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What’s disliked on Mumsnet but very popular in everyday life?

645 replies

coulditbeme2323 · Yesterday 10:25

What's hated on MN, but insanely popular in real life?

Disney World
Starbucks, Costa, Nero etc
Center Parcs
A sensible political stance
McDonald's

What else?

OP posts:
Toyesrus · Yesterday 17:34

Mangelwurzelfortea · Yesterday 12:15

The collective IQ is dropping thanks to the influx of Reform voters and Americans though. It's becoming much more like the Daily Mail comments, and a lot less enjoyable. (Although I'm still here so hey-ho!)

Intentionally offensive or unthinkingly racist?

Ghht · Yesterday 17:35

Treating your 21 year old child like a grown adult.

CarbonArtist · Yesterday 17:36

Has anyone said Dryrobes?

SerafinasGoose · Yesterday 17:36

Women. Of which this thread is ample proof.

Actually, scrub that. We are not particularly popular in the offline world either. And yes, Mumsnetters are real people who do exist offline, and who don't somehow magically change our tastes and beliefs the minute we log onto the www.

Bluedenimdoglover · Yesterday 17:37

MrsShawnHatosy · Yesterday 10:29

Hot tubs used to be very popular on Mumsnet when they cost a lot of money. But then the cheaper inflatable ones came along and they were suddenly accessible to the masses, and then they became very unpopular.

Edited

Eeeuch.....can't think of anything more naff, expensive ones or cheapie inflatables.

Zov · Yesterday 17:38

SuperSharpShooter · Yesterday 14:39

Came to say this. I don't know anyone in real life who would know what it stood for.
I mean, they'd get the concept of shit meat/better foods etc but not thee term (or the turmoil around) UPF 🤷‍♀️

Really? I thought it was common knowledge what UPF stands for.

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 17:39

Ghht · Yesterday 17:35

Treating your 21 year old child like a grown adult.

Yes !

I'm tired of posts telling us that youngsters are still children until they're 18 (and in fact, can be excused all kinds of crimes because their brains have not matured until they're 25...🙄), but suddenly, on the eve of their 18th birthday, they transform into adults and you can then expect them to support themselves financially, do all their own life admin, travel the world alone and take complete responsibility for their lives. You can even chuck them out of the house!

It's quite phenomenal what happens on that particular night.

Zov · Yesterday 17:41

I would also like to add 'not cooking from scratch.' On Mumsnet it seems to be like a deathly sin to use ready meals/microwave meals/frozen food. In real life, most people actually use them.

Comeonelieen · Yesterday 17:45

JHound · Yesterday 11:20

I have never noticed men hatred on MN. Definitely no difference to real life.

I would say toilet brushes and workmen using your toilet.

You don’t hear much good of men on MN but then people in happy relationships don’t tend to post about it.

BigYellowBus · Yesterday 17:51

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 17:39

Yes !

I'm tired of posts telling us that youngsters are still children until they're 18 (and in fact, can be excused all kinds of crimes because their brains have not matured until they're 25...🙄), but suddenly, on the eve of their 18th birthday, they transform into adults and you can then expect them to support themselves financially, do all their own life admin, travel the world alone and take complete responsibility for their lives. You can even chuck them out of the house!

It's quite phenomenal what happens on that particular night.

See slso 'Can I leave my 18.year old and my 15 year old on their own for an evening?'

Charlize43 · Yesterday 17:55

ThePeppyOpalScroller · Yesterday 10:27

Men.

LOL! For sure. Some women here get very frothy at the mention of them, like the woman who felt 'violated' because some man had said good morning to her when getting on the train carriage, and the one who felt that single men with rucksacks shouldn't be allowed in parks / woods (so she followed him).

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · Yesterday 17:58

Zov · Yesterday 17:41

I would also like to add 'not cooking from scratch.' On Mumsnet it seems to be like a deathly sin to use ready meals/microwave meals/frozen food. In real life, most people actually use them.

don’t have them a lot but M&S ready meals (like liver and bacon with mash) save me cooking a whole dinner or doing a whole pot then freezing or putting in fridge. I live by myself and sometimes boyfriend stays over so cook for him but otherwise they’re easy, sometimes.

igelkott2026 · Yesterday 17:59

SerafinasGoose · Yesterday 17:36

Women. Of which this thread is ample proof.

Actually, scrub that. We are not particularly popular in the offline world either. And yes, Mumsnetters are real people who do exist offline, and who don't somehow magically change our tastes and beliefs the minute we log onto the www.

