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Nicola Sturgeon STILL didn't know her husband stole £400,000

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Imdunfer · 01/06/2026 07:32

Follow on from previous thread.

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BirdyBedtime · 01/06/2026 13:11

OneTealShaker · 01/06/2026 08:56

Her interview on Laura Keunesberg was a the most obvious display of narcissism ever.

She is absolutely shameless. It’s all about her. It beggars belief that she has zero self awareness.

Maybe she’s been taking lessons from Andrew Mountbatten Windsor.

This 1000%

My view is that she probably didn't know what was going on (at least to start with or the full detail) but whether that's because she didn't want to know so didn't look too hard only she knows.

But I think the things she has said recently about 'not consciously noticing the motorhome, or if she did she probably would have thought it was the neighbours' are clearly post-facto rationalisation. The level of lack of engagement in her own life that her account of things would have required is astounding - and this from someone who was supposedly qualified to run a country (and a £55bn-ish budget).

So she either turned a blind eye or her marriage was such a sham that she was not close enough to see what has happening. Neither of these are good things.

And the whole 'poor me, I'm living a sentence for a crime I didn't commit' make me feel very angry when you think about the sentences that some people have had to live eg not being able to see dying family or go to their parents etc funerals during Covid. It's the STAGGERING lack of self awareness that really jars with me.

Madcats · 01/06/2026 13:15

I’ve not looked at the spreadsheets, but was the Motorhome one of the more recent purchases? Like a ‘FFS, Nicola!’

If she’d said ‘I assumed my MiL let the neighbours use her drive’, it might have been plausible.

For the moment I will remain outraged that they had £££ coffee machines BUT underwhelming mugs.

LizardLore · 01/06/2026 13:17

Zebrah · 01/06/2026 13:08

Thr first party I voted for was Green. And they I realised their policies were all unworkable socialist nonsense. The young like nothing more than a totally impractical idealistic fantasy. See their championing of trans rights.

Well, perhaps. I’m just saying it’s demonstrably not true that only the poor support independence.

As I said I myself would be very worried by the prospect of indy happening and would vote, and probably even campaign, no. But it’s important to engage with the reality if we want to understand what is going on in our country.

LuckyHazelFox · 01/06/2026 13:17

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 13:03

Nicola wasn't an MP.

She was a First Minister, who was subject to ministerial responsibility.

montysmaw · 01/06/2026 13:17

LizardLore · 01/06/2026 11:55

Agree with all of this. Someone like her would never in a million years risk everything she’d worked for to go along with his thieving to buy such ludicrous items.

Her explanations in the interview about not noticing on a personal level are believable. You have to have not watched the interview or just be blinded by hatred for her not to see that.

Professionally too I can easily believe that she didn’t notice the specific amounts going missing - that level of attention would be way below her pay grade.

All the same, she was the head of the organisation where this happened. In the normal order of things someone at her level would accept accountability for a scandal of this magnitude. That’s part of what comes with a senior salary - a senior level of accountability. She is dodging that on the grounds she was wronged too, but it does look quite bad from the outside.

Daily accounts were below her oay grade yes.
However any leader should have sat up and taken note when allegations of a £600k fund going missing were raised.
She shoild also have paid attention when half the finance comittee resigned when her husband would not allow them access to the booms to audit them.

Instead she threatened the exec to silence in a leaked video.

No idea if she did the pilfering. But she was certainly hell bent on covering it up.

ArabellaScott · 01/06/2026 13:18

LuckyHazelFox · 01/06/2026 13:17

She was a First Minister, who was subject to ministerial responsibility.

She was an MSP. My MSP at one point. And the worst MSP I ever had. Only seen on polling day, never answered a query.

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 13:18

Zebrah · 01/06/2026 12:36

Everyone I’ve ever met in my social (middle class) and workplace (professional services, finance) settings loathes her with a passion. I cannot conceive why anyone would choose to vote for a party who’s one aching desire is to do something that would cause such massive harm to the country the live in unless they are poor and think their lives cannot get any worse. See the deprived areas voting overwhelmingly for Brexit. Classic ‘shit life’ syndrome.

