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To disagree with home ed

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Freshton · 12/05/2026 21:57

Unless in extreme cases (ie SEN, extreme mental health or other complex needs) or parent is qualified teacher, I fundamentally disagree with home ed.

It's insular and doesn't prepare kids for the real world.

I've seen first hand some shocking examples that I can't go into for confidentiality reasons but common thread was parents arrogantly assumed they had same skills as teachers with masters degrees. Reality was kids were really behind, had no proper structure or routine.

It's worrying that so many people see home ed as a viable lifestyle choice. I know school system not perfect at all but isolating children at home or in small home ed group echo chambers isn't healthy.

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ClayPotaLot · Yesterday 19:39

AnythingButThis · Yesterday 17:48

I certainly don’t think it should be banned, and have huge admiration for those that do it well (and for those forced into it by school failure with SEN/mental health).
There are many bodies that believe, and cases to back them up, that some children are more at risk of abuse because they effectively disappear from the system (and in some cases are not seen by gps, dentist’s etc.) so there is no oversight. Another small group of children have their education significantly neglected. Many on this thread have attested to that.

But I’ve said this already and been shouted down so I guess you will too!. I would have thought it was in the interests of the HE community to support measures (more oversight?) to protect all HE children as it is a growing phenomenon. But everyone seems to take it so personally, if you do it well then why not help protect children who’s parents can’t or won’t. (I get why the threads title is annoying though)

It's not that HE'ers take it personally (though, obviously, a few do), it's that it will undermine some of the benefits many HE'ers get from HE, and will use up state resources which could prevent more harm by being focused elsewhere.

Scamworried · Yesterday 23:49

Has anyone seen the latest posts on social media from the department of education?

We got emojis spelling something out and gemma collins meeting to discuss the reforms! It looks like a comedy sketch.

If you want evidence of how bad things have become in our education system have a look at the department of education and a read at the desperation and despair from parents of SEN pupils.

And if you want to save children - stand with SEN parents and home educating families and demand better. Do not stand by cheering while the government strip away legal rights and legal protections under a mistruth of safeguarding. If safeguarding was the agenda they wouldn't be removing legal protections to SEN pupils access a suitable education

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