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To wonder on the future of generous welfare in the UK

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happybug1234 · 11/05/2026 12:51

It seems increasingly obvious that many middle-income families are becoming frustrated at how squeezed they are financially, while at the same time seeing people on universal credit receive a growing range of subsidies and support — £1 attraction tickets on days out, a 6% rise in benefits this financial year, childcare costs reclaimable through Universal Credit, housing benefit, and so on. I see thread after thread on this on this site and also increasing momentum in the media on this issue (income cliff edges etc)

In my own extended family, 1 unemployed parent with the other on min wage, in social housing appear to have more holidays and more disposable income than we do, despite us both working full time with a household income of around £95k. Once childcare, mortgage, insurances, commuting and tax are taken into account, we 100% have a lower level of disposable income than they do as they do not have any of these work related costs and their rent is paid. They have recently gone on a 2 week holiday whilst the most we can ever afford is 1 week.

Quite a few teachers in my friendship circle are declining promotion opportunities or TLR because the extra pay often doesn’t feel worth the additional stress once tax, pension contributions and childcare costs are factored in. Instead, some are putting more effort into private tutoring, which is tax free cash in hand.

What is stopping the government from addressing this as people seek to be responding accordingly in their behaviour!

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Plugg · 11/05/2026 15:21

ShyMaryEllen · 11/05/2026 15:14

There's a huge difference between a pensioner who has worked for decades (and paid NI and tax) getting £200 or so a week in return, and a 20 year old living with parents claiming UC after paying nothing.

It can never be fair that a family with two FT earners can't afford a home and a decent standard of living, particularly when the one next door might have nobody in work but more money coming in, or that someone working full time gets the same as a colleague working part-time and getting topped up by UC. I would prefer to see universal payments for things like childcare and school meals, made directly to the nursery/school, and a benefit cap set at below minimum wage. That way, children wouldn't suffer, but there would still be an incentive for claimants to find work.

I'm not a fan of means-tested anything, as it just drags workers down if they have to pay for things that would be free if they didn't work. £1 entry fees to claimants might add up to a drop in the ocean, but it sends a message that working to support your family is pointless, and would be infuriating to a working parent who couldn't afford to take their children to the event. It's also wrong that wages are so low that many workers have to claim UC.

Agree with this. We need to incentivise people to go out and support their families by working, not claiming benefits.

MaturingCheeseball · 11/05/2026 15:21

Re the attractions tickets, it’s not the cost to the govt/organisations, it’s the perception of it. For a middle earner a family day out to The Tower of London + train + meals would be a serious ouch. In fact it’s a trip I could not justify doing; far, far too expensive.

£1 tickets to those on benefits sounds a nice thing to have, until you stop to think that it’s just another “perk” of not working which are all adding up to making schlepping to a job a mug’s game.

Harmonious1 · 11/05/2026 15:22

I know someone who has claimed benefits for 45 years and bought a house during that time.

happybug1234 · 11/05/2026 15:23

Greenwitchart · 11/05/2026 15:19

The UK welfare system is far from generous. It is one of the lowest in the EU for state pension and unemployment benefits. No matter what the right wing press and some politicians say.

Many people on benefits also work already but need to claim because of low wages and the high cost of housing, transport & utility bills. There are multiple issues that need to be fixed before you can reduce benefit spending

But those top ups bring them up to the same standard of disposable income as middle class families. So what is the point of earning more money if you are going to be not better off in practice?

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ChickenBananaBanana · 11/05/2026 15:24

As ever: quit and claim then 🤷🏻‍♀️

happybug1234 · 11/05/2026 15:24

ShyMaryEllen · 11/05/2026 15:14

There's a huge difference between a pensioner who has worked for decades (and paid NI and tax) getting £200 or so a week in return, and a 20 year old living with parents claiming UC after paying nothing.

