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PIP for Anxiety

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IntelligenceIsFree · 24/04/2026 13:18

AIBU to clear things up?

The current nasty rhetoric around disabled people at the moment is astounding. Society needs to be reminded that we are ALL one illness or accident away from disability.

Everyone knows someone who is gaming the system, yet the PIP fraud rate is extremely low. The public demonising, does not match the reality.

The hot topic is “anxiety” and how people with “anxiety” are gaming the system, getting “free” cars and robbing tax payers; this is being constantly fed through media, news articles and so on.

This is simply not true. The people spouting this nonsense clearly have no idea how PIP works. Nobody gets PIP without strong medical evidence. Nobody.

Before anyone posts “my neighbour got PIP just by telling lies”. No, they did not. That’s not how it works.

People need to be educated properly on how benefits work, how they are awarded and what the criteria for mobility cars actually is; the cars are not in fact free.

People need to be educated on the fact that there is anxiety, which every human suffers from at some point, and then there are anxiety DISORDERS which are entirely different and can be life changing and debilitating. Hence, the need and entitlement for PIP.

Brenda down the road who feels too anxious to go to Bingo on a Friday night is NOT getting PIP ❌

Mary up the lane who has such severe OCD that she cannot leave her own home for fear that she will die, IS getting PIP .✅

There’s a huge difference.

The current turning on disabled people is shameful and we are living in a country full of hate because Bob (and his Uncle) are annoyed that they are paying tax to “support all of these scroungers”.

Bob (and his Uncle), needs to hope that they never get cancer, or suffer life changing trauma or have an unfortunate accident to avoid being served a huge scrounged humble pie.

I do not suffer from anxiety but as a human, I am pleased we have a system in society to support the most vulnerable people who need it. Life can happen to anyone.

OP posts:
Kirbert2 · 25/04/2026 18:35

Uppitymuppity · 25/04/2026 15:18

I literally know 3 people who claim pip for their kids because they lied on the forms about how much assistance they need. No diagnosis of anything, waiting for ADHD diagnosis that might never come. So from my experience it is easy to get pip if you know what to say.

You clearly can't know them too well since kids don't get PIP, they get DLA. A diagnosis isn't needed but evidence is.

ThreadGuardDog · 25/04/2026 18:37

fbibones · 25/04/2026 16:41

I found there was no help if you’re ill but not really ill
to explain I have a couple of conditions and at times they’ve affected me badly where I’ve had to take unpaid time off work/risk losing my job
but it’s very much work full time as there isn’t any help if you aren’t able to but you aren’t THAT unwell

I'm immunocompromised for life and kept getting infection after infection which meant time off work and again loss of earnings, disciplinary meetings etc
then I got cauda equina and needed surgery
then stage 4 endometriosis affecting my bladder and bowels, had to take 4 weeks off after a laparoscopy unpaid

I know people will say “well you should have savings” but when you’re single and earning min wage…

PIP is not an out of work benefit and you don’t have to be unemployed to claim it. If you have a disability PIP is designed to help with the extra costs it incurs.

youalright · 25/04/2026 18:41

Dumbo18 · 25/04/2026 18:35

Hahaha the naivety on this thread is amazing! My brother gets pip, said he was suicidal and depressed… he isn’t. Partners close friend gets pip, said he was depressed, incontinent etc… he isn’t in fact he laughs saying how his pip has just paid for his most recent trip to Thailand. Just because you don’t know many people who play the system doesn’t mean it’s not common. I live in what would be considered a deprived area of a big city and the amount of people I know, friends and family who say partners aren’t living with them, work 16 hours and the rest cash in hand or claim pip is unbelievable. It doesn’t bother me, ive grew up this being the norm and although i know it isn’t people do what they’ve got do/ want to do. In fact most people I know are driving round in motorbility cars they get off their cousins aunties Nan 😂 this is life in parts of the country like where I’m from. Of course there are plenty of people who claim pip who need it and plenty of people who need it and can’t claim but don’t think that people don’t play the system

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Pip don't care if you are suicidal or have even attempted suicide it isn't one of the criteria. You can't just say you are incontinent you would have to prove why you are and it would have show in his scr that he would have had to submit with his pip form

Dumbo18 · 25/04/2026 18:45

youalright · 25/04/2026 18:41

Pip don't care if you are suicidal or have even attempted suicide it isn't one of the criteria. You can't just say you are incontinent you would have to prove why you are and it would have show in his scr that he would have had to submit with his pip form

Well you can because both have done it. I never understand why people think you’d just randomly make stuff up to post on an anonymous forum 😂 they both said that’s what was wrong with them and are both on pip. Open your mind it actually happens

youalright · 25/04/2026 18:46

Dumbo18 · 25/04/2026 18:45

Well you can because both have done it. I never understand why people think you’d just randomly make stuff up to post on an anonymous forum 😂 they both said that’s what was wrong with them and are both on pip. Open your mind it actually happens

Edited

Sure they have

Dumbo18 · 25/04/2026 18:46

youalright · 25/04/2026 18:46

Sure they have

Haha great 😂

ThreadGuardDog · 25/04/2026 18:48

MaturingCheeseball · 25/04/2026 10:51

I know someone who gets pip for anxiety. They also have a motability car. Now this is what beats me. If anxiety is bad enough to receive pip, surely motoring around, days out, holidays etc would be beyond them? In this case I suspect they may have had the useful counsel of a family member who works at a famous mental health place.

