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Voting for Reform.the north/south

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Jollyjupiter · 24/04/2026 00:16

As a proud Northerner i can say 80 per cent of my peer group will vote for Reform in May. Do you think it will be a North v South split?

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ForWittyTealOP · 24/04/2026 12:22

Bushmillsbabe · 24/04/2026 12:14

As a school governor, the funding situation is dire and much worse than the last Parliament. My oldest is in year 5. Through her time in infants she had classes of 20 ish, with a teacher, 2 TA per class, lots of extra activities. My youngest is 3 years behind her and her experience has been very different in the same school, much fewer staff, a mainstream school being forced to take children whose needs they cannot meet so all TA'sare diverted to a seperate class which has been set up for these children who cannot cope in mainstream classes. From having a healthy budget surplus they are likely to end this year in deficit for the first time in 15 years, as the wait times in our area for EHCPS are double what they were 3 years ago so the schools aren't getting the funding through. The money promised from VAT on private fees has never materialised. The universal free breakfast clubs promised by Labour have never materialised.

My best friend is a social worker and reports huge budget cuts over the past few years, staff are stretched to breaking point, with several off long term with stress.

I have worked in commuinity paediatrics for nearly 20 years. Everyone in our team will confidently say the last 2-3 years are the worst in history. Our speech therapy team have had to close their wait lists as too long, and if those who are seen get 1 appt, advice abd then discharge. My daughter was under the same team 6 years ago and was seen weekly for a year.

And yet our national debt is higher than ever.

Yes, some of the issues are linked to external factors like wars abroad. And there may be policy work going on in the background. But your average person doesn't care about the background. They care about their life right now.

  • how long they and their family wait for nhs care
  • the quality of their child's education right now
  • how much money they have left after paying essential bills
  • how their commuinity looks and feels, is it clean and safe

And for many people things are much worse.

These things are the result of several contributory factors, not least ideological "austerity" and Brexit. I'm not a fan of the current government but I don't think they can be blamed for everything.

BlakeCarrington · 24/04/2026 12:23

BIossomtoes · 24/04/2026 12:08

I rest my case.

Do you? How strange, you haven’t demonstrated anything at all.

ForWittyTealOP · 24/04/2026 12:24

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 12:15

Tbf many western countries outside Europe do rely on human rights established and kept well, and citizens are happy with that (and they top human rights tables).

They probably wouldn't be able to join the Council of Europe though.

BlakeCarrington · 24/04/2026 12:24

Personally, I will be voting tactically. Anything to keep Labour or the Greens out and reverse the destruction of our country.

BIossomtoes · 24/04/2026 12:25

BlakeCarrington · 24/04/2026 12:23

Do you? How strange, you haven’t demonstrated anything at all.

It was done for me. 🤷‍♀️

glitterpaperchain · 24/04/2026 12:25

Ultimately for me it comes down to funding. Reform take huge donations from wealthy individuals and big corporations, just like the Tories and Labour, so ultimately that's who they serve the interests of. That's why we've seen certain individuals and corporations make huge profits while for normal people, the cost of living increases and the quality of life decreases. It's the reason why Labour getting into power was never going to result in substantial change. I don't agree with all Green party policies but they're the only party who do not take huge corporate donations, they are purely member funded, so they aren't beholden to wealthy funders like the other parties. Reform talk about making big change but ultimately how can we expect to see that when they're funded the same way as the people who have already been in power? Because of the funding structure the Greens are the only ones representing a genuine change to the status quo

BlakeCarrington · 24/04/2026 12:25

BIossomtoes · 24/04/2026 12:25

It was done for me. 🤷‍♀️

No it wasn’t. Try again.

ForWittyTealOP · 24/04/2026 12:26

sesquipedalian · 24/04/2026 12:19

@ justmeandthedogs -

So you think it’s OK to deny people elections, no matter how bad the local council, because it suits the incumbent councillors to have a couple of extra years in office? There, we must agree to differ.

I think it had more to do with the responsible use of public funds than the ambition of local councillors, to be fair.

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 12:30

ForWittyTealOP · 24/04/2026 12:26

I think it had more to do with the responsible use of public funds than the ambition of local councillors, to be fair.

Allowing voting is responsible use of public funds. Thankfully that part of the democratic process is back in place.

GregoryFluff · 24/04/2026 12:31

I'm in Grimsby and I've seen a lot of Reform boards go up in people's front gardens over the last few weeks
I have family and friends that will vote Reform and I understand why they will, even though it's not something I would do myself
I'm a floating voter personally. Have voted Lib Dem, Labour and Greens in the past. I actually think that currently the Greens are the most dangerous party in the country and anybody that votes that way is bat shit
Seems obvious to me that we'll be getting another coalition government when the time comes around
For the locals, I'll be voting independent this time
But let's be real, they're all full of shit. Two really good independent candidates got voted in by our ward and the ward adjacent to us. Then they tried to merge the 2 wards so they could oust one or both! Everybody could see exactly what they were doing
My faith in any of the parties is at absolute rock bottom

Yetone · 24/04/2026 12:36

Lighthearted:
I am still blaming the north for voting for Brexit!!
Most people seem to blame oldies, I like me, but I do not know a single person my age and above who voted for Brexit.

AnythingButThis · 24/04/2026 12:37

I’ve just been on the Reform website reading their policies. It’s very depressing, fueled by such toxic rhetoric.
As Heseltine has pointed out it utilizes race-baiting, anti-immigrant rhetoric and populist tactics which bear a resemblance to the Fascist movement of the 1930’s.
Other policy points about reducing red tape (see their poisonous ‘fires do happen’ comments about Grenfell) and getting rid of net-zero (apparently ‘bad ideological policy’ !) are just grim.
Please don’t vote for them!

