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AIBU to think booing the exhausted charity climbers was unfair?

212 replies

dottiedodah · 29/05/2026 10:15

2 charity climbers booed ,because they went before the queue to touch the top!Had already done the 3 peaks challenge and were exhausted .A man physically tried to stop them by putting his hand out! YABU they should have waited .YANBU they should not have been booed

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Raindropskeepfallingon · 29/05/2026 13:00

MyThreeWords · 29/05/2026 10:57

Ugh! Queues at a trig point! Presumably this is hordes of people for whom the actual walk up a mountain is less important than the Instagram moment at the top.

It's a queue for a photo-op and it is a kind of pollution of the summit.

Presumably the charity people had to touch the trig point just as a formal completion of the task for which they were receiving donations. There is zero reason why they should play along with a novel set of expectations generated by our increasing obsession with photos for social media.
Trig points have various roles. Why should their new Instagram role set conventions that dominate people who use them for other purposes?

Is this one of those mountains that can be approached by some pretty easy-peasy routes as well as the much harder ones? It is horrible when you complete a very challenging and isolated walk and find a crowded summit.

”It is horrible when you complete a very challenging and isolated walk and find a crowded summit.”

I’m no hill walker but even I would know that Snowdon in glorious weather on a bank holiday weekend is going to be busy and full of photo takers and tourists.

Other mountains are available if you want isolation…

oviraptor21 · 29/05/2026 13:00

StrictlyCoffee · 29/05/2026 11:44

That pic of all the people at the top just cements how much I hate hillwalking and climbing! In the unlikely event I ever did want to do a trek like that, the reason is I would want to avoid people, not come across hordes of them there. I’d rather go into town.

Snowdon is the worst for this.
Most places are pretty quiet.

OvernightBloats · 29/05/2026 13:01

Why do you need to touch the trig point anyway? There is no rule that they have to touch the trig point to prove that they have climbed the mountain.

People climbed the mountain long before the trig point was there. They climbed it and walked down again and didn't need to be filmed/photographed.

There was a queue so the charity men should have not even touched the trig point in the first place. There was no need. The charity men are now moaning because they ignored these people waiting.

They didn't get the adulation they were expecting. The charity men are the snowflakes here.

Faveway · 29/05/2026 13:02

It's not Thorpe Park. No supervision or instructions to queue. Serious walkers and runners just go up to the top, then carry on with their day. Over time the general public have evolved a queue so that they can go to the summit and take turns to pose, video and generally make prats of themselves trying to make it look as if they are on a mountain alone. Of course it was wrong to boo these blokes.

Quokkas · 29/05/2026 13:04

FieryMexicanClive · 29/05/2026 12:59

I also don’t get why a BBC article is needed on this. I can’t see how it’s news.

It's topical because this type of thing is happening all over the place. Do we want our public spaces to have areas cut out of them for Instagram selfie queues? It's an example of internet content creation impinging on real world behaviour and access.

I don’t think it is though, because the whole article is pretty much about them moaning about being praised for their achievement.

And as others have said, these climbers didn’t need to touch the trig point to prove they’d climbed Snowdon and it should have been obvious to them that Snowdon would’ve been extremely busy on a bank holiday weekend!! I’ve got no sympathy for them at all.

PandaCwtch · 29/05/2026 13:05

StandingDeskDisco · 29/05/2026 11:01

What fresh hell is this?

In years gone by, if you climbed a popular mountain there was sometimes a small crowd people at the top, drinking or eating sandwiches whilst sitting around the trig point or cairn, and if you wanted a photograph, they were in the background. Nobody would dream of queuing for photos or expecting other people to get out of the way.

Do you now have to stay away from the summit until it is your turn?

We are going on holiday to North Wales in a couple of weeks. I am now wondering if we should give Snowdon a miss?

If you want to say you've "done" Yr Wyddfa, then you can still do it, but think about doing it early morning or late evening, away from the crowds. I've run up late evening from Llanberis, and it's busy but you won't be queueing at the top like this

If you want to do mountain walking/running, there are better routes in Eryri. The Glyderau can also be busy from Ogwen valley, but there's loads of other peaks in the Carneddau, or a loop of Moel Eilio from Llanberis is a much quieter route.

FernandoSor · 29/05/2026 13:11

The queue is ridiculous, the first time I saw it at the top of Yr Wyddfa I honestly had no idea what I was looking it. I've never seen it on any other mountain, other than perhaps a short queue to leap between Adam and Eve on top of Tryfan.

I think it only started because people are so desperate to get 'selfies'. If everyone just ran up the steps, touched the trig point and moved on it wouldn't ever form.

Hippee · 29/05/2026 13:14

StandingDeskDisco · 29/05/2026 11:01

What fresh hell is this?

