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To let you know the axe and machete girl WAS defending herself against her now convicted attacker.

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alittleprivacy · 11/06/2026 20:22

A lot of posters here need to see the conclusion of this story about the clearly terrified child, that so many people were quick to be awful about. You all owe this extremely vulnerable child you participated in the defamation of, a massive fucking apology. I'm genuinely so angry about how so many grown women denigrated a hurt and scared child. Her fear was so evident in her voice and demeanor and so many mothers here were quick to throw her under a bus. Well you've all been proven wrong now, with the man she was trying to defend herself from found guilty of assault.

Honestly, just think about what you people did, defending a man who assaulted a child just because she was of a class you deem beneath you. I hope you're very, very ashamed and take stock before more girls like her suffer worse.

https://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/uk/bulgarian-man-guilty-of-assaulting-12-year-old-girl/a/156878498.html

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Shedmistress · Yesterday 10:15

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 10:12

I’d argue pedophiles and people running around wielding axes on our streets are both among the some of the most serious threats.

Again, not an axe and she wasn't running around wielding axes on the streets.

This was a petrified 12 year old girl wanting to stop a man and his sister from sexually assaulting her and her sister.

Maybe you should write up your 500 things to do if two people are wanting to sexually assault you and we can all learn from your vast experience.

Lets start with just the first 50? And take it from there.

Over to you.

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:16

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 10:10

Well it’s the same police when it’s two different countries as far as policing powers go.

You can’t use something that hadn’t even happened yet as justification for something else. There is nothing to suggest if the children had called the police or gone into a shop and sat there while the police are called, that it wouldn’t have been taken seriously.

You simply cannot just say “well the police might not have done anything so I can just take matters into my own hands” that’s now how the norms and laws work in this country.

We’ve seen with grooming gangs how the police put predators before white girls because they don’t want to be accused of being racist

Secretseverywhere · Yesterday 10:17

Shudacudawuda · Yesterday 10:05

Of course its not right that she was carrying weapons, but instead of blaming her we should be blaming the ADULTS that made her feel like she needed to.
Quite a few of those on this thread.

I completely agree with this.

ArmySal · Yesterday 10:18

Why are you saying “not an axe, a hatchet”, like a hatchet is a soft toy?

Both could kill you with one blow.
Knife/machete, potato potato.

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:18

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:16

We’ve seen with grooming gangs how the police put predators before white girls because they don’t want to be accused of being racist

Can I just point out that the argument on here tends to be that Asians are dangerous because grooming gangs.

This man was Bulgarian. We can’t use Muslim grooming gangs as the reason for everything.

AsItRains · Yesterday 10:18

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 09:52

There are about 500 options open to a 12 year old if a predator is making lewd comments at her in the street that don’t involve being armed to the teeth with an axe and a knife, if you can’t think what those could be I can’t help you.
Call her parents, call the police, she was on the street so go into the closest shop and wait until there while I’m sure they would gladly phone the police and sit with her until they arrived.
The answer is not to carry an axe and a knife.

The same police who accused the girls publicly of misinformation?
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c3r40gylxpwo

I’m sure the girls know what would happen if they reported the incident to the police - at best nothing. (See grooming gangs) At worst they would be blamed and vilified - as indeed happened. People who should have known better chose to ignore the terror in a young girl’s voice and rather saw the grown man as the victim.

I woud hope no one believes children carrying knives or weapons to protect themselves is a good thing. It is a terrible thing, But the failure is the systems not theirs. It has failed and keeps on failing to protect working class children especially.

And the predator didn’t just make lewd comments. After making the sexual remarks he grabbed and pushed one of them to the ground while his sister assaulted the 13-year-old girl by seizing and pulling her hair, dragging her to the ground, and striking her on the head causing injury during the incident.

A picture of a teenager holding items that have been blurred for legal reasons. The teenager's identity has also been hidden

Police misinformation warning over girl's weapons arrest in Dundee

Footage of the alleged incident in Dundee has been circulating on social media.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c3r40gylxpwo

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:19

ArmySal · Yesterday 10:18

Why are you saying “not an axe, a hatchet”, like a hatchet is a soft toy?

Both could kill you with one blow.
Knife/machete, potato potato.

Precisely.

If I send my kid to school with a shotgun instead of a machine gun, will that be okay?

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:19

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:18

Can I just point out that the argument on here tends to be that Asians are dangerous because grooming gangs.

This man was Bulgarian. We can’t use Muslim grooming gangs as the reason for everything.

The argument is the police cared more about not being racist whether that’s against Pakistanis or Bulgarians is irrelevant

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 10:19

Shedmistress · Yesterday 10:15

Again, not an axe and she wasn't running around wielding axes on the streets.

This was a petrified 12 year old girl wanting to stop a man and his sister from sexually assaulting her and her sister.

Maybe you should write up your 500 things to do if two people are wanting to sexually assault you and we can all learn from your vast experience.

Lets start with just the first 50? And take it from there.

Over to you.

She was on the street with an axe, as mentioned in the article people have chosen to share, and a knife.

Anyone on the street with concealed dangerous weapons is a danger to others around them and themselves.

