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AIBU to think something significant needs to be done by the government to stop these horrific events occurring?

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Northermcharn · Yesterday 19:11

'Afghan men 'fled UK in lorry after raping girl'

Mobile phone footage recovered from Safi's phone showed the men in the lorry laughing and gesticulating, which Hetherington said suggested they thought they "got away with it".

When they were found by French police in Calais on 3 December, they were returned to the UK.
Hetherington said the trio had no travel documents or identification and had given false names to French authorities.
After their real names were checked on police systems, they were arrested on suspicion of rape.
Sali, of St Werburghs, denies one count of human trafficking and two charges of rape.
Habibkheil, of Lockleaze, denies one count of human trafficking and one charge of rape.
Ahmadzai, of Redcliffe, denies one charge of rape and one charge of assault by penetration.
The 16-year-old also denied one charge of rape.
The trial continues.'

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cdx7rxj57zyo

The exterior entrance of Bristol Crown Court. It is a large sand coloured building with white columns outside the front, and large arched wooden double doors on the left.

Afghan men accused of fleeing UK after raping girl in Bristol

A jury is told three defendants left the country in a "deeply unusual" way after the alleged rape.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cdx7rxj57zyo

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mumofoneAloneandwell · Today 15:53

I'd like to see some decent people pointing out that some men from other cultures view young British girls as 'easy' and 'deserving of being raped'.

This wont get anywhere until decent, respectable politicians and voices stand up for British girls.

British girls can be black/white/asian etc, but often can be working class, brash and loud and therefore ignored by the police and those in power.

Northermcharn · Today 15:55

From [1] above:

'The most bizarre response was from Sinn Fein’s Michelle O’Neill, Northern Ireland’s First Minister. She was asked about Northern Ireland’s ‘porous border’ and described his claim as ‘fake news’ and ‘totally inappropriate’, before adding: ‘I don’t know any country that has open borders’.

O’Neill must understand that the Common Travel Area (CTA) creates an open border in the island of Ireland. There are no entry or exit controls between Ireland and Northern Ireland. If that isn’t a ‘porous’ or ‘open’ border, it’s hard to imagine what could be.

So, the same lies in Belfast as in Westminster. The same unwillingness to face reality. But also a particular, local problem. The CTA is a gaping hole in the UK’s border security. Anyone who makes it to Ireland can effectively wander into the UK entirely unchecked.

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Contrarymary30 · Today 15:56

hattie43 · Yesterday 19:19

You’ll never get anything done with a Labour government who wants them here and shuts down any debate on the issue . All their rhetoric is to gaslight pretending they’re on our side . The states job is to protect its citizens and they aren’t doing that .

Neither were any previous parties .

Walkyrie · Today 15:57

mumofoneAloneandwell · Today 15:53

I'd like to see some decent people pointing out that some men from other cultures view young British girls as 'easy' and 'deserving of being raped'.

This wont get anywhere until decent, respectable politicians and voices stand up for British girls.

British girls can be black/white/asian etc, but often can be working class, brash and loud and therefore ignored by the police and those in power.

Ironically many of the (small) group of mainstream politicians who have acknowledged this are non white themselves.

Whammyammy · Today 15:58

khw666 · Today 15:47

We need to remove the incentive to come here. Put them on floating boats or land away from the UK with the message you will not step foot in the UK and never be given permanent British citizenship. Plus you can't apply for your family to come here. It is time to be tough.

Would last axeeek then straight back into the cushy full board hotels and delivering uber eats.

Somerford · Today 15:58

RetiredFromExplaining · Today 15:48

I have lived and worked in and with different cultures. I’ve seen what it means when women are treated as lesser, when civic participation is restricted, and when people’s freedoms are constrained by the state, religion or social norms.

I’ve met women and men affected by those systems. I don’t romanticise them.

What I don’t do is assume that everyone who comes here from such a country shares those attitudes, or that people seeking safety, opportunity or freedom are automatically rapists and murderers.

If we followed that logic consistently, we’d ban immigration altogether, because every country contains criminals.

The question is how we identify and deal with those who commit crimes, not whether we treat thousands of individual human beings as guilty because of where they were born.

No thank you, I don't want to wait for anybody to be raped or murdered before we "identify and deal with" them. We already have to do that where our home-grown rapists and murderers are concerned.

