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Angela Raynor still doesnt get it.

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ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 08:08

I’ve just read Angela’s Raynor’s statement about why Labour did so badly and what they need to do to change….aibu to think SHE STILL DOESNT GET IT!! Nothing mentioned about welfare, nothing mentioned about immigration-these are 2 subjects most talked about as the reasons why people didn’t vote for Labour.
she might not like it-but id they want to stay in power, they MUST tackle these subjects and not just ignore them because they dint fit her narrative.

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Happyjoe · 11/05/2026 11:00

Blondiebeachbabe · 11/05/2026 10:57

She should have been sacked after the tax avoidance. Scandalous that she's creeping back in.

Lol, hope you say the same about Farage and Tice.

Mangelwurzelfortea · 11/05/2026 11:00

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 11/05/2026 10:58

They would have no qualms about sinking small boats and dinghies and letting people drown and shooting migrants so it probably would act as a strong deterrant. I'm sure that there are loads of Reform voters that would sign up for doing that.

Thats a very serious and potentially defamatory accusation. I hope you have some evidence that the Reform leadership has said that.

It sounds like you're trying to silence the OP. Aren't Reform all about free speech?

Happyjoe · 11/05/2026 11:00

Plugg · 11/05/2026 10:59

The higher rate taxes in Denmark are much the same as here. It’s the basic rate of tax that needs to go up from 20-30% and then the nil rate personal allowance needs to be reduced. Thats how we get to Scandinavian rates of tax.

No, they pay more.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 11/05/2026 11:02

Addocorlo · 11/05/2026 10:16

We have the sound bites from hitler now what about these:

Allah’s Messenger said, “The Hour will not be established until you fight with the Jews, and the stone behind which a Jew will be hiding will say. ‘O Muslim! There is a Jew hiding behind me, so kill him.’”
(Sahih Bukhari 4:52:177; see also Sahih Bukhari 4:52:176; Sahih Muslim 41:6985)

Do not greet the Jews and the Christians before they greet you and when you meet any one of them on the roads force him to go to the narrowest part of it.
(Sahih Muslim 39:16, see also Sunan Abu Dawud 41:5186)[5]

On his death-bed Allah’s Messenger ( put a sheet over his-face and when he felt hot, he would remove it from his face. When in that state (of putting and removing the sheet) he said, “May Allah’s Curse be on the Jews and the Christians for they build places of worship at the graves of their prophets.” (By that) he intended to warn (the Muslim) from what they (i.e. Jews and Christians) had done. (Sahih Bukhari 4:56:660)[6]

No Muslim would die but Allah would admit in his stead a Jew or a Christian in Hell-Fire.
(Sahih Muslim 37:6666)[7]
There would come people amongst the Muslims on the Day of Resurrection with as heavy sins as a mountain, and Allah would forgive them and He would place in their stead the Jews and the Christians.
(Sahir Muslim 37:6668)[8

A group of Bani Isra’il (Jews) was lost. I do not know what happened to it, but I think (that it ‘underwent a process of metamorphosis) and assumed the shape of rats. Don’t you see when the milk of the camel is placed before them, these do not drink and when the milk of goat is placed before them, these do drink.” (Sahih Muslim 42:7135)[11]

Yes, people who live by those values will not be pleasant to share our country either

There is a reason why formerly peaceful and majority Christian Lebanon is now majority Muslim and synonymous with civil war and killing. The Lebanese can see what we are doing to ourselves and warning us how it will go. That’s what Rayner/Starmer need to listen to. It’s a matter of national importance.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 11/05/2026 11:04

Mangelwurzelfortea · 11/05/2026 11:00

It sounds like you're trying to silence the OP. Aren't Reform all about free speech?

Seriously??

‘OP’ did not make that disgusting comment.

You know that the right to free speech does not extend to making up defamatory lies?

Plugg · 11/05/2026 11:05

Happyjoe · 11/05/2026 11:00

No, they pay more.

Average basic rate pay 42% (20% here) and personal allowance is £5k-ish (£12k here). Highest rates 55-60%, 45% here, with marginal rates of 65%. It’s the basic rate tax payers that need to pay more here.

