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Voting for Reform.the north/south

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Jollyjupiter · 24/04/2026 00:16

As a proud Northerner i can say 80 per cent of my peer group will vote for Reform in May. Do you think it will be a North v South split?

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IHearViolins · 24/04/2026 11:51

Another Northern poster here who will definitely never vote Reform
I don't think local elections reflect what will happen in a General Election either, people will vote tactically to keep Reform out in the next general election, but may vote differently in the locals. I am voting for my independent candidate in May but not in the general election.

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 11:54

glitterpaperchain · 24/04/2026 11:49

So if you want to make a point, then make the point, don't ask me disingenuous questions.

Their overall approach to handling refugees is to work collaboratively with other countries and to help to tackle the issues that force people to leave their countries in the first place. The approach is help those who need help now, but also work on tackling the source of the issues, including work on climate change which is predicted to greatly increase the number of refugees in future, so they're taking a preventative approach there. In the meantime, the also have a policy of greatly increasing the amount of social housing.

So no, there isn't a specific number 'limit' of how many refugees they would help, because it's a fair bit more complex than that. But there is a clear holistic approach to tackling the issue.

You’ve just answered the question anyway. You can answer without the insults, they’re not necessary.

There’s no limit. They can’t resolve all the war and famine globally to reduce migration by much and their criteria is broad, they will be overwhelmed by applications.

It all sounds nice but realistically the numbers will prove impossible.

AEIOYOU · 24/04/2026 11:54

Jollyjupiter · 24/04/2026 00:16

As a proud Northerner i can say 80 per cent of my peer group will vote for Reform in May. Do you think it will be a North v South split?

I don't know OP. I'm in SW London and I think a lot of people here may be "secret" Reform voters. Don't want to admit it. I read on local Next Door that most at fed up of all the main parties.

Will be interesting. I hope they do well.

ForWittyTealOP · 24/04/2026 11:55

CanSeeClearlyNowTheRainHasGone · 24/04/2026 11:47

I think it is a dog whistle, though I'll grant you not a subtle (supersonic) one.

It's a coded message to youth to say that you've been screwed over by boomers, just as much as anything that gets posted about 'forriners', and it's usually followed by (as in your post 'they're too stupid to understand'). I dislike the message since it implies youth has no agency.

I don't think dog whistles are as subtle as they used to be.

No. I'm not a Thatcherite, nor a Blairite.

Though I voted for both of them in their first term '79 and '97 - tbf, a bit like Labour in 2024 a change was desperately needed from the status quo.

Yes ok, it can be but I think focusing on that obscures the wider point of how we became an increasingly more equal society post WW2, thanks in no small part to our strong welfare state (not necessarily just benefits but health, housing, education). And then something happened in, oh, around 1979 🤔 to throw that into reverse. So who was in power at that time, who was voting for those policies if not the generation born just before and after the war? I know that it's considerably more complex than that and has to be set into context around the cold war and changing world order but I guess what I'm trying to say is that today's 60-80 odd year olds benefited greatly from the welfare state and yet consistently voted for neo liberal policies which sought to destroy that very thing.

I'm a child of Thatcher so I got the tail end of the benefits - free university education for example - and also get to watch my children trying to get on without them.

JHound · 24/04/2026 11:56

I wonder of the “Reform / Non-Reform” voting split will be similar to the Brexit / Remain split.

Atleastthedoglikesme · 24/04/2026 11:56

Treadcarefully11 · 24/04/2026 11:42

Taxes up significantly, economy flatlining and performing worse than any other G7 country, education funding destroyed in part due to policy of VAT on private school fees which n has backfired spectacularly resulting in harming the education of tens of thousands or children, a reduction in per capita funding for state schools and a bill for the taxpayer.

Labour are so bad, far worse than anything we’ve experienced before, that you have to question the motives of anyone still supporting them. Maybe some people don’t like to admit what an error they made voting for them. As with most Labour governments it will take a generation to correct the mess they leave behind.

Education funding hasn't been destroyed. Labour is actually working on finding out what the big issues are in education and trying to solve them long term. They have identified that SEND spending is out of control, that children are sat on waiting lists for neurodiversity assessment for years whilst waiting for proper support, and that some independent specialist settings are profiteering. They have understood that school attendance is a huge issue and that this is linked with youth mental health and the curriculum review of the Tories from 2017. They are undertaking a curriculum review, have a new send white paper and LAs have just been told what their new funding is to support getting specialist help into schools quickly.

