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Another child killed by a dog...

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tnorfotkcab · 09/04/2026 22:08

Another poor child is killed by a dog.... We already know this is an XL Bully, don't even have to wait for confirmation.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce35zkl9dg3o

A Google street view of Hardale Grove. It is a residential cul-de-sac with cars parked on the pavement.

Child dies in Redcar dog attack, police say

Police remain at the scene in Dormanstown, where one dog was destroyed earlier.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce35zkl9dg3o

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ThatLemonBee · 10/04/2026 10:34

SixSevenShutUp · 10/04/2026 08:55

What? A labrador bite leaves more damage than an XL bull bite? You sound like a fool.

I think she meant Labradors are the dogs with more bites reported statistically . I’m assuming they are also one of the most common breed so not particularly surprised

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 10:35

TallulahBetty · 10/04/2026 10:27

No thanks.

How embarrassing to refuse to educate yourself.

LakieLady · 10/04/2026 10:37

2Hot2Greedy · 10/04/2026 09:45

I live in a block of 8 HA flats. There are three families with small children here. One of our neighbours has an XL and allows it to wander the communal areas. He doesn't muzzle it because as far as he's concerned if it's indoors he doesn't need to. It's made me and my neighbours terrified to leave our flats. We've complained to the HA and the police but so far nothing has been done.

He also thinks that the communal grassed area outside our block counts as his garden so he doesn't need to muzzle it or put in on a lead when he lets it out to go to the toilet, which he does several times a day. He stands at the back door, usually on his phone, while the dog runs about/chases cats/growls at passers by. It's only a matter of time before the disgusting creature harms someone, but nobody we report it to seems particularly bothered.

That's awful, the HA sound very slack.

My friend lives in social housing, in a block of 2-storey maisonettes. The ground floor properties (which hers is) have gardens.

Her NDN had a large XL-type dog and the fence between their gardens was only about 2' high. The dog's owner never walked it, and would go out and leave the dog shut in the garden so that it didn't crap in the flat, it would be out there for hours on end sometimes, and friend was scared to go out in her own sodding garden.

Even I found it unnerving, and I grew up with a German Shepherd and have owned dogs for more than half my life.

The owner moved out, thankfully and took the dog with him, but that probably just means it'll be living somewhere else.

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 10:39

HairsprayBabe · 10/04/2026 10:28

@Lemonfrost the park is enormous and operates as a cut through, they were using the footpaths. If I reported it to anyone they would have been no one there by the time they arrived.

It is incredibly difficult for anyone to enforce the laws around these dogs as they are obviously mobile and potentially deadly to approach. If someone was having a BBQ in a park where they weren't supposed to I would feel comfortable to approach and politely let them know it wasn't allowed there. I would not feel safe to do that with someone who had an unmuzzled dangerous dog.

I am not sure of the point are you trying to make?

The point I am trying to make is that if you were really that bothered by this, you would pursue it. How do you know that this person/dog aren't already known to the police or subject to/in breach of any relevant restrictions? You don't. The info you supply could be the tipping point for action.

HairsprayBabe · 10/04/2026 10:39

@GreyfriarsJobbies This exactly 100%

So many new shipping laws were brought in after the titanic sunk
Terrorist attacks brought in new laws for air travel
Dunblane brought in gun reform
Hillsborough brought in changes at football stadiums

Tragedy brings change, as we learn more we do better

Nearly 20 people have been killed in just a few years by these dogs, of course we need to do something about it.

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 10:41

takealettermsjones · 10/04/2026 10:32

You can hardly blame her for assuming you don't know when you refuse to answer and refer her to "the internet" 🤣

If you think she is being anything other than intentionally obtuse you are mistaken.

