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To let you know the axe and machete girl WAS defending herself against her now convicted attacker.

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alittleprivacy · 11/06/2026 20:22

A lot of posters here need to see the conclusion of this story about the clearly terrified child, that so many people were quick to be awful about. You all owe this extremely vulnerable child you participated in the defamation of, a massive fucking apology. I'm genuinely so angry about how so many grown women denigrated a hurt and scared child. Her fear was so evident in her voice and demeanor and so many mothers here were quick to throw her under a bus. Well you've all been proven wrong now, with the man she was trying to defend herself from found guilty of assault.

Honestly, just think about what you people did, defending a man who assaulted a child just because she was of a class you deem beneath you. I hope you're very, very ashamed and take stock before more girls like her suffer worse.

https://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/uk/bulgarian-man-guilty-of-assaulting-12-year-old-girl/a/156878498.html

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Teethyblinders · Yesterday 13:19

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 13:13

The majority of stabbing incidents in the UK is still by white perpetrators, not that any of this is remotely relevant.
You seem to think that because some young black boys illegally and wrongly carry knives that it’s fair game for a girl to carry an axe.
One does not justify the other, it’s literally not relevant or comparable.

Ever heard of per capita?

What would have happened to that little girl if she hadn’t been carrying her knife? I for one am glad she managed to scare him off

JHound · Yesterday 13:20

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 13:19

Ever heard of per capita?

What would have happened to that little girl if she hadn’t been carrying her knife? I for one am glad she managed to scare him off

And what happens if she gets in a random argument with somebody one day while
having a knife and axe in her waistband?

Naunet · Yesterday 13:21

ArmySal · Yesterday 13:15

I said that. In response to how vulnerable this girl was and how everyone here is looking down their noses at her with how poor she is.
Some have had it worse, some still live in worse conditions and don't go out carrying knives and hatchets.

Plenty of people have had it worse than this man and still dont go around sexually harassing and shoving little girls. Amazing how its so normalised that some people hardly even seem to register that HE is the violent abuser here, and instead focus on the much, much rarer situation of a 12 year old girl carrying weapons. Why cant we focus on the real danger to society here? It really is shocking.

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 13:22

ArmySal · Yesterday 13:15

I said that. In response to how vulnerable this girl was and how everyone here is looking down their noses at her with how poor she is.
Some have had it worse, some still live in worse conditions and don't go out carrying knives and hatchets.

It’s nothing to do with being poor and everything to do with being safe. I grew up in a middle class home in a normal town and had bullies chasing me and knocking my teeth out, I know people who grew up dirt poor and didn’t deal with that. So being poor is irrelevant.

That girl carrying a knife and hatchet may have saved her life

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 13:23

JHound · Yesterday 13:20

And what happens if she gets in a random argument with somebody one day while
having a knife and axe in her waistband?

It wasn’t a random argument it was a predatory adult man following her around

Naunet · Yesterday 13:23

JHound · Yesterday 13:20

And what happens if she gets in a random argument with somebody one day while
having a knife and axe in her waistband?

There is no evidence she ever attacked anyone or regularly carried weapons. Why are you demonising her?

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 13:24

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 13:19

Ever heard of per capita?

What would have happened to that little girl if she hadn’t been carrying her knife? I for one am glad she managed to scare him off

Per capita is not a majority of standings like your initial claim.

Most knife crime incidents are still perpetrated by white criminals, what does this have to do with the topic at hand?

Why do you feel the need to deflect to totally random things?

Are you aware Adolescence was not a documentary?

ArmySal · Yesterday 13:25

Naunet · Yesterday 13:21

Plenty of people have had it worse than this man and still dont go around sexually harassing and shoving little girls. Amazing how its so normalised that some people hardly even seem to register that HE is the violent abuser here, and instead focus on the much, much rarer situation of a 12 year old girl carrying weapons. Why cant we focus on the real danger to society here? It really is shocking.

You know people are capable of two thoughts at once?

I'd lock up every predatory man because of the harm they cause women and girls.

