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To be totally APPALLED by how Robinson referred to Henry Nowak in his “speech” in Southampton on Tuesday?

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Whereismyjoiedevivre · 04/06/2026 09:22

I’ve just seen a clip of this in a Guardian article on the main agitators in Southampton on Tuesday.
TR refers to Henry Nowak in this way: “White privilege?! Does Henry swear word beginning with F Nowak look as if he had white privilege when he was lying on the floor?”
He then smirks as he looks down, clearly proud of himself for delivering such an eloquent speech [sarcasm].
I’m beyond disgusted by how the name of this beautiful young man, who has lost his life in the most brutal way, was used in such a disrespectful way in order to rouse a rabble and boost TR’s ego.
AIBU to say that over the last two days TR, NF and their ilk are really showing us who they are and what motivates them?

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LuckyHazelFox · 04/06/2026 11:40

Bluehouse14 · 04/06/2026 10:59

Firstly, it's not patronising if it's true. Secondly, the majority of BLM protests were peaceful. Some were not, there will ALWAYS be people who take advantage of tragic situations and twist them for their own gains. Like you, Farage and TR. Henry Nowak's father HIMSELF said he did not want his son's death to be used to create hate and division and yet look at how many of you are doing exactly that...He didnt want anyone to 'rise up' as you so aggressively put it. Thirdly, BLM was a movement entirely dedicated to the countless incidents spanning centuries of police brutality against blacks. If you still dont understand, educate yourself.

No need for education when I can just drive a tractor through your words and worn out phrases. BLM was and still is used for political gain and fraud. Not all of it but it isn't the holier than though movement you paint it to be. If you want to get personal by lumping me in with commentators such as TR and NR I will say you are to blame for the loss of value that the word racist now has. You are also to blame for the race card that has brought the police to where they are now at. Instead of hard core policing, the hierarchy has pandered to liberals like you. Nothing wrong with the public seeing that, acknowledging it and acting upon it.

50sandFabulous · 04/06/2026 11:40

CagedBirdInACage · 04/06/2026 11:37

The boy died because of police receiving extreme Equality & Diversity Training.

He died because he was stabbed. There was nothing the police could have done at the scene to save him. The perpetrator will serve at least 21 years in prison. His family are also being charged.

Both of these statements can be true at the same time.

And it's irrelevant whether the Police could have saved him - we only know that now after the autopsy - but they didn't know that then, and they didn't even believe him, because a brown man was telling them different.

KeepPumping · 04/06/2026 11:40

CagedBirdInACage · 04/06/2026 11:37

The boy died because of police receiving extreme Equality & Diversity Training.

He died because he was stabbed. There was nothing the police could have done at the scene to save him. The perpetrator will serve at least 21 years in prison. His family are also being charged.

Hopefully all the family will also be jailed, they have perverted the course of justice in a murder case and deserve hefty sentences.

TemperanceWest · 04/06/2026 11:41

LevisForMe · 04/06/2026 11:27

Hate farage and the other one, whose name I can't remember.

but

You are massively and terribly missing the point @Whereismyjoiedevivre

The boy died because of police receiving extreme Equality & Diversity Training. I am from an ethnic minority, or rather 2 ethnic minorities all mixed up. Detest Farage and co but what happened Henry is a scandal. It's evil. Vickrum Digwa is evil, his family are evil and the identity politics driven, bureaucratic machinery of Hampshire Police is evil.

Reiterating while finding Farage and co extremely worrying, they are drawing attention to this outrageous misuse of police resources. They are exploiting it for sure, but of there wasn't a situation to exploit they wouldn't.

Does anyone know which company delivered that hateful training to Hampshire Police? Name and shame?

Edited

Just leaving this here. I doubt people will take much notice. But still.

The director of the Independent Office for Police Conduct, Derrick Campbell, said: “We are acutely aware of the public interest in this case. We would respectfully ask people to stop speculating on an ongoing live investigation.

“This investigation is going to fully establish the circumstances of the case including whether there may be misconduct on the part of any of the officers involved.

“The ongoing commentary about the evidence and speculation risks prejudicing any potential processes and preventing Henry Nowak’s family getting the answers they deserve.”

KeepPumping · 04/06/2026 11:42

LuckyHazelFox · 04/06/2026 11:40

No need for education when I can just drive a tractor through your words and worn out phrases. BLM was and still is used for political gain and fraud. Not all of it but it isn't the holier than though movement you paint it to be. If you want to get personal by lumping me in with commentators such as TR and NR I will say you are to blame for the loss of value that the word racist now has. You are also to blame for the race card that has brought the police to where they are now at. Instead of hard core policing, the hierarchy has pandered to liberals like you. Nothing wrong with the public seeing that, acknowledging it and acting upon it.