What makes you think funding is destroyed? I understand that if you send your kids private you will be pissed off that it's costing more now.

JHound · 24/04/2026 11:58

DaisyDooley · 24/04/2026 11:14

How did the 10million legal immigrants who have arrived this century get here then if we dont have ‘safe routes’?
How did (high profile) people like Martina Navratilova and Nureyev claim asylum back in the 70s? They flew into a country with their passport and said they wanted to claim political asylum. I think (from memory) Nureyev did this at Orly Airport.

You are confusing asylum with immigration.

There are no safe asylum routes for non-Ukrainians. Legal migrants aren’t seeking asylum so the lack of safe asylum routes are irrelevant. They use other, non-asylum, immigration channels.

As for the 70s. We are in 2026. What safe routes existed in the 70s are irrelevant to the lack of safe routes now.

AnythingButThis · 24/04/2026 11:59

Treadcarefully11 · 24/04/2026 11:42

Taxes up significantly, economy flatlining and performing worse than any other G7 country, education funding destroyed in part due to policy of VAT on private school fees which n has backfired spectacularly resulting in harming the education of tens of thousands or children, a reduction in per capita funding for state schools and a bill for the taxpayer.

Labour are so bad, far worse than anything we’ve experienced before, that you have to question the motives of anyone still supporting them. Maybe some people don’t like to admit what an error they made voting for them. As with most Labour governments it will take a generation to correct the mess they leave behind.

I think the root of the economic performance compared to G7, rising cost of living (and some of the consequent rise in taxes) has been proven to result from Brexit and its economic impact. Not to mention the inheritance of years of underfunding (under Conservative and coalition governments) of public services.

To brand Labour the ‘worse ever’ probably demands some context. I’m not entirely enamored of them but the idea that Reform is a legitimate alternative is very problematic in my opinion - for reasons very clearly laid out by other posters previously (but of course not responded to)

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 24/04/2026 12:00

AEIOYOU · 24/04/2026 11:54

I don't know OP. I'm in SW London and I think a lot of people here may be "secret" Reform voters. Don't want to admit it. I read on local Next Door that most at fed up of all the main parties.

Will be interesting. I hope they do well.

Just because people are fed up with the main parties though, doesn't mean they necessarily would go anywhere near Reform.

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 12:01

Treadcarefully11 · 24/04/2026 11:42

Taxes up significantly, economy flatlining and performing worse than any other G7 country, education funding destroyed in part due to policy of VAT on private school fees which n has backfired spectacularly resulting in harming the education of tens of thousands or children, a reduction in per capita funding for state schools and a bill for the taxpayer.

Labour are so bad, far worse than anything we’ve experienced before, that you have to question the motives of anyone still supporting them. Maybe some people don’t like to admit what an error they made voting for them. As with most Labour governments it will take a generation to correct the mess they leave behind.

Maybe. Mn was very pro Labour at the time of the GE.

JHound · 24/04/2026 12:02

rememberingthem · 24/04/2026 11:37

No i blame those who frustrated a proper Brexit at every turn and those who failed to get this country a proper deal because they never wanted Brexit to happen and didn’t manage to stop it happening! If the history of Brexit has taught us anything its that treating the people of this country as if they are inferior and stupid ( left wing and labour supporters im looking at you) or treating them as idiots really wont go down very well! Nigel Farage may well be a grifter but he speaks plainly to people on their own level and doesn’t patronise them. Unlike the very left wing middle class of this country!

Edited

What was a “proper Brexit” and how was that frustrated.

JHound · 24/04/2026 12:05

DaisyDooley · 24/04/2026 11:47

Surely it’s cheaper to get a plane ticket than to pay a people smuggler £3000 and then throw your passport in the channel?
Why is it mainly young men ‘fleeing war’? They needed passports/id to get cross the many countries they crossed to get to the French beaches.
Good job OUR ‘young men’ didnt ‘flee war’ in 1939 leaving the elderly , women & children isn’t it.
The vast majority of these people are NOT fleeing war, religious or sexual persecution.
Do you think it was easy for gay men here? They had to fight for their right! The vast majority of men who arrive here are not gay nor Christians.
Why are we not helping the Christians being murdered in Africa? The women whose children are slaughtered in front of them?
We - the uk - cannot be the refuge for everyone
We are in economic difficulties, we have a housing crisis , apparently not enough money for defence but enough to support the tens of thousands of gay/christian/war fleeing young men who are arriving.
Billions upon billions poured into the NHS which just seems to employ more and more people but give worse and worse outcomes with more and more paid out for ‘mistakes’.
No - I don’t want the American health service here. But Germanys and France’s work very very well, costs less and has better outcomes. Why can’t we look at that?

