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AIBU to think these boys should have been incarcerated?

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newrubylane · 21/05/2026 14:06

BBC News - Teenage boys sentenced for raping lone girls
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clypg68e2neo

I've never started an AIBU before, but I'm genuinely really shocked. I'm just not sure how this sentence is justifiable. Their actions were premeditated and deliberate, they were carrying a knife and they filmed themselves. They're obviously a danger to women/girls, and probably to other boys too.

If anyone knows how and why this sentence might have come about, I'd be interested to hear it.

A footpath beside a river, leading under a road bridge

Teenage boys sentenced for raping lone girls in Fordingbridge

The boys filmed themselves laughing and encouraging each other as they raped girls in separate attacks.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clypg68e2neo

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Plsudb · 21/05/2026 19:09

This is utterly fucking vile.

These males have been allowed to rape and not go to jail. If I ruled the world, they would be euthanised with organ donation. Crime would reduce and ill people would recover.

SuperSue77 · 21/05/2026 19:12

I feel strongly about rehabilitation, but also as a mother of 14 yr old and 16 yr old girls I am truly shocked and appalled by this. I have also submitted a review request as I think someone said above, how can I look my daughter's in the eye knowing this has happened and I did nothing. I know it says you don't need to if someone else has submitted one, but I feel that maybe the number of requests will send a strong message, as well as the PCC comments.

jeffgoldblum · 21/05/2026 19:13

BoredZelda · 21/05/2026 19:06

In your opinion. The reason I don’t find it irrelevant is, the weaponisation of violence against women is something we all should be against, and this is a good example of it.

Look at any SM post by police about women being attacked. The “doctor or engineer” comments, the clamour for “why no description” comments, most recently 3 women tragically died in the sea in Brighton and the vast majority of comments were about small boats, no sympathy whatsoever.

I’m sorry if this weaponisation bores you, but it’s actually a real threat to women.

I’m genuinely confused as to what the point is you are trying to make here?
everyone on this thread knows the boys are white ! We are still outraged, we would be still outraged if they weren’t.
these girls don’t deserve their pain further waved away on the alter of whatever your moral crusade is about!

Plsudb · 21/05/2026 19:14

“The fifteen year old you have to wonder if he was fit for trial. Their learning difficulties / ADHD were assessed as being in the bottom 1% for their age”

well, the person was apparently fit to be out without supervision, so therefore, he is suitable for trial. Can’t have it both ways.

GimmieABreakOr3 · 21/05/2026 19:15

This is completely unacceptable. It makes me angry. How exactly is this helping our VAWG crisis?!

BunnyWabbit2000 · 21/05/2026 19:17

ThisAmpleCritic · 21/05/2026 14:18

This sentence is actually disgusting. Those poor girls will live with what happened to them forever. These boys are free to commit aggravated rape again tomorrow. I wonder if anyone can raise an unjustly lenient challenge? 🤔

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Anyone can do this for any sentence xx

Plsudb · 21/05/2026 19:17

GimmieABreakOr3 · 21/05/2026 19:15

This is completely unacceptable. It makes me angry. How exactly is this helping our VAWG crisis?!

This crisis will never end :(

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 21/05/2026 19:18

Monty36 · 21/05/2026 14:55

The fifteen year old you have to wonder if he was fit for trial. Their learning difficulties / ADHD were assessed as being in the bottom 1% for their age.

I don't see how having low intelligence makes you feel like it's OK to rape a terrified girl. If he really has got to 15 and still isn't capable of knowing that rape is wrong then he's a danger to society and needs locking up even more.

GimmieABreakOr3 · 21/05/2026 19:19

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 21/05/2026 19:18

I don't see how having low intelligence makes you feel like it's OK to rape a terrified girl. If he really has got to 15 and still isn't capable of knowing that rape is wrong then he's a danger to society and needs locking up even more.

I agree. I don’t think having ADHD means you don’t know right from wrong! And 15 isn’t exactly super young either!

GimmieABreakOr3 · 21/05/2026 19:19

Plsudb · 21/05/2026 19:17

This crisis will never end :(

It certainly won’t with pathetic sentences like this

Shoola · 21/05/2026 19:24

Backedoffhackedoff · 21/05/2026 14:50

I’m afraid I agree we shouldn’t criminalise children

I think their risk to women/ the public and their progress in rehabilitation needs to be carefully assessed, and I would advocate on the side of caution with that- but not that they should be criminalised. It’s just not effective

The girls that were raped were also children.

WindyMillerDrinksCider · 21/05/2026 19:24

ADHD is not a free pass to rape. I wish it would stop being bandied about as a causal/contibutary factor where this kind of crime is concerned. The majority of men with ADHD don't rape. There's premeditation, planning and intention here in any case.

WearyAuldWumman · 21/05/2026 19:25

muggart · 21/05/2026 14:55

i mean, the fact that they are a risk to girls is pretty clear cut. They rape them at knifepoint.

I am genuinely interested though- what should we do about these guys if not keep them off the streets?