Good points.

Johnogroats · 04/06/2026 11:42

I’m offended by TR or SYL full stop.

secretllama · 04/06/2026 11:43

Jellox · 04/06/2026 11:36

Only because of the time of day.

When people get home from work later I can guarantee that TR will have less support.

Yeah, because people with different opinions from you cant have jobs 🤣

JenniElection · 04/06/2026 11:45

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KeepPumping · 04/06/2026 11:45

TemperanceWest · 04/06/2026 11:41

Just leaving this here. I doubt people will take much notice. But still.

The director of the Independent Office for Police Conduct, Derrick Campbell, said: “We are acutely aware of the public interest in this case. We would respectfully ask people to stop speculating on an ongoing live investigation.

“This investigation is going to fully establish the circumstances of the case including whether there may be misconduct on the part of any of the officers involved.

“The ongoing commentary about the evidence and speculation risks prejudicing any potential processes and preventing Henry Nowak’s family getting the answers they deserve.”

Good post, it does look like the police have got their act together AFTER they discovered how badly they fucked up, but the general discussion about diversity culture and it"s negative effects on policing isn"t going to go away, in fact I would say that this tragic event will be noted as the moment Labour definitely lost the next election.

Whereismyjoiedevivre · 04/06/2026 11:48

saveforthat · 04/06/2026 10:01

Yes.

I don’t believe you.

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Giggorata · 04/06/2026 11:50

In certain circles the word fuck and other swear words are used for emphasis, not in a pejorative sense.
This is quite well known. I have often seen it used this way on MN.
Also, isn't it common for narcissists to commandeer discussions/arguments with their partners by ignoring the points raised, in order to comment on their tone/words/delivery?

TR's point stands.

StarkandDorky · 04/06/2026 11:55

God, I'm so tired of people telling other people not to politicise things which are inherently political, whether it's left (as here) or right (eg right wing gun nuts in the US objecting to discussion of gun control in the aftermath of a shooting). The allegation is that anti-racist policies have over-corrected to the extent that the police are no longer to police effectively or safely once an allegation of racism has been made. That is a political matter.

Mark Nowak did not ask for things not to be politicised- in fact he has explicitly requested a full investigation of the police's actions.

Jellox · 04/06/2026 11:56

50sandFabulous · 04/06/2026 11:37

My Mum worked for the Council. There was a job she was interested in, but when she read the job advert it said "Only black lesbians need apply". I wish I was joking, but I saw this with my own eyes!

Well that’s complete bullshit.

But I’m sure someone will believe you.

ChunkyMonkey36 · 04/06/2026 11:56

KeepPumping · 04/06/2026 11:45

Good post, it does look like the police have got their act together AFTER they discovered how badly they fucked up, but the general discussion about diversity culture and it"s negative effects on policing isn"t going to go away, in fact I would say that this tragic event will be noted as the moment Labour definitely lost the next election.

I think the sad fact is that we’ve always had a problem with racial profiling in policing, there just was apparently less uproar about it on MN when it wasn’t white people suffering.

I do think it’s really very obvious that that’s what happened in this case. The police believed that a young white male could/would be racist towards a Sikh male, without any evidence of that being the case, and that’s obviously not good enough.

But we have to accept that this isn’t a new problem, and for a long time that profiling has been targeted towards the non-white. It wasn’t good enough then either.

saveforthat · 04/06/2026 11:57

Whereismyjoiedevivre · 04/06/2026 11:48

I don’t believe you.

Fine, that's up to you, read @Giggorata 's post below, swear words can be used for emphasis. You seem to be a bit of a snowflake or deliberately trying to distract.

godlikeAI · 04/06/2026 11:57

Amazing to see the uproar when this happens to a white man. You know this is the exact stuff all the non-white population have had to live with for decades. It’s all wrong, but you know what? It is white privilege to only get angry when things happen to white people. And I say that as a white person.

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 04/06/2026 11:57

Henry Nowak's awful death had nothing to do with the left, or the right, or race.

It had to do with a violent thug murdering him, and police officers who simply took the word of the first person who spoke to them on the scene, instead of assessing it themselves.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 04/06/2026 11:58

NEGUY82 · 04/06/2026 10:36

Yep, a bunch of white (usually males) angry that something that's purely an accident of their birth doesn't grant them the same start in life it once did. Thing is life is crap now BECAUSE of people like Nigel Farage, he isn't the answer people like him are the problem - close the wealth inequality gap and life will get better.

Totally agree!

