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What is going on with Brooklyn/Harper Beckham?

456 replies

IberianLynx · 14/06/2026 13:20

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/harper-beckhams-devastating-gesture-after-37292907.amp

AIBU to feel sorry for Harper? If BB has an issue with his parents it shouldn’t mean that he also stops talking to his siblings. It’s equally as sad if the parents did choreographed the letter/visit.

Brooklyn Beckham accuses parents of using Harper for 'choreographed' house visit

Harper Beckham was spotted making a failed attempt to reunite with her brother Brooklyn, with a spokesperson dismissing the visit as another stunt from 'brand Beckham'

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/harper-beckhams-devastating-gesture-after-37292907.amp

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BeardySchnauzer · 15/06/2026 20:04

I’ve always thought kidnap for ransom has gone out of fashion but maybe it happens and the payments are made with no publicity

if a Beckham were kidnapped I’d imagine VD would make sure it’s all over the news!!

diddl · 15/06/2026 20:25

"Brooklyn sells his family out"

It's just an ad!

BlondeFool · 15/06/2026 20:50

I’m starting to love Brooklyn. His parents are so narcissistic and toxic. Using Haroer in a strange nightie is just weird.

AnnieApples · 15/06/2026 20:53

BlondeFool · 15/06/2026 20:50

I’m starting to love Brooklyn. His parents are so narcissistic and toxic. Using Haroer in a strange nightie is just weird.

‘Harper in a strange nightie’ really made me laugh.

BlondeFool · 15/06/2026 20:54

AnnieApples · 15/06/2026 20:53

‘Harper in a strange nightie’ really made me laugh.

And I made a typo. I’m baffled by the strange nightie look. It’s constant and odd. She doesn’t go to school and they dress her.

BeardySchnauzer · 15/06/2026 20:59

I think she can choose what she wears. It just has to be from VBs shop.

JulietteHasAGun · 15/06/2026 21:01

BlondeFool · 15/06/2026 20:54

And I made a typo. I’m baffled by the strange nightie look. It’s constant and odd. She doesn’t go to school and they dress her.

She looked a gust of wind away from a nip slip. Hopefully the dress was well stuck down with tape at the top.

JulietteHasAGun · 15/06/2026 21:02

I’m now getting strange nightie type adverts on this thread. Maybe this would have been more age appropriate 😆

What is going on with Brooklyn/Harper Beckham?
FrankieMcGrath · 15/06/2026 21:08

Can I ask, what does ‘flying monkeys’ mean in this context? And what is meant by girlfriends on the payroll? Are they not actual couples?

BeardySchnauzer · 15/06/2026 21:10

VictimNoMore · 14/06/2026 17:11

Really?
Feel free to tell that to my psychotherapist of 40 years of experience, psychiatrists and psychologist who diagnosed me with Complex PTSD and high functioning Anxiety of a score of 18 out of 18, to the point I am unable to use public toilets, use public transport, use an umbrella or wear a hood over my head, sleep for only 2 hours in any 24 hour period due to sibling flying monkey abuse from a parent.

This post has an image that explains flying monkeys

as for the girlfriends - I’m sure they are genuine but they benefit from the relationship and are effectively paid to toe the line

Tableforjoan · 15/06/2026 21:10

FrankieMcGrath · 15/06/2026 21:08

Can I ask, what does ‘flying monkeys’ mean in this context? And what is meant by girlfriends on the payroll? Are they not actual couples?

Others sent to get the messages in this case the parents want and they and convince them they are wrong.

Payroll girlfriends. Well exactly that. Girlfriends under the control of v&b money to toe the line and be the perfect girlfriends.

Some have also speculated that one of them may or may not of been seen to by David himself at one point and more of a career to that particular son rather than a girlfriend.

BlondeFool · 15/06/2026 21:10

BeardySchnauzer · 15/06/2026 20:59

I think she can choose what she wears. It just has to be from VBs shop.

No they choose what she wears. She has no choice for a teen. And it’s always VB’s weird nightie dresses.