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:20

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:19

The argument is the police cared more about not being racist whether that’s against Pakistanis or Bulgarians is irrelevant

It’s not. Not unless it suits whatever the narrative is today.

The specific debate on here is about Muslim grooming gangs. You know it and I do.

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:23

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:20

It’s not. Not unless it suits whatever the narrative is today.

The specific debate on here is about Muslim grooming gangs. You know it and I do.

You’re waffling again.

I said the police cared more about being antiracist than the safety of white girls, whether that’s antiracist against Pakistanis or Bulgarians is irrelevant

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:24

@ChunkyMonkey36

Waffling instead of coherently answering what a little girl being followed by a predator should do. Seeing as all you have is outrage that she brandished a knife but no mention of what else she could have done

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:24

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:23

You’re waffling again.

I said the police cared more about being antiracist than the safety of white girls, whether that’s antiracist against Pakistanis or Bulgarians is irrelevant

The police weren’t given the chance to protect this specific white little girl.

You can’t just guess that they wouldn’t have, because of a legitimate scandal somewhere entirely different, involving people from an entirely different background.

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:25

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:24

@ChunkyMonkey36

Waffling instead of coherently answering what a little girl being followed by a predator should do. Seeing as all you have is outrage that she brandished a knife but no mention of what else she could have done

Police, parents, an adult.

They’re all sensible things a child in danger should do.

Go to the people whose job it is to protect them, and then those people do that job.

Shedmistress · Yesterday 10:26

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:23

You’re waffling again.

I said the police cared more about being antiracist than the safety of white girls, whether that’s antiracist against Pakistanis or Bulgarians is irrelevant

Perhaps one of the '500 things to do if two people are wanting to sexually assault you' is to verify the nationality so that the 12 year old girl could look up the processes and procedures she should follow appropriately when wanting to not be sexually assaulted? I mean, thats apparently the important thing, getting the nationality of the threat documented.

Secretseverywhere · Yesterday 10:26

ArmySal · Yesterday 10:18

Why are you saying “not an axe, a hatchet”, like a hatchet is a soft toy?

Both could kill you with one blow.
Knife/machete, potato potato.

I think it’s important to be factual to be fair. You really need to handle an axe with both hands which didn’t really make sense with her having a weapon in each hand.

Shedmistress · Yesterday 10:27

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:25

Police, parents, an adult.

They’re all sensible things a child in danger should do.

Go to the people whose job it is to protect them, and then those people do that job.

The police arrested her and put a statement out that her words were 'misinformation'. Those police?

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:27

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:24

The police weren’t given the chance to protect this specific white little girl.

You can’t just guess that they wouldn’t have, because of a legitimate scandal somewhere entirely different, involving people from an entirely different background.

ah so you think the solution was to call the police? Who may not have even got there in time, she may not have had a phone or a phone with credit on it. She’s also a scared little girl not thinking straight.

Brandishing them weapons may have saved her life or saved her from being raped. But yes continue to act like that little girl is evil for defending herself

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:28

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:27

ah so you think the solution was to call the police? Who may not have even got there in time, she may not have had a phone or a phone with credit on it. She’s also a scared little girl not thinking straight.

Brandishing them weapons may have saved her life or saved her from being raped. But yes continue to act like that little girl is evil for defending herself

Which brings me back to parents.

Her parents allowed her out of the house, to walk the streets, with a knife and a hatchet, without a working phone?

Top parenting.

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:28

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:25

Police, parents, an adult.

They’re all sensible things a child in danger should do.

Go to the people whose job it is to protect them, and then those people do that job.

And yet all those adults failed to protect the girls in Rotherham sometimes it’s not the solution

AsItRains · Yesterday 10:29

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:24

The police weren’t given the chance to protect this specific white little girl.

You can’t just guess that they wouldn’t have, because of a legitimate scandal somewhere entirely different, involving people from an entirely different background.

The police accused the girls’ of lying, leading to the girls’ public vilification and then charged one of the girls.
So yes we do know that they failed to protect this specific white little girl.

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:30

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:28

Which brings me back to parents.

Her parents allowed her out of the house, to walk the streets, with a knife and a hatchet, without a working phone?

Top parenting.

Again so did my parents.
Do you check your child’s pockets every single time they leave the house? Do you have one of them airport security scanners to put their school bag through every morning?

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:30

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:28

And yet all those adults failed to protect the girls in Rotherham sometimes it’s not the solution

Oh she’s absolutely been failed by the adults in her life, agreed.

Rotherham is quite far from Scotland and completely unrelated to this situation, but the failure of adults to protect their own children definitely is true here.

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:31

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:30

Oh she’s absolutely been failed by the adults in her life, agreed.

Rotherham is quite far from Scotland and completely unrelated to this situation, but the failure of adults to protect their own children definitely is true here.

And yet you vilify the girl for having no choice but to take matters into her own hands

ChunkyMonkey36 · Yesterday 10:31

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 10:30

Again so did my parents.
Do you check your child’s pockets every single time they leave the house? Do you have one of them airport security scanners to put their school bag through every morning?

Your parents were wrong. HTH.

I know you find this hard to believe, but some people do raise their children to understand that violence = wrong, carrying knives = bad, and yes - we manage that risk.