Every instance of antisocial behaviour, every occurrence of harassment, every sexual assault, every rape and every murder committed by an asylum seeker is preventable. You may see all of that as a price worth paying, but why do you think you get to decide that on behalf of the victims of those crimes?

EasternStandard · Today 16:00

Northermcharn · Today 15:50

He didn't have a visa. He claimed asylum as soon as he got to belfast.

'The man travelled from Sudan to Paris, then flew from Paris to Dublin before boarding a bus to Belfast on 10 February 2023, where he immediately claimed asylum. He was able to take this bus journey because the Common Travel Area, which has existed since 1922, allows unimpeded movement between Ireland and Northern Ireland. I understand this is a route regularly taken by asylum seekers who tell British authorities that Dublin airport’s staff recommend the bus to Belfast.'

I understand the common travel area part but run he landed at the Dublin airport how did he get waved through?

Looking it up it says someone from Sudan needs a short stay visa to travel to Ireland.

Citizens of Sudan holding a Sudanese passport must obtain an Irish visa before traveling to Ireland. The specific type of visa required depends on the purpose and duration of the trip: 1, 2]

  • Short Stay 'C' Visa: Required if the intended stay is 90 days or less. This category includes visas for tourism, visiting friends or family, business meetings, or short-term courses.

Irish visa requirements for Sudanese citizens

Learn about visa requirements to Ireland for Sudanese citizens.

https://apply.joinsherpa.com/visa/ireland/sudanese-citizens

Northermcharn · Today 16:05

EasternStandard · Today 16:00

I understand the common travel area part but run he landed at the Dublin airport how did he get waved through?

Looking it up it says someone from Sudan needs a short stay visa to travel to Ireland.

Citizens of Sudan holding a Sudanese passport must obtain an Irish visa before traveling to Ireland. The specific type of visa required depends on the purpose and duration of the trip: 1, 2]

  • Short Stay 'C' Visa: Required if the intended stay is 90 days or less. This category includes visas for tourism, visiting friends or family, business meetings, or short-term courses.

I think the clue is here (from my pp reference)

'I understand this is a route regularly taken by asylum seekers who tell British authorities that Dublin airport’s staff recommend the bus to Belfast.'

Can of worms indeed.

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MaturingCheeseball · Today 16:06

Yes, how did he go through security in Paris, board the plane and pass security in Dublin without question? And then just be able to claim asylum in Northern Ireland as if he had beamed in from Sudan?

A Big Problem is the anti-establishment organisations aiding and advising on how to gain entry and claim asylum. And he was in social housing! Nice one.

EasternStandard · Today 16:08

Northermcharn · Today 16:05

I think the clue is here (from my pp reference)

'I understand this is a route regularly taken by asylum seekers who tell British authorities that Dublin airport’s staff recommend the bus to Belfast.'

Can of worms indeed.

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No way. That does require further investigation if so

Northermcharn · Today 16:08

MaturingCheeseball · Today 16:06

Yes, how did he go through security in Paris, board the plane and pass security in Dublin without question? And then just be able to claim asylum in Northern Ireland as if he had beamed in from Sudan?

A Big Problem is the anti-establishment organisations aiding and advising on how to gain entry and claim asylum. And he was in social housing! Nice one.

The last sentence is quite informative..

'The man travelled from Sudan to Paris, then flew from Paris to Dublin before boarding a bus to Belfast on 10 February 2023, where he immediately claimed asylum. He was able to take this bus journey because the Common Travel Area, which has existed since 1922, allows unimpeded movement between Ireland and Northern Ireland. I understand this is a route regularly taken by asylum seekers who tell British authorities that Dublin airport’s staff recommend the bus to Belfast.'

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Northermcharn · Today 16:08

EasternStandard · Today 16:08

No way. That does require further investigation if so

Yup

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SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · Today 16:10

Northermcharn · Today 15:37

Oh I think it's you who is struggling. No matter, I won't go on about it. In your own time.

Then set me straight - What was your AIBU question?
Surely you know? I'm assuming you had something specific you were asking and didn't just use a horrific attack as an excuse to start another pointless thread about the evils of immigration??

mumofoneAloneandwell · Today 16:11

Walkyrie · Today 15:57

Ironically many of the (small) group of mainstream politicians who have acknowledged this are non white themselves.

