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Another child killed by a dog...

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tnorfotkcab · 09/04/2026 22:08

Another poor child is killed by a dog.... We already know this is an XL Bully, don't even have to wait for confirmation.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce35zkl9dg3o

A Google street view of Hardale Grove. It is a residential cul-de-sac with cars parked on the pavement.

Child dies in Redcar dog attack, police say

Police remain at the scene in Dormanstown, where one dog was destroyed earlier.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce35zkl9dg3o

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ObligateAerobe · 10/04/2026 10:53

Ilovelurchers · 10/04/2026 10:49

Horribly sad news.

I wonder if getting too obsessed with breeds is a bit of a red herring? XL bullies are a relatively new "breed", and if all efforts are focused on irradicating these, surely another "breed" will simply arise to take its place? Plus it can be difficult to determine a dog's "breed" anyway - how much XL blood does a dog need to be defined as an XL itself? Etc etc.

Legislation needs to be focused on size and weight of dog, I would think, rather than the confusing issue of breed.

And yes, that would be unfair on owners of large, docile dogs ....

But better this unfairness, than a single other human being, especially a child, loses their life in this horrendous and preventable way.

AFAIK, XL classification isn't done by DNA because they are such a mish-mash. There isn't a specific DNA profile for them. It is done by phenotype, rather than genotype.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/04/2026 10:54

ObligateAerobe · 10/04/2026 10:51

Indeed. Cane Corso / CC crosses are the breed the XL lot have moved onto.

I’ve seen one of those behemoths in the flesh recently, and man alive, it was intimidating just to look at.
I was genuinely frightened.

ObligateAerobe · 10/04/2026 10:55

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/04/2026 10:54

I’ve seen one of those behemoths in the flesh recently, and man alive, it was intimidating just to look at.
I was genuinely frightened.

The only small mercy is that they are not as neurologically unhinged as the XL.

ImthatBoleyngirl · 10/04/2026 10:55

Tacohill · 10/04/2026 09:55

There has been no mention of the dog breed, it is ridiculous and extremely insensitive to speculate.

The last child to die was attacked by a dog that wasn’t an XL bully - does that make it better or worse?

Perhaps pretend to care about the poor child that has died and at least give it a couple of days before starting such an insensitive thread.

This has what has been reported "The dog - who witnesses have described as a grey and white pocket bully type - was seen running up and down the street after the attack, residents say."

BackToLurk · 10/04/2026 10:57

ObligateAerobe · 10/04/2026 10:53

AFAIK, XL classification isn't done by DNA because they are such a mish-mash. There isn't a specific DNA profile for them. It is done by phenotype, rather than genotype.

Both XLs and Pitbulls are done by type. The latter being a nonsense as dogs with Pitbull DNA may not conform to type whereas ones with no Pitbull in them can, and have, met the criteria. If the argument is that Pitbulls are genetically dangerous then that makes no sense.

Floralibra · 10/04/2026 10:58

I’m a dog lover but I agree this is out of control now and unfortunately XL bully breeds and pit bulls are so dangerous because of strength and unpredictability, something now needs to be done a UK wide cull. Yes it’s sad for families and their much loved pets but I feel more for this poor child and others killed/attacked by to many of these type of dogs.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/04/2026 11:01

ObligateAerobe · 10/04/2026 10:55

The only small mercy is that they are not as neurologically unhinged as the XL.

I don’t know anything about them, so, that’s good to know.

Tacohill · 10/04/2026 11:01

ImthatBoleyngirl · 10/04/2026 10:55

This has what has been reported "The dog - who witnesses have described as a grey and white pocket bully type - was seen running up and down the street after the attack, residents say."

Ahh so it’s not even an XL bully at all then.

That makes this thread even more insensitive.

BackToLurk · 10/04/2026 11:02

Floralibra · 10/04/2026 10:58

I’m a dog lover but I agree this is out of control now and unfortunately XL bully breeds and pit bulls are so dangerous because of strength and unpredictability, something now needs to be done a UK wide cull. Yes it’s sad for families and their much loved pets but I feel more for this poor child and others killed/attacked by to many of these type of dogs.

I think there must be something else going on TBH. For example, Italy has no universally banned breeds - there are some local restrictions - and has a lower, or broadly similar, level of fatal dog attacks as the UK. I don't know about XLs, but other strong breeds, including pitbulls, are commonly owned.

