic up what they need ?

Clearly you aren't aware of Gamp's law of Elemental Transfiguration. I suggest you repeat your final year at Hogwarts.

Jane379 · 22/06/2026 18:48

EverybodyLTB · 21/06/2026 21:10

Don’t think so, although as pp just said, the world doesn’t really hold up for various reasons. I mean, even the way Harry is unable to do basic first aid (which is slinging a bottle of dittany at something) never makes much sense. They can barely do anything you’d expect for their ages/world and make what for some wizards is basic, seem impossible. What were they doing in those hundreds of lessons? Like you’re telling me Lupin wasn’t clever enough to get the hang of the Wolfsbane potion and only Snape could make it? When they’re travelling in Deathly Hallows, there were loads of things they could have done to make life easier and it never seemed to occur to them. When Ted Tonks did ‘accio’ to salmon on the riverbank, nobody seemed to be blinded by the realisation they should have been doing that all along 😂

Once they realised house elves could come and go from anywhere, why didn’t they summon Kreacher to help them? It’s definitely not high fantasy, or high literature really at all. It’s an extremely mild Bildungsroman that fits in a tonne of tired tropes. Philip Pullman is a genius in comparison to JKR, but her accessibility and sheer expanse of the wizarding world seems to tick a lot of boxes for people.

I agree with a lot of this..this one though: 'Like you’re telling me Lupin wasn’t clever enough to get the hang of the Wolfsbane potion and only Snape could make it?'

  • making that potion does seem to be quite specialised though. Lupin isn't a potion expert, Snape is.

I love His Dark Materials but I appreciate Harry Potter a lot - I don't think JKR's ever claimed the write high literature or endorsed more exaggerated fan claims about literary value.

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MagpiePi · 23/06/2026 11:04

I was always slightly confused about how little interaction the wizarding community had with the muggle world and how little they seemed to know about it.

EverybodyLTB · 23/06/2026 13:48

Jane379 · 22/06/2026 18:48

I agree with a lot of this..this one though: 'Like you’re telling me Lupin wasn’t clever enough to get the hang of the Wolfsbane potion and only Snape could make it?'

  • making that potion does seem to be quite specialised though. Lupin isn't a potion expert, Snape is.

I love His Dark Materials but I appreciate Harry Potter a lot - I don't think JKR's ever claimed the write high literature or endorsed more exaggerated fan claims about literary value.

No you’re right re Lupin not being a skilled potion maker, but if it changed your whole life, you’d be very focused on getting that potion every month. Even if, when not at Hogwarts, they came to some kind of agreement via Dumbledore. Just seems madness that his whole life is shit because he can only have that potion if he’s physically working at the school. Could even Slughorn not have sent him a few bottles every month, if Snape was too unkind to do it? Then Lupin could have got a job and paid for it at some stage. There’s a lot of things that they just sort of trudge along with and accept that makes no sense to me to not find a solution.

Mystifyingly · 23/06/2026 20:45

EverybodyLTB · 23/06/2026 13:48

No you’re right re Lupin not being a skilled potion maker, but if it changed your whole life, you’d be very focused on getting that potion every month. Even if, when not at Hogwarts, they came to some kind of agreement via Dumbledore. Just seems madness that his whole life is shit because he can only have that potion if he’s physically working at the school. Could even Slughorn not have sent him a few bottles every month, if Snape was too unkind to do it? Then Lupin could have got a job and paid for it at some stage. There’s a lot of things that they just sort of trudge along with and accept that makes no sense to me to not find a solution.

I think the issue is in part that, as with all children’s books, adults need to be dead, absent, useless or evil, otherwise they will just solve the problems, protect the children, save the world, and the children don’t get to have adventures of their own.

If Hogwarts and the Ministry were staffed entirely with the most brilliant, ethical and powerful wizards and witches of their era, they will lead and defeat Voldemort (or go a large part of the way at least until it’s clear what Harry’s role is) and there’s no child-centred story. So instead Dumbledore is killed off, Umbridge is evil, Snape seems evil, Lupin is fired, Lockhart is useless, Sirius is thought evil, is then absent, then killed, Hagrid is good but not talented at magic, Trelawney is a drunk, Filch is an unpleasant squib, and the Ministry is weak and then corrupt.

Good, present, strong adults who are also good at magic are pretty thin on the ground because they have to be for there to be a story. A brilliant, sympathising Defence Against the Dark Arts teacher would cushion Harry too much.

PyongyangKipperbang · 23/06/2026 21:54

Mystifyingly · 23/06/2026 20:45

I think the issue is in part that, as with all children’s books, adults need to be dead, absent, useless or evil, otherwise they will just solve the problems, protect the children, save the world, and the children don’t get to have adventures of their own.

If Hogwarts and the Ministry were staffed entirely with the most brilliant, ethical and powerful wizards and witches of their era, they will lead and defeat Voldemort (or go a large part of the way at least until it’s clear what Harry’s role is) and there’s no child-centred story. So instead Dumbledore is killed off, Umbridge is evil, Snape seems evil, Lupin is fired, Lockhart is useless, Sirius is thought evil, is then absent, then killed, Hagrid is good but not talented at magic, Trelawney is a drunk, Filch is an unpleasant squib, and the Ministry is weak and then corrupt.

Good, present, strong adults who are also good at magic are pretty thin on the ground because they have to be for there to be a story. A brilliant, sympathising Defence Against the Dark Arts teacher would cushion Harry too much.

Spot on. Same in the Famous Five, there are rarely adults around and if there are they are either evil or thick or dont listen to children!

RobinEllacotStrike · 23/06/2026 22:14

Compared to the Mallory’s they might seem “poor” but I agree they aren’t.

Malfoys live in a mansion, with cellar, have house elf’s etc. the weasleys don’t have house elves.

