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I'm fed up with everyone tiptoeing around Brexit having been rubbish

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paddleboardingmum · 18/05/2026 19:23

We can all see how it hasn't stopped immigration, we don't have the more money for the NHS that was promised, and everyone is worse off. I'm sure even many who voted for it - who were conned at the time- also can see it was rubbish. Isn't it time for people to stop pretending it was a good idea. That doesn't mean we need to rejoin right now or blame anybody, but I think it's time to just face facts and stop trying to pretend it was a good idea.

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Araminta1003 · 19/05/2026 11:31

It is simplistic to just blame “Leave” voters. There were plenty of people who did not bother to show up to vote at all, because it rained on the day of the Referendum.
And there are plenty of people who failed to register to vote at all, because they don’t care or do not have faith in the political system (or because they are between addressed).
The vote was very close.

SapphOhNo · 19/05/2026 11:32

GasPanic · 19/05/2026 11:20

"I think this is a bit misleading because the argument was never that Brexit would cause an instant Mad Max-style collapse visible on a GDP graph."

Recollections may vary.

"Even the OBR still estimates Brexit will reduce long-run productivity and trade by around 4–15%, and the recent NBER paper estimated a 6–8% hit to GDP by 2025."

Estimates and calculations. But impossible to prove. And no doubt biased with a political agenda.

"Tthe figures quoted don’t exactly show the UK outperforming comparable economies."

No, they don't show the UK as outperforming. Unless you want to throw Germany into the mix. They show the UK pretty much performing the same as comparable economies. So no disaster there then. Pretty much same old same old. Despite Brexit. Of course there are people out there that would claim that without Brexit we would be roaring along at the 15% increase the US has had. I remain skeptical.

"the Eurozone overall has actually grown more since 2019".

Yes by about 1% over 6 years. We aren't exactly talking huge differences here. If it were the same difference as between the UK and the US or the UK and Germany there might be some sort of legitimate claim.

"Germany struggling doesn’t suddenly make Brexit a success."

Yes. But it does show you that economic performance can vary considerably even if you don't leave the EU. So attributing economic changes unambiguously to Brexit is really hard. If we had performed as badly as Germany over the same period, would people be attributing that performance to Brexit I wonder, and would that have been a reasonable analysis ?

"And “we’ll replace EU trade with the US and Asia” was always the theory, but years later there’s still little evidence it has offset the loss of frictionless access to our largest nearby market."

Well, other than the fact a lot of people said Brexit would lead to poor economic performance - and it clearly hasn't - or not in any way that someone can reasonably prove. So what is the real explanation for that ?

I agree re the benefits of the US/Asia Pacific market are yet to be established. In theory there are better opportunities for growth in trade there. Practice may be something different. Once again it will actually be difficult to prove if economic performance does take off over the next few years whether that is due to US Asia/Pacific trade or maybe other things. As before, I think it would be a bit crazy now we are here not to see how the opportunities develop.

But this basically boils down to “it’s impossible to prove anything conclusively therefore Brexit can’t be blamed”, which isn’t really how economics works. We can’t rerun history with a control UK that stayed in the EU, so economists use comparative modelling and counterfactuals all the time, including for Covid, inflation, tax policy etc.

The broad consensus from bodies like the OBR, IMF, LSE, NIESR and pretty much most mainstream economists is that Brexit has had a negative impact on trade, investment and productivity. The fact the UK economy didn’t literally collapse doesn’t mean Brexit succeeded, it just means the UK absorbed the damage alongside a load of other global shocks. And people keep shifting the goalposts here because Brexit wasn’t sold as “things will broadly muddle along”. We were repeatedly told things would be better.

StartleBright · 19/05/2026 11:32

I have tried to have this conversation with Brexiteers…. The response I receive is ‘it wasn’t done right’ and that if only Brexit had been done properly it would all be rainbows and unicorns.

Be honest about the situation we are now in, and the rational approaches we can take to improve it… everything else is posturing.

AndrewMountbattenWindsor · 19/05/2026 11:33

TheGreatDownandOut · Yesterday 19:34
I blame Cameron. Why put such an important decision to a public vote when people can be so easily manipulated.

Me too. People usually vote for change but he was confident that the majority would vote Remain. The referendum did not need to happen.

38thparallel · 19/05/2026 11:57

paddleboardingmum · 19/05/2026 10:24

I'm not even sure it will come up at the next election. It's interesting because the politicians do seem to do all they can to avoid upsetting the people who voted for it, but not seeming to care at all for everyone who didn't. Even after all this time.

According to a pp the percentage of voters who are still pro Brexit are well outweighed by remainers so surely it would be a vote winner to support rejoining in parties’ manifestos?