ClaudiaWankleman · 10/04/2026 10:41

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 10:34

Firstly, 101 response times are currently far less than 25 mins in several areas. Secondly, you could report concerns using your relevant police teams live chat, (but you already know that), or attend one of the community events that police regularly host. Alternatively, you could send an email, contact the council, write to your MP or do numerous other things - including informing your local PCC. In fact, in the time you have taken to contribute to this thread you could have done any of these things.

They weren't when I rang at 11pm having been kicked by a man on a bike and had someone try and snatch my phone though? Which is all that matters. When you are trying to report crime (which is what you were saying the poster should have done) it's the immediacy that matters.

I don't want to send an email, contact the council, write to my MP or do anything other than have someone respond to an ongoing crime, like being assaulted or having a dangerous dog in the park.

I'm sure you thought you were making a clever response there, but you've completely shown yourself up.

ObligateAerobe · 10/04/2026 10:42

ClaudiaWankleman · 10/04/2026 10:17

From the Mirror link above about the Redcar attack:

Another witness said one of the dogs was "running up and down the street" and was a grey and white "pocket bully type"

What is a pocket bully? Is that just a puppy XL bully? Are there other smaller fighting dog breeds that have emerged since the XL bully ban?

"Pocket bullies" are exactly what they sound like. Small versions of XL's. Inbred backyard bullies on a smaller scale. They have the same sort of disproportionate muscle distribution just much smaller dogs.

bafta16 · 10/04/2026 10:42

PinkNailPolish2026 · 09/04/2026 22:58

These reports make my blood run cold, another innocent life taken by these abominations of dogs. They should all have been culled in the first place. I remember when the ban came into force in England and fuckers were bringing these things into Scotland in droves to “save the babies”. One of my fiends lives near a kennel where some of these dogs were “saved”, it’s a shit show and a disaster waiting to happen. How anyone can own these things and think for a second they’re safe is madness.

I’m happy bet it’s another XL.

Edited to add that poor child, goodness knows the terror they went through bless their little heart.

Edited

I accidently ended up in a park where there was some kind of official meet for these dogs and their owners. They are absolutely vile. It was frightening to be there.

HairsprayBabe · 10/04/2026 10:42

@Lemonfrost How on earth would the police/council/dog warden know who I am talking about from a 10 second glance. Man in black tracksuit with giant scary dog could be so many people round here.

And no I would not be filming or taking a photo as I wouldn't want to aggravate the owner of a deadly animal.

BackToLurk · 10/04/2026 10:42

LakieLady · 10/04/2026 10:37

That's awful, the HA sound very slack.

My friend lives in social housing, in a block of 2-storey maisonettes. The ground floor properties (which hers is) have gardens.

Her NDN had a large XL-type dog and the fence between their gardens was only about 2' high. The dog's owner never walked it, and would go out and leave the dog shut in the garden so that it didn't crap in the flat, it would be out there for hours on end sometimes, and friend was scared to go out in her own sodding garden.

Even I found it unnerving, and I grew up with a German Shepherd and have owned dogs for more than half my life.

The owner moved out, thankfully and took the dog with him, but that probably just means it'll be living somewhere else.

These people are breaking the law and should be/should have been reported.

Springisintheairohyeah · 10/04/2026 10:44

To the people noting that labs and other similar breeds have higher bite incidents - they're simply not comparable. I am a dog trainer, so spend a lot of time out and about with all different kinds of dogs, I run social walks etc and we also work with owners of aggressive dogs - so have a good cross section of experience. We absolutely do get aggressive labs, spaniels, cockapoos, shepherds, rotties etc.

The big difference is the impact of that aggression.

I had an incident recently when an aggressive lab made a beeline for a client's dog and managed to get hold of the little dog. The dog on the receiving end had some minor injuries to the face and it took me about 30 seconds to get the lab off and under control.

Cross check with similar incident - a bully type went for one of our dogs out on a walk. One of our group is a man who is over 6 foot tall, probably weighs about 15 stone, and is a very experienced dog handler. The effort it took to get the dog off was unbelievable - it actually ended up taking two people to get the dog off, one punching it so hard that they broke bones in their hand, while someone else choked it out. It was like it was made of iron.