Our “young men” did not flee war because the UK was fighting an oppressive regime, it was not one. Plenty of “young men” fled (or attempted to flee) Germany and Nazi occupied European countries however.

hedgeknight · 24/04/2026 12:06

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 12:01

Maybe. Mn was very pro Labour at the time of the GE.

Not pro Labour, it was a case of getting the Tories out.

Be glad that didn't mean being pro Reform.

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 12:07

hedgeknight · 24/04/2026 12:06

Not pro Labour, it was a case of getting the Tories out.

Be glad that didn't mean being pro Reform.

That may well be returned with get Labour out next time.

BIossomtoes · 24/04/2026 12:08

DaisyDooley · 24/04/2026 11:02

Thanks for speaking for me. Don’t bother doing it again.
SHE does care about rights. But I care MORE about the rights of me and mine and every British person rather than people who come here to rape us -financially as well as physically.
Scrapping our membership of the EUROPEAN court of human rights should have been done when we LEFT Europe -and then Labour or the Tory’s could have written a new bill specifically for us.

I rest my case.

LemonTreeGrove · 24/04/2026 12:08

rememberingthem · 24/04/2026 01:23

And here we have the exact issue…the superior attitude and treating anyone who wants to vote for reform as imbeciles who don’t understand what they are voting for. This is EXACTLY what happened with Brexit and look where that got the country!!!

Ridiculous. Stop trying to put the blame for Brexit at the feet of people who voted AGAINST it and start taking responsibility for having voted FOR it. You've only got yourself to blame for your own choices. And don't try to deny voting for Brexit. With a post like yours no one will believe you

hedgeknight · 24/04/2026 12:09

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 12:07

That may well be returned with get Labour out next time.

Will you vote Reform to get Labour out then?

Purplepelican6 · 24/04/2026 12:09

Jollyjupiter · 24/04/2026 00:16

As a proud Northerner i can say 80 per cent of my peer group will vote for Reform in May. Do you think it will be a North v South split?

I'm south
My group of friends are all in their 70s 80s
They are all voting reform.thats about 14 people
My own group of friends who are my age 50 s 6 are voting reform
One is being cagey,but probably will ,and one will vote who her husband will vote for.
I'm undecided,my husband votes green and I did to ,untill this recent Muppet took over ..
I'm undecided probably decide in the ballot box

monkeysox · 24/04/2026 12:11

sleepwouldbenice · 24/04/2026 00:57

Yep this

Agree.few of my peers are daft enough to fall for this.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 24/04/2026 12:11

@DaisyDooley how does scrapping and leaving the EUROPEAN court of human rights do any of us any favours?
Surely it protects us from if we suddenly found ourselves in a UK with a government that wanted to strip us of our rights, make life harder for many of us- being reliant just on ourselves and not having anywhere else to go and appeal to our treatment is not a good thing.
Edited to say I shouted EUROPEAN too to match the tone - we clearly see things differently but leaving an outside court of human rights isn't a good thing in my book, it's a safety net for if things go tits up rights wise for us all in the UK.
I don't hear the word EUROPEAN and automatically think "bad" as I think it's important to see the bigger picture.

BIossomtoes · 24/04/2026 12:14

jessycake · 24/04/2026 11:37

I’m in North Kent and Reform is very popular . When I was young it was single mothers that apparently caused the economic problems , now it’s boomers and migrants .

That’s a bit counterintuitive when the Reform supporting demographic is overwhelmingly pension age.

Bushmillsbabe · 24/04/2026 12:14

Atleastthedoglikesme · 24/04/2026 11:56

Education funding hasn't been destroyed. Labour is actually working on finding out what the big issues are in education and trying to solve them long term. They have identified that SEND spending is out of control, that children are sat on waiting lists for neurodiversity assessment for years whilst waiting for proper support, and that some independent specialist settings are profiteering. They have understood that school attendance is a huge issue and that this is linked with youth mental health and the curriculum review of the Tories from 2017. They are undertaking a curriculum review, have a new send white paper and LAs have just been told what their new funding is to support getting specialist help into schools quickly.

