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AIBU to think booing the exhausted charity climbers was unfair?

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dottiedodah · 29/05/2026 10:15

2 charity climbers booed ,because they went before the queue to touch the top!Had already done the 3 peaks challenge and were exhausted .A man physically tried to stop them by putting his hand out! YABU they should have waited .YANBU they should not have been booed

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SandwichSuperstar · 29/05/2026 11:09

Flamingojune · 29/05/2026 11:05

Its a bit phil and holly

This was my first thought even before I Googled it 😁

GeorgeMichaelsCat · 29/05/2026 11:09

ChalkOutlines · 29/05/2026 11:00

Not a photo at the top though. So queue for what?

To wait his turn like everyone else waiting for their photo / video moment.

TightlyLacedCorset · 29/05/2026 11:10

Divebar2021 · 29/05/2026 10:24

I don’t know anything about this incident but let’s not pretend there isn’t a certain amount of ego involved in undertaking these challenges for “ charity”. Queuing culture is very strong in the UK so it takes a certain arrogance to think that the rules don’t apply to you.

I think the idea of queuing culture being particularly practiced and revered in the UK is a myth.

It's up there with 'Keep calm and carry on'

During COVID there was no evidence in my local supermarkets of this queuing culture

Neither at the numerous bus stops where I am first to arrive at the stop, yet last to board the bus.

I don't know what happened here, but there should be room for flexibility, not a rigid adherence to a supposed cultural (debatable) norm. Room for an exception in exceptional circs.

If they had performed a truly outstanding feat and were on the edge of failing, then there was nothing wrong in pushing ahead over those performing a more leisurely activity.

ChalkOutlines · 29/05/2026 11:12

GeorgeMichaelsCat · 29/05/2026 11:09

To wait his turn like everyone else waiting for their photo / video moment.

They didn’t want the photo/video moment. Do you often queue for things you don’t want , just because other people are?

ChalkOutlines · 29/05/2026 11:13

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 29/05/2026 11:06

His touching of the trig point is included on his video. He's the same as everyone else there.
He's an arrogant twat who thinks he's too important to wait.

Ah missed that bit. Apologies.

5foot5 · 29/05/2026 11:14

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 29/05/2026 11:06

His touching of the trig point is included on his video. He's the same as everyone else there.
He's an arrogant twat who thinks he's too important to wait.

I haven't seen the video but just wondering whether he has one of those go-pro things attached to himself, in which case taking the video would be just the same as someone wanting to simply walk up to the trig and touch it.

FinchiePink · 29/05/2026 11:15

I find it a bit warped that there's a queue for the top of a mountain in the first place.

It's not a supermarket checkout.

GeorgeMichaelsCat · 29/05/2026 11:15

ChalkOutlines · 29/05/2026 11:12

They didn’t want the photo/video moment. Do you often queue for things you don’t want , just because other people are?

He was live streaming it!

IfIHadAHeart · 29/05/2026 11:18

The trig point on Snowdon is raised up on higher rock, with steps up to it and there is a narrowish ledge around the trig stone itself. If it was a free for all, someone would get hurt falling off this ledge. That’s why there’s a queue (that and the fact it’s a popular, accessible mountain).

I’ve done the three peaks. Not for charity, or social media. It was a challenge to myself as I was picking myself up after a very difficult time in my life. It was extremely hard, and yes I did want pictures at the top of each mountain as a reminder of what I could do if I put my mind to something. It’s very easy to dismiss everyone as just being after social media likes, doesn’t make it true.

They should have queued.

JulietteHasAGun · 29/05/2026 11:20

He’s absolutely in the right to do what he did. I do a lot of hill walking. I’m not bothered about a photo at the top but I obviously want to get to the top.

I’ve bypassed the queue at snowdon by scrambling up the other side, touch the trig and turn round.

All the muppets (most of whom get the train up) are queuing because they want a solo photo. Loads of them take multiple pictures. I couldn’t give a shit about someone’s instagram poses. every other summit in the country doesn’t have this issue. If you want a solo photograph you either wait till nobody else is in shot or you accept there will be random people in the background. Blimey photoshop is a thing if you’re desperate.

dottiedodah · 29/05/2026 11:22

Apologies for no link everyone . Not sure how to link it .Yes my feeling is that they should have waited really .

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PoliteGreyDreamer · 29/05/2026 11:23

I hiked up Snowdon/Yr Wyddfa on a glorious sunny day a month ago, the first day the trains started running (they brought it forward a week due to the fine weather...)

I queued an hour for pics at the summit as one of the friends I went with wanted to, and I was happy to do it for somebody who had driven and then hiked hours to climb a mountain at my invitation. Honestly though, the rest of us wouldn't have bothered otherwise.

And yes, the reason it takes an hour is people faffing around taking pics for Instagram.

