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Rainbow colours everywhere

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TalkToTheHand123 · 06/06/2026 14:00

Rainbows everywhere. Hi. I walked into the office building yesterday and rainbow stuff everywhere. Nearby nursery has all rainbow colours on fencing and there was an ambulance with rainbow colours. A bit ridiculous?

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KateSixer · 09/06/2026 15:23

Why celebrate it at all? Nothing wrong with being gay but why stuff it down our throats?

It's just so tiresome. Treating it as "special" ultimately contributes to "othering" homosexuality rather than normalising it.

Tryonemoretime · 09/06/2026 15:33

randomchap · 08/06/2026 22:36

You could just Google it.

Essentially it started out as a day, but then expanded to a month as it was too difficult to fit everything into a single day. Bill Clinton made it kind of official in the states.

There's also Women's History month, Disability Pride month, Black History month etc

Month long celebration and awareness months are not rare.

One doesn't tend to see huge banners in Tesco for Women's History Month etc.

FrenchT0ast · 09/06/2026 16:16

KateSixer · 09/06/2026 15:23

Why celebrate it at all? Nothing wrong with being gay but why stuff it down our throats?

It's just so tiresome. Treating it as "special" ultimately contributes to "othering" homosexuality rather than normalising it.

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Absolute rubbish and not how my gay son who was subjected to homophobic bullying mercilessly throughout school sees it. His mental health was destroyed as a result. Pride makes helps him reduce the shame he feels for being gay. It’s hugely beneficial. I commute through a town and a city. I’ve not seen one pride flag but oodles of England and Union Jack flags hung from lamp posts and shops. They’ve been there for months, complete stretches of the road. That’s shoving something down our throats!

herewegoagainonwednesday · 09/06/2026 18:03

KateSixer · 09/06/2026 15:23

Why celebrate it at all? Nothing wrong with being gay but why stuff it down our throats?

It's just so tiresome. Treating it as "special" ultimately contributes to "othering" homosexuality rather than normalising it.

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We stop celebrating being ourselves when we are actually accepted. in the moment, being lgbt+ is not accepted, just barely tolerated.
Kids still get routinely bullied for being lgbt+
The rainbow lets us know we are (relatively) safe, we are seen. It is incredibly important.
Heterosexuality is everywhere - we are not.

TalkToTheHand123 · 09/06/2026 18:17

ScreentimeInTheMeantime · 09/06/2026 14:02

This thread has influenced me to buy some pride flag bunting for our house

That's ok as it's in private.

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TalkToTheHand123 · 09/06/2026 18:18

herewegoagainonwednesday · 09/06/2026 18:03

We stop celebrating being ourselves when we are actually accepted. in the moment, being lgbt+ is not accepted, just barely tolerated.
Kids still get routinely bullied for being lgbt+
The rainbow lets us know we are (relatively) safe, we are seen. It is incredibly important.
Heterosexuality is everywhere - we are not.

And now heterosexuality is being discriminated against. People are being excluded from jobs and events due to being heterosexual.

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herewegoagainonwednesday · 09/06/2026 18:24

TalkToTheHand123 · 09/06/2026 18:18

And now heterosexuality is being discriminated against. People are being excluded from jobs and events due to being heterosexual.

According to this men are discriminated from jobs and events in favour of women - same principle ! Away with all this support! Minorities need support - it is incredibly hard to constantly be belittled, excluded, harassed and bullied. Count yourself lucky you haven’t experienced it

ScreentimeInTheMeantime · 09/06/2026 18:31

TalkToTheHand123 · 09/06/2026 18:17

That's ok as it's in private.

I will be hanging it so it’s visible from the street. Still ok, as it’s my house!

Loloblue · 09/06/2026 18:33

TalkToTheHand123 · 09/06/2026 18:18

And now heterosexuality is being discriminated against. People are being excluded from jobs and events due to being heterosexual.

Sorry what events are these?

FrippEnos · 09/06/2026 18:38

MyGhastIsFlabbered · 09/06/2026 05:42

I think the fact that so many people object to
Pride month demonstrates exactly why it’s still needed.

What I think so many people object to (including many LGB people) is not pride month but what it has turned in to.

BurntBroccoli · 09/06/2026 18:48

Late to this but

Spongebob Squarepants Rainbow GIF
FrenchT0ast · 09/06/2026 19:02

TalkToTheHand123 · 09/06/2026 18:18

And now heterosexuality is being discriminated against. People are being excluded from jobs and events due to being heterosexual.

