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AIBU to think a man accused of throwing a child into a crocodile enclosure should not get bail?

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YourKeenOliveNewt · Today 03:37

Aibu to think the man who threw an unknown 3 year old into a crocodile enclosure shouldn't be out on bail?

If anyone could provide any insight into the reasoning behind why was granted bail I would be very interested to hear it.

AIBU: He's a danger to society
AINBU: Innocent until proven guilty

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Ayeayeayeaye · Today 07:22

The investigating officer may not consider that he has have capacity to be remanded in custody, and may be later remanded in hospital following medical assessment.

pimplebum · Today 07:22

He required two carers this is rare

they would meed to lock up his two carers as well

are you volunteering for months in jail with a highly distressed dis regulated attempted murderer ?

no ?

use your common sense he is ALREADY living in a secure place similar to jail - except now there will be no trip out for a while

plasticplate · Today 07:22

Sartre · Today 07:16

It’s a similar case to the man who threw the boy off the Tate a few years ago… Also had severe learning difficulties. The fault surely lies with the carers.

That man had the capacity to stand trial. We don't know about this case yet.

Thebigonesgetaway · Today 07:22

CamillaMcCauley · Today 07:19

Oh come on. People have distinctive personalities that are evident over time. Sudden extreme violence doesn’t just pop up out of nowhere in a person who has previously given no indication of a tendency towards it. A serious learning disability makes it even more vanishingly unlikely that he’s been masking a tendency for violence for 30 years.

Genuinely I’m not sure this was intended as violence, again if I look at my friends son, he’d have thought it was funny and he was helping the kid see the crocodiles.

I think people have to understand how potentially severe this man’s needs are, which is severe enough to need two full time carers.

i understand why onlookers would see violence, but genuinely I’m not sure that was his intent at all.

SmintyFresh · Today 07:22

pimplebum · Today 07:22

He required two carers this is rare

they would meed to lock up his two carers as well

are you volunteering for months in jail with a highly distressed dis regulated attempted murderer ?

no ?

use your common sense he is ALREADY living in a secure place similar to jail - except now there will be no trip out for a while

Yes, exactly. He won’t be going out at any time soon. It just won’t be in a prison setting.

ohdelay · Today 07:23

Sartre · Today 07:16

It’s a similar case to the man who threw the boy off the Tate a few years ago… Also had severe learning difficulties. The fault surely lies with the carers.

This guy? He's just bad news. Continuing the mayhem in his secure hospital unit. Not sure how you blame minimum wage carers for stopping other people from attempting murder
www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cj4q9pxyv7go

CamillaMcCauley · Today 07:23

ZanyMaker · Today 07:18

Sure, Jan.

Where has this one come from? Just because it’s rightly been called out as unreasonable to use ‘Karen’ as an insult doesn’t mean it should be replaced me another name!!

https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/sure,_Jan

You must be a lot younger than I am.

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Kirbert2 · Today 07:24

ohdelay · Today 07:18

Why does the suspect's vulnerability or discomfort matter? The carers on their phones didn't chuck a kid into a crocodile pit as much as people want to blame them for this incident. The crime should stand alone. Chuck a child into a crocodile pit and you should be dealing with GBH/attempted murder of a child charges, not being bailed and going home to sleep in your own bed. When did we become so uncomfortable with just applying the punishment for the crime? The consequences of the crime to the victim don't change so why should they be different for the perpetrator.

It's pretty much always been the case that someone has to be fit to interview and to actually understand what the crime is. Someone with the mental age of a toddler isn't going to understand what he did wrong no matter how horrific it is and it would be the same as charging a toddler with attempted murder and throwing them in an adult jail.

Dontcallmescarface · Today 07:25

I'm wondering how much training the carers had. Were they his regular carers who knew him well (clearly not), did management do a thorough risk assessment before allowing the day trip, did the carers have concerns but were told to "get on with it"? Could the carer have been on the phone to their manager to say they were brining him back because it wasn't going well? All these thoughts are going through my mind but on here and other sites it seems the narrative is...it's all the carers fault because the lazy bastards were too busy with their phones
Too many times on here and other sites when discussions around benefit claimants arise there are always cries of "well there's plenty of work in the care sector, they should do that"....so maybe this is a sad consequence of the assumption that "anyone can be a carer".

rememberingthem · Today 07:25

Having worked for the NHS for years i would bet my bottom dollar it went like this…two carers, neither of whom are British and are probably only doing the job because it gets them a visa not because they want to work in this field. Both probably mostly ignoring the person they are “ caring” for while looking bored shitless and scrolling through their phones! I have literally seen this scenario hundreds of times. Go into most care homes for the elderly or vulnerable and you will also see this scenario there!

TheDevilFindsWorkForIdleMums · Today 07:25

The only ones who should be sat in his cell are his useless carers......he had 2/1 for a reason!

CurlewKate · Today 07:25

Whiski · Today 07:14

This is the same as the Tate wtf

No it isn’t.

Pistacheeo · Today 07:26

ThreadGuardDog · Today 05:57

This is my experience in disability support. Provision is so poor for those with learning difficulties/MH problems that they often end up in the criminal justice system because they can’t access the help they need. Unfortunately, as in your DS’s case, it often means other people are harmed.

This is presumably the fallout from 1990's Care in the community and austerity.

The police deal with so many mental health issues these days. My teen is thinking about going into the police and he's heard that their workload is often MH crises.