When I was on it fights and arguments started breaking out with runners in particular running up the final 10m of ascent which the trig is stuck on tapping it and running down.

Honestly, I thought it was ridiculous to get annoyed by somebody simply tapping a part of the mountain to say they had summited, and chose not to an hour onto their time because of vain faffers. I don't think that people wanting a picture at the trig trump people who just want to summit quickly and bugger off. I felt like outraged of Tunbridge wells stood in this queue, and the sheer lack of optimisation of the space at the top of the mountain by picture takers. Runners/more serious hikers weren't causing the issue imo.

The queue is not benign, it takes up a lot of space at the top of a mountain that potentially prevents people summiting, and everybody spending an extra hour at the top would only make the issue worse.

Disclaimer: When I'm not hiking I am a trail runner/Strava wanker.

JulietteHasAGun · 29/05/2026 11:26

StandingDeskDisco · 29/05/2026 11:01

What fresh hell is this?

In years gone by, if you climbed a popular mountain there was sometimes a small crowd people at the top, drinking or eating sandwiches whilst sitting around the trig point or cairn, and if you wanted a photograph, they were in the background. Nobody would dream of queuing for photos or expecting other people to get out of the way.

Do you now have to stay away from the summit until it is your turn?

We are going on holiday to North Wales in a couple of weeks. I am now wondering if we should give Snowdon a miss?

I honestly would give it a miss. I hear parking is very limited now and there’s a shuttle bus to the top of the pass. Guess you could walk it from llanberis without needing the bus. Or park nant Paris type side and go up a different route. I couldn’t think of anything worse than the tourist route up snowdon.

I did see a really bad video the other day of people cycling up it in the middle of the day weaving through the crowds. The etiquette is if you're biking you finish by 10 which is what I’ve always done.

I also hear Pete’s Eats has closed. Sad times.

outdooryone · 29/05/2026 11:27

FinchiePink · 29/05/2026 11:15

I find it a bit warped that there's a queue for the top of a mountain in the first place.

It's not a supermarket checkout.

Indeed.
The issue on YrWyddfa, Ben Nevis and Scafell is the shear numbers of people. YrWydffa particularly as it has a railway up there and a very easy, wide path to follow...plus Instagram. Put it all together on a sunny bank holiday and the crowds are crazy.

I went up many times through the '90s and only took my lads up as they can now say they have summited the four highest mountains of the four UK countries. I would not go back, would not recommend anyone else does, and would suggest many a better walk ahead of Yr Wyddfa (and even if you do go do it, go do Crib Goch for fun).

JulietteHasAGun · 29/05/2026 11:28

@PoliteGreyDreamer the runners can’t afford to cool down either. They could injure themselves if they set off down after waiting an hour. They often don’t carry kit for hanging around for a hour either. The train passengers wouldn’t understand that.

Livpool · 29/05/2026 11:30

SandwichSuperstar · 29/05/2026 10:32

I too hate threads like this with no link.

I've Googled and to be honest, they sound a bit up their own arses and selfish in what they've said here...

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/creplqjdxqxo

Agreed! I know a few people who have done this challenge for charity/and some who just did it. No one person is more deserving than another.

PoliteGreyDreamer · 29/05/2026 11:33

outdooryone · 29/05/2026 11:08

Thank you for the link @SandwichSuperstar

Last time I climbed Yr Wyddfa there was chaos - I had gone up the more challenging Crib Goch way with my two sons and emerged after not seeing anyone to a queue in about 3c while each person and group took turns to get multiple photos, one as we arrived was filming a short piece to camera etc. My sons and I ignored the queue, walked up to the base* of the rocks on the summit, snapped a selfie and left. I don't need to step up to the trig, and I certainly did not want to get cold waiting for others to faff around so I could do so.

Sounds like these two did just jump the queue to get right to the trig - and do sound somewhat entitled to suggest that by wearing a charity t-shirt they should be entitled to push past...

Ironically on the way down we were shouted at on the lead into the Pyg track as there was snow. So an even bigger queue had developed both uphill and downhill while folk took turns to nervously navigate the rocks past one section. My sons and I just glissaded (sledged) down on our bums past everyone and away from the path...I was given a right telling off by some chap about being safe in the mountains and how dangerous it was to show kids this. I asked for the gent's qualifications to tell me off - apparently 'common sense' from him trumped my Summer and Winter Mountain Leader, day job as Chief Instructor at a busy outdoor centre that walked Munro's in Scotland every week with groups of kids, and probably my 10th time up Yr Wyddfa...

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I accept there is a difference to climbing up to touch the top of the mountain and climbing up to touch the trig.

But when I was on the mountain last month, people were shouted at as they walked past the queue whether or not they were trying to touch the top of the mountain vs the trig. They weren't allowed to get that far before it got aggy. I thought that was ridiculous. The people in the queue on the steps don't have any ownership of the pile of rocks they are standing next to.

