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AIBU to think a man accused of throwing a child into a crocodile enclosure should not get bail?

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YourKeenOliveNewt · Today 03:37

Aibu to think the man who threw an unknown 3 year old into a crocodile enclosure shouldn't be out on bail?

If anyone could provide any insight into the reasoning behind why was granted bail I would be very interested to hear it.

AIBU: He's a danger to society
AINBU: Innocent until proven guilty

OP posts:
alexdgr8 · Today 13:15

Pistacheeo · Today 07:36

Can I just add to my earlier post that it was Thatchers Care in the community and Camerons austerity that ripped apart the NHS and mental health support.

And without looking it up I believe it was
Enoch Powell as Minister of Health 1960
who first proposed closing the long stay mental hospitals and liquidising their vast estates.

As well as saving on staff costs and bed and board for patients.
What's not to like...

randomchap · Today 13:15

@Honeyhonay @Bollihobs

Would you mind linking to one of these. Google's finding nothing for me

Bollihobs · Today 13:21

BreatheAndFocus · Today 11:53

Well said! I’ve worked in care too and we also had an incident where a care user attacked the driver. They tried to strangle them. The front passenger had to steer the car off the road. It took the force of three adults to prise this care user’s hands off the driver’s neck. It was terrifying. Another time, one of the care users suddenly had a massive meltdown in the car and started attacking the carer sitting beside her, scratching her face and grabbing her hair so hard she couldn’t move. She then bit another carer who tried to help. We had to lock her in the car until help came. It was terrifying and the meltdown was totally unpredictable.

These incidents took place in a car with one care user and either two or three carers. We were very close to the care user and we weren’t on our phones, but even then we couldn’t stop the attacks. People blaming the carers or saying that all carers should be held responsible, should try spending a week looking after some of these care users. It’s quite normal to be scratched, kicked, punched, bitten, have faeces rubbed in your face or on your clothes, or have clumps of hair pulled out. Yet the manager, who had very limited contact with the care users used to send us out with them to public places. We didn’t make the decisions or do the risk assessments.

On the other hand, a previous care job I worked in never took the care users out in public. This did not mean they were locked away. They lived in a beautiful house with large grounds and had a lovely schedule of things to do. Their lives were full and they were treated with dignity.

To my mind, this second option above, should be used more widely. There is a huge tranche of people with complex needs who shouldn’t be at zoos or in shops. They don’t benefit from it and it puts others at risk. The options aren’t let them go out everywhere or lock them in a grey room and forget about them. There’s a solution where we’re all safe and treated well.

Edited

Couldn't agree more. Some people just cannot be out in public safely, ever. It's not a question of human rights it's just a fact.

ScouserForPM · Today 13:22

randomchap · Today 13:15

@Honeyhonay @Bollihobs

Would you mind linking to one of these. Google's finding nothing for me

www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2026/jun/18/man-arrested-after-boy-3-injured-in-cambridgeshire-zoo-crocodile-enclosure

Bollihobs · Today 13:24

randomchap · Today 13:15

@Honeyhonay @Bollihobs

Would you mind linking to one of these. Google's finding nothing for me

The Guardian has it but paywall obvs. Or this free to view : www.msn.com/en-gb/news/insight/toddler-critically-injured-in-crocodile-attack-as-suspect-bailed/gm-GM75DCE981?gemSnapshotKey=GM75DCE981-snapshot-14&uxmode=ruby

SupernaturalAddict · Today 13:24

Not all people with profound leaning needs or autism are dangerous. If we start locking up big groups of people because of what they might do we would have hardly anybody free. All men would be locked away because they may rape, not all men do but enough that the crime of rape has to involve a penis etc

An earlier poster made a point about the widening of diagnosis like autism to include those with lesser needs or more mental health needs than learning needs leading to the diagnosis not being seen as serious as it once was. I think this is an incredibly pertinent as it's changed societies view and influenced policy.

ScouserForPM · Today 13:25

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cp9l2278m8no

susiedaisy1912 · Today 13:25

completelylostagain · Today 12:09

Probably because that is where they were when it happened?

Missing my original point.

Bollihobs · Today 13:26

SupernaturalAddict · Today 13:24

Not all people with profound leaning needs or autism are dangerous. If we start locking up big groups of people because of what they might do we would have hardly anybody free. All men would be locked away because they may rape, not all men do but enough that the crime of rape has to involve a penis etc

An earlier poster made a point about the widening of diagnosis like autism to include those with lesser needs or more mental health needs than learning needs leading to the diagnosis not being seen as serious as it once was. I think this is an incredibly pertinent as it's changed societies view and influenced policy.

