To tell DH to stop sulking after my jokey comment?

[Hayfever25]

I feel like DH has become a right grumpy so and so recently.

We are attending a friends’ wedding, it’s an abroad one in July. A couple we are close (she’s my best friend) with are also attending, and we met up with them on Sunday.

They had hoped to book the same hotel as us but found the rates had increased since we booked, so are staying elsewhere.

On Sunday, my friends H jokingly asked if we are sad they aren’t joining us. I replied along the lines of - ‘of course, I really wanted to see your bulge in your speedos by the pool’ and they both laughed. We have a very jokey relationship so it was a fairly ordinary comment.

DH had a sulk on driving home and when I asked why, he said the comment I made was inappropriate.

Is it me or does he need to lighten up a bit?

Yeah sorry I agree with the majority it was a crass comment, if my dh had commented on one of my friends bodies id have been annoyed and if one of my friends made a comment about my shud be miffed

Ugh, what a crass, sleazy, completely inappropriate thing to say.

Your husband is right to be grumpy and pissed off with you. I'd feel pissed off and utterly creeped out if a friend said that to my husband in front of me as would my husband. I bet your friends are now glad they are not in the same hotel with you after that comment.

That's mega fucking weird, you creep.

That's a crude asshole comment.

Maybe your husband got the ick. I sure would.

In answer to your question, yes, it's you. Your DH doesn't need to lighten up. HTH

Yeh that’s a bit weird. I’m all for a joke, but that’s not even funny. Surely something like “wandering about in your budge smugglers” would have been a bit more amusing and a bit less crass!!
Why are you talking about your mates husbands bulge??
What if your husband said he was sorry he wasn’t going to see your mates tits in her bikini? Would you not feel that was a bit weird?

It’s exactly the same and you’re out of order. You should apologise to your husband and your friend.

It’s you . It’s one of those times when it’s ‘I’m a female. I can say it ‘ but if a male was to say that he couldn’t wait to see her balloons in a bikini , well different outcome completely! As you can see , you were crass !

I think that OP also owes both of her friends an apology. If it’s sincere and done soon, you should all be able to put it behind you.

It’s obviously the same and you know it is.