That's the difference.

I have my own dogs, one of whom is big and powerful, but not a bull breed, and I genuinely don't think he's a risk to the public. I would hate a world where all dogs are on lead or muzzled, I love my dogs to be able to have off lead time and freedom. However, XLs are built different, and putting an XL in the hands of an inexperienced dog owner is like giving a 16 year old a Ferrari. It's asking for trouble.

Croakymccroakyvoice · 10/04/2026 10:44

ejmog · 09/04/2026 22:19

If we are.going with statistics more.spaniels and labs are owned uk there are far more stipulations on bully's my bet it lab , alsation rottweiler

But labs and spaniels have never been responsible for a fatal attack.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_fatal_dog_attacks_in_the_United_Kingdom

There are no labs on the list and only one spaniel (accidental bite during tug of war lead to an infection that was ultimately fatal).

List of fatal dog attacks in the United Kingdom - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_fatal_dog_attacks_in_the_United_Kingdom

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 10:45

ClaudiaWankleman · 10/04/2026 10:41

They weren't when I rang at 11pm having been kicked by a man on a bike and had someone try and snatch my phone though? Which is all that matters. When you are trying to report crime (which is what you were saying the poster should have done) it's the immediacy that matters.

I don't want to send an email, contact the council, write to my MP or do anything other than have someone respond to an ongoing crime, like being assaulted or having a dangerous dog in the park.

I'm sure you thought you were making a clever response there, but you've completely shown yourself up.

Well, wouldn't the robbery incident you describe have merited a 999 call? And how does my disagreeing with you mean I have 'shown myself up? It's a discussion forum! Stop taking it so personally.

FFSToEverythingSince2020 · 10/04/2026 10:45

Hey @tnorfotkcab - looks likely that it was “pocket bully types” according to the neighbours, as they said the dogs “were not large.” So, you were half-right - still a bully, just not an XL. But that only highlights this issue more! These dogs do not NEED to be “XL” to kill a baby (neighbours are saying it was a baby girl); they have extremely powerful jaws. A non-XL bully still has a strong enough bite to crush an adult’s bones. It’s all just become so mad.
Apologies for quality of link; I know it’s a lot of ads: www.dailystar.co.uk/news/latest-news/breaking-redcar-dog-attack-victim-36993612

takealettermsjones · 10/04/2026 10:45

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 10:41

If you think she is being anything other than intentionally obtuse you are mistaken.

Ha, and you're calling other people arrogant? Wow!

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 10:47

HairsprayBabe · 10/04/2026 10:42

@Lemonfrost How on earth would the police/council/dog warden know who I am talking about from a 10 second glance. Man in black tracksuit with giant scary dog could be so many people round here.

And no I would not be filming or taking a photo as I wouldn't want to aggravate the owner of a deadly animal.

Because, as already explained, it's about building a picture. Police and other authorities have numerous ways to identify people from what may seem at first glance to be vague information.

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 10:48

takealettermsjones · 10/04/2026 10:45

Ha, and you're calling other people arrogant? Wow!

Yep, because I think she is. You don't have to agree.

Scampiniknak · 10/04/2026 10:48

TallulahBetty · 10/04/2026 10:22

Cull all bull breeds. Yes, all of them.

The problem with making such idiotic, sweeping generalisations like this is that it detracts away from the actual issue. Why kill all bull breeds when most are not problematic? Just because you don’t like them? Just because they are powerful? Many breeds are.

Focus on the actual problem breeds - XL bullies. Supported by actual facts and statistics rather than one persons preference.

ClaudiaWankleman · 10/04/2026 10:49

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 10:45

Well, wouldn't the robbery incident you describe have merited a 999 call? And how does my disagreeing with you mean I have 'shown myself up? It's a discussion forum! Stop taking it so personally.