In years gone by, if you climbed a popular mountain there was sometimes a small crowd people at the top, drinking or eating sandwiches whilst sitting around the trig point or cairn, and if you wanted a photograph, they were in the background. Nobody would dream of queuing for photos or expecting other people to get out of the way.

Do you now have to stay away from the summit until it is your turn?

We are going on holiday to North Wales in a couple of weeks. I am now wondering if we should give Snowdon a miss?

Don't forget that there's a train up Snowdon, so half the people queuing for a photo won't have actually climbed it at all.

FernandoSor · 29/05/2026 13:14

OvernightBloats · 29/05/2026 13:01

Why do you need to touch the trig point anyway? There is no rule that they have to touch the trig point to prove that they have climbed the mountain.

People climbed the mountain long before the trig point was there. They climbed it and walked down again and didn't need to be filmed/photographed.

There was a queue so the charity men should have not even touched the trig point in the first place. There was no need. The charity men are now moaning because they ignored these people waiting.

They didn't get the adulation they were expecting. The charity men are the snowflakes here.

I think it's more of a thing on Yr Wyddfa because the trig point is really much more prominent than it is on other mountains. If you don't go all the way up to it you are knocking a good 5-6m off your elevation gain for the day 😂Like doing Tryfan and not doing the leap.

FieryMexicanClive · 29/05/2026 13:15

Quokkas · 29/05/2026 13:04

I don’t think it is though, because the whole article is pretty much about them moaning about being praised for their achievement.

And as others have said, these climbers didn’t need to touch the trig point to prove they’d climbed Snowdon and it should have been obvious to them that Snowdon would’ve been extremely busy on a bank holiday weekend!! I’ve got no sympathy for them at all.

The story is about people queuing for selfies and getting fucked off when other people do not do the same.

Like I say it's an example of the internet impinging on the real world. Why are those people queuing? For selfies. Why are they queuing for selfies in that particular place? Because internet algorithms have caused them to think this is necessary behaviour.

This is a real turnaround from even fifteen years ago, when people took photos to reflect the world as they saw it on the internet. Now the world, or at least particular corners of it, queue by queue, is being used to perpetuate algorithmic patterns which themselves are driven by advertising data and revenue. That's what the path up to Snowdon has now become.

Are we happy about this? I can't say I am.

Sunloungerhogger · 29/05/2026 13:15

CoyGoldenKoi · 29/05/2026 10:53

It's a mountain. The concept of a queue is inherently ridiculous and created by the social media obsession with a perfect shot.

IMHO no-one should be queuing. Take a (quick!) photo and accept that it'll have other people in it, you're not that special.

To me the inherent question is "Should people's desire for social media content be allowed to inconvenience others?"
To which, to me, the answer is clearly No.

So while I think they're ridiculous for getting upset about being booed (cos it's completely foreseeable that others who have decided to queue will be annoyed), I don't think they're unreasonable for bypassing a self-inflicted queue.

Completely agree with this. My initial thought was how arrogant to think a queue doesn’t apply to you, I am very British re queuing and anyone trying to jump a queue. But a queue for the summit of a mountain which can be approached from 360 degrees because people are arsing about taking selfies - hell no.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 29/05/2026 13:21

At the end of reading all the posts since my first reply, I’m still torn because -

  1. the climbers in question who did the three peaks sound twatty
  2. the reason for the queue being there also sounds twatty

The problem is, because it’s not an official queue, there’s not guidance as to what it’s for. So it’s every person’s own guess as to whether it’s just for selfie takers or if “real” climbers must stand in it too.

I’m a bit worried now about going up Yr Wyddfa /Snowdon in the summer with my son who is an excellent walker and climber but has ADHD. There’s no way he could stand in an hour long queue but I’m not sure if he’ll be able to cope with the lack of closure of not just touching it for a second if other people seem to think it’s a thing. Don’t want to spend the rest of my life/ his childhood with him moaning that we didn’t “really” do it for the sake of a few metres!

5128gap · 29/05/2026 13:32

I wonder if my neighbour would get cheered to the front of the queue in Tesco when she's shopping for the food kitchen? She gets really tired because it's hard work and she's nearly 80. She wears a fleece with the charity logo on. Guess we'll never know, because she'd never dream of trying it.

JustAnUdea · 29/05/2026 13:36

Have DD and I technically not climbed Yr Wyddfa as we didnt go all the way to the trig point?

Ablondiebutagoody · 29/05/2026 13:41

JustAnUdea · 29/05/2026 13:36

Have DD and I technically not climbed Yr Wyddfa as we didnt go all the way to the trig point?

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Correct

FieryMexicanClive · 29/05/2026 13:43

JustAnUdea · 29/05/2026 13:36

Have DD and I technically not climbed Yr Wyddfa as we didnt go all the way to the trig point?

