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Angela Raynor still doesnt get it.

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ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 08:08

I’ve just read Angela’s Raynor’s statement about why Labour did so badly and what they need to do to change….aibu to think SHE STILL DOESNT GET IT!! Nothing mentioned about welfare, nothing mentioned about immigration-these are 2 subjects most talked about as the reasons why people didn’t vote for Labour.
she might not like it-but id they want to stay in power, they MUST tackle these subjects and not just ignore them because they dint fit her narrative.

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Mangelwurzelfortea · 11/05/2026 12:11

I do like Angela Rayner but I don't think she's got the gravitas to be PM. She likes getting pissed and while so do I, I'm not sure that equips me to have detailed conversations about trade with world dignitaries and also Donald Trump.

Not sure any of the mooted Keir replacements have that gravitas actually, apart from Ed Milliband. Wes Streeting - weaselly and the association with Mandelson is damaging. Andy Burnham - think he's a bit lightweight tbh.

Thefastandthecurious5 · 11/05/2026 12:12

Mangelwurzelfortea · 11/05/2026 12:11

I do like Angela Rayner but I don't think she's got the gravitas to be PM. She likes getting pissed and while so do I, I'm not sure that equips me to have detailed conversations about trade with world dignitaries and also Donald Trump.

Not sure any of the mooted Keir replacements have that gravitas actually, apart from Ed Milliband. Wes Streeting - weaselly and the association with Mandelson is damaging. Andy Burnham - think he's a bit lightweight tbh.

How is WS weaselly?

BananaPeels · 11/05/2026 12:13

Mangelwurzelfortea · 11/05/2026 12:07

Urgh. I live in a town that's 30% Muslim and I don't recognise what you're saying at all. Two cultures can exist quite peacefully side by side. It's not either/or.

A lot of the places that are most upset about immigration are the places where they haven't ever experienced it, ie up in Northumberland. They're personally untouched by it and that makes it the scary, unseen bogeyman.

But isn’t the issue the ‘2 cultures’. Until recently that wasn’t a thing. We had one British culture regardless of race. When I was at school, even though my school had children from a variety of backgrounds, we never ever thought we were culturally different. Didn’t even occur to us. We all went to same assembly at school, we all socialised together. No one dressed differently (apart from special occasions - I remember being in awe of my friend’s Saree she wore for an event). There was no side by side living, we all were British. This side by side living has only appeared in the last 30 years.

ilovesooty · 11/05/2026 12:14

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 11/05/2026 09:28

There are plenty of people who want to see anyone who isn't white and English forced out.

That is an extreme view though and not remotely representative of the majority. There are many other extreme views that you can find espoused by ‘plenty of people’ like the Islamist view that we should all be forced to live under sharia law and be coerced into becoming Muslim for example.

It is not at all helpful for people to keep using the views of a tiny minority to discredit the majority.

The majority just want to feel that our borders are under control and that we can reject or deport criminals or immigrants that do not respect us or our country.

You're saying what you perceive the majority view to be. My post referred to "plenty of people". And plenty of people where I live want to get rid of all Muslims, legally here or not, born here or not. They talk of our MP, who's a British born Muslim, refer to "his lot" and speak of having him deported. If you challenge this and point out that he was born in the city you get "if a pig is born in a stable it doesn't make it a horse".

I don't think these people are in a minority any more.

Lingostar · 11/05/2026 12:14

Haven't read the whole thread, but is there any view on how many people would willingly opt to leave the UK if Farage becomes the next PM? Various first or second generation friends have told me they would choose to return to their home countries if this happens.

Equally, I wouldn't want to live here under his government. I find Farage and his policies abhorrent. But my whole life is here, my children are here (one will still be at school, one at uni, one graduate) if this happens. Plus, while I have an EU passport, it's not that straightforward for my DH or kids.

I have liberal family in the US who are horrified by Trump and hate every minute of his presidency, but equally - they can't just leave.

What do we think will happen? Will a lot of us be forced into a similar position where we hate it, but just have to get on with it?

