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Am I going to get the sack? AIBU?

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mumstheword1x · 19/05/2026 14:51

I’m suffering with anxiety at the moment, last week I got given a pay rise by my manager, I was so happy. I thanked her on Friday over email for all her support and she never replied.

shes asked to speak to me tomorrow morning at 09:30, I said ‘of course, all ok?’ And she said ‘Yes all good’

she never asks me for a catch up like that, so I’m a lil confused. She normally just calls me on the day at the time randomly.

I don’t think I’ve done anything wrong, although she’s a director and some drama kicked off at an Awayday, I wasn’t involved, I just found out and had to schedule calls for another manager. I’m a PA to 3 people and this one is my boss, the other manager told my boss today that I knew about it… although I was just scheduling calls and wasn’t involved & it was agreed the director didn’t need to know.

AIBU? Am I over thinking this?

OP posts:
Tabarnak · 22/05/2026 08:49

How did it go, @mumstheword1x ?
How are you?

NotAnotherScarf · 22/05/2026 11:06

mumstheword1x · 20/05/2026 10:34

Been moved to tomorrow ugh

An update would be nice please as many people have offered support and advice

JMSA · 22/05/2026 19:56

TorroFerney · 19/05/2026 15:13

Are you in America? If you are in the uk have you any idea how hard it is to sack someone.

Far too bloody hard, in my opinion. I have a couple of colleagues off long-term with anxiety. Well, if the job is making you that anxious, get a new one. Stop leaving your workload to everyone else.

Dizzywizz · 23/05/2026 07:19

How did it go @mumstheword1x ? Hope the meeting was positive in the end

Aboutreadytogiveup · 23/05/2026 13:31

Hope you’re good!

NotAnotherScarf · 23/05/2026 20:54

Ok she's been sacked....not getting back to colleagues I assume

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