Jane379 · 24/06/2026 19:36

Mystifyingly · 23/06/2026 20:45

I think the issue is in part that, as with all children’s books, adults need to be dead, absent, useless or evil, otherwise they will just solve the problems, protect the children, save the world, and the children don’t get to have adventures of their own.

If Hogwarts and the Ministry were staffed entirely with the most brilliant, ethical and powerful wizards and witches of their era, they will lead and defeat Voldemort (or go a large part of the way at least until it’s clear what Harry’s role is) and there’s no child-centred story. So instead Dumbledore is killed off, Umbridge is evil, Snape seems evil, Lupin is fired, Lockhart is useless, Sirius is thought evil, is then absent, then killed, Hagrid is good but not talented at magic, Trelawney is a drunk, Filch is an unpleasant squib, and the Ministry is weak and then corrupt.

Good, present, strong adults who are also good at magic are pretty thin on the ground because they have to be for there to be a story. A brilliant, sympathising Defence Against the Dark Arts teacher would cushion Harry too much.

I agree with this...it reminds me of a US homeschooling blog I saw criticising the amount of dead/absent/disobeyed parents in children's books & films as 'anti family'. Something like 'A Little Princess' isn't being anti-family, of course, Sara's parents being absent and/or dead is necessary for the plot.
Harry Potter being (especially at first) for children/teens is a big part of it. But adult fiction often still has to have some level of coincidence/plot convenience even if trying to be more realistic. Eg, even otherwise realistic crime novels need to have crimes continually taking place which only their protagonist will be able to properly solve (if protagonist is a police officer that partly solves that issue, but not completely)

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EverybodyLTB · 24/06/2026 20:17

Mystifyingly · 23/06/2026 20:45

I think the issue is in part that, as with all children’s books, adults need to be dead, absent, useless or evil, otherwise they will just solve the problems, protect the children, save the world, and the children don’t get to have adventures of their own.

If Hogwarts and the Ministry were staffed entirely with the most brilliant, ethical and powerful wizards and witches of their era, they will lead and defeat Voldemort (or go a large part of the way at least until it’s clear what Harry’s role is) and there’s no child-centred story. So instead Dumbledore is killed off, Umbridge is evil, Snape seems evil, Lupin is fired, Lockhart is useless, Sirius is thought evil, is then absent, then killed, Hagrid is good but not talented at magic, Trelawney is a drunk, Filch is an unpleasant squib, and the Ministry is weak and then corrupt.

Good, present, strong adults who are also good at magic are pretty thin on the ground because they have to be for there to be a story. A brilliant, sympathising Defence Against the Dark Arts teacher would cushion Harry too much.

You’re spot on, and I guess this is the trouble with being too grown up and having less ability to suspend disbelief (speaking for myself). Or maybe just more picky and easily frustrated. You hit the nail on the head, though, a group of multitasking people with their shit together would have solved it all properly from the beginning and there’d be nothing to tell.

FourSevenFour · 26/06/2026 13:31

They are not too poor in every day life, but represent a less shiny and material lifestyle. And Ron is the center of that, because there is enough stuff to equip him, which wasn't true for the older ones.
The family manages all other wands, we saw big presents for big occasions.

The knowledge that hand me down wands aren't a good idea for learning isn't generally available (only mr Olivander and Dumbledoor seems to have it in Harry's circles), so to the families it makes sense to re-use a perfectly good wand.

Molly not working - I'd just assume she does some caring in the broader family. It's just an artifact of the child narrator - adults don't exist outside the relevant frame.

AuntAgatha1 · 26/06/2026 15:39

I don't think they're poor, they're probably middle class but they have a big family and they aren't super rich and living in a huge country estate like a lot of the families in Harry Potter seem to be. Doesn't Harry have a massive trust fund?

RobinEllacotStrike · 26/06/2026 17:39

I'm back on Order of the Phoenix.

I wonder if Ron & Hermionie ever got to enjoy some time in the glorious prefects bathroom together? There's probably a hex on it preventing both sexes being in there at the same time.

YankSplaining · 26/06/2026 19:45

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 21/06/2026 17:26

The Weasleys were wizarding royalty though, purebloods and with extensive magical history. So they are poor for their class. It annoys me that poor Ron has to wear second hand robes and manage with a broken wand for nearly a whole year when Molly doesn't work, despite all her children being either living away from home or away at school. She could have done ANY job because the older kids were around to mind Ron and Ginny when they were all home from school, but despite pleading poverty and making the kids suffer, she stayed at home doing - something, though the house can't have got that bad when all the kids were away, the garden was always a mess and they didn't even have a dog!

Did the Weasleys know Ron’s wand was broken? After it broke and caused problems, Harry told Ron to write home and ask for a new one, but Ron didn’t want to because he thought he’d just be told off again.

(Sorry if someone else already said this; I didn’t RTFT.)

PyongyangKipperbang · 26/06/2026 21:18

YankSplaining · 26/06/2026 19:45

Did the Weasleys know Ron’s wand was broken? After it broke and caused problems, Harry told Ron to write home and ask for a new one, but Ron didn’t want to because he thought he’d just be told off again.

(Sorry if someone else already said this; I didn’t RTFT.)

No they didnt because he didnt tell them but they knew it was second hand. It was one of the points in the other thread I linked to above. It is well known that the wand chooses the wizard but Ron's wand was Charlies originally, so it didnt choose Ron and it didnt change allegiance because Ron never won it from Charlie (he wouldnt have had a wand in order to do that).

It would explain why Rons wand magic was always so ropey in the first book. He had to work extra hard to make it work because he didnt have a bond with Charlie's wand, like Harry with the hawthorne wand in the DH.

Ginny got a brand new wand....quelle surprise.