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The Left have a become a snivelling self-righteous mob, busy bodying around, trying to shame others

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Northermcharn · 09/05/2026 18:17

I read this quote and it encapsulates exactly how I feel

'I never thought I'd see the day when the Right became the cool ones giving the finger to the establishment, and the Left became the snivelling self-righteous ones going around shaming everybody'

AIBU to think this is what many people think these days? We didn't leave the left, the left left us.

*the quote is from John Lydon aka Johnny Rotten. He's deliberately provocative in lots of ways, but he meant this one. I fully expect some people to come on the thread to tell us all how he's a horror and said he likes Donald Trump. That would be them missing the point.. but.. Let Them..

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TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 10/05/2026 08:53

I woulnt pay much attention to the opinions of Mr Lydon - an elderly millionaire from a manufactured pop band.

AStonedRose · 10/05/2026 08:53

Sartre · 10/05/2026 08:46

Have you actually read his books? He doesn’t say either of those things. Beside the by, I never said I agreed with Peterson so your arguments are proving my point. The inability to even listen to the other side of the argument without immediate dismissal is part of the issue.

I'm very familiar with Peterson's work, thanks. I don't want to over share but let's say I have a professional interest.

He's a misogynistic, racist nutjob.

The idea that we shouldn't call out hatred for what it is, because if we do, it drives people to the far right, is what's poisoning the well. Nothing else.

Givemeachaitealatte · 10/05/2026 08:56

Sartre · 10/05/2026 07:02

There are issues on the left mainly around free speech. I’ve found this irritating as an academic who very much believes in the university as an institution of precisely this - free expression and unrestrained exchange of knowledge. I heard Tommy Robinson was booked to speak at Oxford uni and thought, good, why not. I don’t think ‘controversial’ speakers should be banned from universities and I equally hate the notion of a person being attacked for having a different opinion e.g Kathleen Stock at Sussex.

I spoke at length to my students about this once after I mentioned Jordan Peterson and had two students basically lay into me. I asked if they had read his books, they hadn’t so I said they should do that first before attempting to argue. I read literature from all sides of the political spectrum, it’s part of being a critical thinker (as I told them).

I agree, I remember arguing the same point about Nick Griffin when he appeared on Question Time. Everyone was up in arms and I argued for free speech and let them stand up to some scrutiny/shine a light on to their actual views. He was utterly embarrassing and pretty much shrunk from the limelight after that.

I am left, I am also GC, I don't think the two are mutually exclusive and I don't think people should take this one issue and be radicalised into thinking that the right will offer some safe haven for women. The right do not care about women and girls.

brightnails · 10/05/2026 08:57

OneTealShaker · 09/05/2026 18:23

Yes the left are now woman hating, working class hating, country hating, just generally a hating bunch of people. Always moaning, always complaining, as usual pulling everyone down to their level.

Working class warriors, they ain’t.

👊🏽💙

WildGarden · 10/05/2026 09:00

OnceUponATimed · 10/05/2026 08:50

You do know the Right do exactly the same. Farage, Johnson, Rees Mogg etc al all use the word pleb. In fact Cameron said it to a policeman!

Mogg refers to the electorate as 'pot plants'.

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 10/05/2026 09:00

Givemeachaitealatte · 10/05/2026 08:48

I asked because they say that the contempt the left have got the working classes has shifted the working class to reform, so I asked whether they think reform will be any good for the working class? I'm sorry, I didn't realise that on an internet forum you could police what questions I post for someone? My bad.

Who even is the working class anymore? It's a definition that no longer makes any sense. People who ' don't own the means of production' so Civil servants, doctors, council workers- in other words people with degrees, but not self employed builders, plumbers, shop owners etc? What about people who don't work- the long term unemployed, the benefit class? Are they 'working class'?