It is mostly males.

There are some women involved but they stand out and seem remarkable by virtue of being female, so people remember them.

They’re very intimidating as a group too

saveforthat · 04/06/2026 11:59

Jellox · 04/06/2026 11:56

Well that’s complete bullshit.

But I’m sure someone will believe you.

It's a bit of a stretch but I have seen adverts for jobs on uk sites posted in a foreign language.

Jellox · 04/06/2026 12:01

secretllama · 04/06/2026 11:43

Yeah, because people with different opinions from you cant have jobs 🤣

I didn’t say that but it’s funny how you jumped to that conclusion.

But statistically those who follow TR are less likely to have jobs and/or have on a lower average IQ to the rest of the country.

Probably why people blindly follow him for ‘loving his country’, even though he refuses to live here himself and doesn’t pay tax to contribute to it.

That’s why I despise TR because he preys on the vulnerable and manipulates people with low IQs.

Those who do not work are not necessarily less intelligent but it could simply be a case of having more access to SM and therefore easier to be swayed by peoples opinions, rather than actual facts.

BeasKnee · 04/06/2026 12:04

saveforthat · 04/06/2026 11:57

Fine, that's up to you, read @Giggorata 's post below, swear words can be used for emphasis. You seem to be a bit of a snowflake or deliberately trying to distract.

But the swear word emphasises different points depending on where it is placed.

'the fucking shop keeper was attacked at gun point'
'the shop keeper was fucking attacked at gun point'
'the shop keeper was attacked at fucking gun point'

They don't all emphasise and imply the same thing do they? I really don't get why people don't think it was disrespectful. It absolutely blows my mind. And I swear a lot.

Muffsies · 04/06/2026 12:04

saveforthat · 04/06/2026 09:27

What's the problem, is it the word fucking? You can swear on here you know?

She doesn't want to write that poor kid's name with the word fucking in the middle bc she's got some fucking respect for him. Do you get the point if the post yet?

tamade · 04/06/2026 12:05

I don't like swearing and try not to but in this instance the F word was used as an exclamation rather than insult to the victim. I am no more offended by this than by any other instance of normal swearing use. It just shows a lack of vocabulary. We all know TR is a yob, but he's not wrong on the matter.

Screechypants · 04/06/2026 12:06

LevisForMe · 04/06/2026 11:27

Hate farage and the other one, whose name I can't remember.

but

You are massively and terribly missing the point @Whereismyjoiedevivre

The boy died because of police receiving extreme Equality & Diversity Training. I am from an ethnic minority, or rather 2 ethnic minorities all mixed up. Detest Farage and co but what happened Henry is a scandal. It's evil. Vickrum Digwa is evil, his family are evil and the identity politics driven, bureaucratic machinery of Hampshire Police is evil.

Reiterating while finding Farage and co extremely worrying, they are drawing attention to this outrageous misuse of police resources. They are exploiting it for sure, but of there wasn't a situation to exploit they wouldn't.

Does anyone know which company delivered that hateful training to Hampshire Police? Name and shame?

Edited

I am not at all sure this is true or can be proved to be true right now - that may be what is being said but what is the evidence?

You can speculate on the terrible behaviour of the police involved and the reasons you suspect, but it is just speculation and repeating it doesn't it make it fact. They made fatal decisions that cost a boy his life.

The things being quoted are not from a training manual or direct instructions. See this article. - yes it's the Guardian blah blah, but the reporting is pretty good for once: https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2026/jun/03/police-anti-racism-policies-henry-nowak-explainer

Did police anti-racism policies lead to appalling treatment of Henry Nowak and if not, what did?

Analysis of evidence and interviews with experts suggests focus by rightwing critics on race misses reality of police failures

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2026/jun/03/police-anti-racism-policies-henry-nowak-explainer

LuckyHazelFox · 04/06/2026 12:07

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 04/06/2026 10:38

Do you think that Tommy Robinson genuinely cares about Henry Nowak and his family? I think the swear word is just one of many ways he's shown that he doesn't care at all.

Why is it when it's a white victim a white person can't speak up for the victim? It's an extremely lazy narrative that he just wants to stoke division. Any white person, especially mothers of white children should be concerned at the direction policing has taken where a BAME person is automaticall believed over a white victim. It is not racist to expect equal treatment - the very thing that (genuine) BLM proponents want. It's regressive to say only white people can be racist/have white privilege and that includes the pitiful desperation to legitimise BLM riots and hone criticism on Southport and Southampton. We all know if the victim had been black, what the chaotic disorder would be. The balance of power has swung from treating all citizens equally to pandering to liberal demands.