If it's anything like the situation in Scotland, the courts will only give a meaningful sentence after a second offence. If intelligence is the issue, then it'll be a mental health facility sine die.

Bunnycat101 · 21/05/2026 19:26

This disgusts me. I have daughters. I do not want young boys and men to get the message that rape doesn’t deserve prison. Those poor poor girls will never get their lives back. I felt so saddened to hear one of them just say she wanted to die. They went through an awful trial process for the judge to just hand out a meaningless sentence.

SEN is not an excuses for violence or rape. Too often at a lower level I’m seeing excuses about deregulation excuses violence. It is not ok.

WearyAuldWumman · 21/05/2026 19:29

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 21/05/2026 19:18

I don't see how having low intelligence makes you feel like it's OK to rape a terrified girl. If he really has got to 15 and still isn't capable of knowing that rape is wrong then he's a danger to society and needs locking up even more.

This is actually a similar case. I can't find the more recent reports - Snaddon is unlikely to be released. He's in Carstairs.

https://www.thetimes.com/travel/destinations/uk-travel/scotland-travel/frail-womans-rapist-jailed-for-life-8rdm8nnwfbw

Frail woman’s rapist jailed for life

A sex offender who subjected a frail woman to a horrifying rape days after she returned home from hospital was jailed for life at the High Court in Edinburgh. Richard Snaddon’s victim was found to

https://www.thetimes.com/travel/destinations/uk-travel/scotland-travel/frail-womans-rapist-jailed-for-life-8rdm8nnwfbw

Ooodelally · 21/05/2026 19:30

Backedoffhackedoff · 21/05/2026 14:50

I’m afraid I agree we shouldn’t criminalise children

I think their risk to women/ the public and their progress in rehabilitation needs to be carefully assessed, and I would advocate on the side of caution with that- but not that they should be criminalised. It’s just not effective

Ffs. They are rapists. They’ve got away with it now. The judge has just created rapists who think they are invulnerable…

what the hell is wrong with you?

Nogimachi · 21/05/2026 19:32

FinchiePink · 21/05/2026 17:59

You said nothing of the sort. You said the boys should be caned and you'd favour the judge being gang raped in an alley. Don't try to justify it.

I am just so cross about this case and the Manchester one and the complete lack of justice for the victims.

WearyAuldWumman · 21/05/2026 19:33

Bunnycat101 · 21/05/2026 19:26

This disgusts me. I have daughters. I do not want young boys and men to get the message that rape doesn’t deserve prison. Those poor poor girls will never get their lives back. I felt so saddened to hear one of them just say she wanted to die. They went through an awful trial process for the judge to just hand out a meaningless sentence.

SEN is not an excuses for violence or rape. Too often at a lower level I’m seeing excuses about deregulation excuses violence. It is not ok.

In the case that I've posted above, the newspaper report gives a false picture of what happened. The offender was allowed to plead guilty to a lesser offence the first time.

Respair · 21/05/2026 19:33

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Monty36 · 21/05/2026 19:33

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 21/05/2026 19:18

I don't see how having low intelligence makes you feel like it's OK to rape a terrified girl. If he really has got to 15 and still isn't capable of knowing that rape is wrong then he's a danger to society and needs locking up even more.

I don’t.
And you don’t have the right to make such a personally insulting comment that is so incorrect.

WearyAuldWumman · 21/05/2026 19:35

Monty36 · 21/05/2026 19:33

I don’t.
And you don’t have the right to make such a personally insulting comment that is so incorrect.

If I understand correctly, the reference was to the offender's intelligence.

ETA The poster is perfectly correct. If the offender cannot understand right from wrong, then he should not be at liberty.

Ohcrap082024 · 21/05/2026 19:37

The Police and Crime Commissioner for Hampshire, Donna Jones, has now publicly criticised the sentences. Calling them too lenient and too focused on rehabilitation. She has said that she will support the victims and their families if they wish to appeal.

Fromwayupnorth · 21/05/2026 19:38

Backedoffhackedoff · 21/05/2026 14:50

I’m afraid I agree we shouldn’t criminalise children

I think their risk to women/ the public and their progress in rehabilitation needs to be carefully assessed, and I would advocate on the side of caution with that- but not that they should be criminalised. It’s just not effective

Effective in what way? With regards to rehabilitation? With getting them off the streets so they can't do this again? Or as a clear message of deterrent to other similar minded boys?

chipsticksmammy · 21/05/2026 19:39

Monty36 · 21/05/2026 14:55

The fifteen year old you have to wonder if he was fit for trial. Their learning difficulties / ADHD were assessed as being in the bottom 1% for their age.

But formed an alliance with others, carried knives, knew where people would be alone, cornered girls, raped them, can use a phone, share messages, use apps…

I could go on but using the above evidence about their intelligence, I could sit here all day and discredit it.

Marycontrarygarden · 21/05/2026 19:40

professionalcommentreader · 21/05/2026 14:26

I have complained, you can do the same, it’s not acceptable

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How do I do this?

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