JulietteHasAGun · 15/06/2026 21:11

Iirc flying monkeys is a reference to wizard of oz. The witch sent the flying monkeys to get Dorothy.

Tableforjoan · 15/06/2026 21:11

Wasn’t she also spotted wearing a dress her mum did a day or two before.

Flattering for her mum I guess. Not so sure at 14 I wanted to be fitting into the clothes my mum wore tbh.

BeardySchnauzer · 15/06/2026 21:12

BlondeFool · 15/06/2026 21:10

No they choose what she wears. She has no choice for a teen. And it’s always VB’s weird nightie dresses.

I was joking because there isn’t a lot of choice!

I also feel VB doesn’t want to be upstaged - I don’t think the colour was great choice for her for example

JulietteHasAGun · 15/06/2026 21:12

In psychology, a flying monkey is someone manipulated by a narcissist to do their "dirty work". Borrowed from The Wizard of Oz (where the Wicked Witch's minions do her bidding without question), these individuals act as enforcers, spies, or messengers to harass and manipulate a target on the abuser's behalf

BlondeFool · 15/06/2026 21:13

BeardySchnauzer · 15/06/2026 21:12

I was joking because there isn’t a lot of choice!

I also feel VB doesn’t want to be upstaged - I don’t think the colour was great choice for her for example

Sorry I was scrolling and typing. VB looks extremely poorly. It’s all so sad.

Teakettletrio · 15/06/2026 21:19

PillowAtNight · 15/06/2026 19:44

I agree. The revealing pink nightie slip “dress” is sexually explicit in a pubescent 14 year old - and that is actually creepy IMO. Deliberately showing off her pubescent breasts and nipples for goodness sake. Who does that to their daughter? What kind of attention are they trying to garner here, apart from some pervy old men? Presumably the Beckham parents are actually encouraging their 14 year-old to be sexually provocative like that? Just to show off Victoria’s dreadful nightdress “designs”. I really and truly find it sexually creepy, almost like pimping her out. Worse than anything they allegedly did to Brooklyn, imo.

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Exactly this. Put her developing boobs away. No one needs to see them. If it wasn’t her parents dressing her like this, could you imagine any fashion house or film studio or pop promoter getting away with parading a 14 year old in front of the press dressed like that? The whole lolita thing going on. Full face of make up. Stilettos. It’s sickening.

BeardySchnauzer · 15/06/2026 21:21

She wasn’t wearing stilettos tbf

Teakettletrio · 15/06/2026 21:27

BeardySchnauzer · 15/06/2026 21:21

She wasn’t wearing stilettos tbf

I’d say these count as stiletto heeled mules.

What is going on with Brooklyn/Harper Beckham?
Empress13 · 15/06/2026 21:29

Teakettletrio · 15/06/2026 21:19

Exactly this. Put her developing boobs away. No one needs to see them. If it wasn’t her parents dressing her like this, could you imagine any fashion house or film studio or pop promoter getting away with parading a 14 year old in front of the press dressed like that? The whole lolita thing going on. Full face of make up. Stilettos. It’s sickening.

Agree totally inappropriate for a 14 year ols child ! Can VB only design satin nighties sooo boring

BeardySchnauzer · 15/06/2026 21:30

They’re kitten heels aren’t they? My dd is wearing lower kitten heels that are a little less ornate to her end of year party.

its the dress really. But she must have felt comfortable because she did take the cardi off

it’s just uncomfortable seeing her paraded around

Teakettletrio · 15/06/2026 22:01

@BeardySchnauzer they are higher than kitten heels. If you look at them next to VB’s stilettos they are almost as high.

Decacaffeinatednow · 15/06/2026 22:05

They are Aquazurra Tequila Mule retailing at $1285.

BeardySchnauzer · 15/06/2026 22:07

I’m not sure they are that high but the style is a bit grown up.

the whole outfit is off though - particularly compared to what her mother is wearing. It’s all so weird.

i guess it’s like the photos from their holidays (which were v staged) - lots of comments on what harper was wearing

i find this current obsession with girls quite disturbing tbh - Venezuela fury is another