SmintyFresh · Today 07:27

ohdelay · Today 07:18

Why does the suspect's vulnerability or discomfort matter? The carers on their phones didn't chuck a kid into a crocodile pit as much as people want to blame them for this incident. The crime should stand alone. Chuck a child into a crocodile pit and you should be dealing with GBH/attempted murder of a child charges, not being bailed and going home to sleep in your own bed. When did we become so uncomfortable with just applying the punishment for the crime? The consequences of the crime to the victim don't change so why should they be different for the perpetrator.

It really depends on what his mental age is. Do you think we should be charging four-year-olds and then throwing them into prison if they do bad things? If a three-year-old managed to run up to somebody and push them off a bridge and they died, would we charge them with murder? If not, why not? If people don’t have the capacity to know what they’re doing, we don’t tend to lock them up in prisons. This will be about applying the law accurately.

Iheartmysmart · Today 07:29

PiriPiriMenopause · Today 05:51

My DS was sexual assaulted on public transport coming home from school by a man with learning difficulties. The police were called at the time to intercept. After they initially caught the man as he bolted as he left, however, they called me soon afterwards and told me while the situation was very serious they could do absolutely nothing about it.

This man didn’t even have carers with him, and was fully aware that he’d done wrong as he ran when he left the station and the police were waiting. But they can’t do anything more other than hand details of the incident over to the relevant services and hope they make the right decisions to safeguard from allowing this to happening again.

I was sexually assaulted by a man with learning disabilities at a funfair when I was 12. He did have a carer with him due to past inappropriate behaviour but they decided they didn’t want to go in the funhouse so allowed this man to go in alone. He repeatedly assaulted me until one of the fairground workers heard me yelling and dragged him away.

My parents called the police who also said there was no point taking it any further as the man didn’t have capacity.

I’m sorry that happened to your DS.

MyThreeWords · Today 07:30

I KNEW a thread like this would be on MN today. Thanks for not disappointing me, @YourKeenOliveNewt .

Surely it is obvious that he is getting bail because of some severe mental illness [EDIT ...or intellectual disability] - and equally obvious that his bail arrangements will reflect that. For example that he might be in a secure hospital ward.

These are such obvious guesses to make that it is hard not to see the alleged surprise at his bail as being anything other than a desire to display rage and disapproval at what he has done. Clearly some people think that the facts shouldn't get in the way of this desire.

ohdelay · Today 07:30

Kirbert2 · Today 07:24

It's pretty much always been the case that someone has to be fit to interview and to actually understand what the crime is. Someone with the mental age of a toddler isn't going to understand what he did wrong no matter how horrific it is and it would be the same as charging a toddler with attempted murder and throwing them in an adult jail.

Again, why? Saying he's got the mind of a toddler doesn't change anything for the victim who should be centred in any crime. His adult body committed the crime and is fully capable of committing more adult crimes. If the argument is that he doesn't understand why it was wrong then surely you have to follow on with so he might do the same thing or something equally heinous again so we need to lock him up indefinitely rather than oh well.

CamillaMcCauley · Today 07:30

Thebigonesgetaway · Today 07:22

Genuinely I’m not sure this was intended as violence, again if I look at my friends son, he’d have thought it was funny and he was helping the kid see the crocodiles.

I think people have to understand how potentially severe this man’s needs are, which is severe enough to need two full time carers.

i understand why onlookers would see violence, but genuinely I’m not sure that was his intent at all.

Okay, let’s say it’s not intentional violence, but there will a clear history of deeply inappropriate acts and severe lack of understanding of socially appropriate behaviour should be enough to keep him away from small children.

BeardofHagrid · Today 07:31

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ohdelay · Today 07:31

SmintyFresh · Today 07:27

It really depends on what his mental age is. Do you think we should be charging four-year-olds and then throwing them into prison if they do bad things? If a three-year-old managed to run up to somebody and push them off a bridge and they died, would we charge them with murder? If not, why not? If people don’t have the capacity to know what they’re doing, we don’t tend to lock them up in prisons. This will be about applying the law accurately.

Actual four year olds with four year old bodies are limited in the amount of damage they can do. This is not that.

InfoSecInTheCity · Today 07:32

We know absolutely nothing about the suspect other than that he is male and has a learning disability that requires carers. He could have cognitive capacity and this may have been a deliberate attempt to harm in which case he should be held culpable. I think it’s more likely that he does not, that could be naive on my part because I just can’t fathom how anyone with capacity could have done something so heinous and random. If he does not have capacity then the culpability falls on the care facility that conducted a risk assessment and determined that a)this was a suitable trip, (b) the carers were capable of enforcing health & safety (c) enough carers were provisioned.

Sartre · Today 07:34

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It’s not that, it’s just we have to take something like severe learning difficulties into account within the justice system. He needs to be incarcerated of course but in a secure unit, not prison.

InfoSecInTheCity · Today 07:34

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Or he is a person with a severe cognitive disability that prevented him from having any understanding that what he did was wrong. That is also a possibility, we have no idea.

LBFseBrom · Today 07:34

He'll be kept well under surveillance, He was on a day outing with a carer, has severe learning difficulties. That won't be happening again.

I hope the little boy recovers, he must have been so terrified.

Kirbert2 · Today 07:35

ohdelay · Today 07:30

Again, why? Saying he's got the mind of a toddler doesn't change anything for the victim who should be centred in any crime. His adult body committed the crime and is fully capable of committing more adult crimes. If the argument is that he doesn't understand why it was wrong then surely you have to follow on with so he might do the same thing or something equally heinous again so we need to lock him up indefinitely rather than oh well.

Bail doesn't mean that he is walking around freely. He absolutely won't be.

and absolutely no one at all is saying ''oh well''.