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AIBU to think these boys should have been incarcerated?

869 replies

newrubylane · 21/05/2026 14:06

BBC News - Teenage boys sentenced for raping lone girls
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clypg68e2neo

I've never started an AIBU before, but I'm genuinely really shocked. I'm just not sure how this sentence is justifiable. Their actions were premeditated and deliberate, they were carrying a knife and they filmed themselves. They're obviously a danger to women/girls, and probably to other boys too.

If anyone knows how and why this sentence might have come about, I'd be interested to hear it.

A footpath beside a river, leading under a road bridge

Teenage boys sentenced for raping lone girls in Fordingbridge

The boys filmed themselves laughing and encouraging each other as they raped girls in separate attacks.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clypg68e2neo

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Meadowfinch · 21/05/2026 18:36

Periperi2025 · 21/05/2026 18:19

Fair enough, but even so, what the hell do we do with men like these?

Well, no girl or young woman is safe on the streets of Hampshire while they are walking free.

BoredZelda · 21/05/2026 18:37

WTAF. Teenager here https://www.wiltshire.police.uk/news/wiltshire/news/2023/december-2023/teenager-sentenced-to-five-years-following-meadowcroft-fields-stabbing/ gets a five year sentence for a single non fatal stabbing, yet 11 rapes and the judge didn’t want to criminalise them?

BoredZelda · 21/05/2026 18:38

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It’s a fair point. They’d be calling for these guys to be hung.

MulberryBrandy · 21/05/2026 18:39

When submitting the form and it asks for your reasons, I put:

premeditated, a group attack on a lone female, knife used, filmed, posted on social media, offences denied and victim blamed

There seem to be so many reasons why this feels unjust and not dealt with effectively to send a clear message.

PhaedraTwo · 21/05/2026 18:39

BoredZelda · 21/05/2026 18:38

It’s a fair point. They’d be calling for these guys to be hung.

No it isn't a fair point. It's a completely irrelevant point.

Wishitsnows · 21/05/2026 18:39

Those poor girls. This is absolutely disgusting they have got away with this. They pre planned it twice, used a knife and even uploaded the evidence. This is not justice. The comments from the judge praising them were frankly disturbing. There is zero protection for women and girls.

Jem57 · 21/05/2026 18:40

No words,absolutely appalling.

BloominNora · 21/05/2026 18:40

Ohcrap082024 · 21/05/2026 17:20

It doesn’t matter what community the boys come from. Nor the girls. The law is the law.

The males in this case chose to break the law. Repeatedly. It was planned and organised. They criminalised themselves.

Does anyone have any insight into a rehabilitation program that would be suitable for these males? One that has a proven track record of success? One that can be consistently and successfully delivered outside of a YOI or secure accommodation? I have a feeling that I would struggle to find one but I am willing to be corrected.

YROs can include secure accommodation - they also deliver significant rehab support, curfews, community service etc. They are the second most severe punishment after custody.

If you look at the stats, they must work:

Offences:

in 2015 there were 87,160 offences, 2,000 were sexual offences (2.3%)
In 2022 there were 34,020 offences, 915 were sexual offences (2.7%)
In 2025 there were 35,582 offences, 1,476 were sexual offences (4.1%)

Sentencing:
For young people convicted of an indictable offence:

In 2015 9.5% were given custodial sentences, 73% community sentences,
In 2022 7.5% got custodial and 79.3% got community
In 2025 6.3% got custodial, community increased to 82%.

Re-offending:

Reoffending in 2017 (2015 cohort) was 40.9%, overall and 13.2% for sexual offences
In 2024 (2022 cohort) it was 31.8% and 9.1% for sexual offences. The next lowest is violence against the person which has a re-offending rate of 19.3%.

Re-offending for young people who have committed sexual offences is lower than the same cohort for adults (29.5% re-offending overall, between 13% and 16% for those convicted of sexual offences). Given that adults don't have the option of a YRO type sentence with the same sort of rehabilitation focus, then the data would suggest that rehabilitation for young people does work.

PhaedraTwo · 21/05/2026 18:40

And I guess the animal cruelty and illegal hare and rabbit coursing gets a pass?