GasPanic · 19/05/2026 12:14

SapphOhNo · 19/05/2026 11:32

But this basically boils down to “it’s impossible to prove anything conclusively therefore Brexit can’t be blamed”, which isn’t really how economics works. We can’t rerun history with a control UK that stayed in the EU, so economists use comparative modelling and counterfactuals all the time, including for Covid, inflation, tax policy etc.

The broad consensus from bodies like the OBR, IMF, LSE, NIESR and pretty much most mainstream economists is that Brexit has had a negative impact on trade, investment and productivity. The fact the UK economy didn’t literally collapse doesn’t mean Brexit succeeded, it just means the UK absorbed the damage alongside a load of other global shocks. And people keep shifting the goalposts here because Brexit wasn’t sold as “things will broadly muddle along”. We were repeatedly told things would be better.

"But this basically boils down to “it’s impossible to prove anything conclusively therefore Brexit can’t be blamed”, which isn’t really how economics works. We can’t rerun history with a control UK that stayed in the EU, so economists use comparative modelling and counterfactuals all the time, including for Covid, inflation, tax policy etc."

I think the discussion on whether predictive economics is worthwhile is a long one. It certainly isn't very successful, at least where the big events are concerned. Bank of England inflation forecasting, prediction of the GFC, I could on.

"The broad consensus from bodies like the OBR, IMF, LSE, NIESR and pretty much most mainstream economists is that Brexit has had a negative impact on trade, investment and productivity. The fact the UK economy didn’t literally collapse doesn’t mean Brexit succeeded, it just means the UK absorbed the damage alongside a load of other global shocks. And people keep shifting the goalposts here because Brexit wasn’t sold as “things will broadly muddle along”. We were repeatedly told things would be better."

I'm not really interested in what the main economic orthodoxy thinks. They have their own agenda, and will perform their analysis to fit their agenda and no doubt form a very convincing case to back up their analysis.

I'm not really interested in fortune telling. I'm only really interested in the data. The data doesn't show that much in my opinion, neither success nor failure (I don't believe I ever claimed Brexit was a success, although many people might claim the political benefits far outweigh the apparently negligible economic changes that have taken place).

So for me neither the prophecies of doom, nor the promise of sunlit uplands has been fulfilled. That doesn't necessarily make Brexit a success, but doesn't make it the certain failure a lot of people seem to believe either in an economic sense.

What I do believe is that there is clear historical evidence that when a country goes through a period of economic re-organisation, there is usually a period of pain (and to be clear I don't believe there is significant evidence of this in the data as a result of Brexit) followed by a period of benefit when the possibilities of the new re-organisation are exploited.

We should now be coming out of the re-organisation, so I think we would be stupid to not see whether or not benefits actually start to occur.

Of course if our GDP does begin to shoot up, it can always be attributed to something other than Brexit. This is the wonder of economics. There is always some other reason to blame that fits in with your political agenda.

paddleboardingmum · 19/05/2026 12:19

We should now be coming out of the re-organisation, so I think we would be stupid to not see whether or not benefits actually start to occur.

I think there's a lot of this let's finish what we started in a big experiment. But the people who didn't want this and don't want to carry on in the experiment haven't really even got a political party to go with.

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RosieHosie · 19/05/2026 12:23

The phrase 'sunlit uplands' is annoying. I wish people would stop using it. I don't ever remember it being used in the run up to the referendum.

ByGraptharsHammer · 19/05/2026 12:25

RosieHosie · 19/05/2026 12:23

The phrase 'sunlit uplands' is annoying. I wish people would stop using it. I don't ever remember it being used in the run up to the referendum.

It’s the gift of Boris Johnson and is crafted to the cost of everyone. If it grates, it’s because it jars with the reality

SapphOhNo · 19/05/2026 12:26

GasPanic · 19/05/2026 12:14

"But this basically boils down to “it’s impossible to prove anything conclusively therefore Brexit can’t be blamed”, which isn’t really how economics works. We can’t rerun history with a control UK that stayed in the EU, so economists use comparative modelling and counterfactuals all the time, including for Covid, inflation, tax policy etc."

I think the discussion on whether predictive economics is worthwhile is a long one. It certainly isn't very successful, at least where the big events are concerned. Bank of England inflation forecasting, prediction of the GFC, I could on.

"The broad consensus from bodies like the OBR, IMF, LSE, NIESR and pretty much most mainstream economists is that Brexit has had a negative impact on trade, investment and productivity. The fact the UK economy didn’t literally collapse doesn’t mean Brexit succeeded, it just means the UK absorbed the damage alongside a load of other global shocks. And people keep shifting the goalposts here because Brexit wasn’t sold as “things will broadly muddle along”. We were repeatedly told things would be better."