Floralibra · 10/04/2026 11:03

BackToLurk · 10/04/2026 11:02

I think there must be something else going on TBH. For example, Italy has no universally banned breeds - there are some local restrictions - and has a lower, or broadly similar, level of fatal dog attacks as the UK. I don't know about XLs, but other strong breeds, including pitbulls, are commonly owned.

You’re probably right. It’s just sad all round it :(

Jenkibuble · 10/04/2026 11:06

RubyFlax · 09/04/2026 23:09

I read this article the other day about where these dogs go when they are seized and it was a real eye opener and quite terrifying.

The guy who they interviewed runs a kennels that takes the dogs from the police while they’re under investigation… he even said he dreads the holidays as he knows kids will get hurt / killed. It really is that predictable.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cewzw812dd1o

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I watched Panorama too - the law is not worth the paper it is written on (the breed specifics / head dimensions and height etc)

As a result, many dogs did not fall under the remit .

Additionally, banning one breed will cause another one to take its place !

The guy at the end of the programme nailed it - licences for ALL dogs need to be issued like they are for guns. Any responsible owner would not object to this !

As a runner/walker the number of yappy dogs that snap at my ankles irritate me nearly as much as the tragic cases of deaths. But of course they have the 'cute ' factor !

HungryHungryLandsharks · 10/04/2026 11:08

gostickyourheadinapig · 10/04/2026 10:32

Rubbish. If the 'agenda' is to prevent further children, or anyone, being killed by vicious dogs, it would be disgraceful not to discuss it.

Barely any posters have said how awful it is that a child is dead. It’s all hysteria and misinformation - no discussion.

The fact you and others think there’s an issue with me pointing that out says an awful lot about you.

mrsCtheRed · 10/04/2026 11:09

I have a GR now, but grew up with staffies. They were always lovely loyal dogs.
The problem started when scallies and wannabe gangsters starting getting them, primarily to use as a weapon, to threaten and intimidate.
Obviously there are laws in place around carrying weapons, so they started using dogs, as there's no law preventing "carrying" a dog.

When xl bully's became a thing, they mostly switched over to them, as they are obviously bigger, more aggressive etc

I cannot for the life of me understand why some parents, grandparents etc choose to have an xl bully, and I think the previous government absolutely bottled it with the ban, rather than culling the lot of them.

And yes, I appreciate that any dog can bite, but for those banging on about labs and spaniels biting?
Which dog would you rather be bitten by?
Because with a lab or a spaniel, I can almost guarantee you that you would live to tell the tale, as opposed to an xl bully.

ForEdgyHare · 10/04/2026 11:09

This is so sad. The poor child 😞
We have a spaniel and if I have to leave the room for a length of time and my 9yo is going to be alone then I crate him. He is a lovely natured boy but its not worth the risk. We had a lab for 17 years, soft as butter but would also crate him if our child was going to be alone with him too. You just never know. We spend a lot of time educating our children on good behaviour with the dog, getting them to understand when he has had enough of playing and what his signs are when he is tired etc as that can make him act in a way that is not his usual self. Its mad that people can get dogs and not put any thought into the same type of approach.

Wheresthebeach · 10/04/2026 11:09

Any type of fighting dog is going to be aggressive, they are bred for it. The priority should be about safety. How many dead children before we decide they are too risky? For those defending these very big, aggressive dogs - what's the number of acceptable deaths?

A bad owner of a poodle creates a yappy, irritating dog, who's bite may be bad, but not fatal. The difference is in the strength of the animal.

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 11:12

ClaudiaWankleman · 10/04/2026 10:49

Well the crime wasn't ongoing, I'd made it home upset and the attacker had cycled off. So no, that is when are you are supposed to call 101. For someone who supposedly extolls its virtues you don't appear to know very much at all.

Your comments about what I should or shouldn't have done were absolutely targeted at me personally, so to suggest I am unreasonable for responding personally is in utter bad faith - just as many of your other posts have been too.

This is an emotive topic, and we all have our own views and opinions. Of course my comments about what you could have done were directed at you as we were discussing a situation specific to YOU. Nor have I extolled any virtues - I am well aware of the limitations of the authorities, but the fact remains that unless you report something, there is zero chance any action will be taken. As for posting in bad faith, that's just not true, as my posting history demonstrates.

OneDogTwoCatsHalfaDH · 10/04/2026 11:20

Ilovelurchers
Horribly sad news.
I wonder if getting too obsessed with breeds is a bit of a red herring? XL bullies are a relatively new "breed", and if all efforts are focused on irradicating these, surely another "breed" will simply arise to take its place? Plus it can be difficult to determine a dog's "breed" anyway - how much XL blood does a dog need to be defined as an XL itself? Etc etc.