MayaLui · 29/05/2026 11:34

Evilkineavel · 29/05/2026 10:17

There’s a queue. They should have waited.

It's a mountain, not a shop counter, there's no queue.

Mcdhotchoc · 29/05/2026 11:36

Never have a read a more British thread on Mumsnet

Deadleaves77 · 29/05/2026 11:37

PoliteGreyDreamer · 29/05/2026 11:23

I hiked up Snowdon/Yr Wyddfa on a glorious sunny day a month ago, the first day the trains started running (they brought it forward a week due to the fine weather...)

I queued an hour for pics at the summit as one of the friends I went with wanted to, and I was happy to do it for somebody who had driven and then hiked hours to climb a mountain at my invitation. Honestly though, the rest of us wouldn't have bothered otherwise.

And yes, the reason it takes an hour is people faffing around taking pics for Instagram.

When I was on it fights and arguments started breaking out with runners in particular running up the final 10m of ascent which the trig is stuck on tapping it and running down.

Honestly, I thought it was ridiculous to get annoyed by somebody simply tapping a part of the mountain to say they had summited, and chose not to an hour onto their time because of vain faffers. I don't think that people wanting a picture at the trig trump people who just want to summit quickly and bugger off. I felt like outraged of Tunbridge wells stood in this queue, and the sheer lack of optimisation of the space at the top of the mountain by picture takers. Runners/more serious hikers weren't causing the issue imo.

The queue is not benign, it takes up a lot of space at the top of a mountain that potentially prevents people summiting, and everybody spending an extra hour at the top would only make the issue worse.

Disclaimer: When I'm not hiking I am a trail runner/Strava wanker.

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This is what I've done when climbing snowdon. Tapped the top of the stone pile not the trig. I'm not queueing an hour for photos and it's pretty arrogant to suggest people should be forced to join a long queue of photo takers just to touch the top

It wasn't that many years ago there was no queue. There's no other mountain you are expected to queue at in the UK (maybe scafell pike or Ben Nevis I've not done those for a while).

Last time I climbed Snowdon it was like a war zone of people collapsed at the path side in really inappropriate shoes with no water/food. People having panic attacks halfway down and causing hold ups. Compared to basically every other British mountain it's really bizarre

StrictlyCoffee · 29/05/2026 11:38

Divebar2021 · 29/05/2026 10:24

I don’t know anything about this incident but let’s not pretend there isn’t a certain amount of ego involved in undertaking these challenges for “ charity”. Queuing culture is very strong in the UK so it takes a certain arrogance to think that the rules don’t apply to you.

Exactly this

I don’t know this incident but people tend to do these things as a personal challenge first and for charity second.

just because it is for charity doesn’t mean they are any more important or have any more right to get to the top ahead of the queue.

FieryMexicanClive · 29/05/2026 11:39

Your thread header is inaccurate. This wasn't a queue to get to the top. It's a queue to take a photo at the trig point without anyone else in it, so you can pretend you're alone on the mountain. It's not an official queue. It's people who have decided to take up public space and turn it into a queue for this moronic reason. Those who don't want to queue for a photo, but want to get to the trig, don't queue.

AuDrusilla · 29/05/2026 11:43

Hoardasurass · 29/05/2026 10:48

The arrogance of those two men is outrageous.
How dare they try and shame people for booing them over the queue jumping, just because they were fundraising. The way they spoke about other people who complained about poor behaviour and excusing it by claiming that their charity t-shirts should have prevented it.
Honestly I thought that they were twats before I read their comments but now having read them and there oh aren't we so special and everybody should move aside for us crap I really hope that they get a social media pasting

Two charity hikers who skipped queues to reach the summit of Yr Wyddfa have spoken of their anger at being booed.

I read this and thought "oh fuck off"

StrictlyCoffee · 29/05/2026 11:44

That pic of all the people at the top just cements how much I hate hillwalking and climbing! In the unlikely event I ever did want to do a trek like that, the reason is I would want to avoid people, not come across hordes of them there. I’d rather go into town.

FieryMexicanClive · 29/05/2026 11:44

CoyGoldenKoi · 29/05/2026 10:53

It's a mountain. The concept of a queue is inherently ridiculous and created by the social media obsession with a perfect shot.

IMHO no-one should be queuing. Take a (quick!) photo and accept that it'll have other people in it, you're not that special.

To me the inherent question is "Should people's desire for social media content be allowed to inconvenience others?"
To which, to me, the answer is clearly No.

So while I think they're ridiculous for getting upset about being booed (cos it's completely foreseeable that others who have decided to queue will be annoyed), I don't think they're unreasonable for bypassing a self-inflicted queue.

Exactly. It's the queue that's the inconvenience, not the people walking about doing their thing.