🙄

Gloriia · Today 13:26

SupernaturalAddict · Today 13:24

Not all people with profound leaning needs or autism are dangerous. If we start locking up big groups of people because of what they might do we would have hardly anybody free. All men would be locked away because they may rape, not all men do but enough that the crime of rape has to involve a penis etc

An earlier poster made a point about the widening of diagnosis like autism to include those with lesser needs or more mental health needs than learning needs leading to the diagnosis not being seen as serious as it once was. I think this is an incredibly pertinent as it's changed societies view and influenced policy.

Well obviously not everyone is dangerous but once they've tried to kill someone whether intentionally or not then they are dangerous and should be detained in a secure unit.

TemperanceWest · Today 13:28

The Guardian isn't paywalled.

Pp who said

Also, from what I have read that 3-year old has a broken pelvis, arm and was attacked by at least 1 crocodile. He will have life long injuries

Is not correct. The crocodile didn't get to the child thankfully. And nothing has been said abput lifelong injuries thankfully:

A local person told the Sun: “Apparently the boy has a broken pelvis and a broken arm, but thankfully the crocodile didn’t actually get to him.”

LakieLady · Today 13:31

NotSafe · Today 10:13

Those carers wouldn't have been given a say in where to take him. Where I work the decision is made by a 21 year old office lad in scheduling.
So unfortunately you can find yourself looking after say "Ollie" who hates loud noises and crowds but you find out you are visiting the airport.....you are expected to deal with that.

That is shocking!

The organisation I worked for is an LD care provider and a lot of my former colleagues had worked in various LD settings.

Every outing with a resident had to have an individual risk assessment that showed how any potential trigger factors that could reasonably be anticipated would be avoided or mitigated against.

ThreadGuardDog · Today 13:31

Gloriia · Today 13:26

Well obviously not everyone is dangerous but once they've tried to kill someone whether intentionally or not then they are dangerous and should be detained in a secure unit.

And what kind of secure unit would you deem appropriate, given the broken care system and general lack of resources within mental health care ? People with learning difficulties and MH problems often end up in jail because they have committed offences - mainly due to the fact that they are unable to access the care they need.

This man clearly has little or no awareness of danger and has been failed by the authorities charged with his care. Given the nature of the incident I think it’s highly likely that he was placed in an inappropriate care setting because there was simply nowhere else to place him.

randomchap · Today 13:32

So the Guardian are reporting what the Sun said

A local person told the Sun: “Apparently the boy has a broken pelvis and a broken arm, but thankfully the crocodile didn’t actually get to him.”

As a scouser I'd have thought you wouldn't be trusting of the Sun

operationplaytime · Today 13:33

Well, personally I don’t think a crocodile farm is really the right place to take someone who needs two carers to control them!

Interesting that he chose to throw in a defenceless child and did not attempt to try and wrestle one of his carers into the pit, or himself!

I do think that a secure facility with nice gardens, space and activities is needed for people like this. I’m not sure what they (or anybody else) get out of them being at large in the community?

beardediris · Today 13:33

ohdelay · Today 10:19

He has tried to kill a child, why are you on about his vulnerability? We're past that now.

Ok where do you suggest he goes and who’s going to look after a man who needs to be on a 2:1 and it would appear he lacks capacity to understand what he’s done wrong. Lock him in a prison cell? The last thing I read prisons are enormously over crowded with prisoners sharing a cell. Or perhaps solitary confinement in prison who’s going to assist him with his care needs? Prison officers I think not they too I understand are incredibly short staffed. Oh let’s gets the prison nurses to do it, again often agency/bank and definitely they don’t have the staffing levels to do this.
Thankfully we don’t live in El Salvador where there are hideous mega prisons where human rights are violated on a day to day basis including physical sexual and mental abuse. So he needs to be looked after in a place where his physical and psychological needs are being met, to keep him safe, and also the general population and the staff caring for him safe and in these circumstances. I suspect his own home is likely to be the best and most appropriate place as long as there is sufficient supervision.

Gloriia · Today 13:34

ThreadGuardDog · Today 13:31

And what kind of secure unit would you deem appropriate, given the broken care system and general lack of resources within mental health care ? People with learning difficulties and MH problems often end up in jail because they have committed offences - mainly due to the fact that they are unable to access the care they need.

This man clearly has little or no awareness of danger and has been failed by the authorities charged with his care. Given the nature of the incident I think it’s highly likely that he was placed in an inappropriate care setting because there was simply nowhere else to place him.

Edited

Oh I don't know somewhere with locked doors? Somewhere where dangerous individuals aren't allowed to mix with the public. That kind of place. Secure units are a thing you know.