What makes you think funding is destroyed? I understand that if you send your kids private you will be pissed off that it's costing more now.

As a school governor, the funding situation is dire and much worse than the last Parliament. My oldest is in year 5. Through her time in infants she had classes of 20 ish, with a teacher, 2 TA per class, lots of extra activities. My youngest is 3 years behind her and her experience has been very different in the same school, much fewer staff, a mainstream school being forced to take children whose needs they cannot meet so all TA'sare diverted to a seperate class which has been set up for these children who cannot cope in mainstream classes. From having a healthy budget surplus they are likely to end this year in deficit for the first time in 15 years, as the wait times in our area for EHCPS are double what they were 3 years ago so the schools aren't getting the funding through. The money promised from VAT on private fees has never materialised. The universal free breakfast clubs promised by Labour have never materialised.

My best friend is a social worker and reports huge budget cuts over the past few years, staff are stretched to breaking point, with several off long term with stress.

I have worked in commuinity paediatrics for nearly 20 years. Everyone in our team will confidently say the last 2-3 years are the worst in history. Our speech therapy team have had to close their wait lists as too long, and if those who are seen get 1 appt, advice abd then discharge. My daughter was under the same team 6 years ago and was seen weekly for a year.

And yet our national debt is higher than ever.

Yes, some of the issues are linked to external factors like wars abroad. And there may be policy work going on in the background. But your average person doesn't care about the background. They care about their life right now.

  • how long they and their family wait for nhs care
  • the quality of their child's education right now
  • how much money they have left after paying essential bills
  • how their commuinity looks and feels, is it clean and safe

And for many people things are much worse.

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 12:15

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 24/04/2026 12:11

@DaisyDooley how does scrapping and leaving the EUROPEAN court of human rights do any of us any favours?
Surely it protects us from if we suddenly found ourselves in a UK with a government that wanted to strip us of our rights, make life harder for many of us- being reliant just on ourselves and not having anywhere else to go and appeal to our treatment is not a good thing.
Edited to say I shouted EUROPEAN too to match the tone - we clearly see things differently but leaving an outside court of human rights isn't a good thing in my book, it's a safety net for if things go tits up rights wise for us all in the UK.
I don't hear the word EUROPEAN and automatically think "bad" as I think it's important to see the bigger picture.

Edited

Tbf many western countries outside Europe do rely on human rights established and kept well, and citizens are happy with that (and they top human rights tables).

Agrumpyknitter · 24/04/2026 12:18

rememberingthem · 24/04/2026 11:37

No i blame those who frustrated a proper Brexit at every turn and those who failed to get this country a proper deal because they never wanted Brexit to happen and didn’t manage to stop it happening! If the history of Brexit has taught us anything its that treating the people of this country as if they are inferior and stupid ( left wing and labour supporters im looking at you) or treating them as idiots really wont go down very well! Nigel Farage may well be a grifter but he speaks plainly to people on their own level and doesn’t patronise them. Unlike the very left wing middle class of this country!

Edited

Farage might talk the talk but make no mistake he’s there to maintain the status quo which is to keep the working class in their place.

In fact I think with the proposed removal of the EHCR he wants a working class with less rights, willing to work for lower wages and less employment rights. You only have to look at his voting record for proof.

If you want to be paid the same as a man for doing the same job, be entitled to maternity leave and pay, have provisions be made if you are disabled in your workplace then you would never vote for a party that would remove all these things.

All the things people enjoy today, voting, equality in pay and the NHS was given to us by left wing supporting people and unions.

In my opinion the ultra rich need to be taxed more. We need to tax wealth not work as highly. The ultra rich are able to buy up more of the resources and the rest of us have less access to them.

Seven noble prize winning economists have said that taxing wealth will work. Will try and find a link later. This will not happen under a Reform (Tory rejects) government.

sesquipedalian · 24/04/2026 12:19

@ justmeandthedogs -

So you think it’s OK to deny people elections, no matter how bad the local council, because it suits the incumbent councillors to have a couple of extra years in office? There, we must agree to differ.