Well the crime wasn't ongoing, I'd made it home upset and the attacker had cycled off. So no, that is when are you are supposed to call 101. For someone who supposedly extolls its virtues you don't appear to know very much at all.

Your comments about what I should or shouldn't have done were absolutely targeted at me personally, so to suggest I am unreasonable for responding personally is in utter bad faith - just as many of your other posts have been too.

Deadleaves77 · 10/04/2026 10:49

UniquePinkSwan · 10/04/2026 08:53

Statistically, I think it’s labs and golden retrievers that cause the more damage…

Can you provide this statistic?

I'm a facial surgeon and have dealt with lots of facial dog bites over the years and can't think of a single one caused by a Lab/Golden retriever. Obviously they may bite but I don't believe they cause "more damage"

I'm only seeing bites that need surgical closure, but Ive seen lots of bully bites including staffies, lots of German shepherd. A few Jack russels/daschunds/chihuahuas (although all these are small and quick). Huskies, cane corso. No labs/GR that I can recall.

The difference between a daschund bite say and a potential Xl bully bite is humungous. Bigger dogs cause more damage. Theres a massive difference between a small nip and a bite from a large/powerful breed. We aren't seeing deaths from labradors

Ilovelurchers · 10/04/2026 10:49

Horribly sad news.

I wonder if getting too obsessed with breeds is a bit of a red herring? XL bullies are a relatively new "breed", and if all efforts are focused on irradicating these, surely another "breed" will simply arise to take its place? Plus it can be difficult to determine a dog's "breed" anyway - how much XL blood does a dog need to be defined as an XL itself? Etc etc.

Legislation needs to be focused on size and weight of dog, I would think, rather than the confusing issue of breed.

And yes, that would be unfair on owners of large, docile dogs ....

But better this unfairness, than a single other human being, especially a child, loses their life in this horrendous and preventable way.

ObligateAerobe · 10/04/2026 10:51

Deadleaves77 · 10/04/2026 10:49

Can you provide this statistic?

I'm a facial surgeon and have dealt with lots of facial dog bites over the years and can't think of a single one caused by a Lab/Golden retriever. Obviously they may bite but I don't believe they cause "more damage"

I'm only seeing bites that need surgical closure, but Ive seen lots of bully bites including staffies, lots of German shepherd. A few Jack russels/daschunds/chihuahuas (although all these are small and quick). Huskies, cane corso. No labs/GR that I can recall.

The difference between a daschund bite say and a potential Xl bully bite is humungous. Bigger dogs cause more damage. Theres a massive difference between a small nip and a bite from a large/powerful breed. We aren't seeing deaths from labradors

Indeed. Cane Corso / CC crosses are the breed the XL lot have moved onto.

BackToLurk · 10/04/2026 10:52

Ilovelurchers · 10/04/2026 10:49

Horribly sad news.

I wonder if getting too obsessed with breeds is a bit of a red herring? XL bullies are a relatively new "breed", and if all efforts are focused on irradicating these, surely another "breed" will simply arise to take its place? Plus it can be difficult to determine a dog's "breed" anyway - how much XL blood does a dog need to be defined as an XL itself? Etc etc.

Legislation needs to be focused on size and weight of dog, I would think, rather than the confusing issue of breed.

And yes, that would be unfair on owners of large, docile dogs ....

But better this unfairness, than a single other human being, especially a child, loses their life in this horrendous and preventable way.

There's already some evidence that people are moving on to Malinois and Canes. I think legislation needs to be focussed on breeding, ownership and training.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/04/2026 10:52

Spaghettea · 10/04/2026 10:26

Yep. Six poor people a year isn't going to force a cull. Pisses me right off.

The first middle class kid that dies and parliament will be on the warpath. Legislation will be passed in weeks.

Ahh. What’s a few dead kids here and there, eh?
The dogs are their owners are obviously the important ones in this situation. 🙄

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