Obviously.

But there do seem to be MN viewpoints that I don't encounter elsewhere. An example would be the paranoia about wearing anything vaguely light-coloured to a wedding. I've never heard that anywhere but on MN.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · Yesterday 18:00

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · Yesterday 17:19

I don’t mean he personally goes to cubs - there’s another thread about cub camps not being taken up. I was thinking if it’s common for 8 yo’s to be co-sleeping then no wonder!

But I just mean 8 is very old
to be co sleeping

Trust me his bedroom is being decorated atm and then he’ll share with his younger brother bunk beds this summer. It is ridiculous. But knowing MN I’d be told to keep my beak out if I posted about it on here. He rarely stays with me unless in my bed. I’ve got a perfectly good spare room for him!

igelkott2026 · Yesterday 18:01

Ghht · Yesterday 17:35

Treating your 21 year old child like a grown adult.

But equally if you dare to buy your 18 year old a rucksack for university you get pilloried. I wish I could find the thread again - it was mad. Buying your adult child something is babying them apparently. So what am I doing if I buy my mum a present 😂

Endoadnowarrior · Yesterday 18:03

coulditbeme2323 · Yesterday 10:25

What's hated on MN, but insanely popular in real life?

Disney World
Starbucks, Costa, Nero etc
Center Parcs
A sensible political stance
McDonald's

What else?

Basic respect for diversity.

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 18:07

Another MN mantra is 'It's none of your business!'

Well, some things might not be our business, but usually this refers to something that definitely IS! Like the next door neighbour filling their garden with what is basically landfill rubbish so that rats take up residence, or having sex in the garden. I've seen examples of these claims on here.

If it affects you then it is your business on some level. That doesn't mean you can always do much about it, I admit!

BigYellowBus · Yesterday 18:09

Endoadnowarrior · Yesterday 18:03

Basic respect for diversity.

My real life experience is that people often don't think a man can snap his fingers an become a woman but it doesn't really affect them so let people define themselves ho they want

BIWI · Yesterday 18:14

GodDamnitDonut · Yesterday 17:21

No it isn’t. Most of us know exactly what the OP meant.

Really?

As the thread has moved on, and the OP has posted more, perhaps. But from the outset, her view of 'sensible' was not defined. My view of 'sensible' is my view - and her view is her view. The two could be/are very likely to be very different. As PP have said, it is a subjective statement.

followtheswallow · Yesterday 18:34

BIWI · Yesterday 18:14

Really?

As the thread has moved on, and the OP has posted more, perhaps. But from the outset, her view of 'sensible' was not defined. My view of 'sensible' is my view - and her view is her view. The two could be/are very likely to be very different. As PP have said, it is a subjective statement.

I have no problem with how this is expressed.

WTAF is A sensible political stance just kicked off a load of bickering, which I think was the intention.

It is a bit tiresome when someone nitpicks part of an OP and then several pages later an enjoyable thread has been impeded on.

Marmalademorning · Yesterday 18:56

Artificial lawns. I’ve seen them a lot in real life and online, but they are hated on Mumsnet (by people who presumably wear plastic clothes and use disposable coffee mugs, and fly on holiday).

Thepeopleversuswork · Yesterday 18:58

igelkott2026 · Yesterday 17:59

Obviously.

But there do seem to be MN viewpoints that I don't encounter elsewhere. An example would be the paranoia about wearing anything vaguely light-coloured to a wedding. I've never heard that anywhere but on MN.

Some of the wedding dress code threads are utterly batshit.

The world of wedding etiquette around clothes is alien to me: I thought this was a windup when I first read people asking if someone would be offended if they wore cream or light blue…

Who has time to worry about stuff like this?

Differentforgirls · Yesterday 19:01

SilverSilk · Yesterday 16:20

Calling toilets ‘bathrooms’ is an Americanism. Perhaps the OP is American. I don’t think so though. I think some people use social media a lot these days and start using American words like vacation instead of holiday. I will stick with ‘toilets’.

Ditto.

JHound · Yesterday 19:07

Comeonelieen · Yesterday 17:45

You don’t hear much good of men on MN but then people in happy relationships don’t tend to post about it.

I don’t hear much of bad men on here either. Or rather far more posters seem to be married than those who post about being married to / in relationships with terrible men. Seems more neutral than anything else.

Differentforgirls · Yesterday 19:08

coulditbeme2323 · Yesterday 16:34

Because it's creepy.

Pot and kettle spring to mind.