Partner on holiday with a female friend!

[Daisymay1000]

I need to ask peoples honest opinions.

my partner went away on Sunday “with the boys” I wished him off well, hope he has a lovely time etc. been FaceTiming me, sending me pics etc. then yesterday a female friend may be flying over. I said I wasn’t very comfortable with this especially as she would be staying in the same apartment. He said he wasn’t sure if she even was yet she just said she may do. I looked on her story on instagram and she was already there, had been the whole time! Tagging him in pics etc. Iv broke up with him as the lies and the disrespect for me are too much. Am I being unreasonable or over reacting? He said I was and it’s just a friend and I’m controlling. But for me I can’t imagine he would ever allow me on holiday with a male staying in the same apartment?! There’s 3 men and her.

Just resharing this.

known him 5 minutes? Where are you getting that from?

As per my other post. In your other posts you had a LDR that ended in Sept 2025 and and other relationship that ended in Nov 2025. That’s 6 months to now. So however long you’ve known this knobhead is not long enough to be living with you and certainly not your child.

No no no no no no no it's all wrong. Dump the loser. Pronto. You're worth more and YANBU obviously.

If there’s nothing to hide why lie about it? There’s your answer

It's not the going on holiday, it's the lies.

You've never knew or heard of one woman showing up to service all 3?
Most likely all at once?
I have not only heard of this but experienced it 2 weeks ago. Im single but the others are married.
This happens more than you think and yes the lady 2 weeks ago was married also

Are you sure there are other friends there and it’s not just the two of them?

Like I say how do u know I met him recently? How do u know how long he’s been in my life? If he’s someone iv already dated? Don’t assume.

This isn’t a compliment though. Don’t entertain his begging. As others have said, package his items, leave them by the door and be done. He is telling you who he is, you need to listen, and reclaim your inner peace. If he wants to get with other women and broadcast it, that’s his own business. You certainly don’t owe him storage for his belongings, or anything else. Chose yourself.

Is he someone you knew/dated before?