So you don't know. Thanks for clarifying. Your friends and colleagues "loathe" a woman who was working class? There's a surprise. Your judgement of "poor people" with shit lives says more about you than it does about them. Especially when most of the "poor" are probably too invested in their work, family and friends to be sitting in their "professional" jobs "loathing with a passion" a woman who tried to help the very people you're being so nasty about.

In my opinion, it's not the "poor" who have shit lives. It's people like you I feel sorry for.

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 13:22

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 01/06/2026 12:38

Pp didn’t say she joined the SPS.

She was First Minister when the policy to place male murderers and rapists was written, she was FM when women were suffering in women’s prisons due to the disgusting behaviour of male prisoners and then she publicly refused to condemn the policy or even admit that Isla Bryson/Adam Graham, double rapist was a man.

Instead she made up ‘rapistgender’ to try and justify the unbelievable situation in which female prisoners found themselves while she congratulated herself on being ‘feminist to her fingertips’ - one of her biggest lies imo.

She has built her brand on being a woman in politics but used her power to throw other women under the bus. She is now claiming she is being attacked for being a woman which is utter nonsense. She is being criticised for her behaviour and gross incompetence or worse.

She wasn't FM. Alex Salmond was and Kenny McAskill was Justice Minister. She inherited their policies. Two men.

Better to Remain Silent and Be Thought a Fool than to Speak and Remove All Doubt

You would do well to take heed of this.

ArabellaScott · 01/06/2026 13:23

Zebrah · 01/06/2026 13:09

Politicians. If that’s your biggest argument…

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She was an MSP, which I assume was the nitpicking point made.

ArabellaScott · 01/06/2026 13:24

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 13:22

She wasn't FM. Alex Salmond was and Kenny McAskill was Justice Minister. She inherited their policies. Two men.

Better to Remain Silent and Be Thought a Fool than to Speak and Remove All Doubt

You would do well to take heed of this.

As FM she was able to change policy pretty sharpish when there was public uproar.

Zebrah · 01/06/2026 13:24

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 13:18

So you don't know. Thanks for clarifying. Your friends and colleagues "loathe" a woman who was working class? There's a surprise. Your judgement of "poor people" with shit lives says more about you than it does about them. Especially when most of the "poor" are probably too invested in their work, family and friends to be sitting in their "professional" jobs "loathing with a passion" a woman who tried to help the very people you're being so nasty about.

In my opinion, it's not the "poor" who have shit lives. It's people like you I feel sorry for.

You don’t know me at all. I come from poverty. Most of my family still live in poverty. They voted Brexit, as do their neighbours because their lives are shit and they think how much worse can it get. They didn’t understand how much poorer their lives would be post Brexit, they just thought it worth a gamble. They live in Wales so SNP isn’t a party they can vote for. They just vote for whoever is going to give them most in benefits and not make them look for work. I don’t blame them. There’s not much work to be had.

Things that would improve my life? Better education. Ditch free tuition and use the money to properly invest in education where children can get a safe, calm education.. That and fund a functioning CAMHS.

LuckyHazelFox · 01/06/2026 13:25

Is Nicola in the room with us right now? It certainly feels like so.

ArabellaScott · 01/06/2026 13:25

The efforts to excuse Sturgeon from any responsibility whatsoever are absurd.

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 13:25

LuckyHazelFox · 01/06/2026 12:43

So you're saying women in politics are untouchable? No employment of critical thinking only to say female ministers have it harder than men and we should all go lightly on them. Ridiculous regression.

No. Someone brought a man into a discussion about a woman and I commented on it. The reading comprehension on these threads is as dire as the knowledge about the Scottish Parliament and who did what, when.

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 13:27

Zebrah · 01/06/2026 12:43

She had to sign off the accounts too.

Were you there when she did it?

YellingAway · 01/06/2026 13:28

As I’ve said elsewhere in this debate, she was as much a feminist as Margaret Thatcher was.

Nicola Sturgeon has the opportunity to make misogyny a hate crime when she was in her protected bubble and didn’t so and has the audacity to complain about it now.

Nicola Sturgeon could not even state publicly that the convicted rapist, Isla Bryson was a man.