OneTealShaker · 10/05/2026 09:02

OnceUponATimed · 10/05/2026 08:50

You do know the Right do exactly the same. Farage, Johnson, Rees Mogg etc al all use the word pleb. In fact Cameron said it to a policeman!

None of those people have ever used that word, at least not on the record and Cameron never said it to a policeman.

I am no fan of the Tories. But you are just making things up.

OneTealShaker · 10/05/2026 09:04

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 10/05/2026 09:00

Who even is the working class anymore? It's a definition that no longer makes any sense. People who ' don't own the means of production' so Civil servants, doctors, council workers- in other words people with degrees, but not self employed builders, plumbers, shop owners etc? What about people who don't work- the long term unemployed, the benefit class? Are they 'working class'?

The Benefits class is certainly not working class.

Working class is now also know as alarm clock class. Blue collar workers mostly not dependent on benefits.

Givemeachaitealatte · 10/05/2026 09:05

HedgerowTales · 10/05/2026 02:52

I think what's embarrassing is how little you seem to understand the mood of the country. Mind you Mumsnet has always been sanctimonious lefty central, which does not represent the average person's views.

What I think is embarrassing is that the country has been swayed by social media soundbites and the media. It's like a covert operation in mind control. The vitriol spat at Keir Starmer is mind boggling, he's done a fair bit to reduce poverty and improve workers rights in the relatively short term.

He's hated more than Boris who literally partied while people were locked in their home and people died and Liz Truss who tanked the economy. He's hated more than Farage and Tice who have been quite clear on their views about the disabled, SEN children, and have endorsed candidates who are actual racists to stand up as councillors.

BIossomtoes · 10/05/2026 09:05

OneTealShaker · 10/05/2026 09:02

None of those people have ever used that word, at least not on the record and Cameron never said it to a policeman.

I am no fan of the Tories. But you are just making things up.

Mitchell did though.

'Plebgate' row: Timeline https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-24548645

Andrew Mitchell

'Plebgate' row: Timeline

Allegations that Conservative MP Andrew Mitchell called some police officers plebs during a row in Downing Street cost him his career. BBC news looks back at how the row unfurled.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-24548645

Givemeachaitealatte · 10/05/2026 09:06

OneTealShaker · 10/05/2026 09:04

The Benefits class is certainly not working class.

Working class is now also know as alarm clock class. Blue collar workers mostly not dependent on benefits.

You are aware that a lot of benefits claimants are for UC to top up their wages. They are the alarm clock blue collar workers that you speak of.

OneTealShaker · 10/05/2026 09:09

Givemeachaitealatte · 10/05/2026 01:58

Then what are the right worried about if the legislation doesn't exist? It is also unlikely to ever exist as no political party is going to implement a policy that increases unemployment? Are they just whipping people into a frenzy over nothing then over imagined policy and legislation?

Unemployment is increasing.

Go back and read the post. You might understand it better.

WildGarden · 10/05/2026 09:09

As an older white man with a misogynist, anti abortion bent Lydon is precisely the right's target market.

He famously once said to a woman he was on a TV show with " SHUT UP. Whoever you are, shut up. Now LISTEN, when a MAN is talking, do not interrupt".

Not very punk at all.

keepswimming38 · 10/05/2026 09:15

Oh look another ‘let’s bash the left’ thread by a Reform voter. I count 3 I’ve seen in 10 minutes!

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 10/05/2026 09:15

I am left, I am also GC, I don't think the two are mutually exclusive and I don't think people should take this one issue and be radicalised into thinking that the right will offer some safe haven for women. The right do not care about women and girls.
I don't think the two are mutually exclusive, or they shouldn't be. The new identitarian Left is not ' Left' at all in the traditional sense. It has become authoritarian, in that it believes that some people have the right to trample over the rights of others because they are one of the 'chosen' oppressed. Gay people wanted equal rights with straight people. They did not want to take away the rights of straight people. Women wanted equal rights with men. Not to take away the rights of men. Ethnic groups wanted to be treated the same as White people etc. That is what I felt was the traditional Left. This has been taken over by very loud authoritarians who say that if you're of an oppressed ( decided by them) minority anything you do is fine because you are oppressed, so the rights of the people you trample over aren't that important- so women, gay people ( particularly Lesbians), Jewish people. The Right don't care about women either, that may be true. But the chances of them getting women back into the home when it would collapse the economy is miniscule. The chances of a Labour/ Green coalition completely erasing any reference to biological women and making a nonsense of sex based protections is high.