Exactly, ban one breed or type and the "owners" move onto another.
The only way to stop it is by eradicating the "chavs" who feel the need for these dogs. And yes I know that's harsh, but true.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 11:24

GreyfriarsJobbies · 10/04/2026 10:28

Perhaps instead of people on this thread using it to advance their own agenda, they could focus on the horrible fact a child died in appalling circumstances. But that would probably require a level of emotional intelligence and selflessness that is impossible to find on Mumsnet.

How is a dead child the starting point of a AIBU thread? Disgraceful.

Sorry what? So how is the conversation (if you deign to allow us to have one at all) supposed to go?

'A child has been killed by a dangerous dog';
'Yes it's awful isn't it, but whatever we do we mustn't discuss any possible changes that we might make off the back of this horrific incident to prevent it happening again, we must all just agree it's horrible and leave it at that. We wouldn't want to be seen to be pushing an 'agenda' of...not having more kids mauled to death. That would be insensitive'.

Well bollocks to that. Were you saying we shouldn't be talking about gun law reform after Dunblane? Or police reform after Sarah Everard?

Isn’t this the exact same reasoning that means we can’t talk about a myriad of hot potato subjects that are ruining and taking lives and damaging society? Lots of pearl clutching and taking offence so let’s just sweep it all under the carpet, not address or debate it at all and exclaim ‘how very sad that X happens but what about the weather?’ I despair of this modern world.

ClaudiaWankleman · 10/04/2026 11:25

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 11:12

This is an emotive topic, and we all have our own views and opinions. Of course my comments about what you could have done were directed at you as we were discussing a situation specific to YOU. Nor have I extolled any virtues - I am well aware of the limitations of the authorities, but the fact remains that unless you report something, there is zero chance any action will be taken. As for posting in bad faith, that's just not true, as my posting history demonstrates.

To reply to someone's personal story and then say their response to your criticism shouldn't be personal is bad faith. I'm saying that with all reference to your posting history, let alone the arrogance in which you responded elsewhere on the thread, which has been picked up by other posters.

You're right it's an emotive topic and it's one where blaming others for having less than perfect responses to other people's criminality won't go down well.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 11:26

OneDogTwoCatsHalfaDH · 10/04/2026 11:20

Ilovelurchers
Horribly sad news.
I wonder if getting too obsessed with breeds is a bit of a red herring? XL bullies are a relatively new "breed", and if all efforts are focused on irradicating these, surely another "breed" will simply arise to take its place? Plus it can be difficult to determine a dog's "breed" anyway - how much XL blood does a dog need to be defined as an XL itself? Etc etc.

Exactly, ban one breed or type and the "owners" move onto another.
The only way to stop it is by eradicating the "chavs" who feel the need for these dogs. And yes I know that's harsh, but true.

You want to cull people instead of dogs? I guess they are using the dogs to fulfill that agenda anyway.

carnivalqueenthethird · 10/04/2026 11:27

UniquePinkSwan · 10/04/2026 08:53

Statistically, I think it’s labs and golden retrievers that cause the more damage…

When was the last time you heard of a child being mauled to death by a golden retriever? …

No I don’t think I ever have either…

Luckyingame · 10/04/2026 11:29

It's horrendous, but I really don't know what is an XL bully. And why aren't they properly banned.

Whosthetabbynow · 10/04/2026 11:29

“Eeez a big softy eee is”. Er, he doesn’t look like a big softy to me. Stop kidding yourself and fuck off with these vile creatures.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 11:30

Tacohill · 10/04/2026 11:01

Ahh so it’s not even an XL bully at all then.

That makes this thread even more insensitive.

Tell us why this thread is insensitive.

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 11:32

ClaudiaWankleman · 10/04/2026 11:25

To reply to someone's personal story and then say their response to your criticism shouldn't be personal is bad faith. I'm saying that with all reference to your posting history, let alone the arrogance in which you responded elsewhere on the thread, which has been picked up by other posters.

You're right it's an emotive topic and it's one where blaming others for having less than perfect responses to other people's criminality won't go down well.

Right, this is starting to get silly now. My "stop taking it so personally" comment was meant in response to your statement that I was apparently showing myself up, as well as your sarcastic comment about my "clever response". You don't mind dishing it out yourself and you have more than given it back to me. Some people don't agree with my opinions, others do - that's life. It's probably best we stop replying to each other as we aren't going to progress this any further.