PIP is not paid for simple anxiety and depression treated by a GP with medication. You have to provide evidence of overwhelming symptoms, usually requiring secondary care consultant led mental health teams. The use of a motability car doesn’t necessarily mean the person with the mental health condition is actually driving it. It could be a family member driving the claimant around, or using the car for their benefit in some other way - enabling them to travel to and from work for example. You clearly know very little about how mental health works or how PIP supports it.

Sonato · 25/04/2026 18:48

Heres my challenge with this view.

Everytime gaming the system is pushed back on as a concept the view is it point blank doesnt happen. At all.

That is a convenient stat but it is simply not true.

I grew up on a council estate, benefits was very much a way of life. Generations of families not working because the welfare state was all they knew. I can assure you it does happen.

Does that mean people like OP are wrong to receive? No.

Its like the NAMALT argument. No, all benefits claimants are not uniust or gaming the system, but its too many, far too many.

Thats what your average working person on the street is sick to the baxk teeth of. A rising welfare bill whilst being simultaneously gaslt that what they can see with their own eyes "never happens at all and how dare you suggest it does"

Kirbert2 · 25/04/2026 18:49

Dumbo18 · 25/04/2026 18:45

Well you can because both have done it. I never understand why people think you’d just randomly make stuff up to post on an anonymous forum 😂 they both said that’s what was wrong with them and are both on pip. Open your mind it actually happens

Edited

Because those people have usually gone through PIP/DLA themselves/for their child and know how gruelling it is and how much evidence is demanded. Even then, it often has to go to tribunal.

It's hard to take someone seriously when, for example, they don't even know the difference between DLA and PIP so clearly have very little idea of how it all works.

youalright · 25/04/2026 18:50

youalright · 25/04/2026 18:41

Pip don't care if you are suicidal or have even attempted suicide it isn't one of the criteria. You can't just say you are incontinent you would have to prove why you are and it would have show in his scr that he would have had to submit with his pip form

@PILEALLTHEPILLSONTHEFLOOR here you go don't worry about your tribunal just tell them you have bpd they won't question it just like people this poster knows you don't need any medical evidence just tell them.

Dumbo18 · 25/04/2026 18:52

I’m astounded that people actually believe people don’t play the system! Just because you don’t know people who don’t do it doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. By the way it doesn’t bother me, like I say I grew up watching people play the system just so we could survive

youalright · 25/04/2026 18:54

Dumbo18 · 25/04/2026 18:52

I’m astounded that people actually believe people don’t play the system! Just because you don’t know people who don’t do it doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. By the way it doesn’t bother me, like I say I grew up watching people play the system just so we could survive

Where all aware a small amount of people commit benefit fraud what we don't believe is people knowing people who get pip for made up incontinence with no proof as thats just not how it works

ThreadGuardDog · 25/04/2026 18:55

MaturingCheeseball · 25/04/2026 15:18

And the problem is that people are being influenced to believe that any anxiety is abnormal - a condition . So I don’t think applicants are swinging the lead so much as honestly thinking that feeling anxious at times makes them different. You only need to scroll through a few threads and the OP will claim anxiety. I remember one where a poster was saying they didn’t want someone to sit next to them on a (full) bus and not moving their bag was ok because they had anxiety. This kind of thinking - and, worse, validating it - is leading to increasing numbers of people believing they are not only suffering from a disability but should be able to claim for it.

I really don’t know why posters deny anything like this is happening. Surely the deluge of claimants now can only be detrimental to those who really require help.

There is a world of difference between the anxiety we all feel from time to time and anxiety disorder.

ThreadGuardDog · 25/04/2026 18:56

Dumbo18 · 25/04/2026 18:52

I’m astounded that people actually believe people don’t play the system! Just because you don’t know people who don’t do it doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. By the way it doesn’t bother me, like I say I grew up watching people play the system just so we could survive

Nobody is saying it doesn’t happen, of course it does. No system is infallible. But those of us who have worked within the system know that the figures are not nearly as high as some posters are quoting simply to support their own narrative.

Dumbo18 · 25/04/2026 18:56

youalright · 25/04/2026 18:54

Where all aware a small amount of people commit benefit fraud what we don't believe is people knowing people who get pip for made up incontinence with no proof as thats just not how it works

The thing is you don’t have to believe it but it does happen and I’m certainly not going to lose any sleep over you not believing it

Dumbo18 · 25/04/2026 18:58

ThreadGuardDog · 25/04/2026 18:56

Nobody is saying it doesn’t happen, of course it does. No system is infallible. But those of us who have worked within the system know that the figures are not nearly as high as some posters are quoting simply to support their own narrative.