Givemeachaitealatte · 10/05/2026 09:16

OneTealShaker · 10/05/2026 09:09

Unemployment is increasing.

Go back and read the post. You might understand it better.

I have read it. It's fine if you can't answer, but saying that the 'right is not unreasonable insisting employment legislation that actually leads to higher unemployment' without actually being able to point to that legislation is just disingenuous and fairly typical of the soundbites that the right is relying on to sway the masses.

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 10/05/2026 09:19

Givemeachaitealatte · 10/05/2026 09:06

You are aware that a lot of benefits claimants are for UC to top up their wages. They are the alarm clock blue collar workers that you speak of.

How many are working full time and how many are choosing to work part time and receive UC top ups? If they were on a full time minimum wage they would not be eligible for UC.

Givemeachaitealatte · 10/05/2026 09:21

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 10/05/2026 09:15

I am left, I am also GC, I don't think the two are mutually exclusive and I don't think people should take this one issue and be radicalised into thinking that the right will offer some safe haven for women. The right do not care about women and girls.
I don't think the two are mutually exclusive, or they shouldn't be. The new identitarian Left is not ' Left' at all in the traditional sense. It has become authoritarian, in that it believes that some people have the right to trample over the rights of others because they are one of the 'chosen' oppressed. Gay people wanted equal rights with straight people. They did not want to take away the rights of straight people. Women wanted equal rights with men. Not to take away the rights of men. Ethnic groups wanted to be treated the same as White people etc. That is what I felt was the traditional Left. This has been taken over by very loud authoritarians who say that if you're of an oppressed ( decided by them) minority anything you do is fine because you are oppressed, so the rights of the people you trample over aren't that important- so women, gay people ( particularly Lesbians), Jewish people. The Right don't care about women either, that may be true. But the chances of them getting women back into the home when it would collapse the economy is miniscule. The chances of a Labour/ Green coalition completely erasing any reference to biological women and making a nonsense of sex based protections is high.

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But they haven't explicitly said they'd protect abortion rights, they do want to repeal protections for women and girls in the equality act. They have consistently voted against legislation that would prevent sexual harm and violence against women and girls. Most of labour isn't radical left anymore, it's centrist slightly left.

HoraceCope · 10/05/2026 09:24

far left and far right is no longer popular
they are all trying to appeal

Shakeoffyourchains · 10/05/2026 09:24

OneTealShaker · 09/05/2026 18:37

It’s a strange syndrome that the left have. Call people racist, thick, stupid and all sorts of other other names and then wonder, cry, wail and moan that these people have the audacity to not vote the same way as they do. That these people actually choose to vote for people who don’t call them names and look down upon them with disdain.

It shows. You see it so clearly. Whenever Labour and Green politicians speak, it’s like their persona is dripping with contempt for the little people beneath them. The hate this country and they hate the electorate. They see themselves above us all.

It’s a strange syndrome the right have. They’re perfectly happy to dish out insults but the second anyone returns the favour they suddenly become poor little victims of unbearable elitist persecution.

The reality is a huge amount of right-wing politics is built entirely on emotion over evidence. Especially on immigration, the defining obsession of the British right for the last decade.

You were told Brexit would “take back control”. Net migration went up. You were promised borders would be secured. They weren’t. You were promised hotels would close. More opened. And despite all of that, you repeatedly elected the exact same people responsible for the policies you claim to hate.