Atleastthedoglikesme · 24/04/2026 12:39

"a mainstream school being forced to take children whose needs they cannot meet so all TA'sare diverted to a seperate class which has been set up for these children who cannot cope in mainstream classes."

You will be aware that the reason children have been forced into mainstream who need specialist is related to the previous government who prevented local authorities from building or expanding any schools? Forcing many LAs to have their specialist schools move into academy trusts if they wanted to expand. This government has just reversed that.

The huge rise in children arriving in school not ready to learn is complex and not Labour's fault, it's partly to do with phone and screen use by parents and very small children. (Labour have provided explicit guidance on this very recently). It's compounded by the Gove curriculum which forces very young children into formal learning when really, especially given the levels of functioning many are arriving in school with, when really play and socialisation should be the priority. Labour is restoring sure start which the Tories dismantled (now called Best Start).

The wait time for ehcps is precisely why the SEND white paper is moving funding to schools so they don't need to apply for and wait for an EHCP.

Atleastthedoglikesme · 24/04/2026 12:40

Yetone · 24/04/2026 12:36

Lighthearted:
I am still blaming the north for voting for Brexit!!
Most people seem to blame oldies, I like me, but I do not know a single person my age and above who voted for Brexit.

My perception as a Northerner is that Reform has more of a hold in the South, like Brexit.

BIossomtoes · 24/04/2026 12:41

Yetone · 24/04/2026 12:36

Lighthearted:
I am still blaming the north for voting for Brexit!!
Most people seem to blame oldies, I like me, but I do not know a single person my age and above who voted for Brexit.

Nor do I but the breakdown of the leave vote was older and less educated. I put my personally not knowing a single leave voter down to the fact that my social circle is almost exclusively graduates.

ilovesooty · 24/04/2026 12:44

youalright · 24/04/2026 09:28

Who knows but at least they are trying something new which is no different then what reform would be able to do.

I doubt if anyone's going to be able to tell you what Reform would be able to do differently.

glitterpaperchain · 24/04/2026 12:45

BIossomtoes · 24/04/2026 12:41

Nor do I but the breakdown of the leave vote was older and less educated. I put my personally not knowing a single leave voter down to the fact that my social circle is almost exclusively graduates.

Yes it depends so much on your social circle. There was an argument upthread about whether people were saying uneducated = ill informed etc. But there is plenty of data on how people vote. There is data that shows generally the more educated you are, the more left wing, the more pro-EU.

Tableforjoan · 24/04/2026 12:46

Well only the tories and reform seem to be out knocking here.

Labour are far too busy posting pictures of fly tipping telling us they have reported them and getting into slagging matches on Facebook with people who have a different view to them or dare to post annon and then announce their names as they are admin of the group.

I believe it will be Tory or Reform come the vote which one I duno I think it will be very close though.

Almakarlinsghost · 24/04/2026 12:47

Yetone · 24/04/2026 12:36

Lighthearted:
I am still blaming the north for voting for Brexit!!
Most people seem to blame oldies, I like me, but I do not know a single person my age and above who voted for Brexit.

What on earth is "the north"?? My large northern city certainly didn't vote for Brexit, and not did most of the others. Essex, on the other hand...

InsaneRise · 24/04/2026 12:47

I know a lot of people who voted Brexit and it was in a sense of something needs to change, this is something, so let's do this. A lot of the people who vote reform will do so for that reason rather than any strong principles.
Plus many in our town are very disappointed in our labour MP.

The majority of the young people will vote green and they will turn out and vote.

wahwahwoo · 24/04/2026 12:53

I don’t know a single person voting for Reform. I don’t think that’s because I live in the south; it’s because nearly everyone I know has a high level of education and is able to see Farage for what he is.

This is the sad thing: as with Brexit, the majority of people voting for Reform are voting against themselves. I’m not looking forward to Farage becoming PM, but I don’t think I’ll be as personally affected as his disenfranchised voters. It’s tragic. The UK is a mess.

BabanaYogurt · 24/04/2026 12:56

BewareoftheLambs · 24/04/2026 03:59

Reform will do nothing to help a single person other than themselves in this country. So no, no one I know would ever consider voting for them. If people do, the decline of this country may end up irreversible.

We are already experiencing the dire fallout from Brexit, why would we vote for more of the same poor choices.

People need to properly think about this, not just go with what they've read on social media etc.

exactly....Farage is a human hater at large. I doubt he will have what to give to white working British class other than what the UK already has given them, houses and benefits

BabanaYogurt · 24/04/2026 12:58

Kemi is lovely. Go for her

Tuiy · 24/04/2026 13:04

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 24/04/2026 10:41

It isn't rude. It is a statement of fact.

If everyone you know is voting the same way, then that suggests an extremely narrow social circle, regardless of which party they might be voting for. Or it suggests that you're possibly making assumptions about how others might vote without actually knowing the truth.

Even the polls that suggest a very strong result for Reform don't pretend that a majority of the electorate will vote for them. Indeed, a majority of the population won't.

Social circle?

As I said, every family member of mine is voting reform, every colleague at work and every customer at work and parents up the school who mention it. Im not talking about a carefully selected group of friends.
Of course there may be people planning to vote for other parties without telling me but I’m not a far right skinhead type of person so they have no reason to fear being honest with me if they’re voting the greens.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 24/04/2026 13:07

BabanaYogurt · 24/04/2026 12:58

Kemi is lovely. Go for her

😂
(Hoping that's sarcasm, you can never tell lately 😁)