I don't think anyone should be arming themselves with weapons when they go out.

JHound · Yesterday 13:25

Naunet · Yesterday 13:21

Plenty of people have had it worse than this man and still dont go around sexually harassing and shoving little girls. Amazing how its so normalised that some people hardly even seem to register that HE is the violent abuser here, and instead focus on the much, much rarer situation of a 12 year old girl carrying weapons. Why cant we focus on the real danger to society here? It really is shocking.

Nobody has defended him sexually harrassing a girl.

People have been defending her walking the streets with an axe and a knife.

ArmySal · Yesterday 13:26

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 13:22

It’s nothing to do with being poor and everything to do with being safe. I grew up in a middle class home in a normal town and had bullies chasing me and knocking my teeth out, I know people who grew up dirt poor and didn’t deal with that. So being poor is irrelevant.

That girl carrying a knife and hatchet may have saved her life

I WAS SAYING IT IN RESPONSE TO THOSE WHO SAID WE ARE LOOKING DOWN OUR NOSES AT HER.

Naunet · Yesterday 13:26

ArmySal · Yesterday 13:25

You know people are capable of two thoughts at once?

I'd lock up every predatory man because of the harm they cause women and girls.

I don't think anyone should be arming themselves with weapons when they go out.

And yet the focus for some posters speaks for itself, hand wave his actions as "yeah its bad, but..." and then endless paragraphs about her.

gardenhedge · Yesterday 13:26

Naunet · Yesterday 12:48

In fact maybe you can tell me what I should have done when my dad was sexually abusing me? Don't worry, I never defended myself so the poor man was never hurt - phew! But seeing as everyone seemed to blame me for his 'attention', what was i meant to do at 3-8 years old? Please do enlighten me of my 500 options. Would I have been just as bad as him if id ever kept a knife under my pillow?

That is absolutely horrific Naunet, I'm so sorry you went through that - but surely you wouldn't suggest that children keeping a knife on them is the best thing to do if they are being sexually abused by a parent (or anyone else).

A child with a knife, especially at just 12 years old, is at huge risk of being over powered and having it used against them.

JHound · Yesterday 13:28

Naunet · Yesterday 13:23

There is no evidence she ever attacked anyone or regularly carried weapons. Why are you demonising her?

There is evidence she carried a knife and an axe. She had it on her.

I don’t see why history of offending is relevant. Is it ok for all the kids who walk the streets with a knife to have one on them as long as they don’t have a history of offending and there is no evidence they don’t routinely have one.

Naunet · Yesterday 13:31

JHound · Yesterday 13:28

There is evidence she carried a knife and an axe. She had it on her.

I don’t see why history of offending is relevant. Is it ok for all the kids who walk the streets with a knife to have one on them as long as they don’t have a history of offending and there is no evidence they don’t routinely have one.

Edited

Did you miss the word regularly? Or did you think with kids its a matter of guilty until proven innocent? Do it once and its fair to assume you do it all the time? And obviously it not ok, but it is understandable, do you get the difference?

Ablondiebutagoody · Yesterday 13:32

Police immediately believed the Bulgarian attackers, then along with Scottish MPs, embarked on a misinformation campaign. Hamza Yusuf called it "far right bullshit".

And people wonder why there are riots 🙄

Naunet · Yesterday 13:33

gardenhedge · Yesterday 13:26

That is absolutely horrific Naunet, I'm so sorry you went through that - but surely you wouldn't suggest that children keeping a knife on them is the best thing to do if they are being sexually abused by a parent (or anyone else).

A child with a knife, especially at just 12 years old, is at huge risk of being over powered and having it used against them.

No of course not, and i haven't. What I've said is that its understandable why this girl thought it was her best option, and that our focus should be on these men and keeping kids safe from them rather than demonising her. Apparently that view is something a lot of people here dont like though.

PurpleAxe · Yesterday 13:34

likelysuspect · 11/06/2026 21:49

I read what the judge said.