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That's for you to determine.

What's not for you or anyone else to determine is whether people have to queue to touch the trig - they don't.

Tessasanderson · 29/05/2026 13:43

Ahh the 3 peaks falicy.

Is this the same 3 peaks that needs the logistics to be on point. Minibus or similar driving between the sites?

Is this the same 3 Peaks that hardly anyone from the area does so its usually involves a long journey to get there?

Is this the same 3 Peaks that is famed for being a money earner for organisation companies who charge a big fee and bring little to the local economy?

Is this the same 3 Peaks that is causing issues with antisocial events (Like the main subject), antisocial parking, noise in early hours (More on this)?

Is this the same 3 Peaks which is causing quite a bit of wear and tear in the area?

I used to mountain bike in the area from time to time and never heard a good word from the local outdoor community about those doing the challenges

Most of the informed people schedule their efforts so they arrive at less busy times. In fact with the heat some do it when the sun isnt burning down. I suggest that there is a just a mix of self entitlement and grumpiness from the masses. There are similar challenges that could be done with less financial sacrifice that would be just as worthwhile.

Tsundokuer · 29/05/2026 13:46

5128gap · 29/05/2026 13:32

I wonder if my neighbour would get cheered to the front of the queue in Tesco when she's shopping for the food kitchen? She gets really tired because it's hard work and she's nearly 80. She wears a fleece with the charity logo on. Guess we'll never know, because she'd never dream of trying it.

That’s a silly comparison. It is more like your neighbour being booed for using the scan and pack in Tesco when other people are queuing
for tills.

Personally I think a queue for selfies to show that you got to the top of a mountain is grim and that anyone who wants to should be able to walk round, touch the trig point and head down again.

Hoardasurass · 29/05/2026 13:47

ChalkOutlines · 29/05/2026 11:03

So if there’s a queue of people waiting to pay by card and a new till opens that says cash only and you go there you would stay queueing? It’s the same principle. They didn’t want or need the selfies at the top so they didn’t join that queue.

Well as they were taking video of the touching of the trigger your point is irrelevant.
They should have joined the queue the same as everyone else

ChalkOutlines · 29/05/2026 13:47

5128gap · 29/05/2026 13:32

I wonder if my neighbour would get cheered to the front of the queue in Tesco when she's shopping for the food kitchen? She gets really tired because it's hard work and she's nearly 80. She wears a fleece with the charity logo on. Guess we'll never know, because she'd never dream of trying it.

It depends doesn’t it? If a new till opens to serve people in x circumstance and she fits that circumstance, is she skipping the queue by going there?

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 29/05/2026 13:48

"needing" to touch a specific magic special place on the mountain or otherwise your climb doesn't count, is a completely logical and rationale thing to do.

I'd say it was the very opposite of logical and rational.

Tsundokuer · 29/05/2026 13:48

Hoardasurass · 29/05/2026 13:47

Well as they were taking video of the touching of the trigger your point is irrelevant.
They should have joined the queue the same as everyone else

And if they were using a GoPro which runs continuously? No posing required?

ChalkOutlines · 29/05/2026 13:49

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 29/05/2026 13:21

At the end of reading all the posts since my first reply, I’m still torn because -

  1. the climbers in question who did the three peaks sound twatty
  2. the reason for the queue being there also sounds twatty

The problem is, because it’s not an official queue, there’s not guidance as to what it’s for. So it’s every person’s own guess as to whether it’s just for selfie takers or if “real” climbers must stand in it too.

I’m a bit worried now about going up Yr Wyddfa /Snowdon in the summer with my son who is an excellent walker and climber but has ADHD. There’s no way he could stand in an hour long queue but I’m not sure if he’ll be able to cope with the lack of closure of not just touching it for a second if other people seem to think it’s a thing. Don’t want to spend the rest of my life/ his childhood with him moaning that we didn’t “really” do it for the sake of a few metres!

Both can be twatty. That happens more often than not in real life. There isn’t always a goody and a baddie. They can be twats, that didn’t want to engage in a twatty activity (this time), who were met with twatty boos so they had a twatty moan to the papers.

They all suck.Grin

dottiedodah · 29/05/2026 13:51

No I am not a relative. Sorry I will try and make sure I link it next time

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5128gap · 29/05/2026 13:51

ChalkOutlines · 29/05/2026 13:47

It depends doesn’t it? If a new till opens to serve people in x circumstance and she fits that circumstance, is she skipping the queue by going there?

If a till opens for food kitchen workers and she goes there, then no. She is not taking anything away from regular queuers, as they can't use the special till anyway, and as it's an additional resource she is relieving pressure on the original one, making it shorter for regular queuers.