Mangelwurzelfortea · 11/05/2026 12:15

Thefastandthecurious5 · 11/05/2026 12:12

How is WS weaselly?

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He's just so desperate to be PM, he's been scheming against Starmer and briefing the press almost since day one. That hasn't helped Starmer/Labour at all. He's someone who's far more motivated by self-interest and desire for power than actual political belief or ideology. And he lacks personal charm.

Apart from that I'm sure he's lovely!

JulietteHasAGun · 11/05/2026 12:16

ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 08:33

actually it was partly due imto preventing foreign students bringing dependents.

Which has fucked the HE sector up no end. Which is why courses are being dropped , lecturer numbers decimated, less choice of modules, universities merging and a far poorer experience for all. But hey, less migration 👍🏻

HappiestSleeping · 11/05/2026 12:18

HelmholtzWatson · 11/05/2026 10:31

The irony is that net migration is down 69% under this government.

1, It was chronically high in part due to Hong Kong and Ukrainian refugees. It would have fallen whoever had been in charge.

2, People generally don't care about skilled workers coming here. They care about unskilled economic migrants abusing the asylum system.

They care about unskilled economic migrants abusing the asylum system

The unskilled economic migrants don't abuse the system though. They turn up, and they apply. Criteria are used to decide whether to grant asylum. They are actually following the process. If we don't like the criteria used, we should change it, but nobody is abusing the system.

chocolateaddictions · 11/05/2026 12:18

Overtheatlantic · 11/05/2026 08:15

I’m not sure she’s capable of understanding the wider picture because she is very much a product of her upbringing and circumstances, without the intellectual curiosity to further inform her beliefs. She’s a local politician but not a global leader.

This. I don’t want to be represented by her on the global stage.

Itchthescratch · 11/05/2026 12:20

Thefastandthecurious5 · 11/05/2026 12:11

Shabana Mahmood has made public comments about confiscating asylum seekers’ jewellery when they come to the U.K. (horribly similar to the Nazis confiscating the jewellery and money of Jewish people when they were deported to concentration camps):

https://www.ft.com/content/92ff5308-d657-4a2b-acd1-50e082921318?syn-25a6b1a6=1
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/nov/18/shabana-mahmood-plan-to-seize-jewels-of-asylum-seekers-a-joke

This is an insane comparison.

The jews were deported from their homes to concentration camps often to be murdered for no other reason than the fact they were Jewish. This is not comparable to someone voluntarily coming to a country, looking to claim asylum and stay there and being required to fund some of their accommodation with their own assets which can include jewellery.

Mangelwurzelfortea · 11/05/2026 12:20

BananaPeels · 11/05/2026 12:13

But isn’t the issue the ‘2 cultures’. Until recently that wasn’t a thing. We had one British culture regardless of race. When I was at school, even though my school had children from a variety of backgrounds, we never ever thought we were culturally different. Didn’t even occur to us. We all went to same assembly at school, we all socialised together. No one dressed differently (apart from special occasions - I remember being in awe of my friend’s Saree she wore for an event). There was no side by side living, we all were British. This side by side living has only appeared in the last 30 years.

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So you think the country has stayed exactly the same since Roman times?

There have always been other cultures existing within the UK. Also - we've colonised half the planet as a country so it's a bit rich so start moaning about other cultures existing peacefully within the UK.

And frankly, the globalisation genie ain't going back into the bottle. This was always going to happen when international travel became normalised. If you want to go back to the days of only meeting people who were born within a 20 mile radius and living only on British produced food (turnips, anyone) then we need to get rid of planes, trains and automobiles. But that part of our culture changing isn't something that people seem to want to take on board.

darksideofthetoon · 11/05/2026 12:21

ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 08:08

I’ve just read Angela’s Raynor’s statement about why Labour did so badly and what they need to do to change….aibu to think SHE STILL DOESNT GET IT!! Nothing mentioned about welfare, nothing mentioned about immigration-these are 2 subjects most talked about as the reasons why people didn’t vote for Labour.
she might not like it-but id they want to stay in power, they MUST tackle these subjects and not just ignore them because they dint fit her narrative.