ProudAmberTurtle · 11/05/2026 11:07

Flowersdie · 11/05/2026 10:02

Good. I hope the Labour Party never listen to racists like you. They’re not Reform. They don’t just say what the racists want to hear. They were voted in on a set of principles and they’re acting on them. Good on them and good on Starmer.

In what way am I racist?

PropertyD · 11/05/2026 11:08

Happyjoe · 11/05/2026 10:29

Labour have done things to tackle immigration, but folk don't think it's enough, they want it stopped completely which is lala land if they think that's good for the UK. Plus, there's some of us who still realise immigration isn't the huge problem in this country that our media bias tells it. They are not responsible for the cost of living, lack of housing, the NHS, schools, potholes, Putin/Trump etc.

Have you ever been to Birmingham, Luton, Bradford?

Itchthescratch · 11/05/2026 11:11

Happyjoe · 11/05/2026 10:54

The Danes pay more tax! Something the UK people are not wanting.

The Danes are significantly richer than us. The UK's GDP per capita is only 60% of the Danish figure. This means they can afford to pay more tax and still take home more money than us (well over $4k a month versus just over $3k a month for UK workers).

It's understandable why the UK population are against paying more tax when their standard of living and purchasing power is already much lower. There is simply less money in the pot in the first place to redistribute through taxes. It's a completely different proposition.

Mangelwurzelfortea · 11/05/2026 11:12

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 11/05/2026 11:04

Seriously??

‘OP’ did not make that disgusting comment.

You know that the right to free speech does not extend to making up defamatory lies?

Defamatory? Well apart from Ben Habib saying people shouldn't be rescued from the Channel. https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2024/apr/24/dont-rescue-people-who-scupper-their-channel-boats-says-reform-uk-deputy

Not to mention all the people who vote Reform who put laughing emojis under every post on social media about migrants drowning in the Channel. A swift Google will find you several thousand of those.

Don’t rescue people who scupper their Channel boats, says Reform UK deputy

Ben Habib says navy or Border Force should not save people who throw themselves into sea if they have refused other vessels

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2024/apr/24/dont-rescue-people-who-scupper-their-channel-boats-says-reform-uk-deputy

ShizeItsWeegie · 11/05/2026 11:12

Happyjoe · 11/05/2026 10:57

Really? Because Starmer has made changes, chipping away at asylum rules and immigration rules, all designed to make the UK less appealing.

There is no simple solution to asylum seekers, you must have the smarts to realise this. It's quite silly to think that anyone can solve this instantly, embarrassing even.

Yes, he should be embarrassed. When we heard him say it, we looked at each other and laughed. I'm a nurse, DH is a cop. We both knew he was fantasizing but he's a barrister FFS.

Havanananana · 11/05/2026 11:12

ShizeItsWeegie · 11/05/2026 10:53

No, I don't. Like so much in this over legislated country, it is probably un-solveable but KS lying about it is on a par with Boris Johnson lying, lying and lying some more.

Worse, he must know that he has no power outside of the UK to smash gangs or do anything else but that doesn't stop him running his mouth. It's embarrassing.

Johnson lied - as in denying things that clearly had happened - and he was dishonest about Brexit. Either he never intended to adhere to the terms of the Brexit agreement or he had simply never read it.

Being unable to immediately deliver on a manifesto point is not the same as lying.

Your second point is interesting. If Starmer and Labour have "no power outside of the UK to smash gangs or do anything else [to stop illegal immigration]" doesn't the same logic apply to Farage? His two ex-Tory ministers, Braverman and Jenrick, already know this to be the case as they failed when they were the Home Secretary and Immigration Minister in the previous government. So by your own definition, is Farage lying - or is he just using "immigration" as a way of stirring up dissatisfaction?

BananaPeels · 11/05/2026 11:13

Itchthescratch · 11/05/2026 11:11

The Danes are significantly richer than us. The UK's GDP per capita is only 60% of the Danish figure. This means they can afford to pay more tax and still take home more money than us (well over $4k a month versus just over $3k a month for UK workers).