I'm not really interested in what the main economic orthodoxy thinks. They have their own agenda, and will perform their analysis to fit their agenda and no doubt form a very convincing case to back up their analysis.

I'm not really interested in fortune telling. I'm only really interested in the data. The data doesn't show that much in my opinion, neither success nor failure (I don't believe I ever claimed Brexit was a success, although many people might claim the political benefits far outweigh the apparently negligible economic changes that have taken place).

So for me neither the prophecies of doom, nor the promise of sunlit uplands has been fulfilled. That doesn't necessarily make Brexit a success, but doesn't make it the certain failure a lot of people seem to believe either in an economic sense.

What I do believe is that there is clear historical evidence that when a country goes through a period of economic re-organisation, there is usually a period of pain (and to be clear I don't believe there is significant evidence of this in the data as a result of Brexit) followed by a period of benefit when the possibilities of the new re-organisation are exploited.

We should now be coming out of the re-organisation, so I think we would be stupid to not see whether or not benefits actually start to occur.

Of course if our GDP does begin to shoot up, it can always be attributed to something other than Brexit. This is the wonder of economics. There is always some other reason to blame that fits in with your political agenda.

But this is the problem with the argument though. Any evidence Brexit harmed the economy is dismissed as “biased orthodoxy”, while any future growth can be claimed as proof Brexit worked. That’s not really a falsifiable position. And again, the point is not that Britain collapsed into economic ruin. The point is that we were promised Brexit would make us more prosperous, boost trade, reduce bureaucracy and unleash growth. Nearly a decade on, even you’re describing the economic effects as “negligible” and “pretty much the same”. That alone is a long way from what was sold to voters.

ByGraptharsHammer · 19/05/2026 12:29

In a way it’s like “green shoots”. It is coming, honestly.

AImportantMermaid · 19/05/2026 12:31

RosieHosie · 19/05/2026 12:23

The phrase 'sunlit uplands' is annoying. I wish people would stop using it. I don't ever remember it being used in the run up to the referendum.

Andrea Leadsom and Jacob R-M both used it. It was a common expression to describe how the UK would thrive outside the EU, and used by critics to mock those who thought Brexit was the dawn of a brave new world. TBF, it was, just a more shite world.

GasPanic · 19/05/2026 13:06

SapphOhNo · 19/05/2026 12:26

But this is the problem with the argument though. Any evidence Brexit harmed the economy is dismissed as “biased orthodoxy”, while any future growth can be claimed as proof Brexit worked. That’s not really a falsifiable position. And again, the point is not that Britain collapsed into economic ruin. The point is that we were promised Brexit would make us more prosperous, boost trade, reduce bureaucracy and unleash growth. Nearly a decade on, even you’re describing the economic effects as “negligible” and “pretty much the same”. That alone is a long way from what was sold to voters.

Well yes.

When you look at the facts and the facts tell you nothing remarkable happened over the time period then it is hard to come to any fast conclusion about what Brexit has done to the economy because of the complexity of the analysis.

So you won't be surprised to learn that a lot of people aren't convinced by arguments either way. No matter how many TLA are behind them.

We may have been told Brexit will make us richer. We were also told Brexit would make us poorer.

So who was more mis-sold, the voter who voted remain because they wanted to be less dependent on the EU politically but was fearful of the projected economic outcome by Project Fear ?

Or the voter that wanted to remain for political reasons but voted leave because of the promise of large economic benefits ?

There isn't a good claim that either side covered themselves in glory here in my opinion.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 19/05/2026 13:14

@GasPanic Remain had the far more complex argument to get across and failed. Fear was incorrect - reality was. Our trade is obviously harmed and was always going to be. We needed to trade with our near neighbours! It was totally obvious. Yet people let their hearts rule their heads and think of Rule Britannia as we slowly die! The electorate have a very low understanding of economics and are very open to being manipulated. Starmer and Johnson worked this out.

GasPanic · 19/05/2026 13:14

paddleboardingmum · 19/05/2026 12:19

We should now be coming out of the re-organisation, so I think we would be stupid to not see whether or not benefits actually start to occur.

I think there's a lot of this let's finish what we started in a big experiment. But the people who didn't want this and don't want to carry on in the experiment haven't really even got a political party to go with.

Well they had the Lib Dems in the 2019 election.

Who made no impact whatsoever. That's why all the major parties dropped it from the ticket.

If the major parties view there is enough political capital in it, it will come back.

But the fact it is not coming back tells you something. And even if it does come back, there is no guarantee the party supporting it will fulfill their promise.

