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AIBU to think these boys should have been incarcerated?

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newrubylane · 21/05/2026 14:06

BBC News - Teenage boys sentenced for raping lone girls
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clypg68e2neo

I've never started an AIBU before, but I'm genuinely really shocked. I'm just not sure how this sentence is justifiable. Their actions were premeditated and deliberate, they were carrying a knife and they filmed themselves. They're obviously a danger to women/girls, and probably to other boys too.

If anyone knows how and why this sentence might have come about, I'd be interested to hear it.

A footpath beside a river, leading under a road bridge

Teenage boys sentenced for raping lone girls in Fordingbridge

The boys filmed themselves laughing and encouraging each other as they raped girls in separate attacks.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clypg68e2neo

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Pigeonpoodle · 21/05/2026 16:01

Does anyone know who would be best person to complain about this and ask for a review?

fartotheleftside · 21/05/2026 16:01

A really upsetting detail is that they circulated the video, leading to the girls being bullied and further traumatised. I'm surprised there isn't a separate sentence for this? I thought new legislation was put in place?

jeffgoldblum · 21/05/2026 16:03

DrPrunesqualer · 21/05/2026 15:50

.The boys, who were aged 13, 14 and 14 at the time of the offences, cannot be named for legal reasons.
During a five-week trial at Southampton Crown Court which resulted in their convictions on 5 March 2026, jurors heard that the victims, aged 14 and 15 at the time, were attacked in separate incidents less than two months apart and were physically overpowered. The girls did not know one another

Many thanks 🙏, I admit I did skim read because I couldn’t stand reading the details, the reason I asked is because as a mother of a daughter ( and a son) at those ages both girls would have likely all ready started their periods and along with the trauma and physical and mental pain experienced, they could also ended up pregnant with their rapists babies ! , another punishment inflicted upon these children! 😡

SpidersAreShitheads · 21/05/2026 16:03

Setting the emotions of this aside, the question is whether this sentence is in line with sentencing guidelines.

I’ve attached the sentencing guidelines, aggravating factors, and mitigating factors.

It would seem that the sentence is probably in line with the guidelines. Whether that’s wrong or right is a different question but it would seem that the judge wasn’t “wrong” or “weak” per se.

As I said earlier, it would be interesting to see what intensive supervision looks like as in my experience, it’s relatively toothless. I can imagine going to school with an electronic tag would be viewed as a badge of honour.

I understand arguments about criminality and rehabilitation for the future but we’re essentially talking about aggravated gang rape here. On more than one occasion. Working with the YOT in the community seems lacking in severity.

The full sentencing guidelines are here: www.lbc.co.uk/article/three-boys-avoid-prison-rape-two-girls-5HjdZW4_2/

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TeethAreImportant · 21/05/2026 16:04

KidsDoBetter · 21/05/2026 15:30

This is what I posted.

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Agree, disgusting sentences for premeditated, evil attacks that will stay with those girls for the rest of their lives. What incentive is there for victims to come forward? I have never filled in one of those unduly lenient forms before, but have been moved to by this case. Thanks to all the posters who explained anybody can do this and how to do it. Hope they get inundated and take notice of people's horror and anger.

DaisyChain505 · 21/05/2026 16:04

I too have submitted the form. This is disgusting.

AIBU to think these boys should have been incarcerated?
GingerdeadMan · 21/05/2026 16:04

The justice system is also supposed to provide protection to society from offenders, support the rule of law ave provide restitution to the victims.

These sentences meet none of those aims.

I would like to see some evidence that these rehabilitating orders actually work as I'm afraid I have zero confidence. They just sound like a low cost option. And if they do work, there should still be more consideration to the victims and their feelings and support for them. I feel sick at what those poor brave girls have been through at such a young age too - going to court and getting this out one must feel like a kick in the face.

13570user · 21/05/2026 16:04

If you don’t agree with the sentences these lads received, please fill out the form and ask for a review:

https://www.gov.uk/ask-crown-court-sentence-review

It’s the only way we can try to help these poor girls. It only takes a few minutes. Where it asks for names put unknown as they are under 18. Copy and paste a link from the news article when adding info relating to the crimes so it’s clear which cases you want them to review.

Ask for a Crown Court sentence to be reviewed

How to complain to the Attorney General's Office if you think someone's sentence is too low - and what happens if the Court of Appeal get involved

https://www.gov.uk/ask-crown-court-sentence-review

SpidersAreShitheads · 21/05/2026 16:04

fartotheleftside · 21/05/2026 16:01

A really upsetting detail is that they circulated the video, leading to the girls being bullied and further traumatised. I'm surprised there isn't a separate sentence for this? I thought new legislation was put in place?

I think it was, but I’m not 100% sure. There was something in the sentencing about taking images of a child.