It can never be fair that a family with two FT earners can't afford a home and a decent standard of living, particularly when the one next door might have nobody in work but more money coming in, or that someone working full time gets the same as a colleague working part-time and getting topped up by UC. I would prefer to see universal payments for things like childcare and school meals, made directly to the nursery/school, and a benefit cap set at below minimum wage. That way, children wouldn't suffer, but there would still be an incentive for claimants to find work.

I'm not a fan of means-tested anything, as it just drags workers down if they have to pay for things that would be free if they didn't work. £1 entry fees to claimants might add up to a drop in the ocean, but it sends a message that working to support your family is pointless, and would be infuriating to a working parent who couldn't afford to take their children to the event. It's also wrong that wages are so low that many workers have to claim UC.

100% This!

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sugarpiebunnyhunch · 11/05/2026 15:25

ChickenBananaBanana · 11/05/2026 15:24

As ever: quit and claim then 🤷🏻‍♀️

This! These threads are getting really old.

Monty36 · 11/05/2026 15:25

MaturingCheeseball · 11/05/2026 15:10

But council tax is rising horribly and there is all the cost of upkeep - new boilers, window replacement, repainting etc etc. And my “asset” (for which I paid ££££ not 50p like older buyers) will be taken by Mr Sunset Homes if I need to go into care. Or taxed at 40% if I manage to pass it on to my dcs.

Houses cost less, but people got paid a lot less too !
And can I reassure that older people do not all live in properties that are worth a fortune. I have two siblings in social rentals.
There were recessions. People lost homes, businesses. Many were out of work for years. There is a wonderful song called Ghost Town by the Specials. Made in 1981. It will explain a little more about how life felt in many places for all those older people. When they were a bit younger.

Itchthescratch · 11/05/2026 15:25

Lots of people are. Lots of young people aren't even bothering to work in the first place to quit.

Plugg · 11/05/2026 15:26

sugarpiebunnyhunch · 11/05/2026 15:25

This! These threads are getting really old.

That’s such a tired cliche of a response. Can’t you address the issue instead? Don’t you think OP has a point? If not why not?

Daffodilsinthespring · 11/05/2026 15:27

Private tutoring is not tax free cash in hand!

MandingoAteMyBaby · 11/05/2026 15:27

Plugg · 11/05/2026 15:21

Agree with this. We need to incentivise people to go out and support their families by working, not claiming benefits.

Perhaps - brace yourself - by paying higher wages. Enforce a higher minimum wage / living wage. Force employers to pay enough to actually live on.

Then we wouldn’t need to top up wages with UC.

MaturingCheeseball · 11/05/2026 15:28

I think a lot of people own properties overseas. Also subletting social housing. Dn rented a Peabody Trust flat in Shoreditch; the landlord collected the rent in cash and his name was on some of the bills.

ilovesooty · 11/05/2026 15:28

happybug1234 · 11/05/2026 15:21

No but they are still a perk that middle class families can’t access

So you want people on limited incomes to be excluded from these attractions because they can't afford them? Do you object to these companies offering concessions to pensioners because you aren't eligible?

catipuss · 11/05/2026 15:28

StandingDeskDisco · 11/05/2026 14:58

I wonder about the future of the triple lock on pensions in relation to the income tax personal allowance.
It makes no sense for the standard state pension to be higher than the personal allowance - so the pensioners are paid pension by the state, some of which they then pay back to the state in income tax.

I hear that UK state pensions are still much lower than in Europe (hence the reason for the triple lock staying) - do these countries have a much higher personal allowance also, or do they do tax calculations completely differently?

Genuinely interested if anyone knows.

I think the state pension was somehow made exempt from tax recently if that is your only income to stop the stupidity of giving with one hand and taking away with the other. Doesn't affect me because I have a small private pension so that puts me into tax anyway.

MaturingCheeseball · 11/05/2026 15:29

MandingoAteMyBaby · 11/05/2026 15:27

Perhaps - brace yourself - by paying higher wages. Enforce a higher minimum wage / living wage. Force employers to pay enough to actually live on.

Then we wouldn’t need to top up wages with UC.