It's understandable why the UK population are against paying more tax when their standard of living and purchasing power is already much lower. There is simply less money in the pot in the first place to redistribute through taxes. It's a completely different proposition.

The danish population is 6 million, the uk population is 70 million. It’s like comparing apples and oranges. The Uk population is far too large for the size of country which means we can’t be nimble to change things quickly as they can in Denmark.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 11/05/2026 11:15

You can’t state that someone is anti semitic based on the claims of a schoolboy who knew him 50 years ago. That is scraping the barrel but quite positive because it shows how little you actually have.

Whysnothingsimple · 11/05/2026 11:18

The thing is the term “immigration” is used to describe a much wider issue. It’s not just the numbers coming in it’s the erosion of our culture that actually people are most angry about. People who aren’t affected by it because they are either in very affluent or indigenous areas probably can’t understand what it’s like living in areas where it feels like British culture and language is being erased. If the only non- white British people they come across are highly integrated then they are probably thinking “what’s the problem?”

These are the two kinds of Labour voters the self righteous rich and the working classes. Unless this integration/immigration issue is cracked down on Labour will lose the working class vote because they are the ones very much affected.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 11/05/2026 11:18

mazedasamarchhare · 11/05/2026 10:22

Labour will never understand economics, as a poster up thread said, socialism can never work, because as lovely as it sounds it’s just not how the majority of humans work.
I’ve said this previously and I’ll say it again; every labour government borrows heavily, every conservative governments tries to make up the deficit. If the previous labour government had stayed in power, they too would have to have made unpopular choices. This labour government have managed to go even further to fuck up the economy. It’s predictable and so boring, because next government in, will have no choice but to cut the welfare bill. Hitler got into power because economically Germany was broken, the people were suffering, and Hitler promised a Utopia to the German populace (okay I’m putting it in very simplistic terms) but all governments need to read the warnings. I don’t want reform in, but nor do I want to be ruled by a party driven by spite and envy (vat of private school fees), or a party that doesn’t understand how businesses work (labour are going to drive up inflation if they carry on with their current plans).
what I want is a common sense party which;
understand how economics work and encourage businesses
you need private investors and businesses to grow an economy but you also need the government to invest as well
you need sensible not punitive tax systems in place.
we need to tackle the problems within schools; teachers need more autonomy and a huge shake up of education, to make it accessible to all.
we need a zero tolerance approach to antisocial behaviour.
we need to invest in much better mental health support (it’s always been the poorer cousin to physical health and a backwater for investment into research)
we do need to tackle economic immigration.
we need to sort out our bloody roads out!!
we need politicians with integrity, who are willing to stick their head above the parapet, and make choices which not everyone will want or like.

I agree with all of your post and on this This labour government have managed to go even further to fuck up the economy.,

They to seem to be turbo charging the fuck up. Do they actually hate being in government and want to get out as quickly as possible so they can go back to carping at the Tories from the sidelines? I am bemused.

ShizeItsWeegie · 11/05/2026 11:19

Havanananana · 11/05/2026 11:12

Johnson lied - as in denying things that clearly had happened - and he was dishonest about Brexit. Either he never intended to adhere to the terms of the Brexit agreement or he had simply never read it.

Being unable to immediately deliver on a manifesto point is not the same as lying.

Your second point is interesting. If Starmer and Labour have "no power outside of the UK to smash gangs or do anything else [to stop illegal immigration]" doesn't the same logic apply to Farage? His two ex-Tory ministers, Braverman and Jenrick, already know this to be the case as they failed when they were the Home Secretary and Immigration Minister in the previous government. So by your own definition, is Farage lying - or is he just using "immigration" as a way of stirring up dissatisfaction?

Farage - both almost certainly.

LoyalMember · 11/05/2026 11:19

Send the reasons in a gift bag along with 2 Litres of White Lightning and 60 Lambert & Butler.

Itchthescratch · 11/05/2026 11:19

BananaPeels · 11/05/2026 11:13

The danish population is 6 million, the uk population is 70 million. It’s like comparing apples and oranges. The Uk population is far too large for the size of country which means we can’t be nimble to change things quickly as they can in Denmark.