Many parties managed to campaign on a Brexit referendum for years but refused to allow that referendum once they were elected. Which ultimately was what led to the success of UKIP.

I think the Tories, Lib Dems and Labour all supported a Brexit referendum at some point during the 90s/00s.

I think it is a side issue for most voters. People will not vote solely on it in a GE.

WilfredsPies · 19/05/2026 13:19

38thparallel · 18/05/2026 19:52

@paddleboardingmum

Would you be in favour of having another referendum - stay out v. rejoin?

I know you aren’t talking to me, but I bloody wouldn’t.

I firmly believe that if we tried to rejoin now, we’d be punished for leaving. And we’d be made an example of what happens should any other country decide to chance their arm at any point in the future. We’d be signed up to the Euro before tea time and would lose any ability to opt out of anything. If we think things are bad now, we’d be the whipping boy of the EU. It happened. I think we just need to crack on and make the best of it.

Cameron fucked up royally by offering a referendum. I cannot imagine what he was thinking, other than his decision was based on arrogance and a failure to understand just how many people were completely fed up and feeling like the EU was responsible. Any fool could see that it would have zero impact on illegal immigration, that Farage & co didn’t have the power to give millions to the NHS, and that the benefits we’d have after leaving were largely guesswork. The campaign for remain was woefully inadequate and I think our terms for leaving were agreed by a bunch of bumbling idiots who had too much confidence in their abilities to negotiate.

EasternStandard · 19/05/2026 13:20

paddleboardingmum · 19/05/2026 12:19

We should now be coming out of the re-organisation, so I think we would be stupid to not see whether or not benefits actually start to occur.

I think there's a lot of this let's finish what we started in a big experiment. But the people who didn't want this and don't want to carry on in the experiment haven't really even got a political party to go with.

Apparently some regret it so put it to the electorate as just going over the same things for another decade won’t help. It sounds like the challengers to Starmer will bring it up at GE.

AprilMizzel · 19/05/2026 13:27

It gets tippoed round because some voters still think it was a good idea and poltican want to win elections and these days those margins are thin so if they avoid talking about it they may still get those votes.

1dayatatime · 19/05/2026 13:28

ByGraptharsHammer · 19/05/2026 10:51

@1dayatatime this has a certain grim logic but also suggests that our electorate over that 50 year period from joining has basically become extremely stupid. Who voted for Brexit is key in terms of deciding whether the UK’s political class should even try such a move.

It seems that the problem has now solidified into a whole new party in Reform.

Oh the UK electorate is definitely dumb - 30% think that Reform is the answer and another 20% thinks that the Greens are the answer- so that's roughly half of all voters!

And let's not forget that many voted for Labour on the basis "that they can't do a worse job or a more chaotic job than the Conservatives did".

mondaytosunday · 19/05/2026 13:28

i don’t know anyone who thinks it was a good dea and everyone seems pretty vocal about that! I’m going through the tedious process of getting my kids Irish passports so they have the freedom to work there. It’s an often discussed topic on shows on Radio 4 so not sure why you think people are generally happy with it?

AprilMizzel · 19/05/2026 13:34

AndrewMountbattenWindsor · 19/05/2026 11:33

TheGreatDownandOut · Yesterday 19:34
I blame Cameron. Why put such an important decision to a public vote when people can be so easily manipulated.

Me too. People usually vote for change but he was confident that the majority would vote Remain. The referendum did not need to happen.

Cameron massive fucked up - then fucked off.

I think it should have either not been put to public or made it binding so needing a certain majority. Very least a decent remain campaign should have been run.

Instead it's been years of calling voters stupid and uneducated.

I voted remain by the way.

However I am increasingly worried how many now insist not everyone should be allowed to vote as they are too thick look at brexit rather than they may have different veiws and priorties and we need to make better poltical case so our party get support.

Corianda · 19/05/2026 13:40

AndrewMountbattenWindsor · 19/05/2026 11:33

TheGreatDownandOut · Yesterday 19:34
I blame Cameron. Why put such an important decision to a public vote when people can be so easily manipulated.

Me too. People usually vote for change but he was confident that the majority would vote Remain. The referendum did not need to happen.

I think he was appeasing the anti eurpope bunch in his party and assuming ,(shame he didn’t leave London and ask around the country) that a large ish majority to staywould result and shut the grumbles up.

chickenss · 19/05/2026 13:42

paddleboardingmum · 18/05/2026 19:33

People definitely don't blame Farage for it do they. For him to be so successful we have to pretend it was still all a good idea when it really wasn't.

Unbelievable, isn’t it.

Corianda · 19/05/2026 13:42

I wonder how many rampant anti Brexiteers live along the SE and south coast

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