Yeah, but… you then employ fewer staff 🤷‍♀️

Monty36 · 11/05/2026 15:29

What needs to happen is the tax credits need to wither on the vine. Society functioned better without them. There was a time before they existed. Gordon Brown introduced them. Awful. They are the biggest employer pay subsidy invented.
But, in practice they keep people on modest jobs without the possibility of progression. They keep people all on the same sort of pay. Employer doesn’t care because the taxpayer picks up what they should be paying.
They need to slowly die out.

Plugg · 11/05/2026 15:31

MandingoAteMyBaby · 11/05/2026 15:27

Perhaps - brace yourself - by paying higher wages. Enforce a higher minimum wage / living wage. Force employers to pay enough to actually live on.

Then we wouldn’t need to top up wages with UC.

Our minimum wage is WAAAAYYY above the oECD average. Hugely higher than any other OECD country. Raising it further makes it not only harder for current businesses to retain workers but it also makes UK businesses far less internationally competitive. Is that what you want.

Low wages are an issue because housing is so expensive here. Labour acknowledge this with their pledge to build 1.5m houses, then undermine this with imposing endless ridiculous planning regulations on prospective builders which means they just give in and don’t bother. Make it easier to build, get house prices down and people won’t need to earn as much.

Itchthescratch · 11/05/2026 15:34

ilovesooty · 11/05/2026 15:28

So you want people on limited incomes to be excluded from these attractions because they can't afford them? Do you object to these companies offering concessions to pensioners because you aren't eligible?

People on limited incomes are always excluded from these attractions. Do you think those earning just above the threshold for UC can access these attractions? Honestly! Unless you are going to offer £1 tickets to every family that can't afford the attractions then how is it fair to offer to only some?

Plugg · 11/05/2026 15:34

ilovesooty · 11/05/2026 15:28

So you want people on limited incomes to be excluded from these attractions because they can't afford them? Do you object to these companies offering concessions to pensioners because you aren't eligible?

I think the decision to spend on a visit should be as big as a decision by those on UC as those in work on average pay. Currently those on UC can afford it far more easily than those in work.

MaturingCheeseball · 11/05/2026 15:35

@Monty36 - very well acquainted with The Specials, thank you! RIP Terry. In fact I went on a trip to Coventry c.1981 and boy, was it depressed.

I wasn’t slagging off boomers, but making the point that not all homeowners have experienced huge gains in value, but are then classed as some sort of wealthy landowners à la Thd Duke of Westminster…

happybug1234 · 11/05/2026 15:36

ilovesooty · 11/05/2026 15:28

So you want people on limited incomes to be excluded from these attractions because they can't afford them? Do you object to these companies offering concessions to pensioners because you aren't eligible?

Yes they should access them on there means of being able to pay for the entry fee… just like everyone else is.

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TheGreatDownandOut · 11/05/2026 15:36

MaturingCheeseball · 11/05/2026 15:29

Yeah, but… you then employ fewer staff 🤷‍♀️

Or those employers push their prices up to cover the increase in minimum wage which pushes CoL up even further and nobody is better off

Wynter25 · 11/05/2026 15:36

Another benefit bashing thread...

Error404FucksNotFound · 11/05/2026 15:38

The country is fucked and we are all going to see a continued reduction in our standard of living.

Care homes for the elderly are going to be hit hard. Anyone currently of working age who thinks they should spend all their money now so the government doesnt take it because if they have no assets they'll get their care paid for is going to get a hell of a shock.

We'll see a shift towards the cheapest way possible to 'meet' care needs. Including simply denying there are any where possible.

Regardless who will get what in benefits, anyone who thinks there's any way they are going to be better off in the coming years is deluded.

But the government wants the population to focus on people on uc and on disabled people as the reason the country is fucked, because thats where the savings will be made (instead of closing tax loopholes, and looking at who's creaming off the top) and for that to work, those who will be affected must first be demonised.

We are already seeing it everywhere and its working. Turn on those with the least instead of those with the power. Working like a charm.

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