Hysterical in its ridiculousness. Got any evidence for such a ludicrous accusation?

TheignT · 09/06/2026 20:02

herewegoagainonwednesday · 09/06/2026 18:24

According to this men are discriminated from jobs and events in favour of women - same principle ! Away with all this support! Minorities need support - it is incredibly hard to constantly be belittled, excluded, harassed and bullied. Count yourself lucky you haven’t experienced it

I've said this on another thread so forgive me if you've read it. I worked in police admin and was dealing with a member of the public. He told me he'd love to join the police but couldn't as he was a white man. I said it was odd as I'd just been dealing with our new allocation of probationary officers, the majority were white men. He refused to believe me, not sure why I'd lie. Sometimes people find a certain narrative convenient

TheignT · 09/06/2026 20:05

Tryonemoretime · 09/06/2026 15:33

One doesn't tend to see huge banners in Tesco for Women's History Month etc.

Well I've seen them for VE day, Christmas, Eid, Hannukah, royal weddings. All sorts, just encouraging you to buy something. Maybe Women's History Month needs to be more proactive?

Muffsies · 09/06/2026 20:18

Needmorelego · 06/06/2026 14:08

Is it just me or does anyone else always sort packets of crayons or felt tip pens into rainbow colour order?

Always. I never fail to be shocked when people can't do it, they get it wrong, or have to recite a mnemonic.

Spectrum themes were a big thing in the 80s i remeber seeing them all over the place as a little kid, everyone loves a rainbow.

FrostyPalms · 09/06/2026 20:19

No, not ridiculous at all.

FrostyPalms · 09/06/2026 20:20

TalkToTheHand123 · 09/06/2026 18:18

And now heterosexuality is being discriminated against. People are being excluded from jobs and events due to being heterosexual.

What now? Any examples you could share?

randomchap · 09/06/2026 20:33

TalkToTheHand123 · 09/06/2026 18:18

And now heterosexuality is being discriminated against. People are being excluded from jobs and events due to being heterosexual.

Pull the other one

MoFadaCromulent · 09/06/2026 20:39

Typical snowflake conservative anti-free speech offended by everything nonsense from the OP

MickyMoonshine · 10/06/2026 10:13

TalkToTheHand123 · 09/06/2026 18:18

And now heterosexuality is being discriminated against. People are being excluded from jobs and events due to being heterosexual.

Can you support this with any evidence or examples?

MickyMoonshine · 10/06/2026 10:16

KateSixer · 09/06/2026 15:23

Why celebrate it at all? Nothing wrong with being gay but why stuff it down our throats?

It's just so tiresome. Treating it as "special" ultimately contributes to "othering" homosexuality rather than normalising it.

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Because people like you continue to use phrases like ‘stuff it down our throats’. How is that being done exactly?

TalkToTheHand123 · 10/06/2026 15:49

MickyMoonshine · 10/06/2026 10:13

Can you support this with any evidence or examples?

I've been in meeting where I've been asked indirectly to recommend people from groups of people like these to help promote the business's diversity image.

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Muffsies · 10/06/2026 16:03

TalkToTheHand123 · 10/06/2026 15:49

I've been in meeting where I've been asked indirectly to recommend people from groups of people like these to help promote the business's diversity image.

I don't understand how making sure that people of all different backgrounds are inculuded is the same as saying hetro / white people aren't welcome.

Like when a company makes a big deal about how many Board members are female, it shouldn't make a man feel he's been unfaily excluded. That's just egality.

MickyMoonshine · 10/06/2026 16:04

TalkToTheHand123 · 10/06/2026 15:49

I've been in meeting where I've been asked indirectly to recommend people from groups of people like these to help promote the business's diversity image.

That’s not evidence to support the claims you made.
If your organisation has evidence that particular groups are underrepresented then it is perfectly acceptable to put in place actions to address this.
That means it is fine to specifically target advertising and information at underrepresented groups.
That doesn’t mean straight people are being discriminated against- that would be unlawful. It means that an organisation is addressing underrepresentation.

This is not evidence that heterosexual people are now being discriminated against.

randomchap · 10/06/2026 16:20

TalkToTheHand123 · 10/06/2026 15:49

I've been in meeting where I've been asked indirectly to recommend people from groups of people like these to help promote the business's diversity image.

Convincing 🙄

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