Its irrelevant to what I was responding to

Is racial abuse hurty words or not. is it abuse or not?

I dont doubt there was racial abuse as well as what he said.

Both abuse. Or both hurty words. Take your pick

Doesnt necessitate carrying weapons.

The worst possible narrative is trying to justify young people, or any people, carrying weapons 'for defence'. Not justifiable.

This is a seriously fucked up post.

When little girls have to start carrying weapons to defend themselves there is some very wrong with our society.

And YOU with this piece of bullshit post are an example of what is wrong.

Believe women, eh? Unless they are poor kids, then they deserve what they get.

TrafficBlocking · Yesterday 13:34

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 09:20

Exactly because what else was she supposed to do? Call the useless police who seem to prioritise allegations of racism over actual crime?

Majority of actual stabbings are committed by black men in London but sure let’s reserve our outrage over knifes for a little girl trying to protect herself ffs

Majority of actual stabbings are committed by black men in London
Factually Incorrect

JHound · Yesterday 13:36

Naunet · Yesterday 13:31

Did you miss the word regularly? Or did you think with kids its a matter of guilty until proven innocent? Do it once and its fair to assume you do it all the time? And obviously it not ok, but it is understandable, do you get the difference?

I don’t think any kid should have knives and axes on their person. Whether once, thrice or routinely.

JHound · Yesterday 13:37

TrafficBlocking · Yesterday 13:34

Majority of actual stabbings are committed by black men in London
Factually Incorrect

Edit - Misquoted.

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 13:38

ArmySal · Yesterday 13:26

I WAS SAYING IT IN RESPONSE TO THOSE WHO SAID WE ARE LOOKING DOWN OUR NOSES AT HER.

Look I have no idea who said what at this point and am just making general points. Having that knife may have saved her from sexual assault as we’ve seen the uk government care more about being anti racist then they do little white girls.

Then multiple posters piped up saying they grew up poor and never had to carry a knife well good for them I know people who grew up poor and grew up safely other than financially. Personally I grew up in a middle class family but had bullies waiting round the corner of my house and beating the crap out of me. Being poor is kind of irrelevant especially as we accept more and more adult male migrants and spread them around the country. You will see a lot more young girls carrying pepper spray. Rich poor and middle class aside

TheHateUGive · Yesterday 13:38

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 12:39

Majority of knife crime is committed by black men living in London. Not by little girls carrying knives for defence.

Are you one who thinks stop and search was racist? The solution to men in London stabbing each other is clearly to demonise a little girl on the internet.

Yes and my son is a Black boy in London who is at risk of being a victim of knife crime as statistics show. Should he then arm himself with a knife to defend himself against murder like you think this little white girl should arm herself with an axe to defend herself against rape?

If not, why not?

Ablondiebutagoody · Yesterday 13:38

TrafficBlocking · Yesterday 13:34

Majority of actual stabbings are committed by black men in London
Factually Incorrect

From published London Assembly statistics:

"Despite making up only 13% of London’s total population, black Londoners account for 45% of London’s knife murder victims, 61% of knife murder perpetrators and 53% of knife crime perpetrators"

Granted this is murder rather than stabbings but I would think that the percentages are similar

JHound · Yesterday 13:40

TheHateUGive · Yesterday 13:38

Yes and my son is a Black boy in London who is at risk of being a victim of knife crime as statistics show. Should he then arm himself with a knife to defend himself against murder like you think this little white girl should arm herself with an axe to defend herself against rape?

If not, why not?

This is the weakness in that posters argument. Most of the boys who carry knives do so because they feel in danger and the police cannot protect them.

Still makes it wrong.

JHound · Yesterday 13:41

Ablondiebutagoody · Yesterday 13:38

From published London Assembly statistics:

"Despite making up only 13% of London’s total population, black Londoners account for 45% of London’s knife murder victims, 61% of knife murder perpetrators and 53% of knife crime perpetrators"

Granted this is murder rather than stabbings but I would think that the percentages are similar

So not stats that support what they said and still irrelevant to this case in Dundee.