She did nothing to progress female rights when she had the opportunity to do so.

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 13:28

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darksideofthetoon · 01/06/2026 13:29

INeedAPensieve · 01/06/2026 07:41

Also forgot to answer in the previous thread, someone doubted that Scottish people were on the thread; I'm a born and bred Scottish woman, all my family the same, all SNP members in the past, I bloody campaigned! Disappointed is an understatement. They've betrayed us all yet people still vote for them. Partisan politics up here drawing from a tiny pool of people who all went to school/uni together, watch each other's backs, close ranks when criticised and barely conceal their contempt for the ordinary Scottish electorate. It was a depressing realisation for me about Nicola sturgeon, and the SNP as a whole.

Anyway, I'm sure @RealFeminist will arrive shortly to impart her wisdom about that interview... 😅

I also thought Sturgeon was decent when she took over but that didn’t last long and I could tell something was off about her. She seemed obsessed with selfies and getting her face in front of a camera. Major covert narcissism vibes.
All she had was sound bites but no real policy.
She used identity politics as her weapon of choice. I think a part of her is enjoying this media attention even though it is negative. Like I say, major covert narcissism vibes. These people are always heroes or victims.

Then she got the greatest gift for a narcissist like her: the pandemic. There she got the opportunity to pontificate daily about how she was taking the right decisions to save us all. The stats showed otherwise. Like all good comrades, she tried to keep on the CMO Catherine Calderwood despite her being exposed as a hypocrite. It was a sign of things to come from Sturgeon.

Watching her during the pandemic gave me a taste of what I imagine it must have been like living in socialist Germany. Run by self proclaimed virtuous leaders surrounded by yes people spouting nonsense about what’s good for the country. While in the meanwhile the country burns and very few are winning.

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 13:32

LizardLore · 01/06/2026 13:03

I’ve moved from voting indy in 2014 to being against it now. Middle class here. But in any case I am not sure the stats bear out what you say. I believe there is support for indy across all socioeconomic demographics (though yes, more weighted towards lower incomes). The most likely predictor of how someone feels about it is age, with young people far more likely to support.

I disagree with the "lower incomes" but completely agree with the age thing.

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 13:33

LuckyHazelFox · 01/06/2026 12:48

She's a despicable woman for whom I have no sympathy. If you throw women under the bus when in power, don't expect those women to be there for you when you're vulnerably exposed.

Which part of Scotland do you live in? Just a general area.

Imdunfer · 01/06/2026 13:40

Lovesacake · 01/06/2026 10:58

@Imdunfer I wouldn’t expect someone at her level of the organisation to be looking at itemised credit card bills to monitor who was spending what. I would expect a robust system of checks to be in place further down the chain, clearly that failed and as leader she does have to take some accountability for that. But the idea that she knowingly participated or allowed embezzlement and was fine with that is just bananas to me. I just cannot see any evidence to suggest she knowingly took part in her husbands crimes.

She shut down questions about where cash was being spent. She ignored auditors who resigned in protest at not having access to the information needed to do the job. She made recorded statements telling people to stop questioning whether the SNP finances were being properly managed.

In ordinary busniess that makes her culpable.

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AccidentallyWesAnderson · 01/06/2026 13:40

An excellent read for a Monday.

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 13:41

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 01/06/2026 13:08

The pp had implied that men don’t suffer in the same way. Maybe that aspect had escaped you.

Are you saying I'm thick? This seems to be the default reply from GC women to women who are inclusive feminists. Which actually negates the GC women from being feminists as no feminist would try to shame a woman the way you just tried to. Unfortunately for you, you haven't made me feel that something has "escaped" me.

I just view you as a mysognist.

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 13:47

LuckyHazelFox · 01/06/2026 13:17

She was a First Minister, who was subject to ministerial responsibility.

Still wasn't an MP.

Brownpuppy · 01/06/2026 13:49

I have no time at all for NS and am also gender critical so you’ll know my views on the GRA, men in women’s prisons, etc. I am absolutely anti independence too. But I have separated this current “ did she know” question from that. It’s possible to despise the politics and anti women policies whilst considering this separately and reaching an independent conclusion.