Not sure how he has the brass neck to comment given she was forced to resign in disgrace.

She is part of the problem and most definitely not the solution.

chocolateaddictions · 11/05/2026 12:21

Lingostar · 11/05/2026 12:14

Haven't read the whole thread, but is there any view on how many people would willingly opt to leave the UK if Farage becomes the next PM? Various first or second generation friends have told me they would choose to return to their home countries if this happens.

Equally, I wouldn't want to live here under his government. I find Farage and his policies abhorrent. But my whole life is here, my children are here (one will still be at school, one at uni, one graduate) if this happens. Plus, while I have an EU passport, it's not that straightforward for my DH or kids.

I have liberal family in the US who are horrified by Trump and hate every minute of his presidency, but equally - they can't just leave.

What do we think will happen? Will a lot of us be forced into a similar position where we hate it, but just have to get on with it?

I am second generation and I don’t have another “home country”. This is my home country.

BananaPeels · 11/05/2026 12:24

chocolateaddictions · 11/05/2026 12:21

I am second generation and I don’t have another “home country”. This is my home country.

Yeah me too. I’m British. I am third generation. I don’t speak the language, never even been to when my grandparents were from. It simply is just a footnote in my DNA. Don’t consider that I am in any way associated with that country other than a passing thought when I look at my family tree. That country has nothing to do with me personally so the idea it is my ‘home country’ is stupid

BananaPeels · 11/05/2026 12:30

Mangelwurzelfortea · 11/05/2026 12:20

So you think the country has stayed exactly the same since Roman times?

There have always been other cultures existing within the UK. Also - we've colonised half the planet as a country so it's a bit rich so start moaning about other cultures existing peacefully within the UK.

And frankly, the globalisation genie ain't going back into the bottle. This was always going to happen when international travel became normalised. If you want to go back to the days of only meeting people who were born within a 20 mile radius and living only on British produced food (turnips, anyone) then we need to get rid of planes, trains and automobiles. But that part of our culture changing isn't something that people seem to want to take on board.

but why does the Uk have to be the only country where this happens? I don’t see people complaining that Japan isn’t changing itself and that it isn’t diverse enough.

SmashThePatriarchy · 11/05/2026 12:36

Overtheatlantic · 11/05/2026 08:15

I’m not sure she’s capable of understanding the wider picture because she is very much a product of her upbringing and circumstances, without the intellectual curiosity to further inform her beliefs. She’s a local politician but not a global leader.

What a patronisingly classist response. A one that always pops up with Rayner. Just because someone doesn’t have a PPR degree from Oxbridge it doesn’t mean they don’t understand wider societal issues.

Lingostar · 11/05/2026 12:37

BananaPeels · 11/05/2026 12:24

Yeah me too. I’m British. I am third generation. I don’t speak the language, never even been to when my grandparents were from. It simply is just a footnote in my DNA. Don’t consider that I am in any way associated with that country other than a passing thought when I look at my family tree. That country has nothing to do with me personally so the idea it is my ‘home country’ is stupid

and @chocolateaddictions - apologies, 'home country' was clumsy of me. I was actually thinking of friends who were born elsewhere and moved here (so first generation) and their children (second generation). They have said they would leave if Farage gets in.

They all retain links to these different countries (even if it's not where they would consider 'home', particularly for those in the second generation) and it would be relatively easy to move there if they wanted to.

I was just curious what others who find the idea of Farage in power despicable might plan to do?