I can’t comment on the figures others have posted because I honestly have no idea and don’t wish to know. I can only comment on the family and friends I know and the strokes they pull as my dad says 😂

Kirbert2 · 25/04/2026 18:59

ThreadGuardDog · 25/04/2026 18:56

Nobody is saying it doesn’t happen, of course it does. No system is infallible. But those of us who have worked within the system know that the figures are not nearly as high as some posters are quoting simply to support their own narrative.

Yep.

My child is incontinent and I had to provide evidence to show that he's incontinent. They don't just take your word for it.

RudolphTheReindeer · 25/04/2026 19:03

Dumbo18 · 25/04/2026 18:52

I’m astounded that people actually believe people don’t play the system! Just because you don’t know people who don’t do it doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. By the way it doesn’t bother me, like I say I grew up watching people play the system just so we could survive

For those of us who have been through the pip process and know how horrifically difficult it can be for people who genuinely need and are entitled to it, to get it, it's difficult to believe or understand how others can get it so easily. When you/the person you support has to produce mountains of evidence, do MRs, do Tribunals it's difficult to fathom out how others get it without the same levels of evidence/hassle.

ThreadGuardDog · 25/04/2026 19:03

Leavelingeringbreath · 25/04/2026 14:27

The difficulty with anxiety is it almost entirely self reported. Ultimately there isn't a test for it, a doctor can only go on the fact a patient comes to see them repeatedly and reports severe symptoms of anxiety.

Its relatively easy to look up what severe symptoms of anxiety are, go to your doctor and describe those symptoms. It's also very easy to be experiencing mild to moderate symptoms of anxiety and go to the doctor and exaggerate your symptoms when talking to them.

I'm not saying everyone with anxiety on pip is doing this, of course they aren't, but it's extremely naive of people to imagine that nobody is doing this.

The only reason it's claimed that fraud for pip is almost zero is because investigation into fraud is almost zero.

It's almost impossible with conditions like anxiety, fibromyalgia, chronic pain and chronic fatigue, where diagnosis is based almost entirely on a persons self reported symptoms to their doctor, to prove they are or aren't suffering those symptoms.

And in those circumstances the assessor would make a decision based on how the claimant presents, their demeanour throughout and expected physical manifestations of anxiety or whatever they’re claiming, on whether the claimant could reasonably be expected to be telling the truth on the balance of probability.

Locutus2000 · 25/04/2026 19:05

BlackRowan · 25/04/2026 08:34

Do you not understand that there are Facebook groups teaching people how to build that evidence with medical professionals? how to describe exactly what anxiety or ADHD does to their life and how debilitating it is in order to then get evidence for PIP? I know of such groups and at least one person I know personally. It takes some advance prep

I know of such groups and at least one person I know personally.

Should be easy to provide a link to one then. I'll wait.

RudolphTheReindeer · 25/04/2026 19:06

btw I'm pretty sure pileallthepillsonthefloor was caught having multiple personalities on here earlier today, so I'm sure if they crack a few out at the tribunal they'll be grand 😂

ThreadGuardDog · 25/04/2026 19:07

Dumbo18 · 25/04/2026 18:58

I can’t comment on the figures others have posted because I honestly have no idea and don’t wish to know. I can only comment on the family and friends I know and the strokes they pull as my dad says 😂

You claimed that someone you know is claiming for incontinence and doesn’t have it. That’s almost impossible to do. The assessor would want evidence such as a referral to urology or digestive consultant, medical reports from clinicians, referrals to continence services and evidence of the provision of suitable padding and any other aids or appliances used for toileting, prevention of accidents.

TigerRag · 25/04/2026 19:07

Locutus2000 · 25/04/2026 19:05

I know of such groups and at least one person I know personally.

Should be easy to provide a link to one then. I'll wait.

I'm in various Facebook groups and haven't seen these posts. People will tell you that you need certain evidence of disability, etc. but never what to say. I remember someone asking what do they write on their forms as they had a diagnosis of something. They were told it doesn't matter what other people wrote - it's how you're affected

pipfs · 25/04/2026 19:08

youalright · 25/04/2026 18:41

Pip don't care if you are suicidal or have even attempted suicide it isn't one of the criteria. You can't just say you are incontinent you would have to prove why you are and it would have show in his scr that he would have had to submit with his pip form

Not true. Activity 1, 3, and 11 all have risk of intentional self harm consideration.

Newyearawaits · 25/04/2026 19:08

Kfti48dj · 25/04/2026 15:38

Nobody says it isn’t only that the numbers are low as backed up by gov figures.

The low percentage is reflective of the fraudulent people who have been caught out.

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