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To let you know the axe and machete girl WAS defending herself against her now convicted attacker.

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alittleprivacy · 11/06/2026 20:22

A lot of posters here need to see the conclusion of this story about the clearly terrified child, that so many people were quick to be awful about. You all owe this extremely vulnerable child you participated in the defamation of, a massive fucking apology. I'm genuinely so angry about how so many grown women denigrated a hurt and scared child. Her fear was so evident in her voice and demeanor and so many mothers here were quick to throw her under a bus. Well you've all been proven wrong now, with the man she was trying to defend herself from found guilty of assault.

Honestly, just think about what you people did, defending a man who assaulted a child just because she was of a class you deem beneath you. I hope you're very, very ashamed and take stock before more girls like her suffer worse.

https://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/uk/bulgarian-man-guilty-of-assaulting-12-year-old-girl/a/156878498.html

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ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:33

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:31

And yet you vilify the girl for having no choice but to take matters into her own hands

Did she know he was going to attack her when she left the house?

If not, why did she have them on her? Because she always did?

I’m actually “vilifying” the people responsible for her, because if your child feels to need to carry a hatchet, you have already failed them.

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 10:33

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:28

And yet all those adults failed to protect the girls in Rotherham sometimes it’s not the solution

You cannot use a totally separate and unrelated event, in another country no less, to justify vigilante behaviour elsewhere.

People should not be allowed to walk around armed with axes and knives, it goes without saying that children are included.

Predators should face harsh legal penalties for things like sexual abuse, far more than is often dished out, and people should not arm themselves and publicly brandish weapons like knives and axes. It’s not an either/ or scenario.
Thinking someone shouldn’t be on the street with an axe does not mean you think a predator should have no consequences.

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:34

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:31

Your parents were wrong. HTH.

I know you find this hard to believe, but some people do raise their children to understand that violence = wrong, carrying knives = bad, and yes - we manage that risk.

Are you trolling?

You skipped over the part I said I was getting beaten up by bullies? Violence is wrong so just let other people batter you?

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:36

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:34

Are you trolling?

You skipped over the part I said I was getting beaten up by bullies? Violence is wrong so just let other people batter you?

What would you do if your child was getting bullied, send them out with a weapon?

Because you appear to think that’s the only answer here.

ArmySal · Yesterday 10:36

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:33

Did she know he was going to attack her when she left the house?

If not, why did she have them on her? Because she always did?

I’m actually “vilifying” the people responsible for her, because if your child feels to need to carry a hatchet, you have already failed them.

Just looking through some news articles, I can’t find one where she’s accused the man of saying anything to her on previous occasions.

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:37

ArmySal · Yesterday 10:36

Just looking through some news articles, I can’t find one where she’s accused the man of saying anything to her on previous occasions.

I can’t either.

Which is where the “carrying them to protect herself” falls down.

When she left the house, from what I can see, there was no known reason to protect herself.

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:37

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 10:33

You cannot use a totally separate and unrelated event, in another country no less, to justify vigilante behaviour elsewhere.

People should not be allowed to walk around armed with axes and knives, it goes without saying that children are included.

Predators should face harsh legal penalties for things like sexual abuse, far more than is often dished out, and people should not arm themselves and publicly brandish weapons like knives and axes. It’s not an either/ or scenario.
Thinking someone shouldn’t be on the street with an axe does not mean you think a predator should have no consequences.

Another country? Last I checked Scotland wasn’t independent yet. And is more ideologically captured than the uk from what I’ve heard they don’t even expel violent students from schools up there.
Im sure the police are absolutely marvellous and not at all overly concerned with not seeming racist like the police in England.

Secretseverywhere · Yesterday 10:38

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:28

Which brings me back to parents.

Her parents allowed her out of the house, to walk the streets, with a knife and a hatchet, without a working phone?

Top parenting.

I think often girls who are the victims of sexual violence have been failed by their parents. What are we doing as a society to protect them? If they were taken into care they’d be even more preyed upon.

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:40

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:36

What would you do if your child was getting bullied, send them out with a weapon?

Because you appear to think that’s the only answer here.

We’re not at that age yet. But when we are I’ll be a lot younger and physically fitter than my parents were when I was 12 so weapons likely wont be necessary. I also no longer live in an area where my children are likely to be bullied.

Not everyone’s parents are the same.

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:42

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:40

We’re not at that age yet. But when we are I’ll be a lot younger and physically fitter than my parents were when I was 12 so weapons likely wont be necessary. I also no longer live in an area where my children are likely to be bullied.

Not everyone’s parents are the same.

I grew up in the shittiest of shithole council estates in the NE, and now live in Cheshire. I only have for 2 years, so 35 years of my life were spent in an environment just like that little girls.

Bullies live everywhere. You’re not immune to them because you’ve moved.

Are you suggesting by “physically fitter and younger” that you’d hit them yourself?

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 10:42

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:37

Another country? Last I checked Scotland wasn’t independent yet. And is more ideologically captured than the uk from what I’ve heard they don’t even expel violent students from schools up there.
Im sure the police are absolutely marvellous and not at all overly concerned with not seeming racist like the police in England.

Yes country.
Scotland is still a country in itself whether or not it’s part of the UK. That’s irrelevant.
Perhaps you need to have more basic facts before talking about something.

teninarow · Yesterday 10:44

ArmySal · 11/06/2026 21:01

Nah wtf she had the knife and the axe already on her?