SmashThePatriarchy · 11/05/2026 12:40

ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 08:26

Net immigration is probably down partly to the higher rate tax payers who have fled the country 😂

That wouldn’t be immigration then would it. It would be emigration.

anniegun · 11/05/2026 12:43

Not all of us have fallen for the bullshit that it is all the fault of immigrants.

nixon1976 · 11/05/2026 12:47

OnceUponATimed · 11/05/2026 08:29

Maybe in your bubble that's what people want. In my bubble, they very much have other concerns.
I live in a wonderful diverse area. I love the fact that my kid's friends are all different.Cultures and religions. My life and their life are enriched by our wide variety of people and cultures around us.
I don't want people to come by small boats, not because I care about them coming here.But because I don't want them to risk their lives and to die for this. So I do want them to stop the boats, but not for the same reasons that you do.
More than half of the vote at this election went to more liberal parties (Lib dem, Labour, Green) so actually maybe you're in the wrong.

Well said

nixon1976 · 11/05/2026 12:51

ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 10:06

And that my dear is why Reform will get in.

calling someone racist when they have given no indication of racism whatsoever is incredibly insulting (and in my case untrue).

and the fact I have never voted reform is irrelevant, because voting fir reform does not necessarily make someone racist.

You used the term 'an illegal.' Not 'an illegal immigrant' (which they aren't, by the way) but 'an illegal.'

Can you not see how that dehumanises people? Are you surprised PPs refer to you as racist when you use language like that?

Puzzledandpissedoff · 11/05/2026 12:51

I have to agree with whoever said more or less that she’d be an embarrassment as PM on the world stage. And it’s not, repeat NOT, because she’s working class! John Major was working class, but he knew how to behave

That was me, @GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER, and you couldn't be more correct about her behaviour having nothing to do with being working class - at least not the working class as it was traditionally understood, who were often wedded to the kind of values their supposed betters would have done well to copy

Unfortunately Angela's the product of a very different demographic, and while she's used union backing to claw her way up it'll never hide the underlying beliefs and sympathies

NoName47 · 11/05/2026 12:54

AmethystDeceiver · 11/05/2026 09:10

Agree. I don't want an anti immigration party, and I don't know anyone who does. People like me count too, we don't need to pander to the lowest common denominator

How lovely for you that you live in diverse areas and everyone gets along really well and you love it. Perhaps consider the other people who aren't quite so lucky and live in areas with gangs on young foreign men who can barely speak English leering (and just that if they are lucky) at their pre-teen and teenage daughters going to and from school. So yes I'm anti unvetted immigration and so are a lot of people I know. It's not about pandering to the lowest common denominator it's just people who have a different view and experience to you. I don't agree with many green party policies including open borders but I don't think everyone who votes for them is wrong I just think they have a different view on what it best for the country. I'm not sure why the courtesy never extends from left wing voters to people who vote for right wing parties.
Btw, I have never voted reform and have no interest in voting for them but the standard response of they are all racists just doesn't make sense and is really simplistic and honestly quite ignorant.

Feis123 · 11/05/2026 12:56

BananaPeels · 11/05/2026 12:13

But isn’t the issue the ‘2 cultures’. Until recently that wasn’t a thing. We had one British culture regardless of race. When I was at school, even though my school had children from a variety of backgrounds, we never ever thought we were culturally different. Didn’t even occur to us. We all went to same assembly at school, we all socialised together. No one dressed differently (apart from special occasions - I remember being in awe of my friend’s Saree she wore for an event). There was no side by side living, we all were British. This side by side living has only appeared in the last 30 years.

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Exactly. It is astounding that people don't see it. It is astounding that the so-called educated don't see it, or worse still, they see it and deliberately wish to undo the country.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 11/05/2026 12:58

Mangelwurzelfortea · 11/05/2026 11:12

Defamatory? Well apart from Ben Habib saying people shouldn't be rescued from the Channel. https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2024/apr/24/dont-rescue-people-who-scupper-their-channel-boats-says-reform-uk-deputy

Not to mention all the people who vote Reform who put laughing emojis under every post on social media about migrants drowning in the Channel. A swift Google will find you several thousand of those.

That’s not the same as PPs defamatory claim though. You just undermine your objections to Reform if you make stuff up.

They would have no qualms about sinking small boats and dinghies and letting people drown and shooting migrants so it probably would act as a strong deterrant. I'm sure that there are loads of Reform voters that would sign up for doing that.