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Trooping the colour booing

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theresalighttofindyou · Yesterday 10:54

AIBU to think this was well deserved?

Kate can glower at people as much as she wants but the monarchy is a rotten institution and people are getting more and more annoyed by it

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Hameth · Yesterday 13:17

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · Yesterday 11:17

I really don't think the children benefit at all. Their lives are all mapped out before they are even born. They don't get any real choices about their life. Everyone knows who they are, they have no freedom, every day life is mapped out with security they carnt just decide for example to visit a friends house. I wouldn't want to wish being born royal on any child.

As opposed to someone born in poverty with poor quality health care and schools and few financial opportunities. Reckon they're as mapped out as much tbh

IneedAniffler · Yesterday 13:17

soddingspiderseason · Yesterday 13:11

Hyperbole. Children don’t “starve” in this country. You are lacking credibility with such nonsense.

Actually, you discredit yourself by not researching the scale of food poverty affecting UK children. Here's a recent starting point. Go away and do some reading BBC News - Record 9.3 million facing hunger, says charity
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c8xeyx7x75eo.

Volunteers are seen packing food parcels on March 02, 2022 in Edinburgh, Scotland

Record 9.3m face hunger and hardship in UK - anti-poverty charity

This is one million more than five years ago, Trussell said in a new report.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c8xeyx7x75eo

theresalighttofindyou · Yesterday 13:17

PistachioTiramisu · Yesterday 13:15

OP has really got the bit between her teeth today! I don't think any Royal supporters will persuade her otherwise. I can't imagine being so wound up and jealous because other people have more money than me! I'm not sure what on earth Grenfell has to do with it! Is she suggesting that any date on which something unpleasant/tragic occurred in this country should be avoided in case it clashes with a Royal event???

Yes, those of us who are morally opposed to the monarchy are just jealous, hey?

I pointed out the absolute irony of this gross display of wealth happening on the anniversary of the Grenfell disaster because it just shows how far gone this country is. Grenfell was a disaster that affected the poorest in society. The victims are still fighting for justice and the anniversary was largely ignored, while the billionaire king and his family drive around central London in gold carriages and expect the masses to fawn over them.

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theresalighttofindyou · Yesterday 13:18

soddingspiderseason · Yesterday 13:17

There is a massive stretch between living in poverty and “starving”. I technically lived “in poverty” for quite a few years. My kids were well fed. Your argument loses credibility when you overstretch with the hyperbole. And do you think President Farage would reduce child poverty?

And the 3.8 million facing food insecurity and hunger?

Where have I said I support Farage? It’s fair to say that if I don’t like the royals, I’m also opposed to his views.

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IneedAniffler · Yesterday 13:18

soddingspiderseason · Yesterday 13:17

There is a massive stretch between living in poverty and “starving”. I technically lived “in poverty” for quite a few years. My kids were well fed. Your argument loses credibility when you overstretch with the hyperbole. And do you think President Farage would reduce child poverty?

Your individual experience speaks for nobody else.

InfoSecInTheCity · Yesterday 13:18

AmyDudley · Yesterday 11:14

I'm anti monarchy, but booing children is a dick move. Not surprised Kate looked annoyed, I'd be very pissed off and protective if someone was verbally abusive to my children, especially if those children had no say in what they have been born into. Good for her for not pretending to just accept it.

Yep this. There are opportunities and appropriate times and ways to voice your dissent. Booing children who have no say and no control is absolutely a dick move.

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 13:19

Dollymylove · Yesterday 11:23

Who are the booers and why are they booing? Trooping the Colour is on one of our big traditions, attracting big crowds. Anyone who is not happy with it is free to fuck off

Exactly. OK, it's nominally the monarch's birthday parade, but it's so much about the serving soldiers and it's an incredible spectacle with superb music, horse choreography, marching in formation and general national celebration.

It's a phenomenal performance by any standards and is shown across the world. If anyone told me how much tax I pay towards the monarchy I'd say the T the C is ample reward from my pov! Compare it to a big outdoor event or theatre trip - how much does going to those cost?