Backedoffhackedoff · 21/05/2026 16:04

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Did you think you would shock me by describing crimes? Do you think I don’t realise these crimes happen? What an odd view.

TeethAreImportant · 21/05/2026 16:05

ForeverTheOptomist · 21/05/2026 15:55

I think that you need to enter the boy's names?. I'm stuck!

I just put 'unreported due to age'

DrPrunesqualer · 21/05/2026 16:05

MyMilchick · 21/05/2026 15:59

Of course a male judge.

So many cases of male judges being lenient on rapists

FinchiePink · 21/05/2026 16:05

13570user · 21/05/2026 16:04

If you don’t agree with the sentences these lads received, please fill out the form and ask for a review:

https://www.gov.uk/ask-crown-court-sentence-review

It’s the only way we can try to help these poor girls. It only takes a few minutes. Where it asks for names put unknown as they are under 18. Copy and paste a link from the news article when adding info relating to the crimes so it’s clear which cases you want them to review.

Again, this isn't like a petition.

Only one person needs to file a request.

It doesn't make any difference if hundreds of people do it.

WaryCrow · 21/05/2026 16:05

I’ve just seen this, and yes the judges comments are appalling.

”We shouldn’t seek to criminalise boys” who engage in gang rape attacks??!?

FFS

Judge, you are part of the reason why these boys fucking behave like this, because you let them get away with it. Exactly what behaviour WOULD you criminalise, if you let boys get away with this??

coulditbeme2323 · 21/05/2026 16:05

Backedoffhackedoff · 21/05/2026 16:04

Did you think you would shock me by describing crimes? Do you think I don’t realise these crimes happen? What an odd view.

But you don't want these lads in prison?

Netcurtainnelly · 21/05/2026 16:06

Disgusting cut their cocks off.

Meadowfinch · 21/05/2026 16:06

FinchiePink · 21/05/2026 15:59

I feel it's worth pointing out that only one unduly lenient form needs to be submitted.

It's not like a petition - it doesn't get more attention if lots of people do it.

But 30,000 forms would get the message across loud and clear.

Justice my arse !

lornad00m · 21/05/2026 16:07

Pigeonpoodle · 21/05/2026 16:01

Does anyone know who would be best person to complain about this and ask for a review?

That's what I want to know. What about this?? You can apparently request a sentence review. But it has to be within 28 days of the sentence.

Submit your request as early as possible before the 28-day deadline expires.

https://www.gov.uk/ask-crown-court-sentence-review

Ask for a Crown Court sentence to be reviewed

How to complain to the Attorney General's Office if you think someone's sentence is too low - and what happens if the Court of Appeal get involved

https://www.gov.uk/ask-crown-court-sentence-review

Backedoffhackedoff · 21/05/2026 16:07

coulditbeme2323 · 21/05/2026 16:05

But you don't want these lads in prison?

Wha lads?

FinchiePink · 21/05/2026 16:07

Meadowfinch · 21/05/2026 16:06

But 30,000 forms would get the message across loud and clear.

Justice my arse !

No it wouldn't, it just creates an admin headache for some civil servant somewhere.

By all means start a petition, but it would be a waste of time given that an unduly lenient form has already been submitted.

WilfredsPies · 21/05/2026 16:08

Those poor girls. I hope those boys live in a community where they’ll need to be looking over their shoulders for the rest of their time there.

I’ve long said this, but if women and girls were killing and sexually assaulting men and boys at the rate men and boys are doing to us, women would be under a nationwide curfew.

fartotheleftside · 21/05/2026 16:08

I'm surprised the premeditated nature of the attacks didn't result in a harsher sentence.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 21/05/2026 16:08

I am very much in favour of rehabilitation in general, and I'm on board with the principle of not criminalising children where this can be avoided. But surely when serious crimes such as rape are involved, there needs to be much more consideration for the victims as well, who will very likely be retraumatised by learning that their rapists will effectively face no punishment.

I really feel for those poor girls and their families, and I do think there should have been a custodial sentence in this case - in an appropriate institution that is suitable for the perpetraors' ages and where they can still be effectively rehabilitated if this is possible.

Also, quite apart from the impact on the victims, it cannot be good at a societal level to send the message that serious crimes against women and girls will go unpunished. There is such a tiny proportion of rapes where there is a prosecution in any case, and then you get cases like this where there is a prosecution but no real consequence.

I hope that the Home Secretary will intervene in this case. Justice should be humane and rehabilitation should be priority in my view, but rehabilitation without any kind justice doesn't serve any of us well.

coulditbeme2323 · 21/05/2026 16:08

Backedoffhackedoff · 21/05/2026 16:07

Wha lads?

You said children don't belong in prison.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 21/05/2026 16:08

YANBU

ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING.

AIBU to think these boys should have been incarcerated?
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