It's well recognised that people who have no empathy with animal cruelty tend to have no empathy with human pain and suffering.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 21/05/2026 18:41

I don’t think anyone convicted of rape should ever be given a non custodial sentence. It’s a serious crime and it needs to be treated seriously.

ThisNoisyPoet · 21/05/2026 18:42

I wrote similar plus severity of impact on the victim

Agrumpyknitter · 21/05/2026 18:43

Thank you OP. I too have raised a form. Thanks to others who helped provide info for the form. It breaks my heart for the girls and their families involved. They must be outraged, there was clear evidence what else was needed.

50lbstolose · 21/05/2026 18:43

This is an absolute disgrace.

Where is the justice for these young women?

NewName12345678910 · 21/05/2026 18:44

PhaedraTwo · 21/05/2026 17:42

I don't think you have to be in England and Wales. I'm not. I submitted one. It asked for my full name and I used my full name including the 2 middle names which only appear on my passport and birth certificate in case they check I'm real. It didn't ask where Iived.

Thanks, have submitted it

BloominNora · 21/05/2026 18:45

Pollyanna87 · 21/05/2026 17:40

I’d like to see an elected judiciary.

Given the calibre of some of the MPs and Councillors that get elected, I bloody wouldn't!

PhaedraTwo · 21/05/2026 18:46

BloominNora · 21/05/2026 18:45

Given the calibre of some of the MPs and Councillors that get elected, I bloody wouldn't!

Edited

An elected judiciary is a terrible idea.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 21/05/2026 18:47

Ugh.

Boy Mum Endgame.

munchbunch12 · 21/05/2026 18:48

Submitted my form! I didn't even know we could do this.

Daffydaffodil25 · 21/05/2026 18:48

Thanks for the link to appeal the sentence given. I have done so. My blood is absolutely boiling. Those poor girls, what sort of message does this sentence send out?

ForeverTheOptomist · 21/05/2026 18:48

Have sent review to Gov.UK

EdithBond · 21/05/2026 18:49

Good grief. Shocking. Especially this:

I hope when you look back you'll at least take some comfort that you - both of you - have shown great courage.”

Weeellokthen · 21/05/2026 18:50

Wtaf. Poor girls, i'm so angry. Can we not start a campaign to get that judge sacked. His comments were disgusting.
Utterly shameful

NeverDropYourMooncup · 21/05/2026 18:50

BloominNora · 21/05/2026 18:40

YROs can include secure accommodation - they also deliver significant rehab support, curfews, community service etc. They are the second most severe punishment after custody.

If you look at the stats, they must work:

Offences:

in 2015 there were 87,160 offences, 2,000 were sexual offences (2.3%)
In 2022 there were 34,020 offences, 915 were sexual offences (2.7%)
In 2025 there were 35,582 offences, 1,476 were sexual offences (4.1%)

Sentencing:
For young people convicted of an indictable offence:

In 2015 9.5% were given custodial sentences, 73% community sentences,
In 2022 7.5% got custodial and 79.3% got community
In 2025 6.3% got custodial, community increased to 82%.

Re-offending:

Reoffending in 2017 (2015 cohort) was 40.9%, overall and 13.2% for sexual offences
In 2024 (2022 cohort) it was 31.8% and 9.1% for sexual offences. The next lowest is violence against the person which has a re-offending rate of 19.3%.

Re-offending for young people who have committed sexual offences is lower than the same cohort for adults (29.5% re-offending overall, between 13% and 16% for those convicted of sexual offences). Given that adults don't have the option of a YRO type sentence with the same sort of rehabilitation focus, then the data would suggest that rehabilitation for young people does work.

Isn't that reoffending within 12 months, though?

NewName12345678910 · 21/05/2026 18:52

Periperi2025 · 21/05/2026 18:03

So how will they be capable of re-education/ rehabilitation if they don't have the capacity to understand that rape is wrong.

What would you suggest is done with them.

Mental asylum for life?!

Edited

Yes as he is clearly a danger and if that mentally incapacitated will never be anything else.