I think the booers are stupid, philistine and just an embarrassment to themselves.

TheDenimPoet · Yesterday 13:19

Going and booing at an event achieves nothing. There are things you can do with your time that make a real difference - that isn't one of them.

The monarchy have brought a huge amount of money into this country. Much more than they've cost us. They employ a huge number of people. Yes, there are problems. But let's hope Andrew is a precedent of the bad apples getting what they deserve.

The royals are incredibly hard working, and although they get to attend posh events etc, they actually have very little choice with what they do with their lives. Those children are not privileged, they have no choices at all. They wear what they're told, do what they're told. George is about to be sent away to school. It's awful.

theresalighttofindyou · Yesterday 13:19

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 13:19

Exactly. OK, it's nominally the monarch's birthday parade, but it's so much about the serving soldiers and it's an incredible spectacle with superb music, horse choreography, marching in formation and general national celebration.

It's a phenomenal performance by any standards and is shown across the world. If anyone told me how much tax I pay towards the monarchy I'd say the T the C is ample reward from my pov! Compare it to a big outdoor event or theatre trip - how much does going to those cost?

I think the booers are stupid, philistine and just an embarrassment to themselves.

How about Charles honours the troops who serve him and gives up some of his wealth to help with funding them?

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theresalighttofindyou · Yesterday 13:21

TheDenimPoet · Yesterday 13:19

Going and booing at an event achieves nothing. There are things you can do with your time that make a real difference - that isn't one of them.

The monarchy have brought a huge amount of money into this country. Much more than they've cost us. They employ a huge number of people. Yes, there are problems. But let's hope Andrew is a precedent of the bad apples getting what they deserve.

The royals are incredibly hard working, and although they get to attend posh events etc, they actually have very little choice with what they do with their lives. Those children are not privileged, they have no choices at all. They wear what they're told, do what they're told. George is about to be sent away to school. It's awful.

Oh my heart does bleed for George. Set to inherit billions, attending a school that charges hundreds of thousands a year to attend. How awful for him 🙄

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Monty36 · Yesterday 13:22

We tried having a Republic. It was a disaster. Centuries ago I realise. All you end up doing is replacing one King with another but called something else.

So we have a Royal family. They are very rich. Some of it is owned by the State. Some is personal wealth. But you cannot have a poverty stricken Head of State. They represent us here and to others abroad.

As to the booing. I think it immature to be honest. And probably reflects badly on any argument about dismantling the Royal family more than it promotes it.

Charles I think wants and recognises the need to have a much reduced family. And one that works. I think we could have more say in how much work they do. And make them work a bit more than they do. Bar Anne. Who does it anyway.

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 13:22

theresalighttofindyou · Yesterday 13:17

Yes, those of us who are morally opposed to the monarchy are just jealous, hey?

I pointed out the absolute irony of this gross display of wealth happening on the anniversary of the Grenfell disaster because it just shows how far gone this country is. Grenfell was a disaster that affected the poorest in society. The victims are still fighting for justice and the anniversary was largely ignored, while the billionaire king and his family drive around central London in gold carriages and expect the masses to fawn over them.

You're misunderstanding. It's not just about the king. It's about the personnel who take part and take huge pride in this tradition.

It's childish and simplistic to think that all these things are about a 'billionaire king'. They much more than that to a lot of people.

theresalighttofindyou · Yesterday 13:22

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 13:22

You're misunderstanding. It's not just about the king. It's about the personnel who take part and take huge pride in this tradition.

It's childish and simplistic to think that all these things are about a 'billionaire king'. They much more than that to a lot of people.

Troops can be honoured without the king inserting himself into the conversation.

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BrownTroutBluesAgain · Yesterday 13:23

Cheese55 · Yesterday 12:19

Literally no one is jealous, they are annoyed by the monarchy being outdated, old fashioned and unelected . And no they dont bring in money, no one is going to stop visiting Buckingham Palace etc etc.

