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AIBU to think children should not be taken shopping in pyjamas?

347 replies

NoahVale · 04/05/2026 09:06

what is the craze for taking y our young dc to the shops in their pyjamas?
bad enough that they drive there but walking down the high street in pyjamas,
it looks appalling.
i just saw a man going past my house, he had been to the shops, and i thought, i bet he didnt wash before he went to the shops, next thing a woman coming up the road with 3 dc in their pjyamas

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BH90210 · 04/05/2026 09:22

I couldn’t really care less. Is this something which has just happened at 9am on a bank holiday?

mycheeseplantiscalledcharles · 04/05/2026 09:23

NoahVale · 04/05/2026 09:21

a onesie isnt the same is it?

What makes a one piece pyjama more acceptable than a two piece?

FaceIt · 04/05/2026 09:24

Yep it’s lazy and common.

If they can’t be bothered to be dressed in public, I wonder what the inside of their houses are like.

EarlofShrewsbury · 04/05/2026 09:24

We went on a hike last week and me and the smallest took a tumble and ended up in the river.

We had a hrs drive home so when we were back at the car I changed them into some pj's from the charity shop bag that was in the boot.

We stopped at the shop on the way home and the child was not only in pj's, they were also way too small🤣

It was not a fun day.

Needspaceforlego · 04/05/2026 09:25

Keepoffmyartichokes · 04/05/2026 09:12

I think it depends, when my son was young after his swimming lesson he would get into a onesie or pjs and we might then pop to the shops with him on the way home.

I think thats quite common.

Edit I meant common as in not unusual, ordinary thing to do.
Not common the way its used in MN world to mean cheap, scruffy or whatever.

I'll add I quite often do club pick up with my youngest in pj's and onsies. So when we get back its into bed.

Mousespoons · 04/05/2026 09:26

A lot of small children’s clothes are very similar to pyjamas anyway. Does it depend on the pattern?

Highlandgal · 04/05/2026 09:27

CurlewKate · 04/05/2026 09:12

Why not?

Because it’s lazy, doesn’t take long to put some clothes on, but hey ho each to their own.

NoahVale · 04/05/2026 09:28

BH90210 · 04/05/2026 09:22

I couldn’t really care less. Is this something which has just happened at 9am on a bank holiday?

no - obviously it is not a one off, i have been seeing it regularly when off to the shops myself, any time of day,
people walking, people driving.
all the same.

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TY78910 · 04/05/2026 09:28

mycheeseplantiscalledcharles · 04/05/2026 09:22

Not true necessarily. People have day pyjamas and sleeping ones. This is quite common in council estates. Your proper clothes are for 'going out' ie when you leave the estate.

Like ‘loungewear’? I wouldn’t bundle that in with pyjamas as you don’t necessarily wear that to sleep, just to lounge around. Also where did council estates come in to this 🤣 I wear a lot of loungewear

Needspaceforlego · 04/05/2026 09:28

Mousespoons · 04/05/2026 09:26

A lot of small children’s clothes are very similar to pyjamas anyway. Does it depend on the pattern?

Hahaha you've reminded me of collect my kid at nursery he had a what looked to DH and the staff as a character t-shirt on. It had been sold as part of a pj set.

FrogsWormsandButterflies · 04/05/2026 09:29

I truly don’t see how it’s any different to shorts and t shirt, it’s not like they’re naked!

BH90210 · 04/05/2026 09:29

NoahVale · 04/05/2026 09:28

no - obviously it is not a one off, i have been seeing it regularly when off to the shops myself, any time of day,
people walking, people driving.
all the same.

But the thing which happened that prompted you to post. The man followed by a woman with 3 children, this morning or not?

NoahVale · 04/05/2026 09:30

the children,
the man is irrelevant really
he is just a smelly man who lives near me

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Applecup · 04/05/2026 09:33

CanTheWorldSlowDownPlease · 04/05/2026 09:10

We regularly do the breakfast run in pyjamas! Also, just because people are dressed, does not mean they have washed!

It is unlikely though. If you took the time to wash why would you get re-dressed in pyjamas?

Slowrunevenfeelsgood · 04/05/2026 09:35

NoahVale · 04/05/2026 09:14

i take it you take your children out in their pyjamas, bank holiday monday morning @ 9.00 am?

No never
But then I also haven’t seen it either
and at least they’re walking as you seemed put out that it was “bad enough” they were driving

Girasoli · 04/05/2026 09:35

I didn't think people actually slept in onesies (unless maybe camping), they are so warm! Plus very small DC shouldn't really sleep in things with hoods on.

I'm another one that puts DC in onesies for after swimming lessons. I wouldn't let them go out in pyjamas unless it was an emergency or 'wear pyjamas to school' day though.

I do remember when I was a kid we used to pick up DM from an evening class in the car at about 8/9pm and DBro and I would be in our pyjamas. That was very exciting.

Farawaytreemagic · 04/05/2026 09:35

NoahVale · 04/05/2026 09:30

the children,
the man is irrelevant really
he is just a smelly man who lives near me

Edited

What? You are really making yourself look nasty by saying this! Poor man just going about his day not bothering you at all? Was he in his pyjamas?

ThaneOfGlamis · 04/05/2026 09:36

My autistic ds wears nothing but pyjamas due to sensory issues with clothes. We certainly aren't going to stay inside all day in case judgy folk want to get offended. Why does people's clothing choices bother you so much? Maybe take up a hobby instead.

landlordhell · 04/05/2026 09:36

Only time I ever took my child out in PJs ( apart from a night drive to a holiday destination) was to the GP where she was so weak I had to carry her from her bed- they wouldn’t come out to see her.

landlordhell · 04/05/2026 09:36

ThaneOfGlamis · 04/05/2026 09:36

My autistic ds wears nothing but pyjamas due to sensory issues with clothes. We certainly aren't going to stay inside all day in case judgy folk want to get offended. Why does people's clothing choices bother you so much? Maybe take up a hobby instead.

Plenty of soft outdoor clothing.

Lomonald · 04/05/2026 09:37

NoahVale · 04/05/2026 09:13

positive that all 3 of them were in pyjamas, mum wasnt
i live en route to a corner shop

It's probably easier to nip to the shop with them for milk than faffing around getting 3 kids dressed, it absolutely isn't the deal you think it is.

Slowrunevenfeelsgood · 04/05/2026 09:37

NoahVale · 04/05/2026 09:17

i wasnt sitting, i was standing, doing the washing up, i grow plants so people can't see to pass judgement,

Edited

And you stopped washing up, dried your hands, pulled out your phone and started bashing out a mumsnet thread.

What a way to live 😆

OnePeachCrow · 04/05/2026 09:37

I can understand if it's near bedtime. But yesterday there was a child in the garden centre at 2pm in pyjamas and dressing gown.

NoahVale · 04/05/2026 09:38

Slowrunevenfeelsgood · 04/05/2026 09:37

And you stopped washing up, dried your hands, pulled out your phone and started bashing out a mumsnet thread.

What a way to live 😆

fairly common round here i imagine,
gets me away from the tedium of the washing up! Wink

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Lifelover16 · 04/05/2026 09:38

Slouped · 04/05/2026 09:10

What is the breakfast run?

Yes, what is the breakfast run?

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