SupernaturalAddict · Today 13:35

Gloriia · Today 13:26

Well obviously not everyone is dangerous but once they've tried to kill someone whether intentionally or not then they are dangerous and should be detained in a secure unit.

I think intention plays a big part in this. If he honestly doesn't understand risk/ his actions and didn't intemd for the child to hurt then the consequences of his actions should rest with those who put him in the position to do that in the first place. The person who signed off on him going to somewhere like this and the carers who allowed him to close enough to a small child to pick them up. This doesn't mean he should be locked away for the rest of his life. He would essentially be being punished for the failings of those looking after him.

If however he does understand his actions in some way then yes he should be to account and punished in a suitable way.

operationplaytime · Today 13:36

SupernaturalAddict · Today 13:24

Not all people with profound leaning needs or autism are dangerous. If we start locking up big groups of people because of what they might do we would have hardly anybody free. All men would be locked away because they may rape, not all men do but enough that the crime of rape has to involve a penis etc

An earlier poster made a point about the widening of diagnosis like autism to include those with lesser needs or more mental health needs than learning needs leading to the diagnosis not being seen as serious as it once was. I think this is an incredibly pertinent as it's changed societies view and influenced policy.

Actually a very large proportion of them are volatile, lack any kind of impulse control, lash out sporadically etc and are a danger to themselves and others. Not their fault, but the facts remain!

He should not have been taken to a crocodile farm. Period.

Gloriia · Today 13:36

-Interesting that he chose to throw in a defenceless child and did not attempt to try and wrestle one of his carers into the pit, or himself!'

Yes, very selective behaviour. Oh he didn't know what he was doing yet chose a tiny defenceless child not a strapping 6 footer to try to murder.

ThreadGuardDog · Today 13:38

operationplaytime · Today 13:33

Well, personally I don’t think a crocodile farm is really the right place to take someone who needs two carers to control them!

Interesting that he chose to throw in a defenceless child and did not attempt to try and wrestle one of his carers into the pit, or himself!

I do think that a secure facility with nice gardens, space and activities is needed for people like this. I’m not sure what they (or anybody else) get out of them being at large in the community?

And how would you like this lovely facility paid for, given the shit state of care and MH services generally ?

ThreadGuardDog · Today 13:38

Gloriia · Today 13:36

-Interesting that he chose to throw in a defenceless child and did not attempt to try and wrestle one of his carers into the pit, or himself!'

Yes, very selective behaviour. Oh he didn't know what he was doing yet chose a tiny defenceless child not a strapping 6 footer to try to murder.

Tell me you know nothing about learning disability/mental health without telling me………………

CurlewKate · Today 13:43

Gloriia · Today 13:26

Well obviously not everyone is dangerous but once they've tried to kill someone whether intentionally or not then they are dangerous and should be detained in a secure unit.

Is there any suggestion this is not happening?

beardediris · Today 13:43

operationplaytime · Today 13:33

Well, personally I don’t think a crocodile farm is really the right place to take someone who needs two carers to control them!

Interesting that he chose to throw in a defenceless child and did not attempt to try and wrestle one of his carers into the pit, or himself!

I do think that a secure facility with nice gardens, space and activities is needed for people like this. I’m not sure what they (or anybody else) get out of them being at large in the community?

There is a long history of abuse by staff in secure facilities. No one wants to pay for “nice gardens, space and activities”. Most people with severe learning disabilities are cared for in the community, this is often “supervised/assisted living” either shared houses or some will have individual homes run by “charities” (although as someone said above care staff maybe on minimum wage but directors often aren’t) with funding from local councils who as we know don’t have any money are paying the bare minimum. IME they struggle to get essential maintenance of buildings undertaken let alone nice gardens, spaces and in site activities.

ThreadGuardDog · Today 13:43

SupernaturalAddict · Today 13:35

I think intention plays a big part in this. If he honestly doesn't understand risk/ his actions and didn't intemd for the child to hurt then the consequences of his actions should rest with those who put him in the position to do that in the first place. The person who signed off on him going to somewhere like this and the carers who allowed him to close enough to a small child to pick them up. This doesn't mean he should be locked away for the rest of his life. He would essentially be being punished for the failings of those looking after him.

If however he does understand his actions in some way then yes he should be to account and punished in a suitable way.

This. And this is what needs to be clarified. My suspicion is that this is down to either severe learning disability or MH condition, and that he was placed in an inappropriate care setting for the level of disability. That being the case, the responsibility is squarely on the authorities who placed him. Mental health services are in crisis, and often there are no suitable placements for difficult cases so they end up in inappropriate social care situations.