She sounds rough as toast 😑

She sounds rough as toast
Nope, that would be you

8TinyToeBeans · Yesterday 10:45

I can't see anything in the article stating that this was an ongoing issue. It reads like this is the first interaction.
He shouldn't have said what he did. Personally, I don't think the girls should have escalated it but I understand the desire to stand up for yourself - it would have been safer to ignore him. He wanted a reaction and they gave him it. And when they escalated, he should have acted like an adult and walked away.
But none of that answers why a child is carrying weapons. She's no hero. There's something seriously flawed with that mentality. Lochee is rough as a badgers arse, so maybe it's a product of a specific mentality, but it shouldn't be normalised or praised.

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:45

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:42

I grew up in the shittiest of shithole council estates in the NE, and now live in Cheshire. I only have for 2 years, so 35 years of my life were spent in an environment just like that little girls.

Bullies live everywhere. You’re not immune to them because you’ve moved.

Are you suggesting by “physically fitter and younger” that you’d hit them yourself?

I am tbh if I have to when my eldest is 12 I’ll only be 28.
Whete I live now is completely different from where I lived age 12 the layout of the streets and the fact we are surrounded by elderly people and the families I do know are really nice. There’s no chance my children will be bullied to the extent I was here

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:46

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 10:42

Yes country.
Scotland is still a country in itself whether or not it’s part of the UK. That’s irrelevant.
Perhaps you need to have more basic facts before talking about something.

Yeah and the uk is also a country. Containing Scotland Northern Ireland wales and England.

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:47

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:45

I am tbh if I have to when my eldest is 12 I’ll only be 28.
Whete I live now is completely different from where I lived age 12 the layout of the streets and the fact we are surrounded by elderly people and the families I do know are really nice. There’s no chance my children will be bullied to the extent I was here

So when you’re 28 you’ll punch a 12 year old if you “have to?”

I’m not sure I have anything else to add, that’s quite obviously horrendous.

You obviously do think that violence is the only answer.

Naunet · Yesterday 10:48

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 10:12

I’d argue pedophiles and people running around wielding axes on our streets are both among the some of the most serious threats.

We are not talking about 'people' carrying knives and axes, we're talking about a little girl who was being harassed by a grown man, and you want to paint her, the victim as being as bad as he is. Frankly I'd argue women like you are as bad he is.

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:50

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:47

So when you’re 28 you’ll punch a 12 year old if you “have to?”

I’m not sure I have anything else to add, that’s quite obviously horrendous.

You obviously do think that violence is the only answer.

If other kids are beating my kid like I was beaten then I will do what I have to do.
You haven’t given an actual solution on what YOU would do other than allow you child to be bullied or assaulted. Never allowing them to leave the house and you driving them everywhere? Some life that would be. Or calling the police who are useless in this country and probably won’t get there in time anyway

ArmySal · Yesterday 10:51

teninarow · Yesterday 10:44

She sounds rough as toast
Nope, that would be you

Nope. Born and raised in the “grooming capital” of NW England though, next to the estate deemed the most deprived in England for 5 years running.
My parents were teenagers, drink and drug problems, went to school with holes in my shoes and was exposed to things no child should be.

Never armed myself with weapons though.

TheHateUGive · Yesterday 10:51

Hoardasurass · Yesterday 07:44

Because shes not protecting herself, her sister and her friends from other kids. She defending them from sexually predatory, violent grown men because police Scotland and the uk and Scottish government's won't.

Oh and for those posters who are going on about the girls "racially abusing" the pervert he lied just like Henry Novacks killer, it's a common lie amongst certain groups always said to try and excuse or minimise the consequences of their own behaviour and it normally works. It initially worked in this case, the girl was arrested, the police put out statements condemning her and defending him. Only after the footage went viral did the police actually investigate and arrest and charge both the man and his sister.

For to long false claims of racism have been used as a get out of jail free card or just to shut people down or have them fired. Its now long past the point that we need to arrest and prosecute everyone who makes a false claim or racism to the full extent of the law ie wasting police time, making a false report and a hate crime (separate crime under Scots law) or with a hate crime enhancement (under English law). Perhaps then when enough of these race baiters are jailed for it they will stop lieing to protect themselves

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My son would be defending himself against murder.

BarryKentPoet · Yesterday 10:52

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ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:52

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:50

If other kids are beating my kid like I was beaten then I will do what I have to do.
You haven’t given an actual solution on what YOU would do other than allow you child to be bullied or assaulted. Never allowing them to leave the house and you driving them everywhere? Some life that would be. Or calling the police who are useless in this country and probably won’t get there in time anyway

I cannot engage with someone who not only thinks children should carry weapons, but that they’d personally hit a child.

Clavinova · Yesterday 10:53

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 09:52

There are about 500 options open to a 12 year old if a predator is making lewd comments at her in the street that don’t involve being armed to the teeth with an axe and a knife, if you can’t think what those could be I can’t help you.
Call her parents, call the police, she was on the street so go into the closest shop and wait until there while I’m sure they would gladly phone the police and sit with her until they arrived.
The answer is not to carry an axe and a knife.

To be fair, the man had already pushed the 12-year-old girl to the ground before she took out her weapons. Obviously I don't agree with her having weapons, but clearly 'options' are somewhat narrowed if a man is willing and able to push you to the ground. She also told the court that she hit her head on railings as she fell.

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:54

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:52

I cannot engage with someone who not only thinks children should carry weapons, but that they’d personally hit a child.

Cool you never properly answered my questions it was all just outrage at the prospect of a victim defending themselves anyway.
My parents were lovely but they were too old and fat to defend me however I won’t be.

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 10:58

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