Well that’s not true

Shall we get rid of them and shoot ourselves in the foot again like the 20% on private schools

Its all very short sighted

‘ Recent attempts to measure the size of the impact of the royal family on UK tourism have estimated the capital value of UK monarchy as a business to be £67.5 billion (up from £44 billion in 2012) and the annual contribution to the UK economy to be £1.766 billion.

https://www.regionalstudies.org
Impact of the UK Royal Family on tourism - RSA Main

The Regional Studies Association

The Regional Studies Association is a learned society concerned with the analysis of regions and regional issues. Through our international membership we provide an authoritative voice of, and network for, academics, students, practitioners, policy mak...

https://www.regionalstudies.org

ForWiseRoseCat · Yesterday 13:24

Honestly she isn't stupid, she married into the royal family and must know there are those who don't agree with having a monarchy. If she's not amused then that's on her.

I'm just glad they didn't do it around our troops and the horses.

BiteSizeByzantine · Yesterday 13:24

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 11:35

Because it's what spiteful cunts do. Full of hate and still living in the past. Never looking inwards, mocking and bitching about the monarchy and nice sunny days out for patriots.

Were you this mad about all the nonce enablement?

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 13:24

It just baffles me, with the horrible problems facing the UK and the world, that some people choose to focus on the monarchy as a major problem. It's really not - unless you are petty and feel actual jealousy of people in carriages and children going to posh schools. It's so small-minded.

The constitutional system is not a problem unless you're a small-minded and resentful...er person. There are real problems out there to expend your energy on.

Prombles · Yesterday 13:24

I have no issues with any form of non-violent protest against the institution of the monarchy.

It's for the Royal parents concerned to consider whether it's appropriate for the younger Royal children to attend. It can only be for PR reasons that they take them, I can't imagine the smaller children want to see the whole of TOTC which is a very long, drawn out ceremony.

Personally if they want to avoid the young children witnessing negative crowd behaviour I think they should leave them at home for the ceremony and then let them join the balcony waving bit at the end.

There is an argument that as they get older they will need to learn to navigate public hostility, assuming the monarchy does endure - George is nearly 13 - he should be old enough to understand that not everyone is pro-Royal without taking it as a personal insult.

BrownTroutBluesAgain · Yesterday 13:26

HolidayWithHounds · Yesterday 12:02

Most people on that board love the Royals, a few are very anti Royal. Placing it on AIBU gets the less extreme opinions so it’s better it’s here.

Agree
interesting to get many different views.

60% still don’t agree with you though OP

theresalighttofindyou · Yesterday 13:26

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 13:24

It just baffles me, with the horrible problems facing the UK and the world, that some people choose to focus on the monarchy as a major problem. It's really not - unless you are petty and feel actual jealousy of people in carriages and children going to posh schools. It's so small-minded.

The constitutional system is not a problem unless you're a small-minded and resentful...er person. There are real problems out there to expend your energy on.

So you genuinely see no issue with them having virtual immunity from all crimes, billions that they’re piling up, and parading through the streets in gold carriages while children starve?

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theresalighttofindyou · Yesterday 13:26

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PistachioTiramisu · Yesterday 13:27

theresalighttofindyou · Yesterday 13:26

So you genuinely see no issue with them having virtual immunity from all crimes, billions that they’re piling up, and parading through the streets in gold carriages while children starve?

Oh do stop going on about children starving - one has nothing to do with the other.

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 13:27

I guess we could solve all our problems at a stroke by having a president.

I mean, presidents never do anything outrageous, wildly expensive or embarrassing, do they?

floofydoofy · Yesterday 13:28

I absolutely loathe the royal family and would strip them of any titles and privileges immediately, if it were up to me. If they insist on parading the children around like show dogs, they will have to put up with understanding that they are not beloved national treasures.

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 13:29

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Aha! That old chestnut.

It's one of the reasons I roll my eyes at republicans - they despise most of the population. When they come up against people with different views, it must be the old Kool Aid again...yawn.