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I completely agree. It is like comparing apples with oranges but there are always people that like to pretend that if we just taxed people more that our GDP per capita would miraculously jump, we would become richer and be able to afford all these lovely, well funded public services without painful sacrifices from the general population.

It's like a family on £60k comparing themselves to a family on £100k and wondering if they could ascertain a similar lifestyle through spending their money differently. Realistically something will always give when you don't have the same amount of money.

Whysnothingsimple · 11/05/2026 11:19

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 11/05/2026 11:15

You can’t state that someone is anti semitic based on the claims of a schoolboy who knew him 50 years ago. That is scraping the barrel but quite positive because it shows how little you actually have.

But surely you know that’s what social media says to roll out in its prepackaged anti Reform cut and paste kit (critical thinking not included)

dontletmedownbruce · 11/05/2026 11:24

ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 08:25

Or listen to what the people of this country actually want? People do not (in general) want more illegal immigrants. They do not want their taxes going up at the same time as welfare spending going up whilst dealing with increased COL themselves.

Labour are not LISTENING.

Yes. That’s it condensed, isnt it?

I didn’t vote Labour because they U-turned on reforming winter fuel payments and 2-child benefit cap.

That’s the only reason I didn’t vote Labour. Nothing to do with immigration.

Itchthescratch · 11/05/2026 11:25

Whysnothingsimple · 11/05/2026 11:18

The thing is the term “immigration” is used to describe a much wider issue. It’s not just the numbers coming in it’s the erosion of our culture that actually people are most angry about. People who aren’t affected by it because they are either in very affluent or indigenous areas probably can’t understand what it’s like living in areas where it feels like British culture and language is being erased. If the only non- white British people they come across are highly integrated then they are probably thinking “what’s the problem?”

These are the two kinds of Labour voters the self righteous rich and the working classes. Unless this integration/immigration issue is cracked down on Labour will lose the working class vote because they are the ones very much affected.

The strange thing about this is that the left wing are generally the most keen to appreciate the value of preserving cultures in other countries. If they heard about a load of westerners going over to some country and colonising it through immigration and then attempting to erase or completely change the indigenous culture then they would be the first to complain.

The left though seem completely blind to this when it's our own cultures and traditions that exist both nationally and locally.It isn't racist to want to preserve these things and worry when they are threatened by large scale immigration. Some areas near where I was born are now completely unrecognisable. We have lost an immense amount of working class tradition and culture that nobody important clearly thought had any value. It's a travesty.

MissAmbrosia · 11/05/2026 11:27

ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 09:16

Most people are considering immigrating because of tax reasons, which is so concerning.

We're moving BACK to UK because of tax and inheritance rules. Where I live you pay 50% on anything over 28k of earnings. Wouldn't even be able to fully own my own house or savings if dh died as dd would automatically inherit a share of both - and tax would be payable by both of us. On my OWN house and OWN joint account. I want to know where people are going where they are going to pay less tax?

Frugalgal · 11/05/2026 11:27

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 11/05/2026 11:15

You can’t state that someone is anti semitic based on the claims of a schoolboy who knew him 50 years ago. That is scraping the barrel but quite positive because it shows how little you actually have.

Yes you absolutely can. Farage wasn't just anti Semitic to one schoolboy 50 years ago, he racially abused a significant number of them and they have gone on the record about this. He also sang Nazi songs, praised Hitler and went around making a hissing noise at Jewish classmates to put them in mind of a gas chamber.

If a Labour politician had spent their youth behaing in this abhorrent way we would, quite rightly, never hear the end of it.

The entire establishment swung into action to prevent Corbyn winning an election based on mostly spurious allegations of anti-Semitism, but with Farage somehow it doesn't matter?

Paganpentacle · 11/05/2026 11:28

OnceUponATimed · 11/05/2026 08:14

There is absolutely no way they should go more anti.Immigration. it will alienate many of their voters, and they will never hopefully be as anti immigration as the right wing parties.

Really?
Look at Labour in Yorkshire.
Never been anything but Labour wards- they are now Reform. Unheard of.
People are sick to death of immigration and ''asylum' seeking and government will fail to listen at its peril... whoever it may be.