Like Suella Braverman? These arent respectable

We need someone centre/non political to really take a stand

How great would it be for a Lioness to advocate for working class girls most at risk of these men. Wishful thinking ofc.

EasternStandard · Today 16:12

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · Today 16:10

Then set me straight - What was your AIBU question?
Surely you know? I'm assuming you had something specific you were asking and didn't just use a horrific attack as an excuse to start another pointless thread about the evils of immigration??

The question is the thread title

Northermcharn · Today 16:13

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · Today 16:10

Then set me straight - What was your AIBU question?
Surely you know? I'm assuming you had something specific you were asking and didn't just use a horrific attack as an excuse to start another pointless thread about the evils of immigration??

As I said, in your time. No pressure. No judgements about your abilities here.

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Somerford · Today 16:16

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · Today 16:10

Then set me straight - What was your AIBU question?
Surely you know? I'm assuming you had something specific you were asking and didn't just use a horrific attack as an excuse to start another pointless thread about the evils of immigration??

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EmeraldShamrock000 · Today 16:20

khw666 · Today 13:51

What I can't understand is why the border security did not stop him at Dublin airport. I thought Sudanese passport holders needed a visa to visit Ireland and they are highly restrictive. I hope we get the full information, although I feel it will be hidden.

They don’t check. The Republic of Ireland has 100’s arrive through Northern Ireland when the threat of mass deportation to Rwanda hit the UK. Same coming through the republic by boat I assume to the north of Ireland.

A TD in Ireland took the ferry to the UK, 4 times, he was asked for identification once, no
one was asked for ID boarding.

You’d have to wonder why the European government countries are allowing this madness. I mean they’re getting through the airport with no identification.

** no passport = ask for international protection = give finger print = referral to services… you may be detained travelling without documents… load of crap… how did they get on the plane 🤯

HelenHywater · Today 16:21

Somerford · Yesterday 20:58

I'll do you a deal. I'll campaign to tackle the UK's misogyny problem once we have a zero asylum policy and an extensive programme to repatriate all criminal, antisocial and/or poorly integrated immigrants. Priorities and all that.

Why is this your priority? Genuinely I'm interested. Surely you know that the data does not support your claim that asylum seekers should be prioritised in the fight against violent crime/crime against women.

ByGraptharsHammer · Today 16:22

Other countries like Denmark and Sweden have had similar problems and have developed similar solutions. Their ambitions are explicitly to have less asylum seekers, and they shape the reception to housing to what citizenship is available to discourage it. The UK is relatively more attractive than both those countries. It should not be. We could go further than we do now - these are choices we are making.

Today there was an explicit question as to whether migration was affecting our national security. That’s a serious question which needs to be thought about and balanced against our obligations under international conventions.

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · Today 16:25

Northermcharn · Today 16:13

As I said, in your time. No pressure. No judgements about your abilities here.

So you didn't actually have a question in mind. As I suspected.

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · Today 16:25

How is asking for clarity on the actual purpose of a thread tangential?

Somerford · Today 16:26

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · Today 16:25

So you didn't actually have a question in mind. As I suspected.

Its still in the the thread title.

thefloorislavayes · Today 16:26

RetiredFromExplaining · Today 14:33

There is an extrapolation from extraordinary events that “foreign” men, and men who are not white are much greater predators in the UK than white men.

This is grossly unfair to those law-abiding men who have come to Britain to contribute to our way of life, perhaps seeking respite from their own countries where masculinity is more heavily policed. Or maybe escaping a war or climate change or seeking a better life. Things that even native British people would be likely to do.

Assuming that all refugees or immigrants are like that is to not care about individual human beings.

The language on this thread is utterly shocking “their own women”, “wounded pride” the “pool of British born women” as if we are possessions of men, particularly those of our own nationality.

Sadly there is no changing minds on threads like this but it has to be challenged. Ten years ago language like this would be called out for what it is. Racism.

I am sad that racists now feel able to articulate their private nastiness on public forums like this. But at least we can see your poison.

What on earth are you on about? And why do you and people like you keep bringing skin colour into this, no one cares about skin colour. Literally no one has ever mentioned skin colour when asking for border control, I do not care and no one cares whether you're green as long as you're entering this country legally.

PinkandPerky · Today 16:30

Did Brexit cause this way of entry to be possible? (EU to Dublin then jump on a bus through the soft border)

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