Now many of those same voters are backing a party containing not one, not two, not three, but eleven (11) former Tory cabinet ministers, including a former Home Secretary and a former Immigration Minister (who literally boasted about opening migrant hotels) simply because the branding changed and the slogans got angrier.

And then they act shocked when people conclude that maybe the issue isn’t that everyone else is “out of touch”, but that a large chunk of the electorate, that keeps voting based on vibes, slogans and culture war grievance instead of outcomes, are, in fact, racist, thick and stupid.

Givemeachaitealatte · 10/05/2026 09:24

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 10/05/2026 09:19

How many are working full time and how many are choosing to work part time and receive UC top ups? If they were on a full time minimum wage they would not be eligible for UC.

They may be working part time, but a lot of those people will be women and disabled people, and there are many reasons why people work part time. Young children with no support with the cost of childcare being so high, ill health meaning the only way they can contribute to society is through party time work etc.

TemperanceWest · 10/05/2026 09:25

Given the right did well on Thursday, one has to wonder why they are all so angry here on MN. Go out and celebrate your wins!

ILikeDinosaurs · 10/05/2026 09:26

Agrumpyknitter · 09/05/2026 19:45

Nigel Farage is part of the establishment and has always been so. It’s why he has so much media support. It’s beyond me why working class people think a privately educated former banker has their best interests at heart.

Look at Farage’s voting record he always votes against strengthening worker rights. He’s complained that the minimum wage is too high for youngsters. The cognitive dissonance from
the right is astounding.

Absolutely.

People here talk about "anti establishment" but what does that actually mean? Look at the bigger picture people: the billionaire class. THAT is the REAL establishment, a global cabal of influencers behind the scenes, feeding into institutions in every country causing global instability to serve their own secret purposes.

Farage is a servant of this billionaire class. He is not a member of, or a supporter of, the working class. He pulls a pint, wears a flat cap and the WC cheer, 'oh look, he's just like us'. He is a liar, a master manipulator. And people fall for it, thinking he's "anti-establishment"??!!! In the meantime his policies actively propose to take away their rights. It seems that Reform supporters don't actually read their blooming policies or look at the way their members are actively voting against them having more rights. It's all immigrashun, immigrashun, immigrashun, for the easily distracted.

Cognitive dissonance from the right is a real thing, since when do stock brokers and the upper classes have their interests at hand? They NEVER have. Especially those that take backhanders from billionaires.

Andthatmyfriendisthat · 10/05/2026 09:27

HedgerowTales · 10/05/2026 02:52

I think what's embarrassing is how little you seem to understand the mood of the country. Mind you Mumsnet has always been sanctimonious lefty central, which does not represent the average person's views.

Yep. There's no lefty socialist like a privileged insulated bubble lefty socialist. Mumsnet is clueless central, always has been.

Reform secured more than 1,350 seats. A totally gobsmacking victory. Labour were utterly crushed and lost more than 1300 seats. The two party system that has existed for so long none of us can recall it not existing has been upended. A totally new paradigm now exists.

And sanctimonious clueless far left Mumsnetters are still calling people names and sticking their fingers in their ears shouting wah wah wah.

TemperanceWest · 10/05/2026 09:31

Andthatmyfriendisthat · 10/05/2026 09:27

Yep. There's no lefty socialist like a privileged insulated bubble lefty socialist. Mumsnet is clueless central, always has been.

Reform secured more than 1,350 seats. A totally gobsmacking victory. Labour were utterly crushed and lost more than 1300 seats. The two party system that has existed for so long none of us can recall it not existing has been upended. A totally new paradigm now exists.

And sanctimonious clueless far left Mumsnetters are still calling people names and sticking their fingers in their ears shouting wah wah wah.

still calling people names

You have just called lefty mumsnetters plenty of names

As per my pp, why are you so angry? It is Sunday, if you aren't working today, have a little celebration of some kind.